efighter:


This one is an unfortunate child from a broken home.

Ode.
See d fortunate child na
Encouraging wasting of a #1m for drinks
I'm done with u
If u quote me again I will lay curse on u

All this people forming good and honest men and women are doing it because she is white. Assuming na Niger lady talk this Eeeh... You go see attack from all angle... Me I don't pity them cos if you see what our guys they suffer from their hands baa.. ... U go know say guys they try.. This people can wake up one morning and end ur life... If you manage escape na empty hand... Abeg guys if see opportunity, grab and play ur game well....make sure all ur investment dey go home cos anyone over there na lost


Oya make una come slap me I dey house

steve13:


11 33pm where I am ,had to take a picture of my bedside

##Pepperdemgang! Come and give me money. My husband of thirty years has ran away with my friend of 50yrs. We have all been friends for 60yrs. They took my dress of only 6 months with them. Please help me

EmpresFIDEL:
with your dirty character, you don't know how to talk without insulting somebody. you irritates me..

Don't be irritated darling, he's got more than the controversial amount o. That should resolve the matter. Just ask that he apologizes for insulting you while you do the same. Then the two of you can ask for my account number

jobonnairaland:
Forget about it. I'm used to these phrases. These are scamming words.

Nigerians with their attitude of scamming foreigners, this is why the country is nothing to write home about.

And since you are also a Nigerian i am certain you are also a very good scammer. How many foreigners have you also scammed?

efighter:


This one is an unfortunate child from a broken home.

where do you guys learn all these insults from?

bujebudanu1:


Ode.
See d fortunate child na
Encouraging wasting of a #1m for drinks
I'm done with u
If u quote me again I will lay curse on u

This thread is seriously entertaining! Who taught you people all these insults? Biko do away with the curses...may God bless our sleeps.

Cheers you two!

Originally, my question was about nothing other than the name but many of you here gave me food for thought so let me look now.

Who's paying his visa fees? I will be because in the last few years we have paid to:

Bury his grandma
Bury his uncle
Bury his sister
Put his niece through college
Bury his father (3 months ago)
Bury his stepmothers mother (1 month ago)
and he sends most of his salary back home after our bills are paid.

Does he travel to Nigeria often?

No, in 8 years he's gone twice. Never to a funeral.

His website is active. I can fill a cart with high cost items and pay for them BUT he says the business isn't up and running?

He came to the UK from The Gambia where he had been living til he came here with his first wife.

Children - he has 2 girls with someone else, not a wife, not a Nigerian or British woman. This lady and her children disappeared before I met him. The police were looking for her when he was having immigration problems but that seems to have stopped. One of his female friends once asked him how that lady was enjoying living in Nigeria - he denied that she was there and insisted that she just took the two very young children and returned to her own country.

His phone - both are always in his pocket. Both are always on silent. He takes many calls in the bathroom. I discovered a third phone and asked him about it. He didn't deny having it and even tried to make me think I'd forgotten he had it by saying my younger daughters always call him on that number - they don't, I checked. Asked him to show me his phones a few days ago and he refused (assured me there was nothing fishy going on)

Now, we have always talked about any such issues. We don't fight over them. And he usually has a plausible explanation no matter what the issue and mostly it's a' cultural or traditional' explanation which I can't dispute because as many here have proved to me, if you ask his fellow countrymen anything, they mostly take up the defensive for him and accuse the wife of being bad.

Why did I wait 8 years to start questioning him?

Only recently has he seemed to be not who I thought he was.

With all these i can conclude that there is definitely something fishy about him.

sisisioge:




##Pepperdemgang! Come and give me money. My husband of thirty years has ran away with my friend of 50yrs. We have all been friends for 60yrs. They took my dress of only 6 months with them. Please help me



Don't be irritated darling, he's got more than the controversial amount o. That should resolve the matter. Just ask that he apologizes for insulting you while you do the same. Then the two of you can ask for my account number

thank you Jare.. but Mr pride will never apologize.

EmpresFIDEL:
with your dirty character, you don't know how to talk without insulting somebody. you irritates me..

We ain’t buddy or friends. You are a like stupid child to me that I intend to correct. There is a popular African proverb. “A youth must prepare himself to dine with the elders”. I hope you are changing your stupid ways and I’m also glad that I irritate you. It’s 5:14pm here. Hence, I have more free time at my disposal with unlimited data and ultra high speed of 200mpbs so you better be careful with your next statement.

I have to be honest with you. You are the reason why I’m still on this thread. I have expressed my opinion to the original poster, but you, for bringing my dear wife into this, your lack of respect and consistent stupid comments - hmmmm.

EmpresFIDEL:
thank you Jare.. but Mr pride will never apologize.

Haba, wetin dey there. He fit even be you papa friend o

sisisioge:

Haba, wetin dey there. He fit even be you papa friend o

lolz abi

Boss13:


We ain’t buddy or friends. You are a like stupid child to me that I intend to correct. There is a popular African proverb. “A youth must prepare himself to dine with the elders”. I hope you are changing your stupid ways and I’m also glad that I irritate you. It’s 5:14pm here. Hence, I have more free time at my disposal with unlimited data and ultra high speed of 200mpbs so you better be careful with your next statement.

I have to be honest with you. You are the reason why I’m still on this thread. I have expressed my opinion to the original poster, but you, for bringing my dear wife into this, your lack of respect and consistent stupid comments - hmmmm.

so you value your wife this much? you should have thought about your wife before saying the man in question has no wife just because she's feeling insecure. am glad I was able to spite you.. you are like a proud perfectionist coupled with been a sadist. who ask you time? just tell me u are getting tired.. Mr elder you need rest.

Boss13:


We ain’t buddy or friends. You are a like stupid child to me that I intend to correct. There is a popular African proverb. “A youth must prepare himself to dine with the elders”. I hope you are changing your stupid ways and I’m also glad that I irritate you. It’s 5:14pm here. Hence, I have more free time at my disposal with unlimited data and ultra high speed of 200mpbs so you better be careful with your next statement.

I have to be honest with you. You are the reason why I’m still on this thread. I have expressed my opinion to the original poster, but you, for bringing my dear wife into this, your lack of respect and consistent stupid comments - hmmmm.

Bet daddy Nonso, without meaning to sound too forward pa, biko ease up on the rough word "stupid". It's actually singularly blocking the ears you are trying to correct. I'm sure she's sorry for bringing madam into this but biko ease up on the bad word. By virtue of the fact that this is a faceless forum, respect is halfway out the window most of the time...we all almost relate on the same level. You've got to understand that.

I'm not trying to be disrespectful o. Shalom.

EmpresFIDEL:
so you value your wife this much? you should have thought about your wife before saying the man in question has no wife just because she's feeling insecure. am glad I was able to spite you.. you are like a proud perfectionist coupled with been a sadist. who ask you time? just tell me u are getting tired.. Mr elder you need rest.

Haaa! I'm outta here this minute!

Boss13:


We ain’t buddy or friends. You are a like stupid child to me that I intend to correct. There is a popular African proverb. “A youth must prepare himself to dine with the elders”. I hope you are changing your stupid ways and I’m also glad that I irritate you. It’s 5:14pm here. Hence, I have more free time at my disposal with unlimited data and ultra high speed of 200mpbs so you better be careful with your next statement.

I have to be honest with you. You are the reason why I’m still on this thread. I have expressed my opinion to the original poster, but you, for bringing my dear wife into this, your lack of respect and consistent stupid comments - hmmmm.

you been an elder or been older doesn't mean you have the right to disrespect me, oh! u are acting like a saint here, you want to correct me when you keep on calling me stupid. Oga even my lecturer will not call me stupid, fool or idiot just because he wants to correct me. respect is not by force.. I can't give it to you because you don't earn it. you have a chronic bad mouth. only God knows how many people you have hurt with your mouth. I still want to advice as the stupid child you know, stop insulting people anyhow .. it will only reduce your personality.

EmpresFIDEL:
you been an elder or been older doesn't mean you have the right to disrespect me, oh! u are acting like a saint here, you want to correct me when you keep on calling me stupid. Oga even my lecturer will not call me stupid, fool or idiot just because he wants to correct me. respect is not by force.. I can't give it to you because you don't earn it. you have a chronic bad mouth. only God knows how many people you have hurt with your mouth. I still want to advice as the stupid child you know, stop insulting people anyhow .. it will only reduce your personality.

Laughs ..... so you wan use style to act like a proper Nigerian abi! I see you. I don’t need your respect. I thought I mentioned it already. I have a lot of people doing that already both in Nigeria and where I’m presently at.

sisisioge:


Bet daddy Nonso, without meaning to sound too forward pa, biko ease up on the rough word "stupid". It's actually singularly blocking the ears you are trying to correct. I'm sure she's sorry for bringing madam into this but biko ease up on the bad word. By virtue of the fact that this is a faceless forum, respect is halfway out the window most of the time...we all almost relate on the same level. You've got to understand that.

I'm not trying to be disrespectful o. Shalom.

Glad to read from someone like you. I never insulted her. Just stated the fact and I understand because she is yet to be experienced. When she gets married and of course she will, she will definitely understand.

WHY ARE U THE ONE PAYING FOR THE PR IS HE NOT WORKING......THERE'S NO REASON FOR U TO PAY THAT MONEY EXCEPT IF HE'S NOT WORKING?

SCAM OR NO SCAM.....TELL HIM TO PAY AND IF U FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SUPPORT, THEN IT'S ALRIGHT..... NIGERIANS ARE HARD WORKER AND IM CONFIDENT HE CAN AFFORD TO PAY THAT MONEY.

IM IN THE SAME SHOE AS YOU HUSBAND BUT I WON'T PUT THE BURDEN ON MY WIFE SINCE I CAN AFFORD IT.

THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN AND NOT YOUR HEART....

EmpresFIDEL:
so you value your wife this much? you should have thought about your wife before saying the man in question has no wife just because she's feeling insecure. am glad I was able to spite you.. you are like a proud perfectionist coupled with been a sadist. who ask you time? just tell me u are getting tired.. Mr elder you need rest.

Of course I value my wife. She is very important to me. She is my family and my love. You were very stupid to bring my wife into this conversation. She is not the one on nairaland carrying out investigation.

I know white women. I know how they behave and that’s because I’m currently living in a western world. She is not a wife. Ask yourself, would you, who is not even married not try to know your boyfriend a little? And when you do get married, would you not try to find out about your husband and his family?

A white woman with a motive will never do that. They are the quickest to play the victim card just to get a pound of flesh. They are the first to kick you out of the house you are paying the mortgage for. They are the first to take your children away from you and get you locked up in jail. You don’t know these because you have never had any interaction with them. Do you think that white woman is stupid? You think she doesn’t know what she is doing here? I know why she is here and I damn know that the husband is hiding stuff from her because he doesn’t want to go home with only Palm Slippers.

That woman has been using that man for financial and emotional support. Now the time for payback, she is now an investigative journalist. Doesn’t she know where Heathrow airport is? Or where Nigerian embassy is in London to get a visa? When they say experience is the best teacher, there is a reason for it.

I don’t need an apology from you and I don’t need any respect from you. I just want you to know that on this forum, there are members who are actually older and more experienced than you and not everyone is your mate or at your level. I have noticed it so much here. I want you to change for your own good and betterment.

Boss13:


Of course I value my wife. She is very important to me. She is my family and my love. You were very stupid to bring my wife into this conversation. She is not the one on nairaland carrying out investigation.

I know white women. I know how they behave and that’s because I’m currently living in a western world. She is not a wife. Ask yourself, would you, who is not even married not try to know your boyfriend a little? And when you do get married, would you not try to find out about your husband and his family?

A white woman with a motive will never do that. They are the quickest to play the victim card just to get a pound of flesh. They are the first to kick you out of the house you are paying the mortgage for. They are the first to take your children away from you and get you locked up in jail. You don’t know these because you have never had any interaction with them. Do you think that white woman is stupid? You think she doesn’t know what she is doing here? I know why she is here and I damn know that the husband is hiding stuff from her because he doesn’t want to go home with only Palm Slippers.

That woman has been using that man for financial and emotional support. Now the time for payback, she is now an investigative journalist. Doesn’t she know where Heathrow airport is? Or where Nigerian embassy is in London to get a visa? When they say experience is the best teacher, there is a reason for it.

I don’t need an apology from you and I don’t need any respect from you. I just want you to know that on this forum, there are members who are actually older and more experienced than you and not everyone is your mate or at your level. I have noticed it so much here. I want you to change for your own good and betterment.

Not all white women are the same. Infact some wanted love more than the material things.... But nevertheless I won't encourage anyone married to them to allow them to control his finances as that Is the usual practice with them and once u don't declare all, they start investigating u on Nairaland....

After working ur ass off in the last week , white women want u to bring everything to the table, come home and explain to them how u spent every cents and try to calculate what ur account balance would be....To any white woman reading this, it doesn't work like with men.

This is where u have to be smart as a black man who don't want to return home with nothing.

Madisonsqua:
Not all white women are the same. Infact some wanted love more than the material things.... But nevertheless I won't encourage anyone married to them to allow them to control his finances as that Is the usual practice with them and once u don't declare all, they start investigating u on Nairaland....

After working ur ass off in the last week , white women want u to bring everything to the table, come home and explain to them how u spent every cents and try to calculate what ur account balance would be....To any white woman reading this, it doesn't work like with men.

This is where u have to be smart as a black man who don't want to return home with nothing.

They don’t want love. They want a man they can control, use and dump when they are tired. That’s why many western men are going after Asian women now. Well a lucky man can come home with Slippers. The unlucky ones end up in jail.

Boss13:


They don’t want love. They want a man they can control, use and dump when they are tired. That’s why many western men are going after Asian women now. Well a lucky man can come home with Slippers. The unlucky ones end up in jail.

ahahaaaaahahhaaha......Bros wetin happen na

Boss13:


Of course I value my wife. She is very important to me. She is my family and my love. You were very stupid to bring my wife into this conversation. She is not the one on nairaland carrying out investigation.

I know white women. I know how they behave and that’s because I’m currently living in a western world. She is not a wife. Ask yourself, would you, who is not even married not try to know your boyfriend a little? And when you do get married, would you not try to find out about your husband and his family?

A white woman with a motive will never do that. They are the quickest to play the victim card just to get a pound of flesh. They are the first to kick you out of the house you are paying the mortgage for. They are the first to take your children away from you and get you locked up in jail. You don’t know these because you have never had any interaction with them. Do you think that white woman is stupid? You think she doesn’t know what she is doing here? I know why she is here and I damn know that the husband is hiding stuff from her because he doesn’t want to go home with only Palm Slippers.

That woman has been using that man for financial and emotional support. Now the time for payback, she is now an investigative journalist. Doesn’t she know where Heathrow airport is? Or where Nigerian embassy is in London to get a visa? When they say experience is the best teacher, there is a reason for it.

I don’t need an apology from you and I don’t need any respect from you. I just want you to know that on this forum, there are members who are actually older and more experienced than you and not everyone is your mate or at your level. I have noticed it so much here. I want you to change for your own good and betterment.

why running round the bush when u can use your own hands to type the truth. am not going to elaborate on this issue because you have finally concur. Oga you have said it all.

Boss13:


Laughs ..... so you wan use style to act like a proper Nigerian abi! I see you. I don’t need your respect. I thought I mentioned it already. I have a lot of people doing that already both in Nigeria and where I’m presently at.

of course you can't give what u don't have, claiming you want to correct me while you can't correct your self on how to insult people anyhow.. Oga sir am not even ready to give you my respect because it will take you decades to earn it.

Boss13:


Glad to read from someone like you. I never insulted her. Just stated the fact and I understand because she is yet to be experienced. When she gets married and of course she will, she will definitely understand.

oh I see where the problem is coming from.. he does not know the meaning of insult. why lying? you can't proudly say u insult me because u knew what you did was wrong. if we ain't busy denying our mistakes, then the world would have been a better place.

cdoffx:

And since you are also a Nigerian i am certain you are also a very good scammer. How many foreigners have you also scammed?

Hahahaha. You crack me up here. If I were a scammer, maybe I could have been a billionaire by now, because people trusted me with their credit cards and other value items as well as classified information.

jobonnairaland:
Hahahaha. You crack me up here. If I were a scammer, maybe I could have been a billionaire by now, because people trusted me with their credit cards and other value items as well as classified information.

You wrote what a surprise that £2.5k wouldn't get me a decent Emirates ticket to Changi Airport Singapore and Noi Bai Airport in Vietnam where I have on going projects and must visit every month ,

Like you think all Nigerians are very broke ? Or you don't think all the airline that flies LOS or ABV usually have the business cabin filled up

Or you think they ain't on nairaland?

You guys sell us soo cheap to these white women

steve13:



One Port Harcourt girl up here called me an Idiot, maybe she want to see the receipt of some of the Emirates ticket I have used in 2018,

My Point is , the woman doesn't want to pay the £2.5k ($4000) they re good at making your life miserable, I have first hand info on a lot of British women ,our brothers go tru alot in their hands, they like younger person as to enable them cheat him well well till he is 60.


That Brother is coming back at 60 to Lagos with NOTHING .

She won't come with him oooo

My own is I don't get her point of coming here to seek advice over an issue concerning a marriage of 8years.....What does she expect?.. even people that don't even know anything would drop a comment...


you don't need to show yourself, they'd still insult you...it wouldn't prove a point..

Boss13:


They don’t want love. They want a man they can control, use and dump when they are tired. That’s why many western men are going after Asian women now. Well a lucky man can come home with Slippers. The unlucky ones end up in jail.

Pls ignore that lady...she's only seeking for your attention

Ademidd:
Pls ignore that lady...she's only seeking for your attention

exactly my thought

jobonnairaland:
Hahahaha. You crack me up here. If I were a scammer, maybe I could have been a billionaire by now, because people trusted me with their credit cards and other value items as well as classified information.

I am sure with your stereotypic assumption about your fellow country men, you will tell a foreigner beside you to take it with a grain of salt if i make this same claim of yours above to the foreigner. In actual sense there is nothing wrong with having your personal opinions and convictions so i don't also believe you. In fact i believe your current financial level whatever it is, is as a result of discreetly using those credit card details to your advantage. Also i highlighted TRUSTED because it means the trust thing is now a thing of the past. I am happy you admitted that from your statement your own self. So i can conclude that it was after they discover your treacherous dealings with their credit cards being a NIGERIAN that you are, that the trust ceased.

cdoffx:

I am sure with your stereotypic assumption about your fellow country men, you will tell a foreigner beside you to take it with a grain of salt if i make this same claim of yours above to the foreigner. In actual sense there is nothing wrong with having your personal opinions and convictions so i don't also believe you. In fact i believe your current financial level whatever it is, is as a result of discreetly using those credit card details to your advantage. Also i highlighted TRUSTED because it means the trust thing is now a thing of the past. So i can conclude that it was after they discover your treacherous dealings with their credit cards being a NIGERIAN that you that the trust ceased.

Hahahaha. You are really funny and I'm not angry with your words. Personally, you don't know me and it's not important. Ask folks who knew me and they will tell you more about me. Sometimes, they doubt if I am a Nigerian or not. Has someone given you over $5,000 for personal expenses abroad for business and you return it after three days telling the person you have no time to travel without taking anything from the money, not even a cent?

And this person calls your brother and asks him if you're really from Nigeria or not.

Look, I am comfortable and I don't believe in stealing or take what does not belong to me. I was brought up this way by my parents as a little young boy.

jobonnairaland:
Hahahaha. You are really funny and I'm not angry with your words. Personally, you don't know me and it's not important. Ask folks who knew me and they will tell you more about me. Sometimes, they doubt if I am a Nigerian or not. Has someone given you over $5,000 for personal expenses abroad for business and you return it after three days telling the person you have no time to travel without taking anything from the money, not even a cent?

And this person calls your brother and asks him if you're really from Nigeria or not.

Look, I am comfortable and I don't believe in stealing or take what does not belong to me. I was brought up this way by my parents as a little young boy.

Now you see exactly why i am not comfortable with your stereotype earlier. Do you know how so bad you will if a foreigner that has never met you before but based on a similar stereotype castigates you and tell you to your face how you are a scam because simply because Nigerians are scam. He wouldnt even wanna listen to you or do any research as far as he is concerned you are a Nigerian hence you are scam. I am sure you will feel very bad not being given the opportunity that you are one different Nigerian.
Personally i have learnt to identify people as an individual instead of as a member of a group, race or religion. I must admit i do have my skepticism but deal with that more as a caution than a conclusive opinion about an individual.
When i took over the mantle of leadership as a cadet in chief of the FRSC CDS group, my predecessor in the course of handing was literarily explaining to me how i can be tampering with the group's fund at will without any interferance from my financial secretary and even treasurer. I listened to him keenly to make him feel important and that he is passing down a priceless orientation to me. To the glory of God i didnt tamper with #1 because i have set a standard of upholding integrity wherever i find myself. As a result i will be very unhappy when someone summarily conclude that because i am a Nigerian i am automatically a scam. That was why i was saying then that you would have framed your statement about the OP husband as a probability rather than an emphatic conclusion that he is a scam because he is a Nigerian and all Nigerian like to scam foreigner. Thank you.