Boss13:


That is why the man may be hiding things from her before you know it, she is kicking him out of the house. You can never trust a white woman - never. I know them. She is not here seeking advice. She is seeking justification for what she intends to do to the husband. Mark my word!

baby4u2:


My tongue cannot be bridled here. This is not a unique situation. They may both work hard does not mean one cannot be used. Infact Africans are hard workers. What is wrong with her investigating now that things have come up? When is the right time to investigate in a marriage please? If things appear it should be investigated at whatever point sir, its her marriage and therefore let her ask.

Why was the business being hidden? I don't get this part. You say pet project. Please don't hide pet projects from your wife.

No one can answer all her questions, but fishy is fishy and this is fishy. There has to be a specifically unique situation that a man in Nigeria will not bear the fathers name. His own reason needs further investigation.

Like I mentioned, she is in this marriage alone, therefore she should go ahead and ask all his friends, family members, CIA, FBI, British Intelligence and the likes all the questions she needs answered.

Thank you.

lovelybugs:
To all those people who claim they spend 2.5k Eros everyday please explain to me how that possible with your 18k minimum wage? I hate when people lie, see people on this tread who haven't smelled one million in their entire life time saying what's 2500 Eros.

baby4u2:


My tongue cannot be bridled here. This is not a unique situation. They may both work hard does not mean one cannot be used. Infact Africans are hard workers. What is wrong with her investigating now that things have come up? When is the right time to investigate in a marriage please? If things appear it should be investigated at whatever point sir, its her marriage and therefore let her ask.

Why was the business being hidden? I don't get this part. You say pet project. Please don't hide pet projects from your wife.

No one can answer all her questions, but fishy is fishy and this is fishy. There has to be a specifically unique situation that a man in Nigeria will not bear the fathers name. His own reason needs further investigation.

Like I mentioned, she is in this marriage alone, therefore she should go ahead and ask all his friends, family members, CIA, FBI, British Intelligence and the likes all the questions she needs answered.

Thank you.

steve13:


You must be a very broke assss licking guy, needless to say much, I had an experience with a British lady , back 2012, I pay the rent and foot her bill yet she wants to control me , told her I'm here for few months,and and will never require her help ,

I live in Lagos and I like Lagos alot, alot of us can not live abroad , We visit ,
And hey £2.5k can't buy my travel ticket and I travel every other month ,

She enjoyed this guy 8 years now it's looking like the guy will be free from her, she started investigative journalism

steve13:


You must be a very broke assss licking guy, needless to say much, I had an experience with a British lady , back 2012, I pay the rent and foot her bill yet she wants to control me , told her I'm here for few months,and and will never require her help ,

I live in Lagos and I like Lagos alot, alot of us can not live abroad , We visit ,
And hey £2.5k can't buy my travel ticket and I travel every other month ,

She enjoyed this guy 8 years now it's looking like the guy will be free from her, she started investigative journalism

willy2000:

If you are poor and can't afford 2.5K per night, doesn't mean people don't spend that much in Nigeria. ME I HAVE SEEN SOMEONE BOUGHT A CAR FOR 100 MILLA Naira paid in full not on credit. who does that in Europe or UK, if you know, you know.

trapQ:
Why are so many Nigerians so useless and stupid? Some are here bragging about £2.5k. Seriously? How many Nigerians can just throw such money around? Nigeria, a country in which about 40% of the population survive on less than a dollar a day.

Just see how the fools bullied the woman into deactivating her account. Choke on your stupidity.

steve13:


You must be a very broke assss licking guy, needless to say much, I had an experience with a British lady , back 2012, I pay the rent and foot her bill yet she wants to control me , told her I'm here for few months,and and will never require her help ,

I live in Lagos and I like Lagos alot, alot of us can not live abroad , We visit ,
And hey £2.5k can't buy my travel ticket and I travel every other month ,

She enjoyed this guy 8 years now it's looking like the guy will be free from her, she started investigative journalism

Boss13:


You are very stupid. I will say it again. You are very stupid. I am not insulting you, but based my assumption on reading your comment. It is stupid people like you that make such comment. Why do I say you are stupid. Don’t worry I will let you know. You do not have experience in a particular field, yet you offer advice and still stand on such advice. That is what a stupid person do. You have never lived with a man legally nor experience what it takes to be with a person who is different from your gender, and I don’t mean the illegal co-habiting you maybe doing with your boyfriend, if you even have one.

You did not hear from the woman’s husband, yet you claim he is a fraudster. Are you not stupid! And I can assume you have never traveled abroad and your knowledge about white women is based on what you see on movies and TV, that is why you open your rotten young mouth to spew rubbish.

To answer your ridiculous statement - my wife is my partner. Infact, she is the CEO of my house and I’m the Chairman, I only review her action if things go wrong. I operate that way because I trust her judgement. This is the way my home operates. Other homes may operate differently and that is because people are different. You will not know this yet because you are not married and not even thinking about it at the moment. However, you will surely do when you are matured to engage in marital affairs and when that time comes, I hope you will be happy when a complete stranger who does not know you or even your husband is offering advice to destroy your home. Stupid girl!

Boss13:


You are very stupid. I will say it again. You are very stupid. I am not insulting you, but based my assumption on reading your comment. It is stupid people like you that make such comment. Why do I say you are stupid. Don’t worry I will let you know. You do not have experience in a particular field, yet you offer advice and still stand on such advice. That is what a stupid person do. You have never lived with a man legally nor experience what it takes to be with a person who is different from your gender, and I don’t mean the illegal co-habiting you maybe doing with your boyfriend, if you even have one.

You did not hear from the woman’s husband, yet you claim he is a fraudster. Are you not stupid! And I can assume you have never traveled abroad and your knowledge about white women is based on what you see on movies and TV, that is why you open your rotten young mouth to spew rubbish.

To answer your ridiculous statement - my wife is my partner. Infact, she is the CEO of my house and I’m the Chairman, I only review her action if things go wrong. I operate that way because I trust her judgement. This is the way my home operates. Other homes may operate differently and that is because people are different. You will not know this yet because you are not married and not even thinking about it at the moment. However, you will surely do when you are matured to engage in marital affairs and when that time comes, I hope you will be happy when a complete stranger who does not know you or even your husband is offering advice to destroy your home. Stupid girl!

Boss13:


You are very stupid. I will say it again. You are very stupid. I am not insulting you, but based my assumption on reading your comment. It is stupid people like you that make such comment. Why do I say you are stupid. Don’t worry I will let you know. You do not have experience in a particular field, yet you offer advice and still stand on such advice. That is what a stupid person do. You have never lived with a man legally nor experience what it takes to be with a person who is different from your gender, and I don’t mean the illegal co-habiting you maybe doing with your boyfriend, if you even have one.

You did not hear from the woman’s husband, yet you claim he is a fraudster. Are you not stupid! And I can assume you have never traveled abroad and your knowledge about white women is based on what you see on movies and TV, that is why you open your rotten young mouth to spew rubbish.

To answer your ridiculous statement - my wife is my partner. Infact, she is the CEO of my house and I’m the Chairman, I only review her action if things go wrong. I operate that way because I trust her judgement. This is the way my home operates. Other homes may operate differently and that is because people are different. You will not know this yet because you are not married and not even thinking about it at the moment. However, you will surely do when you are matured to engage in marital affairs and when that time comes, I hope you will be happy when a complete stranger who does not know you or even your husband is offering advice to destroy your home. Stupid girl!

trapQ:
Why are so many Nigerians so useless and stupid? Some are here bragging about £2.5k. Seriously? How many Nigerians can just throw such money around? Nigeria, a country in which about 40% of the population survive on less than a dollar a day.

Just see how the fools bullied the woman into deactivating her account. Choke on your stupidity.

jobonnairaland:
Yes. Tell them more. Because some folks here are jobless and broke and cannot afford £100 talkless of £2,500. Some even said such amount of money is not enough to buy their flight tickets.

What a surprise!

trapQ:
Look at this idiot. Where are you travelling to that £2.5k pounds cannot buy your travel ticket? You must think you're talking to kids who have never left their villages.

Boss13:


I am less concerned about her investigation and more concern about the timing and the methods of her investigation.

First, this is the wrong place to find out or obtain information about a spouse. This is an online forum filled with strangers and kids. Coming here to obtain information about someone you have been living with for 8 years is ridiculous.

Second, the timing of her investigation. She did not conduct her investigation at the beginning of the marriage or prior before marriage, but waited till a month to fill for his papers. Is this not a reflection of a terrible insecure person! Also, it’s clearly ridiculous that this woman did not bother to know the husband. Her fears would have been alleviated if she had taken out time to learn more about her husband’s people - technically, her own people. Because in African culture and customs, when a woman marries, she is now part of the husband’s people. Had she traveled to Nigeria to know more about her husband, all the numerous burials would be properly accounted for because she would get to put a face to the names of the people she had been hearing about.

I said she is ridiculous not because I want to tongue lash her, but clearly from all indications. She wasn’t interested in knowing her husband’s people, custom and culture. She didn’t conduct proper due diligence prior to marriage. She had to wait to become a Cop, one month before filing for his papers. Finally, she decided to conduct her investigation utilizing an online forum filled with strangers, many of which are immatured. How about her boarding a flight to Nigeria to find out for herself!

I drew my conclusions on her mainly because I know white women. She doesn’t want to file. She is less interested in opinions or advice, but want justification for her future action. She wants to play the victim card, but she is the villain here!

steve13:
You all aid these white women in seeing Nigerians as scam and Gold diggers , Gold digging for how much ? Smh

sashishalom:




You didn't have to do this tho...You don't need anybody to believe what you've got..its yours so you don't need anybody acknowledgement to approve what you've got...

Not everything you respond to on social media

EmpresFIDEL:
[size=8pt][/size] I have been respecting you but you dont deserve my respect... can't you see you can't comprehend simple sentence? did I say the man is a fraudster? I said most Nigeria guys are fraudster especially when it comes to white ladies.. am giving you reason why the lady is doubting her husband. me and you know that Nigeria man will go any length just to get a permanent visa. you are a confirm trouble maker, you are not a straight forward person. u were the one who used your wither hand to type that "the man does not have a wife" just because she's suspecting her husband who is secretive. between me and you, who is trying to brake their home. if you are to be called to give this couple advice I know you will not only break their home but u will shatter the home. age is not a guarantee for sense..you might be older than me but yet saying nonsense. I have experience things from married couple that even you is yet to experience, so don't judge by my age because you can be older and yet poorly intellectual. married couples do have issues, if you can't settle them, then stop adding fuel to fire.. God will bring understanding to them. stop quoting me if you don't have anything reasonable to say.

steve13:



One Port Harcourt girl up here called me an Idiot, maybe she want to see the receipt of some of the Emirates ticket I have used in 2018,

My Point is , the woman doesn't want to pay the £2.5k ($4000) they re good at making your life miserable, I have first hand info on a lot of British women ,our brothers go tru alot in their hands, they like younger person as to enable them cheat him well well till he is 60.


That Brother is coming back at 60 to Lagos with NOTHING .

She won't come with him oooo

Boss13:


Laughs - the way some people talk on this forum sometimes. Imagine the other who has never been married giving advice to someone old enough to be her mother and more experienced than her in marital affairs. Also, I believe she and many others has never been to the western world to understand that white women are very deceptive. She and others are not aware how these women manipulate the system to their own advantage. However, she was bold enough to talk to me and brought my wife into it. I can bet my wife, even if she is adult, can be an elder sister to her.

Just like you said. That brother is coming back home with nothing but his clothes. 60 is far. He may be back next month.

steve13:


My man you see the white women , in fact they 're worst than the men that openly colonized us, the women will cage you and still always look for means to discredit you,

If she had visted Nigeria and go hanging out and maybe see the quality of our Automobile that we paid cash for , Or the quality of the houses we stylishly designed and live in Or the Beauty of our black women, she would be loyal and more friendly .

It breaks my heart how they see our brothers as nonentity

Boss13:


There you go again with your generalization. I did not insult you but referred to a fact. You made a stupid comment and still insisted to stand by it when you were called out. You even continued to make further stupid comments and brought my wife into it. To further elaborate how stupid you are, you have concluded that most Nigerian men are Fraudsters when it comes with white ladies. Do you know what “Most” the adjective is, which is a superlative of “Many”. It means the greatest number of what you are qualifying. Now, do you have a clue of how many Nigerian men are married to white women in the entire world? I bet you don’t and I also do not know. Now can you see that you have made another stupid comment again! Because you have qualified about 99% of Nigerian men with white women as Fraudsters by using the adjective “Most”.

Again with such qualification, that would have included me, if I was married to a white woman, but you have not clue with goes on in people’s marriages. You are even bold to claim that you didn’t call him a fraudster and that’s because you really do not understand the adjective “Most”. Can you see how I am deciphering your stupidity and ignorance. Please note that I am not insulting you, but stating the obvious.

Furthermore, you are basing your experiences on martial issues on the premise of other couples. Can you imagine yourself and the way you speak. Also, to claim you are intelligent but do not merely understand adjectives reveals deep concerns about your logical and cognitive reasoning.

Finally, I have shared a bit of my experience and if you care, you can go through my previous posts on nairaland up to the date I joined. Sequel to this, it will clearly assist you to know that you are not my mate age wise. You are also not my mate economically and class wise. I am not claiming to be super rich - no, far from it, but I can clearly tell that I have far more experience than you and that’s because I’m older. I don’t need your respect, it means nothing to me. I have admonished the original poster based on my experience living in the western world and my interactions with western women.

In conclusion, it is customary to our traditions that younger folks heed to the advice of the elders. What I have written up there is for your benefit. You may choose to change. It is up to you.

Be guided!

EmpresFIDEL:
jesus.. don't you have a job? you have been replying my message since yesterday night.. lazy Nigeria adult I guess.. please don't tag me again because I don't chat with people who ain't straight forward. Oga go and focus on your family.. my time are schedule for important things and not baseless argument.

lovelybugs:
if you don't understand what i mean you didn't have to go on an insulting spree. It really shows your upbringing. The fact that the moneys not much to some people doesn't mean its not much to her. By the way If you used your common sense you'd have noticed that I wasn't advising her. And I am not going to have an argument on whether am broke or not cause at the end of the day it's not going to add a penny to my back account. Have a great day.

lovelybugs:
To all those people who claim they spend 2.5k Eros everyday please explain to me how that possible with your 18k minimum wage? I hate when people lie, see people on this tread who haven't smelled one million in their entire life time saying what's 2500 Eros.

Boss13:


I’m on vacation fool! And it’s 1:32pm where I am.

steve13:

Boss13:


I am less concerned about her investigation and more concern about the timing and the methods of her investigation.

First, this is the wrong place to find out or obtain information about a spouse. This is an online forum filled with strangers and kids. Coming here to obtain information about someone you have been living with for 8 years is ridiculous.

Second, the timing of her investigation. She did not conduct her investigation at the beginning of the marriage or prior before marriage, but waited till a month to fill for his papers. Is this not a reflection of a terrible insecure person! Also, it’s clearly ridiculous that this woman did not bother to know the husband. Her fears would have been alleviated if she had taken out time to learn more about her husband’s people - technically, her own people. Because in African culture and customs, when a woman marries, she is now part of the husband’s people. Had she traveled to Nigeria to know more about her husband, all the numerous burials would be properly accounted for because she would get to put a face to the names of the people she had been hearing about.

I said she is ridiculous not because I want to tongue lash her, but clearly from all indications. She wasn’t interested in knowing her husband’s people, custom and culture. She didn’t conduct proper due diligence prior to marriage. She had to wait to become a Cop, one month before filing for his papers. Finally, she decided to conduct her investigation utilizing an online forum filled with strangers, many of which are immatured. How about her boarding a flight to Nigeria to find out for herself!

I drew my conclusions on her mainly because I know white women. She doesn’t want to file. She is less interested in opinions or advice, but want justification for her future action. She wants to play the victim card, but she is the villain here!

bujebudanu1:


You are a fool for saying this bro/sis
How many have you bought with d token £2500

Boss13:


I’m on vacation fool! And it’s 1:32pm where I am.