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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by obowunmi(m): 7:11am On May 23, 2018 |
captainamiedi1: Its the truth ooo |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by tishbite41(m): 7:13am On May 23, 2018 |
adesamix:lol, no b d interpretation b dis o. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by WhoBeThisMan: 7:15am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1:the truth is that we are Africans not westerners. It's not everything we should copy from whites, that's slavery mentality. In marriage the whites have the worst. 1 out of 2 marriages fail. In fact I think when it comes to marriage, westerners need to learn from Africans not the other way arround. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:15am On May 23, 2018 |
Get ready to wear the skirt in the house. Except shes overly humble |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by tishbite41(m): 7:18am On May 23, 2018 |
Jeezuzpick:real talk. words of s sage. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Pavore9: 7:19am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj: If you are the brother of the woman, will you encourage her to hand over the document of the house to the man? 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by balabandy: 7:23am On May 23, 2018 |
You know everything is about risk . My own wife in collaboration with her selfish brother sent a letter to my own office asking me to leave her house! So be ready for consequence the house that we make the arrangements to buy together but along the road after I collected bank loan give my own as deposit but they twisted the issue course I don't have balance of my own half manipulate to pay the balance and return my own contribution but when we have a little querel cos I reprimanded her about something mino in return they send that embarrassing letter to my own office 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by nony629(m): 7:23am On May 23, 2018 |
You never even marry u wan govern my state... Ah no blame you... SamuelAnyawu: |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by SamuelAnyawu(m): 7:27am On May 23, 2018 |
nony629: I am not Senator Samuel Anyanwu |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by sisisioge: 7:35am On May 23, 2018 |
Hmmm....ordinarily, nothing is wrong with it but for peace to reign, I agree they move into a house not the woman's. We women say " my house" when in fact the house is technically owned by the man. Imagine the excessive meaning that would be read into that phrase if the house is really owned by the woman during the heat of an argument. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by NoToPile: 7:37am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj: Nairaland guys never cease to amaze me so you will open your two hands and collect the document of the house your wife built. @ topic To salvage a Nigerian man's ego let them go and rent another apartment that the guy will pay for and the lady collect the rent of her house. I don't even want to believe the apartment they are talking about is a rented one if it is let the guy just take over the rent, at least nna person Wey dey pay rent get house. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Chiboto414: 7:40am On May 23, 2018 |
The man has to stay away from that house , because its a shame..just like going back to stay in ur mother inlaws house after wedding and start saying that love is involved... #ShaMe!! LAzyHusband... |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Powerexpert: 7:41am On May 23, 2018 |
Some comments here are from people who still lives in their parents house or are not married. Women can be funny anyway especially when they are in power. Though it is also up to you as a man to prove you are responsible as well. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Xisnin(m): 7:41am On May 23, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO: If the reason for the bold was because he lived in your mum's house, then it is obvious he is one of the few men out there who don't worship their ego. An opposite of him may be disastrous. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Xisnin(m): 7:43am On May 23, 2018 |
The same men who are insulting women for depending on men still don't want to move into their wives house. SMH 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by eyinjuege: 7:48am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1: He and his family will say the woman is planning to kill him. Even nairalanders will join and support that notion that she has a hidden agenda 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by NoToPile: 7:56am On May 23, 2018 |
Xisnin: You saw through it too. Nigerian men want a woman who will support the home but not one who has small financial advantage over them. Case 1 if a woman says I want to be a full house wife you should take care of everything, Let me take care of the home front and our children, (which is the traditional way) Nigerian man says no oo economy is bad please support me, he's thinking in his mind I can't marry a liability, there something you must bring to the table. Case 2 wife says sweetheart this is the house I managed to build let me use this one to support our marriage until we build bigger. Nigerian man says no oo, how will I move into a woman's house. This one is not a liability, she is bringing something to the table at lease but what she's bringing seems to be way overboard. Some will even prefer they rent the wife's home out collect the rent and use to pay for rent again within the same environment just to keep face. They don't want totally dependent women and when women who have shikini money comes their way they become fearful. Nigerian men have their ego tied to money. Financial control is what turns some of them on. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by chigoizie7(m): 7:58am On May 23, 2018 |
That eketietti of a girl get plenty wahala. That young man is giving her reasons why he can't do it ( personal opinion) and she is hell bent on forcing it down his throat. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Marshalldaking: 8:01am On May 23, 2018 |
this is very hard oo.but bubu can and it |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 8:07am On May 23, 2018 |
theapeman4:You are right Something is wrong with the black man Something serious 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 8:07am On May 23, 2018 |
theapeman4:You are right Something is wrong with the black man Something serious |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by chigoizie7(m): 8:11am On May 23, 2018 |
Like I read . Men control power better than women. Women seek power by all means possible. Making money and having a lot of money by a lady is just to have power , power from wealth. Doubt me, as a man, provide ur woman's basic needs and den give her a lot of money, bet me, she won't know what to do with it. My point is this. When a woman by any chance see herself in place of power, she abuses it very well. Men and women are fashioned differently. A man can move into a woman's house, no doubt, but what the woman will do if quarrel ensues will be unthinkable. Many of us will agree that so many women earn much morethan their husbands. As such their home is being run by most of the woman's income, it doesn't stop her from also having the apartment in her name. But they will prefer it is in a mans name. The point is , men are egocentric in nature , and women abuse power when given to them to the last. No man would want his ego brought to zero by his wife. U can try to argue that with me all u can, but it doesn't stop the fact that we are different, so many things happened and we must have to accept them that way, so for us being created differently and to think differently, we just have to accept it. It is just like asking why women must menstruate and men will not have to experience it, that is just how it is, we can't change it. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 8:11am On May 23, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan: There is nothing to learn from African marriage African marriage na suffeehead, especially for the women, If the thing no work again, you divorce and go away. Do you know how many women would like to leave their marriages here if not for the "societal stigma?" Same applies to the man tho, but to a lesser degree. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by chigoizie7(m): 8:19am On May 23, 2018 |
I dated a girl for morethan 2 years , I never slept in her house for one day. My current girl is still mad that I can't still sleep in her house. But that's just me. I know nothing is wrong with it for others. But everything is wrong with it for me |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:23am On May 23, 2018 |
CastedAyo: 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Ghostmode2two(m): 8:27am On May 23, 2018 |
Over the bar |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by christobobby: 8:28am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1: But this is Nigeria |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by scholes23(m): 8:28am On May 23, 2018 |
Abeg I don't see anything wrong in it. As long as there's mutual respect btw both parties. What do u have to say about women being the bread winners of their home? Certainly u cant write them off . Imaging say I marry person like Linda ikeji, and u expect us to move out. I DEY MAD?? Even my VILLAGE PEOPLE will sware for me if I try it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by millomaniac: 8:41am On May 23, 2018 |
[s] Hanseel1:[/s] If no man will move into his wife's house when he is rich then don't justify a man moving to his wife's house when he is financially incapacitated. It is a shame. It is an embarrassment. No real man will even think of it. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by WhoBeThisMan: 8:41am On May 23, 2018 |
Ugosample:the truth is that bad news travels fast. The bad marriages you hear about in the open, but the good ones keep quite. Yes you can't have a perfect marriage, thesame way you. Can't have a perfect mother or father or brother or sister, but you don't divouse them. Do you? There are far more happy marriages in Africa than sad ones. But only the sad ones are talking. The sad thing is that the bad ones are trying to pull down the good ones with them, because misery loves company 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by millomaniac: 8:43am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1: The fact you asked this question shows you ain't or were not brought up right. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:50am On May 23, 2018 |
Xisnin: Nope. It was a lot more than that. |
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