RadicallyBlunt:
When you see a guy keeping more than 2 girlfriends, you think he's just being cruel? Its girls who forced them into doing so. Almost every guy has gone thru what u went thru, its not new. When she face disappointment in her adventure, she will come back to you. By then if you're wise, you won't reject her. Just play ur card well and add her to ur crew of sex materials then fucck d hell out of her life and collect money from her sef.

No age gap for a lady is secure..eat thier pusssy while the opportunity lasts. A teenager like ur ex wants to experience adventure with men, they don't have anywhere they belong till 25. If you don't believe me, ask Nina of bbnaija. After 25, their desperation increase to stay with one guy for marriage, its at this stage that its easy and dramatic to deceive them. But some may go as far as using juju or tying you down with another mans pregnancy.

The best treatment for girl matter is...don't have just one, keep as much as you can so as not to rely ur mind on any. When one misbehave, switch. When she comes back begging, continue the fucck as season 2 and harder.

tetralogyfallot:
Guy try 2 move on . there's a yoruba adage that says when we choose to close our eyes so that bad people will pass, u will not be able to c when the good ones are passing. Open your eyes bro n explore, there are still millions of good girls out there waiting for your attention.

kingxsamz:
for now... no time for love bro...
can't trust these girls.
just bang and move on to the next one.

paybak:
So OP, why are you disturbing and killing yourself on top nothing? First, na by force to get GF? Somethings you people waste your time on ain't worth it. Bring yourself back to life, reset your brain by yourself and start living abeg. And when girls are in school or serving as a corper, they'd think they've arrived. They'd abandon everyone they've known and enjoy the head of their life. Only after they are through with it all and realised they are still single and age yaff commot for body finish would they remember someone somewhere that care about them. Thunder fia any girl wey wan act such movie for me. I go kuku take if you give me. Na to chop and clean mouth.

Marshalxv:
Like someone said up there ,we all have been there one time or the other. Think of your happiness and focus on your future.

This is how to overcome; do not go into any relationship with expectations, take things the way you see them.

Guide your heart not to love and trust too much.

Always have this mind set that nothing lasts forever, enjoy the moment while it last.

Don't give more than you receive.

Treat every girl with whatever she brings to the table.
This is how I always win bro. Good luck

LordKO:
@OP

You've to know the root cause of your problem in order to have a permanent cure for it. You gave out your (a sane human being) most valuable assets, your dominion and dignity. Anyways, the good thing is that you can regain them through self-realization. Believe that you already have them back immediately.

Now, that you've your dominion and dignity intact, make a conscious decision (promise yourself) to always choose principle over expediency at all times; become a proponent and practitioner of the axiom "he who comes into equity must come with clean hands." This by extension will make you a good and nonsense guy.

As a good and nononse guy, look out for a lady that tickles your fancy and approach her for good. If she shows interest you take it up from there. And in the course of familiarizing with her (at the inception of dating), if you observed any act of hypocrisy and insincerity, and presumptuousness and domineeringness from her, you sever from her automatically - subject to what you can or cannot tolerate in the long run. This is so because behind every hypocritically disingenuous person (one that possesses hypocrisy and insincerity) is someone with moral vices, while behind every conceited person (one that possesses presumptuousness, domineeringness and cynicism) is someone with psychological vices.

Emotion will always betray pretence, therefore, the carriers of the vices I mentioned above usually reveals themselves within the 1-3 time meeting you may have with them. Your ability to go into any relationship as one who have achieved self-realization will save you from experiencing heartbreak and being used by small-minded people.

You neither need to be a bad person nor a weakling as a person to feel fly in a romantic relationship in particular and any other form of relationship in general.

To be principled is to be conscientious. Be conscientious and go for a lady of same leanings.

24sqm:
Op, lemme ask you a question, how old are you now?

Your age will determine the kind of advise I will give

LamarJR:


Thanks very much. This was really helpful # bless

Danny110:

I love u bro...

As for d poster!
Will Smith once said in one of his quote
"Love urself,be urself, don't try to please anyone,d right girl dat loves u will come and she'll stay"
My word for u bro is dat u shld try to forget d past,and remember, not all girls re dsame,... another quote from me
"If u love her, let her go,if she comes back,shes urs,if she doesn't, she never was"
So she's not in ur life cos she was never urs,see it dat u tried ur best n dt it was her choice t leave...live ur life,be happy,hv some sense of humour,BE NEAT! nd soon u get urself anoda bae,,nd try not t show ur feeling too much,act strange n mean at times, make her wonder if u ever love her n wen it's becoming like u dnt,show her excess love,gv full n half current,never gv her only full current....
I wish u success on d adventure

LordKO:
@OP

You've to know the root cause of your problem in order to have a permanent cure for it. You gave out your (a sane human being) most valuable assets, your dominion and dignity. Anyways, the good thing is that you can regain them through self-realization. Believe that you already have them back immediately.

Now, that you've your dominion and dignity intact, make a conscious decision (promise yourself) to always choose principle over expediency at all times; become a proponent and practitioner of the axiom "he who comes into equity must come with clean hands." This by extension will make you a good and nonsense guy.

As a good and nononse guy, look out for a lady that tickles your fancy and approach her for good. If she shows interest you take it up from there. And in the course of familiarizing with her (at the inception of dating), if you observed any act of hypocrisy and insincerity, and presumptuousness and domineeringness from her, you sever from her automatically - subject to what you can or cannot tolerate in the long run. This is so because behind every hypocritically disingenuous person (one that possesses hypocrisy and insincerity) is someone with moral vices, while behind every conceited person (one that possesses presumptuousness, domineeringness and cynicism) is someone with psychological vices.

Emotion will always betray pretence, therefore, the carriers of the vices I mentioned above usually reveals themselves within the 1-3 time meeting you may have with them. Your ability to go into any relationship as one who have achieved self-realization will save you from experiencing heartbreak and being used by small-minded people.

You neither need to be a bad person nor a weakling as a person to feel fly in a romantic relationship in particular and any other form of relationship in general.

To be principled is to be conscientious. Be conscientious and go for a lady of same leanings.