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Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by flyingdutchman(m): 2:09am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy:If you did not trust your husband, you had no business marrying him in the first place. Your husband is SUPPOSED to be your HUSBAND, and not "another of them Nigerians". You came to report him but, you also showed the disdain with which you view your husband. I hope your husband truly Roll ooooonnn...sweet maaama!! Like Teebag |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by sharonorg: 2:12am On May 14, 2018 |
So sorry to hear of your story.but unfortunately the name problem is not an unusual one as there are many Nigerians in UK working under names that is not there real names(People call it using other peoples passport).Like u said he was an overstayer in the UK after his visiting visa expired and the only way he would have being working all that long is because he probable was using another person's passport(He can't get a job with his visiting visa).Like I said it is not an unusual situation but he needs to sit you down and be honest with you as this thing as a way of being a problem in the future.Do not argue with him but talk to him and promise to help him but he needs to be honest eith you.Pls also keep it between you guys. Morwendy: 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by flyingdutchman(m): 2:13am On May 14, 2018 |
baby4u2: Do not listen to this woman ooo! She will make you divorce your husband only to go take him behind you cos he lives in the UK. Oyibo, you never see naija women in action! 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Krak(m): 2:16am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy: Please remove that Surname you typed for your own sake. It is enough for us to know his ethnicity. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by ipobarecriminals: 2:20am On May 14, 2018 |
@Morwendy.U have a nice/ caring husband. Dnt allow dat petty thing to give u HBP.A man/lady can change their name,dat doesn't mean they are criminal/ have hiding skeleton in their cupboard. ..Maybe he change his name to kip away from nuisance family disturbing him for one thing to anoda..Dnt allow " online village people " to turn ur happy home upside down with their lunatic post.Be swt 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Nobody: 2:27am On May 14, 2018 |
People call it using other peoples passport).Like u said he was an overstayer in the UK after his visiting visa expired and the only way he would have being working all that long is because he probable was using another person's passport(He can't get a job with his visiting visa I didnt say he was an overstayer nor that he had a visitors visa. He was here legally but border agency screwed up. Surname removed from earlier post as advised. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Jethrolite(m): 2:33am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy:I have only seen it happen when the father rejects the child before birth and the mum's parents takes the child in. I have seen this happen thrice, the kids involved are grandfathers today, not my mate on any level. Be careful with your man but not paranoid, just make sure you are not open to unnecessary risk. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Nobody: 2:34am On May 14, 2018 |
elipheleh:people like don't allow women have say in their communities.. you take woman opinion for granted and you look down on them as inferiors. just look how u handle the issue. Mr right 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by mavinc4u(f): 2:36am On May 14, 2018 |
Emm, are you sure the man does not have another wife at home since he does not have any child with the op? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 2:46am On May 14, 2018 |
LivingFree: You are a terrible human being. Have you considered that this is a marriage before you jump into conclusion. @OP - this is the wrong place to seek advice. There are so many kids here. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by BornAgainMay: 2:47am On May 14, 2018 |
mavinc4u: Foolish girl, is it your business 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 2:51am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy: Madam you have been living with this man for over 8 years. What is your problem? Change of last name is a normal occurrence in Nigeria. Do you think your husband would be happy with what you are doing currently? Is it because you intend to file for his permanent residence that is why you are feeling insecure? Please let that man go. You don’t deserve him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 2:57am On May 14, 2018 |
flyingdutchman: I am irritated by her. Let her say the truth, she does not want to file for him. She is here looking for justification and not answers. She has a hidden agenda. I just feel sad for the husband who has no clue that the wife is investigating him after 8 years of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by baby4u2(f): 2:59am On May 14, 2018 |
flyingdutchman: I don't want old papa, she has no need to worry. Her man is not straight. Her case is not unique. We don see them before. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 3:01am On May 14, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: C’mon shut up! Are you married? How would you feel if your husband starts investigating you after 8 years of marriage. The same person you sleep with and have built a life with. You must be ridiculous. If I personally know the husband, I would inform him that he does not have a wife. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 3:03am On May 14, 2018 |
ipobarecriminals: No she should continue to investigate him here on nairaland, where kids roam around. This is the right place for her to get marital advice. She is plain ridiculous. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Nobody: 3:08am On May 14, 2018 |
Boss13:and you cannot fathom out what brings about this investigation. the husband in question is shady, he keeps secret.. don't you know keeping secrets from your spouse will bring about her not trusting you? why can't the man trust his wife with his secret? after all they are one because they are married. I don't blame the lady because the husband has been keeping secrets from her, so she has every right to doubt him. Oga I must not be married to know what is wrong or right. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Nobody: 3:09am On May 14, 2018 |
Boss13:and you cannot fathom out what brings about this investigation? the husband in question is shady, he keeps secret.. don't you know keeping secrets from your spouse will bring about her not trusting you? why can't the man trust his wife with his secret? after all they are one because they are married. I don't blame the lady because the husband has been keeping secrets from her, so she has every right to doubt him. Oga I must not be married to know what is wrong or right. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 3:24am On May 14, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: You are not married. As a result not qualified to offer advice because you are not experienced. You are quick to jump into conclusion just from hearing only one party’s view. You have labeled the husband a shady character and this is a man you do not even know. Someone who is married would not do that because you are literally trying to destroy that home just by giving your TOXIC, inexperienced and ignorant advice. You clearly know that name change in Nigeria is a frequent occurrence. The OP has said the husband told her that the website is not functional yet. Have you considered whether the husband is less interested in the website or would prefer the website to be functional and start to earn revenue before he disclose to his wife? You are not in their marriage. You do not know how their home operates. You just opened your useless mouth to advise someone who is even older than you and more experienced than you in marital affairs. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Nobody: 3:24am On May 14, 2018 |
offshoreking:Solid point, very solid. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by Boss13: 3:30am On May 14, 2018 |
elipheleh: Well said. She is a terrible person. She doesn’t want to file for the husband. She needs justification because she has none at the moment. This is a man who has been with her for 8 years. She is simply looking for a way to Kick him out of the house. A wicked and terrible woman you are! I hope you read this because I wrote it with every disgust in my heart. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by illegalking: 3:48am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy:Tor |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by MilesLamar(m): 3:49am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy: It's possible, for me, we ain't answering my father's name but that of my great grandfather. So I believe it's the same.. is he Igbo?? |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by mercytripletz: 3:56am On May 14, 2018 |
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Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by ipobarecriminals: 3:58am On May 14, 2018 |
Boss13: Boss13:morwendy, u hear dis?Some peep u are looking up to for advice won't do u any good, they'll ruin ur happiness with their jaundice /mad men advice. U neva caught him cheat on u/engaged in fraud,why trouble ur soul over one name? Most of us use diff name to kip our identity from "wicked people " Most Nig in diaspora dnt use their father's name for security reason. Supposed he now use his real name and family members search him on Fb and bombard him with one request/ another, i believe u'll complain /open another thread with caption"HELP YOUR HUSBAND SPEND YOUR MONEY ON HIS FAMILY ".I believe u'll soon visit his parents and everything will be clear to u.U aren't seeking for advice here but HEARTBREAK. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by CastedAyo: 3:59am On May 14, 2018 |
Morwendy: I think he's just trying to have an Investment back home. You know you guys are unpredictable, in case there's divorce or something, he won't have much to lose. He will go back home a happy man. |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by ipobarecriminals: 4:00am On May 14, 2018 |
Boss13: Boss13:learn to ignore kids.Most of dem are frustrated soul still eating reheated fufu under their parents roof. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by progress69: 4:07am On May 14, 2018 |
LivingFree: I hope this is not true......and u are kidding about it. Like changed ur surname because of how whites or whoever pronounce it?? Something must be really wrong with u if its true... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by ipobarecriminals: 4:08am On May 14, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: EmpresFIDEL:explain/ tell us how the husband is a shady character? He deceived u b4? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by 1x2x3: 4:08am On May 14, 2018 |
Quite strange you turned a forensic expert just few months to get his residential stay...... I mean for you to have pointed that out it is obvious you are skeptical about letting him get that. I don't want to call you a horrible person. You mean after 8 solid years? Most women advising you here that are married don't even know half of what their husbands owns. You want to Eboue him at some point? 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has A Different Surname To The One He Uses.. by 1x2x3: 4:10am On May 14, 2018 |
progress69: Imagine such inferiority. 2 Likes |
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