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donstan18:
I need to be honest with you Mr man.

Your agreement with him was to SERVE him and getting settled after seven years. This is part of the service you are to render.

There's a thing line between serving an OGA and learning skills from an OGA.

You pay to learn skills, while you get paid to serve. Any mistake you make now out of anger will have your years of services with him wasted.

Nothing comes easy, even in universities, you don't just learn from lecturers, you work for them in some cases so long as you are aiming a particular goal.


Be guided Bruv, keep enduring, it's not easy to stay with a married uncle, not atall. But some goals worth the stress.

It could be a trap or a planned game to mess you up, don't fall for it.

It's your right to leave, but it'll be your loss.

After 7 years, and he refuses to settle you, you can then freely use them for rituals. God will understand.

Diamond23:
Y I said so z because he might v served him for 3-4yrs. If u know how most of behave den u understand ma reasons. Sometimes dey even discharge der apprentice once z time for settlement xo in order not to give one stupid excuse he should just v patient.sitting him down discussing abt d agreement might be seeing as a sign of disrespect to him

linearity:
Something tells me that, his uncle is in the category of masters whom you have described can dismiss their apprentice for any reason just so that, they wouldn’t settle him/her.

A man that, can not keep an agreement for apprentice to serve under his business in order to learn the trade can’t be trusted to honor that same agreement he has violate to settle the guy after seven years.

He has definitely changed the terms and spirit of the agreement and converted the guy into a houseboy, there is no need hoping that something magical will happen if he stayed for the remaining 4 yrs.

More so, people don’t easily release their house help after a defined period of time unless they become a burden, and as such my guess is; he is still going to be there and continue as houseboy even after 4yrs.

donstan18:
I need to be honest with you Mr man.

Your agreement with him was to SERVE him and getting settled after seven years. This is part of the service you are to render.

There's a thing line between serving an OGA and learning skills from an OGA.

You pay to learn skills, while you get paid to serve. Any mistake you make now out of anger will have your years of services with him wasted.

Nothing comes easy, even in universities, you don't just learn from lecturers, you work for them in some cases so long as you are aiming a particular goal.


Be guided Bruv, keep enduring, it's not easy to stay with a married uncle, not atall. But some goals worth the stress.

It could be a trap or a planned game to mess you up, don't fall for it.

It's your right to leave, but it'll be your loss.

After 7 years, and he refuses to settle you, you can then freely use them for rituals. God will understand.

Just saw this now!!!, best advice xo far. Sonoflord come and carry dz advice tie it round ur waist nd let it be a guide to u why moving abt wit ur apprenticeship buh I dnt support d oda idea of ritualism

donstan18:
I need to be honest with you Mr man.

Your agreement with him was to SERVE him and getting settled after seven years. This is part of the service you are to render.

There's a thing line between serving an OGA and learning skills from an OGA.

You pay to learn skills, while you get paid to serve. Any mistake you make now out of anger will have your years of services with him wasted.

Nothing comes easy, even in universities, you don't just learn from lecturers, you work for them in some cases so long as you are aiming a particular goal.


Be guided Bruv, keep enduring, it's not easy to stay with a married uncle, not atall. But some goals worth the stress.

It could be a trap or a planned game to mess you up, don't fall for it.

It's your right to leave, but it'll be your loss.

After 7 years, and he refuses to settle you, you can then freely use them for rituals. God will understand.

Diamond23:
Y I said so z because he might v served him for 3-4yrs. If u know how most of behave den u understand ma reasons. Sometimes dey even discharge der apprentice once z time for settlement xo in order not to give one stupid excuse he should just v patient.sitting him down discussing abt d agreement might be seeing as a sign of disrespect to him

Sonoflord:
they are destabilising my emotions and you say I should have patience.

No ooh

How much with he settle me with after 7yrs just 1000000 I could possible make if I was only my own. But that's not what am counting.

ghettochild4u:
I agree with u...
This is why some boys carry their oga money run
when they noticed he's deviated from agreement and seem the type that will tell dem stories when settlement comes..
These Oga plenty for lagos wella..
They become so reliant on this boys that they weigh d price of letting him go.. then they start to misbehave..
I know someone here in south africa serving oga... they opened a shop for him to sell hairpiece (hair extensions).
They give him 10 rand for feeding daily... 10 rand is 280 naira presently.. it's was 250 b4....
U can imagine..
What the guy does now is that... he's saving extra money he's making or stealing if i shd call it n[b]giving his nigerian gf to keep in her acct.. cos hes planning to quit this year [/b]

donstan18:
I need to be honest with you Mr man.

Your agreement with him was to SERVE him and getting settled after seven years. This is part of the service you are to render.

There's a thing line between serving an OGA and learning skills from an OGA.

You pay to learn skills, while you get paid to serve. Any mistake you make now out of anger will have your years of services with him wasted.

Nothing comes easy, even in universities, you don't just learn from lecturers, you work for them in some cases so long as you are aiming a particular goal.


Be guided Bruv, keep enduring, it's not easy to stay with a married uncle, not atall. But some goals worth the stress.

It could be a trap or a planned game to mess you up, don't fall for it.

It's your right to leave, but it'll be your loss.

After 7 years, and he refuses to settle you, you can then freely use them for rituals. God will understand.

Sonoflord:
there's no good thing am going to see than 1000000 afterwards.

Have you been in a situation that destabilize your emotions or make you feel Dejected every day.

I have endure enough bro for 2yrs+ I had been enduring bro

donstan18:
Mr man. I'm obviously not a type that will be touched with a well sympathy constructed stories.

Now let me ask. Will you love to live with him while you serve him or rent a house with your money while you serve him for years.

Our problem is that we hate challenges, we all want it to be going smoothly. The single uncle you use to know is now not the married uncle you know.

Furthermore on advice; make his wife your friend.

UDUJ:
The boldfaced, this dude you always crack me up

Let me know whenever you're in Lagos bro. Madman

ghettochild4u:
Better u leave n chase ur dreams. No time

Sonoflord:
they are destabilising my emotions and you say I should have patience.

No ooh

How much with he settle me with after 7yrs just 1000000 I could possible make if I was only my own. But that's not what am counting.

Diamond23:
Just saw this now!!!, best advice xo far. Sonoflord come and carry dz advice tie it round ur waist nd let it be a guide to u why moving abt wit ur apprenticeship buh I dnt support d oda idea of ritualism

wristbangle:
How sure he would settle you when the period of service elapse?

Your future rests on the decision you make today. Discuss about your displeasure routine with your uncle and if the itinerary remains unchanged, it's better you quit instead of wasting precious moment of life gaining nothing.

ghettochild4u:
I agree with u...
This is why some boys carry their oga money run
when they noticed he's deviated from agreement and seem the type that will tell dem stories when settlement comes..
These Oga plenty for lagos wella..
They become so reliant on this boys that they weigh d price of letting him go.. then they start to misbehave..
I know someone here in south africa serving oga... they opened a shop for him to sell hairpiece (hair extensions).
They give him 10 rand for feeding daily... 10 rand is 280 naira presently.. it's was 250 b4....
U can imagine..
What the guy does now is that... he's saving extra money he's making or stealing if i shd call it n giving his nigerian gf to keep in her acct.. cos hes planning to quit this year

ghettochild4u:
Why will even marry a woman who won't cook for me n b dependent on my boy...
Hell No, I wonder how some igbo men dey think sef

Sonoflord:
even if I will have to enduring this suffering it will never pass this year.

I have made up my mind to meet him and tell him what I have been passing through in his house. The highest thing he will do, is to ask me to leave his house which o will gladly do.


Good morning thank you for your advise sister

Same to u dear!, wish u well buh make sure u no touch him moni ooooooo

Diamond23:
Same to u dear!, wish u well buh make sure u no touch him moni ooooooo

Sonoflord:
I don't touch his money.

I will keep you inform after I meet next month and his decision.

Diamond23:
Peace brotherly!

mhisbliss:
You should've signed a written agreement with him before embarking on this futile journey to nowhere, but since you've wasted some productive years serving this man, you should inform your parents and tell them you'd want to have a chitchat with him to clarify things, then approach him in a respectful manner and tell him how you feel, make him know you're not getting any younger and make sure he gives you a tangible reason why he's doing this, then make him sit with your parents so you guys can duscuss when he'll settle you

NeeKlaus:
A written agreement would be of little or no effect because the Law does not recognize a contract for personal services (i.e an agreement between a master and his servant.)

All he should do is reason with his Uncle so they can settle on an equal ground or he can take the more suitable option of walking out.

EzendiEgo1:
you are so caring sisterly

I love people like you very much

Gracious

mhisbliss:
Really? Written agreements don't work? What part of the world are you from?

rex444:
I really don't buy the idea of serving anyone but yes with the way things are going in this country,one has to survive one way or the other .... Just be patient,you have come a long way. Do ur bid and when the time comes you will become your own boss....it's in d Bible...before you are served ,u must serve

rex444:
I really don't buy the idea of serving anyone but yes with the way things are going in this country,one has to survive one way or the other .... Just be patient,you have come a long way. Do ur bid and when the time comes you will become your own boss....it's in d Bible...before you are served ,u must serve

pedrilo:
endure bro, after the stipulated period u will be free and go away wit some money.
dnt let them force u out wit notin oh

Sonoflord:
I should continuing enduring being a house maid for 3yrs from now while my mate are out there hustling building customer base.

pedrilo:
bros no vex, if u already know wat to do, why did u come here?
u r very mad!