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Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by fimi: 10:04am On Jun 03, 2018 |
All those criticizing OP are single mothers, if u knw, u knw...... one of them ll still quote me 7 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by MaziOmenuko: 10:04am On Jun 03, 2018 |
1x2x3: Yea, she's your g/f, not your spouse. You don't demand for an explanation because you don't own her and she doesn't owe you one. You are dating a 30yr old and not a teenager. I am sure she won't sabotage the relstnship if she really sees it leading somewhere. Maybe, just maybe, she has realized you are wasting her time and she needs more commitment from someone ready to indulge. Anyway, not trying to play the devil's advocate.... Make I dey mind my business shaa. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Frankdamaxx(m): 10:06am On Jun 03, 2018 |
1x2x3: Sometimes in life, we don't need advise from Sages. Common sense is profitable to direct. |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by KevinDein: 10:06am On Jun 03, 2018 |
1x2x3:The ladies here are very cunning and dangerously manipulative. The strategy is to convince you that your girlfriend isn't the one with the problem, that way you'll go back to her and keep swallowing her bullshhiit. Most criticizing you probably share similar traits with your girlfriend, so what they are doing here is standing up for "one of their own" 13 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by GreatCracker(m): 10:08am On Jun 03, 2018 |
bros, TBH these stories I keep reading every now and then just makes me filled with so much joy that I always have no choice than to appreciate my singlehood. at least things like this no go make us dey envy those wey dey into this relationship sturvs Cutehector: 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:10am On Jun 03, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy:Nobody is useless. You know a single mother once had an option to have an abortion? Have some sense and don't call people you know nothing about "useless". 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by johnwell(m): 10:10am On Jun 03, 2018 |
YemiHadid: But Nigerians believes that tokumbos are better than new ones na |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Cutehector(m): 10:11am On Jun 03, 2018 |
GreatCracker:I dey tell you my brother.. Apart from the fact that konji dey catch me once in a while, I just dey like the inner peace wey I dey get. I fit just dey house one day without person dey vex for me say why I no call am.. Shuuoo.. She wey wan hear my voice, why she come dey wait make I call am ni.. Na wa for girls and their drama o 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by 1x2x3: 10:12am On Jun 03, 2018 |
KevinDein: I'm a tough head to crack when it comes to being manipulated. I can sense what they are doing and I'm really not here to seek advice I only narrated my story and gave guys advice to look well before engaging a single mother but booooom!!!! They are trying their manipulative skills. 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by BiafranBushBoy: 10:13am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: You mind correcting the " Have some sense" part of your post? Thanks. |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by oloriLFC(f): 10:15am On Jun 03, 2018 |
And to some who thinks baby mamas are bitter people, no, not all are. I am one and have lived a positive life, faced my job, took care of my child, never wayward cos of my predicament, had some relatnshps dat didn't work out but now enjoying marriage with someone we both understand each other very well. 9 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Nobody: 10:17am On Jun 03, 2018 |
CecyAdrian: Cecy, no point going all hypothetical. Her purpose for travelling wasn't for business, OP stated clearly that she was on leave with the lame excuse of wanting to go "relax" someplace else. In my experience with the "present day woman," if she feels the need to pick a fight just so she could wriggle out her way and leave town, then there can only be one motivating factor; And that's the presence of one big, black, pulsing and venated cõck somewhere, she's creaming her panties for. She came back way more relaxed, that's for sure. 9 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by sammirano: 10:17am On Jun 03, 2018 |
YemiHadid: You just nailed it |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by CecyAdrian(f): 10:18am On Jun 03, 2018 |
1x2x3: Young man, I am not supporting you or your ex, just picking things from your story to counter you point just like a third party would. You see now, why a third party is not good for relationship? You have already started feeling like I am on ur gal's side, lol 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by CecyAdrian(f): 10:21am On Jun 03, 2018 |
CorGier: Lol, reason why I said 'let's assume'. But what if she went for a girls time out with her friends who contributed and bought her an IphoneX, OP himself said she has a lot of friends and she is not doing badly too 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by PearlStreet(m): 10:23am On Jun 03, 2018 |
CecyAdrian: If you can reason this way, you don't have the mental capacity to give advice to an animal not to talk of an human being. OP, most of these girls trying to make excuses for your ex are dumb hoes with zero IQ. They're people who can't hold a candle to you offline but Internet anonymity has empowered them. 10 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by CecyAdrian(f): 10:24am On Jun 03, 2018 |
KevinDein: See them, guys who are scared of ladies who can think and act on their own and yea, the girlfriend is not the problem, they both are! 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by MaziOmenuko: 10:24am On Jun 03, 2018 |
fimi: Yea, we all criticising him are all single mothers. Like me that just quoted you. You would prefer that everyone be a sheep and not use their brain. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Buchika: 10:24am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Nnemuka:a bitter feminist spotted 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Hector09(m): 10:25am On Jun 03, 2018 |
toyetade:if so then u are not better than lie mohammed cus u just lied |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by PearlStreet(m): 10:27am On Jun 03, 2018 |
MaziOmenuko: Single mothers and some pussy-niggers with a warped sense of reasoning. 7 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by CecyAdrian(f): 10:28am On Jun 03, 2018 |
PearlStreet: If you couldn't figure out (even with the emoji's) that, that statement was sarcastic, then you need comprehension class from a good tutor because it's obvious you can not understand a bird chirping not to talk of human discussion. You are just a tiny bug with no brain. A perfect example of men who are scared of a grown woman who can hold her own and so, go for underage girls that can be manipulated and controlled. You are a disgrace to humanity and don't dare come to my mention again cos, I won't be this nice again. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by makydebbie(f): 10:29am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Don't mind such people or bother quoting them. If I was a guy, I'll rather go for a single mum than someone who has done countless abortions. The joke is on them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by fumisko(f): 10:29am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Where the lady is wrong Is in keeping away from her family. Not being able to tell d man d reason for her travel to abuja. She should be able to confide in him and all that I accept. And why won't he tell her not to go if she can't explain the need to go?? If it was to relax or time off or different environment kind of thing(u need to understand that the fact that she is a different person from u and may need a different method of relaxing. I for one get bored being in the same environment for too long. Sadness sets in. So if it's something that makes her happy....u stopping her is being controlling despite if she has explained how much she needs to go on that escape trip and sincerely, her happiness should not be traded simply because she is about to marry a man. I agree she is stubborn and her travelling without being to open up on why she had to is a red-flag and is suspicious. But sincerely, let's admit, the OP also has a little issue with being controlling or wanting to b in charge as per I am a man that I feel the woman was not ready to b subjected to. Every woman wants a friend in her man that she Wld want to respect and all sincerely from her heart. Not one that wants to form am the boss and u must obey me and demand for the respect. Then u Wld begin to have issues with her because she Wld become stubborn in defense. Wats up wit u telling her a man has to lead n she has to b under him blablabla.....? Does it sort of help to boost ur ego or self esteem? Be sincere to yourself. U may need a very younger woman if u that kind of guy that wants to b in control in general as d man of the house. A single lady won't be that condescending trust me. So next time pick a younger woman and don't come here complaining "my woman doesn't treat me as the boss.....she treats me like me are equals or friends". 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by CecyAdrian(f): 10:33am On Jun 03, 2018 |
fumisko: On point!!! The reason why many guys go for small girls is because they want to dominate without counter or questions 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by Bridget95(f): 10:35am On Jun 03, 2018 |
it's well. |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by oloriLFC(f): 10:35am On Jun 03, 2018 |
1x2x3:it doesnt even matter if the guy doesn't have a dime. does it mean she can only listen 2 him if he has money? a lot of us females get it wrong in relatnshps cos of li2 things. You dnt hav 2 be married 2 her b4 u can ask her questns, once u aren't too possessive and frm ur comments here, u are not. I guess d lady wanted her freedom and she now has it, no wahala. i just smh at some ladies sha 12 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by 1x2x3: 10:37am On Jun 03, 2018 |
fumisko: You are talking about a lady that is actually controlling. There has been about 3 occasions she won't let me travel as long as she is not free to travel with me. I never went against her objection. I'm quiet and she likes it because she feels I'm the type she can easily control because I take things easy no matter what. This is my very first time objecting her move because her reasons wasn't clear enough. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by oneitalia: 10:37am On Jun 03, 2018 |
All I know about relationship is don't dish out order to anyone, you can only give advice. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by fumisko(f): 10:38am On Jun 03, 2018 |
You right. Then he should go for the younger one that would say yes sir to every little thing. So dear OP re-channel your attraction to ladies the age you would be able to head or lord over at least. But I doubt u Wld b able to work well with a mature lady that wants to be like a partner or sort of equals or sort of we are both in this together approach. But truth is most times when u treat a GOOD lady like this, a good lady ba, she Wld naturally respect u, yes she may stil be stubborn once in a while because we are all humans and get naughty once in a while. But in general, she would be respectful, loyal and be there for u always. CecyAdrian: 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by fumisko(f): 10:41am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Wow..u never mentioned that part Sorry But u guys ain't compatible from the look of things. Just try and move on. I know it would hurt a bit. 1x2x3: 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Single Mother I wanted to marry. by gidjah(m): 10:41am On Jun 03, 2018 |
Are u sure she has no one else she is seeing ,this one she went to Abuja and suddenly became irrational and rude?I doubt if she hasn't been double dating bros,most of this single ladies have character problem o.you should have called at least two of her siblings by force immediately she disobeyed u by going to Abuja,u sef dull small guy,at your age, u need to start modifying you introvert nature,I am a teacher,a minister and a counselor yet a core introvert,pls start modification process ASAP,God bless U[quotes author=1x2x3 post=68129881] Its a sleepless night for me and I'm yet to dilute what unfolded. I just wish she could pretend forever and be nice but this is life where the truth must surely reveal itself at some point. The person I saw in her recently is too mean and brutal to be under a man. God help anyone that falls into her trap. [/quote] 2 Likes |
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