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Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by boyjo: 7:33am On Jun 01, 2018 |
uboma: obidevine don't listen to him. She loves you bad. She just wants you to feel threatened because she knows you love her too. Talk to her on a day she's feeling so sweet and do it with a STRAIGHT FACE. She'd listen. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Josh44s(m): 7:33am On Jun 01, 2018 |
skillzbae:
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Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Aadeyinka(m): 7:34am On Jun 01, 2018 |
obidevine:she needed real counseling to stop that childish sign ,else she will grow do more stupid things which may come to regret later, try to always cool her temper, seems she is hot temper ,else not totally in love or there may be another secret lover confusing her. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by donemitex1: 7:35am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Oga relax, maturity in marriage is not by age. My wife was 22 when I married her but she is more matured than most of her peers. We are just 2 years and a baby in marriage and I enjoy every moment with her. If you like go and marry old cargo because you are searching for maturity, you will be disappointed. BiggyB242: 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by boyjo: 7:35am On Jun 01, 2018 |
postmann: obidevine ignore this advice at your own peril. 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by fucktoto: 7:36am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Dyt: i saw this coming. awon feminist crew...nairaland version. to you, everything in life is always men vs women. but be sincere with yourself, if the op was a woman would you have asked all those unnecessary questions? 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by mamaafrik(m): 7:36am On Jun 01, 2018 |
tamethem:op,i can tell u a thing,if you do this and remained "be free darling" with you not choping her food,if she no change den i owe u 10 k 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Josh44s(m): 7:41am On Jun 01, 2018 |
umurphy: Obidevine follow this advice. It is simply the best. 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Peterosky(m): 7:41am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Benwems:.Bro's make you try get sense small na! remove her paint? na you paint am? or is she a piece of an art work? Behave abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by donemitex1: 7:41am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Then you are not ready for marriage. Unless you are ready to take shit from your wife, I mean loads of shit, if not, you are as childish as the OPs wife. Apina: 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by nkwuocha1: 7:48am On Jun 01, 2018 |
obidevine: Nna guy,abeg leave all these idiots here insulting your wife.She won't cheat on you.She is just emotionally vulnerable when you quarrel with her.My wife does worst things sef.She won't talk to me for a month,infact that's when she will remember to wear bum shots to go out for shopping . Sometimes I pick my keys and drive to shoprite to see her feeding her kids.Women!!!All just to get us jealous and remorseful. My suggestion.Remove your ring first before she does and go out of the house for some hours.She will get the message. 1 Like |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Adefemiaderoju1: 7:56am On Jun 01, 2018 |
obidevine:How long have you guys been married for? If your marriage is still young and she's behaving this way I don't see the marriage working and it would be nice if you could divorce her and move on with your life as soon as possible. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by nkwuocha1: 7:57am On Jun 01, 2018 |
mamaafrik: That rejecting of food sometimes don't work o.You women can be very wicked.Rejection of food doesn't work with my stubborn wife.That one will be happy sef.Infact I realised what works with my wife is when you continue to show you don't care about her excesses.Like during heated arguments,I still buy things for her albeit I won't talk to her.I go out often and hang out with friends but STILL bring goodies home for her.At a point she starts getting unconformable.If I'm downstairs she will be watching me from the window blinds.I know all these.Especially when just immediately watching she pretend she is sleeping as soon as I rush back upstairs. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by boyjo: 7:58am On Jun 01, 2018 |
skillzbae: Hahaha... obidevine |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by nkwuocha1: 8:00am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Adefemiaderoju1: You Yoruba men hates the institution of marriage.What kind of anti -marriage advice is this?So this is enough to divorce a wife?You guys have several dysfunctional homes because of your intolerance.Jesus! Obidevine,ignore this ones.They don't respect marriages. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Nobody: 8:09am On Jun 01, 2018 |
kimbraa:Kimbraa is not beautiful don't waste ya time |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by GrammarNazi1(m): 8:09am On Jun 01, 2018 |
postmann:...I... |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by gulfer: 8:09am On Jun 01, 2018 |
My brother's ex-wife found out the hard way..................She dropped her wedding and engagement rings; dropping threats that my bro wasn't making money. Not too long after, my brother got the US visa and he is settled by the grace of GOD. Some ladies just think a man's world revolves around them. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by GrammarNazi1(m): 8:12am On Jun 01, 2018 |
HARDDON:. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Dyt(f): 8:29am On Jun 01, 2018 |
fucktoto: Yes Cos there's no smoke without fire A woman doesn't just wake up to act like a mad woman So cos he's a man Everything he does is right? Have you taken your time to ask what he did? Very little things sometimes turns a woman off after several endurance He only said his side and there you all are asking him to leave her I am impulsive too So I can relate to what could have been the problem They say you never know what it feels like to be hurt until you have been hurt |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by newslifeop: 8:41am On Jun 01, 2018 |
hmmm |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by loverboi97(m): 8:45am On Jun 01, 2018 |
u don buy market |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by donqx: 8:47am On Jun 01, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by mapet: 8:57am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Whenever she does, ignore her. When she puts it back on, make a snide comment about it........ |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by fucktoto: 9:03am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Dyt: your post nearly made sense until i spotted the hypocrisy, which i highlighted. to be a good judge, you must be neutral and weigh the issue at hand equally from both angles before drawing a conclusion. but, unfortunately, your post here is ridiculed with gender bias. i've seen and encountered women who act rashly without any tangible reason, likewise men. you just can't understand what pisses them off but they just get angry and go yabbing and nagging for a long time. there are also women (likewise men) who go haywire with the slightest provocation - i don't have the right words to explain this but let' just say it's their own nature. the op here is complaining about his wife's habit of removing her wedding ring every time they have an altercation. take note of "every time" as it has become a regular thing. and he's worried about it very much. what he needs is good advice from experienced people to keep his marriage going, not judgment. even if we must get to the judging part, i don't know if you skipped the part where someone asked if he loves her and he replied in the affirmative. yet you kept pestering him with questions, hoping he would give in so you could put ALL THE BLAMES on him and generalize his action to "all men" and probably invite your fellow 'feminists' and have another field day as usual. but when you couldn't find any, you felt defeated and disappeared without offering any advice, which is why he made this thread. biko, stop this bias. you can't be using your own experience to judge others all the time. 3 Likes |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Dyt(f): 9:17am On Jun 01, 2018 |
fucktoto: You have been the judge all along No one wakes up to start acting crazy without anything Maybe someone like you wakes up one morning and decides to start punching your bed The man and almost all of you on this thread made it look like she's just one hell of a terrible woman I only asked what could make the woman act that way Its not so important anyway Not like we can both agree Have a great Friday I love Fridays |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Adefemiaderoju1: 9:21am On Jun 01, 2018 |
nkwuocha1:What an old man saw if a child climb the ladder would still not see Why bringing tribalism into this... Useless fellow |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by fucktoto: 9:29am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Dyt: me too. i take my babe to a club every friday night for beer and asun. we fight some times and settle our differences too. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by uboma(m): 9:31am On Jun 01, 2018 |
boyjo: But why threaten someone who loves you genuinely from the heart? |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by nkwuocha1: 9:34am On Jun 01, 2018 |
Adefemiaderoju1: Lol.Not all old people are wise. You're not a smart fellow.You're also not wise.I don't know if you are married,but your advice gave you out as some one from dysfunctional family setting. The tribal slur is just a fact.Its just few percentage of your tribe understand the true essence of marriage. |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by Dyt(f): 9:34am On Jun 01, 2018 |
fucktoto: We all fight and settle too |
Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by nkwuocha1: 9:37am On Jun 01, 2018 |
uboma: Na small pikin dey worry the lady.For men like me,there's no big deal.She is just childish and over reactive.Already immature people are singing divorce like marriage is a kind of clownish joke. |
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