I have heard many ladies use these words over and over again...'if he loves me he will never cheat on me'

Before you start wondering why i chose this topic let me make it clear that 9 out of every 10 marriages that hit the rocks usually have infidelity as a reason and in most cases it comes from the men yet if you ask these men,they will tell you they love their wives dearly but this usually do not go down well with the women who strongly believe a man can not love them and still cheat on them.

So i want to leave this question open for everyone to give their opinion so i ask...'Can a man love his woman dearly and still cheat on her?'

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Depends on the type of Slay Queen he sees

If you love someone dearly you won't even think of cheating on her, how do you love a person and want to be with another?

If you have a gf who gives you loyalty, attention, romance, and every other thing.

The question is why should you cheat? The other girl, what does she have that your girl doesn't have?

It is an example of man's wants being insatiable, and also a clear case of insanity!

I clearly think the word LOVE has been bastardized, and it clearly has no meaning to predators in relationships now!

I'll just take my leave

If you don't love and respect yourself, then you can never love and respect someone else. If you sleep around then you have no respect for yourself and your wellbeing. I don't think it's ever about the other person.

Most men cheats not because they hate their wife, but most girls did not understand that,
A man will love you so dearly but he will still cheat on with respect and regards to you as a wife.
But if a man cheat on you with no respect and regard as a wife then he didn't love you.
With "respect and regard" I mean not spending much money on the side chick, not bring the the side chick to your matrimonial home, always hide the side chick from you as a wife, always apologize to you as a wife when caught, always side you as a wife when matter arises, spend more money and time with you and kids.
Most ladies love this type of men, just cheat but give them their respect and regards as the woman of the house.

Klinee:
[s] Most men cheats not because they hate their wife, but most girls did not understand that,
A man will love you so dearly but he will still cheat on with respect and regards to you as a wife.
But if a man cheat on you with no respect and regard as a wife then he didn't love you.
With "respect and regard" I mean not spending much money on the side chick, not bring the the side chick to your matrimonial home, always hide the side chick from you as a wife, always apologize to you as a wife when caught, always side you as a wife when matter arises, spend more money and time with you and kids.
Most ladies love this type of men, just cheat but give them their respect and regards as the woman of the house.
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You cannot hurt who you love.

Stop these inconsequential and irrelevant excuses.

Well if you truly loved someone dearly, you would never want to hurt them. Does that answer your question OP?

Some answers here sha. Op yes he can.

ogorwyne:
Some answers here sha. Op yes he can.

How?

donstan18:


You cannot hurt who you love.

Stop these inconsequential and irrelevant excuses.

You actually has no intention of hurting her but due to circumstances it occur, you have no option than to ask apologize.
But most men don't care, some even bring their side chick to their matrimonial bed at the present of the wife, that's very bad.

in obama voice :yes u can.

People should understand there's difference between LOVE and LOYALTY.

People can love without being loyal due to reasons best known to them. I personally feel you can love and still cheat.

I'm sure Kevin Hart loves his woman but he cheated. John Terry cheated in 2006 after the birth of his twin but there's no denying he loves his wife.

It takes more than love to keep a relationship/home

My opinion

Klinee:
Most men cheats not because they hate their wife, but most girls did not understand that,
A man will love you so dearly but he will still cheat on with respect and regards to you as a wife.
But if a man cheat on you with no respect and regard as a wife then he didn't love you.
With "respect and regard" I mean not spending much money on the side chick, not bring the the side chick to your matrimonial home, always hide the side chick from you as a wife, always apologize to you as a wife when caught, always side you as a wife when matter arises, spend more money and time with you and kids.
Most ladies love this type of men, just cheat but give them their respect and regards as the woman of the house.

Yada yada yada

Klinee:
You actually has no intention of hurting her but due to circumstances it occur, you have no option than to ask apologize.
But most men don't care, some even bring their side chick to their matrimonial bed at the present of the wife, that's very bad.

Can that occurring circumstances warrant you to kill your mum and apologize to your father?

Cheating is a decision sir.

Pardon me to answer this question with yet another question; Have you fallen into temptation before? I bet we all have, it doesn't mean we loved the object of tempt more than anything else, well maybe momentarily we did.
So yes, a man can love a woman dearly and cheat on her. But it ain't good if he keeps up with it.

The truth is love woun't let u pound dat dat pusssy da way u want.



U can't even hang ur wives leg in north-east direction to pound and murder dat cu.nt.



U can only make love to her.




da side chick brings out dat monster in u.dat zeal to destroy dat pusssy.u neva even love her anyway.



So yes,u can love ur wife and still cheat

People cheat for various reasons

It could be to spite a partner i.e. perhaps out of the feeling that your partner is also cheating

To fulfill a certain sexual fantasy i.e. having sex with a bid breast woman that all of a sudden picked an interest in you

Because they never really loved their partners to begin with

It could even be out of the heat of the moment.

It is not necessarily because the partner that cheated wasn't truly in love with the partner cheated upon, but the cheating partner might not be ready for a serious relationship. I.e. not ready for serious commitment

Discipline is what is needed, one has to be truly ready for a serious relationship and even that, there is no guarantee against possible slip-up in the future.

Sure you can. Drunken night, moment of weakness, moment of anger etc. That’s not to say the person you cheated on should pardon your mistake just because you still love them though lol

It's a guy's thing, we love to cheat I was hanging out with 8 married men 2 days ago most of the topics were about how their wives busted them while cheating, if it's allowed to touch your partners phone etc. A couple of sidechics were around to make things fun

ibkayee:
Sure you can. Drunken night, moment of weakness, moment of anger etc. That’s not to say the person you cheated on should pardon your mistake just because you still love them though lol

YES IN CAPITAL LETTERS

Of course na, dnt monkeys love banana but yet eat smthing else?

DonPiiko:
It's a guy's thing, we love to cheat I was hanging out with 8 married men 2 days ago most of the topics were about how their wives busted them while cheating, if it's allowed to touch your partners phone etc. A couple of sidechics were around to make things fun

Lol I’m talking about the one offs who made a genuine mistake and are actually sorry tbh. The unrepentant, habitual offenders who make jokes out of it and do it as a pastime, not so much

In theories it's practicable but in reality it's a lot of work to be faithful. Yeah some guys go out of their way to keep hunting girls even after putting a ring on someone else. I wonder if females get the urge to cheat as much as the guys

ibkayee:

Lol I’m talking about the one offs who made a genuine mistake and are actually sorry tbh. The unrepentant, habitual offenders who make jokes out of it and do it as a pastime, not so much

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Monitoring spirit

RadicallyBlunt:

How?

A man at the altar vows to be monogamous till death , but sometimes there are a few slips here and there. People are selfish sometimes and also people get caught up in some situations too sometimes.

Without any form of emotional attachment, a married man can have sex with another woman. It doesn't mean he has no love for his wife. He might just be a selfish and undisciplined man who has been overtaken by lust.

In some cases, a man might find himself in a wrong place, and sometimes they are unable to control the situation in which they have put themselves. These ones only get a grip when they are sober.

Forgiving a cheat is so difficult. Sometimes its the end of a union that used to be so beautiful.

Nofav0rs:
People should understand there's difference between LOVE and LOYALTY.

People can love without being loyal due to reasons best know to them. I personally feel you can love and still cheat.

I'm sure Kevin Hart loves his woman but he cheated. John Terry cheated in 2006 after the birth of his twin but there's no denying he loves his wife.

It takes more than love to keep a relationship/home

My opinion

I don't think you understand what love really is

The reason partners don't cheat is nt basically for luv but discipline and a touch of God fearing.

A man/woman can claim to love another BUT without good character WILL still fall prey to infidelity (or any other scandalous behaviors like lie, kill, steal, destroy....).

That's why you do NOT marry just for love. (or at least the worldly 'romantic eros' concept of love).

You should also marry LOVE + CHARACTER. That is: loyalty, respect, integrity, reliable, discipline, patience, conscientious, humility, caring, trust, enduring, sacrifice, resilience and the like. In fact character comes first, because "love" waxes and wanes. Enduring character traits well....endures.

Character sustains relationships. Character is what you bank on every day in any situation, all around season.

You just know, you can stake or bet your life on this person. When you can say that about any one person, please MARRY them ASAP. (Enduring) Love will follow over time.

Word for the wise: FALL IN LOVE WITH inside package that is CHARACTER NOT outside package that is fleeting- here today, gone tomorrow.

If you truly love a woman, she will make you feel like no other woman exist

Cheating on your wife is a deliberate act. It’s a decision u make it’s not a mistake same goes to the wife too. because definitely would have crossed ur mind that if ur wife finds out she’ll be hurt. So it’s a decision and not mistake.

If u love someone you won’t hurt the person.