udemzy101:


Na so, and you think the gynecologist can not be compromise or you think they are right 100% of the time?

It has nothing to do with smashing, after all girls are asking for assurance, is it now a crime for a guy to ask too?


This is how they do it, immediately she's 1month pregnant, marriage preparation start, that's how most guys do it, so before it starts showing, everything will be over.

skarlett:
The emboldened is the height of ignorance, when an ob/gyn is showing you your fiance's womb lining in a transvaginal scan, what can be faked about the result you're both seeing with your naked eyes

That's how you people will still smash and end up with HIV

gypsey:
yea one situation, you claim you have seen, what bout other 3000 situation that didn't happen like the one you have seen?

SoapQueen:


This is quite spooky, downright seedy and very saddening. That being said, isn't it quite unethical to spill such confidential information?

Biglittlelois:



Guy there are barren women who were virgins till marriage, what do we call that? what will be, will be.

TSOM:

When properly analyzed, he hasn't flouted the ethics.

He isn't a popular Nairalander with a known offline profile to match his on-Nairaland persona and, better still, no picture is linked with his on-Nairaland persona.

He also didn't mention the names of his patients and other personal details.

Doctors use such examples all the time even in television broadcasts and they aren't sanctioned for it.

jaychubi:


U don't get d point do you

It's all about confirming dt a womb exists at all so dt has been confirmed. Any woman I will marry must take in first after introduction. Failure to take in after formal introduction I won't proceed with other marital rites, I cannot come n go and carry bad market

faithfull18:


All I am saying is getting her pregnant before marriage is not a determining factor to your having children inside the marriage. Besides, God's standard is sex after marriage not the other way round.

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice

faithfull18:


Okay,so after you confirm she has a womb, you get married and after marriage. Children aren't coming,what happens then?

jaychubi:


If u are barren from birth then carry ur bad luck n go nw, why make a man pay bride price on expired commodity. Inu kwa

skarlett:
The emboldened is the height of ignorance, when an ob/gyn is showing you your fiance's womb lining in a transvaginal scan, what can be faked about the result you're both seeing with your naked eyes

That's how you people will still smash and end up with HIV

skarlett:


Any man who thinks that way is archaic, there are ways to check the fertility of your potential spouse that doesn't involve her getting pregnant

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice

jshow:
In my own opinion: I prefer my fiancé to be pregnant before marriage... guys no matter how much you love your wife if she doesn’t get pregnant 2-3 years after wedding the live will reduce.
I have seen many marriages break because of lack of child. Most girls out there have done a lot in this social world some have diseases they don’t know about. I had to let go of a girl because she has ovarian cyst. I took her to an hospital and the doctor said she can’t have children unless they have to take my sperm and inject into her. Wtf I can’t use my dick to impregnate you. Damn.
The doctor even said her condition is of a type that even if we have to get 10 children we need to keep coming Ay each instance to undergo the process.
She didn’t know she has such ailment.
Not getting pregnant before marriage is like AS getting married to AS knowing but taking the risks.

jaychubi:


Getting pregnant is d best assurance dt she has a womb, nothing beats dt. Only an evil woman with a lot to hide dt will object to it

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice

Missmossy:
Hmmmm some men say that, especially when the lady in question isn't trusted to know if she is fertile and can conceive. I personally can't do such.

NwaAmaikpe:



There's an Mbaise proverb that says;
"It is only a foolish man that will spend his hard earned money on brideprice without first confirming if the woman's womb is not just an ornament."

I don't blame people who insist on pregnancy first before marriage.
Most girls in Nigeria are carring wombs congealed by Lime, Postinor, Shisha smoke and andrew liver salt.

5 out of 6 women are wrongly diagnosed as having uterine fibroids, when in reality it is all caked contraceptives.

Don't be decieved men,
The primary reason God asked us to marry is to procreate. Wives are called helpmates because they help the man breed, nothing more.
You marry because you want to start a family not because you love.
Who love EPP?

So if you marry a woman who can't bear you kids, you are no different from gays in a same-sex relationship.

Delivar:

What if you meet the first man and he makes such a demand, you meet the second one he makes the same demand, then third one the same thing. What will you do especially when it's your time to get married and suitors ain't coming that easy?

NwaAmaikpe:



There's an Mbaise proverb that says;
"It is only a foolish man that will spend his hard earned money on brideprice without first confirming if the woman's womb is not just an ornament."

I don't blame people who insist on pregnancy first before marriage.
Most girls in Nigeria are carring wombs congealed by Lime, Postinor, Shisha smoke and andrew liver salt.

5 out of 6 women are wrongly diagnosed as having uterine fibroids, when in reality it is all caked contraceptives.

Don't be decieved men,
The primary reason God asked us to marry is to procreate. Wives are called helpmates because they help the man breed, nothing more.
You marry because you want to start a family not because you love.
Who love EPP?

So if you marry a woman who can't bear you kids, you are no different from gays in a same-sex relationship.

SoapQueen:


This is quite spooky, downright seedy and very saddening. That being said, isn't it quite unethical to spill such confidential information?

Biglittlelois:
True words, a man that tells you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt love you, respect you, he just wants to breed, thats all.



FTC, nice