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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Davidmills12: 5:16am On May 23, 2018
Help me ask the Cow grin grin
Hanseel1:


are you sure you're normal?

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:17am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
[s]Everything thing is wrong with it....

even the Bible condemned it, any man who pays a bride price and move to a woman's house in the name of marriage will loose all the friends he has ever got, no one want to be associated with a sisi.

no woman will respect any man who moves to her house, at any slight provocation she will remind u, u don't even have a voice.

as the saying goes " a man can completely take care of his wife bills for a life time, but when a woman take care of a man bill for a week, the world will hear her murmur.[/s]

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 5:18am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


are you sure you're normal?
Yes I'm very very normal. I said so for the man safety should in case the woman is not humble... because some woman can be terrorist.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 5:19am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


are you sure you're normal?
Yes I'm very very normal. I said so for the man safety should in case the woman is not humble... because some woman can be terrorist. more ova is their house not her house because she is married.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:21am On May 23, 2018
All this noise is after the fact. When the couple were dating, it was obvious the woman was more financially successful than the man.

If it was a case of a married couple where the woman was making more money than the man, this hullabaloo would be understandable.

Their business.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by marvelli(f): 5:23am On May 23, 2018
That's not the best idea to move into the woman's house. Unless they have absolutely no other choice. The woman and her family, will never truly respect the man. Plus the neighbours sef will add more salt to that injury. Just imagine every small argument in that house? He'll always be reminded of his place. Na Nigeria we dey. We havent evolved to that level

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:23am On May 23, 2018
Emma1Oj:
[s]Yes I'm very very normal. I said so for the man safety should in case the woman is not humble... because some woman can be terrorist.[/s]

you must be insane.. a woman built a house with her own money and allowed you to move in then you'll be requesting for the documents of the house?? dude are you sure you're normal?
If your wife request for the documents of your house will you release them to her?

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by tectonotimes: 5:24am On May 23, 2018
The right thing is for a wife to wove into her husband house after marriage, and not vice versa. Who is interested in making millions of naira via export business? Click on the first link on my signature for a detailed information on how you will go about it.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:25am On May 23, 2018
oyb:
All this noise is after the fact. When the couple were dating, it was obvious the woman was more financially successful than the man.

If it was a case of a married couple where the woman was making more money than the man, this hullabaloo would be understandable.

Their business.

Only sensible and matured comment so far... the rest are just useless talks
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by abike12(f): 5:26am On May 23, 2018
I live in a house that I bought and I'm definitely not going to become a tenant because of a man's ego. We either buy a house to move me into or move into mine. It's not a big deal here as long as everyone is working hard and contributing to bills. No dead weight.

Please if you know you don't want to be unfortunate in life don't mention me with idiocy today. This is my opinion in response to a post on a public forum and I don't care to convince anyone so feel free to not convince me with your own opinion. I already have a man so don't worry about living in my house. If you like live in a bucket. Thanks

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 5:26am On May 23, 2018
Davidmills12:

Guy which dirty handover, you nor dey shame say woman shelter you.
shame for what abeg? my own wife I marries with my money ! mbanu, I will request for the doc of the house or will stay put where we are if isn't the humble type.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by adesamix(m): 5:26am On May 23, 2018
for a man wil leave his father's house nd join his wife, 2 wil become 1.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by utenwuson: 5:26am On May 23, 2018
[quote author=Hanseel1 post=67796206][/quote]dont be a sisi.......
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 5:27am On May 23, 2018
She will definitely remind u sooner or later that she is the owner of the house. If u like yourself rent your own house and bring her in. The shame of sleeping outside during this raining season won't be nice and friendly smiley
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:29am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
dont be a sisi.......
Stop being uncivilized and myopic.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 5:30am On May 23, 2018
abike12:
I live in a house that I bought and I'm definitely not going to become a tenant because of a man's ego. We either buy a house to move me into or move into mine. It's not a big deal here as long as everyone is working hard and contributing to bills. No dead weight.
the American way, that's a different case cos we know u women in US enslave men. This is a Nigerian situation and no sane man will move in with his wife. If he isn't man enough to get married and have his own house, he should keep hustling and hang his d!ck

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by utenwuson: 5:30am On May 23, 2018
abike12:
I live in a house that I bought and I'm definitely not going to become a tenant because of a man's ego. We either buy a house to move me into or move into mine. It's not a big deal here as long as everyone is working hard and contributing to bills. No dead weight.
hehehehe......houses built by women is for their children, getting a whole man to come live with u, only a pus*y man does that and he will eventually leave someday.

you are not turning into a tenant cos a man must pay his bills, if he rents, lease or buy shouldn't be the woman's worry.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:31am On May 23, 2018
abike12:
I live in a house that I bought and I'm definitely not going to become a tenant because of a man's ego. We either buy a house to move me into or move into mine. It's not a big deal here as long as everyone is working hard and contributing to bills. No dead weight.

Civilized and exposed comment..
It's only in Africa that topics like these are debated.

Nigerian men and their weird kind of ego.. smh

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by khaymhat(f): 5:31am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


are you sure you're normal?
I don't think so..... Shoroniyen?

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Larryslim(m): 5:33am On May 23, 2018
Mhmmm
This one na tough question o
Because the humiliation the man will face no be here,from family,friends, neighbours..
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:33am On May 23, 2018
agarawu23:
the American way, that's a different case cos we know u women in US enslave men. This is a Nigerian situation and no sane man will move in with his wife. If he isn't man enough to get married and have his own house, he should keep hustling and hang his d!ck
here we are again. ..is it by force to force your beliefs on others? what makes you think any man who moves in with his wife is insane?

Mr man you need serious exposure

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 5:34am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


you must be insane.. a woman built a house with her own money and allowed you to move in then you'll be requesting for the documents of the house?? dude are you sure you're normal?
If your wife request for the documents of your house will you release them to her?
don't be abusive pls just be constructive, moreover we are learning. am not the head of the home? am I not the man? she will handover o... then I can will it back to her in immediately shld in case of anytin. she holds that as an evidence.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 5:35am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
hehehehe......houses built by women is for their children, getting a whole man to come live with u, only a pus*y man does that and he will eventually leave someday.

you are not turning into a tenant cos a man must pay his bills, if he rents, lease or buy shouldn't be the woman's worry.
she is in US, thats their way of life over there. they believe they are always in control and can live their life as they wish.

Only a lazy man who wants to be a slave to her wife will move into her to be wife house. Even if na rent she rent the house don't move in with her.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by freeze001(f): 5:37am On May 23, 2018
Emma1Oj:
Yes I'm very very normal. I said so for the man safety should in case the woman is not humble... because some woman can be terrorist. more ova is their house not her house because she is married.

So how do the house documents keep him safe? So if she's not humble he can then take possession of the house and drive her out? Or he'll sell it off and do what with the proceeds? Don't you think the man should also stay humble?
Will her name also be removed from the deed of the house and replaced with the man's name?

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 5:37am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:

here we are again. ..is it by force to force your beliefs on others? what makes you think any man who moves in with his wife is insane?

Mr man you need serious exposure
i don't need exposure, I have seen a lot already wink

You are sitting on a time bomb if your wife is giving u shelter. If a man isn't financially okay, he shouldn't get married.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:37am On May 23, 2018
Emma1Oj:
don't be abusive pls just be constructive, moreover we are learning. am not the head of the home? am I not the man? she will handover o... then I can will it back to her in immediately shld in case of anytin. she holds that as an evidence.

you're a very disgusting human being.. smh

people like you deserve to be jailed

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:40am On May 23, 2018
SamuelAnyawu:
If it is a rented house, we both can look for a new house to rent somewhere grin

If she built it in a town like Abuja grin Omo i go move in sharply if i do not have a rented house in Abuja grin


Marry a Humble Woman like my Idoma fiancee grin


God Bless Benue State my Great Inlaws


God Bless Imo State.


grin

Did you say "fiancee"?

grin

I wish you all the best sha, but compared to me (I'm in the TENTH year of my marriage) na learner you be.

A woman without the Spirit of God in her can do anything and turn into anything after the wedding or even a few years in.

Wait until you are totally dependent on your wife for a long time before you praise her. I was unemployed for 13 months and my wife held the home (me, her and kids) from her small business. When I praised her in front of my ogas at work, they said I'm a learner. One struggled for 3 years while depending on her wife all the while before making it. He's a millionaire now and carried his wife to US to relax on his first chance.

Time is the greatest tester. Before the years start rolling, all you have is hope and faith.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:42am On May 23, 2018
agarawu23:
i don't need exposure, I have seen a lot already wink

You are sitting on a time bomb if your wife is giving u shelter. If a man isn't financially okay, he shouldn't get married.

Very ignorant post..
Some men are financially stable but chose to live with their wives because the wives begged them to move in with them..
if the wives misbehave they can build their own homes..


@your a man shouldn't get married if he's not financially stable.. so if a man see a lady who's ready to take care of him and love him so he should reject her advances because he's not financially stable?
The woman can't throw him out because they'll go for registry marriage..

Africans smh

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by abike12(f): 5:42am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


Civilized and exposed comment..
It's only in Africa that topics like these are debated.

Nigerian men and their weird kind of ego.. smh


If not that africa has problem, instead of looking for how to aim higher and upgrade the family they want to regress because of ego

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:44am On May 23, 2018
Hanseel1:


Very ignorant post..
Some men are financially stable but chose to live with their wives because the wives begged them to move in with them..
if the wives misbehave they can build their own homes..


@your a man shouldn't get married if he's not financially stable.. so if a man see a lady who's ready to take care of him and love him so he should reject her advances because he's not financially stable?
The woman can't throw him out because they'll go for registry marriage..

Africans smh

Abi o.

There are many reasons for moving into a woman's home. Even a simple thing like good roads, stable light and water supply can make a reasonable couple set up home in the wife's house.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by obowunmi(m): 5:44am On May 23, 2018
The man must be a MAD MAN..
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by obowunmi(m): 5:46am On May 23, 2018
agarawu23:
i don't need exposure, I have seen a lot already wink

You are sitting on a time bomb if your wife is giving u shelter. If a man isn't financially okay, he shouldn't get married.

Way too many lazy jobless men nowadays. Men like women, men looking for women to take care of them. .

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