₦airaland Forum

olaboy1:
Keeping a woman is all about self discipline and mind control, if you are not mentally strong you become a wimp.
Generally ask yourself what more is she bringing to the table apart from sex. A long term relationship is the best way to ruin a man’s life in this present day and age, stop being the victim of vindictive attitude, manipulation, illusion of self beauty and sense of entitlement because it takes two to tango.
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If you read most of the female comments on nairaland, you would quickly realize how they feel their vaginas can pay the bills. Women should not be treated as queens just because they have vaginas or because they are attractive. Your girl probably has this higher power dynamics over you because when she post one revealing pic on her IG or Facebook, the whole crew of sailors (some of them married) start tearing up her comment sections and she responds to none due to her Femi-narcissistic tendencies of gross validation attention seeking syndrome. Stop playing her silly diva attention seeking game, focus on your life and hustle...when her body and pussy shivels, your achievements last forever.

If you find any faults in any woman please call her out immediately, because women have no inhibitions whatsoever about nagging and shit testing men and pointing out every flaws they see in us (ohhh he is too short, ohhh he is broke, ohh he doesn’t have any fashion sense etc), so it’s time to play the game women play...if she is fat tell her she is fat, if she is ugly tell her she is ugly, if she is boring and unintelligent tell her so.

You have to be mysterious and unpredictable if you are still hell bent on having a long term relationship with women, I’m sure you have heard women saying they hate men that are predictable and that they can control and that is why they keep giving you the predictability and controllability tests for the rest of your life, you need a caveman style to really sustain a LTR with women by putting them in their place.
You can be nice at times, but you have to make them earn it and you can’t overdo it and it has to be a rare occurrence because this makes them work for your validation but you also have to show that they can’t do the same thing every time, you got to make them earn it in different ways. Don’t be too nice and don’t be much of a dick either, avoid falling in the generic position all her male orbiters are. You have to keep everything in balance and always keep her guessing. Don’t let her understand your financial predicaments and successes, because women are irrational and illogical, you always have to keep them guessing. They are far far away from reality and you don’t have any business trying to make her see reality because they have never been known to understand reality, and that’s why they feed on stupid tv shows paraded as reality tv and that’s why they can never live without make up.

Even if you don’t have a job, with women you have to act busy and let her know your time is more precious than her. Pay attention to the time duration you reply her tests and also the length of your sms, she must be investing. Just tell her you are busy and don’t tell her why or what’s making you busy, remember they need to keep guessing to give them that constant emotional orgasmic roller coaster, what I’m saying in short is leave their hearts tingling every moment you can.

This is the same exact tactics women use on men, if you read back in this thread some guy was dumped or his sms was ignored because he failed to buy a girl a phone or give her money rather than the girl visiting him. They play emotional games on you, ignore you when they don’t get the financial help, they become lovey dovey sending you happy new month or long good morning messages when they are about to seek for financial help, they keep you waiting, hoping for sex, guessing and controlling the relationship and are ready to cut you off at anytime for another man to “upgrade” like a monkey reaching for another higher branch, they even mentally abuse you by telling you “you are a stingy broke ass nigga and if you don’t give them money there are other men ready and willing to give them....I would say guys cut them loose. This is the game men should also be running on women and men need to learn this game from the corrupt masters of it (the women) and give them a taste of their own medicine. Stop giving women money and instead become a man of purpose, worth and value to your community development, by volunteering and also traveling if you have the means.

The only way Nigerian men can become the true African alphas we are created to be is to starve women out of resources, time and attention, they need to know that the party will go on without them and be constantly reminded we have self worth and control and pussy is not an asset. Women were created to be a helper, a supporter and not a beggar.

No need to feel sad because one woman is trying to abandon ship, many years down the line when you become successful you are going to meet more charming and respectful women. Your best negotiating position is from your willingness to walk away, you showed that lady that you revolve around her world and she eventually has more negotiating power of walking away. If you haven’t at anytime shown her you were willing to walk away then your value and worth are questionable. If you remove financial security from the equation, I’m sure many Nigerian women will not get married, some are interested in marrying you just to escape poverty or their nagging parents or just answer MRS.

I’m so glad Nigerian men are beginning to wake up to women irrationality and the attitude of me first, my feelings and well being first, look at me aren’t I pretty, why didn’t you comment on my pix, I need a new phone, I need this I need that, can you take me and my friends out...bla bla bla. We need to stop this holocaust mindset.

I know many of the beta behaviors have to do with sexual orientations and the average sex drive discrepancy between males and females, but heck guys we still can change the dynamics in our favor by going ghost mode. Nigerian women have widely perceived us to be in a total state of sexual helplessness and often times told us Na konji go kill you if you no wan drop....say to them bi$tch sit your a$$ down because you don’t turn me on like you think, be very bold and unapologetic about it.

I believe when we all can get sex easily with just a bottle of Coca Cola, we would have in a way created a safe haven for Nigeria devoid of ritual killings, yahoo yahoo and corrupt politicians, our unborn children would be thankful to us all for creating a new “NIGERIAN DREAM”, and many of us would be proud to partake in a cashless and sexful society.

Our mumu don do.

SexyCeline:
Who taught yhu all this?

HARDDON:
What I usually do to every kid that shows up with lil snowballs. I multiply it and hit her with it!


Cross my path with the lovey dovey ish, I pull her into my warm embrace,spank her bum, look into her eyes deeply, lock foreheads, use my nose to rub hers right to left a couple of times, try to lean in for a kiss, with her lips raised trying to kiss me, I break off!
Excuse myself to the restroom without a word! Ouch!

Let's see who would be on who soon.

With these kinda ladies, I usually let JRod do the asking out! ( if you know,you know )


To the questions, if you've read the thread, you should know better now than to go answering them like a Duck on heat.

HER: Who is your girlfriend?

ME: I have a couple of hawt ones on my tail, I haven't just made up my mind yet.( or say: I think my heart is just too big for one gurl to carry! Wouldn't wano kill her with too much love)

HER: Are you my guy?

ME: Did someone just ask me out? Hmmm, you haven't impressed me enough


HER: when is your birthday?

ME: I don't know

HER: What do you mean you don't know?

ME: I really don't know. It so happened that back then in Uni, I had 3 gurlfriends that knew each other. I was opened with them when we first met. Told all of them I had a gurl but they still wouldnt let me go. we got down. To cut the long story short, one day, I just needed some drama. So I told all of them including my friends that it's my day( which they mistook for my b'day!) All of them came. One after d other. But one did the organizing. Bought me a very kool watch. The other got me a 3 in one briefs ( arrh) and the last one, got me this fancy shoes! I was elated!

Not until party was over ( 1am), all guests gone, that I realised I had three worlds in my small crib.

I cudnt sleep because I was at the middle of the trio so that the planets don't collapse. Organizer showered and dived straight onto the bed, I was on d rug Playing on a console. Second one slept on my reading table. Last one, on the floor!

Even though they didn't utter a word to each other, the weather was pregnant! But we made it through to the next day!! Haha

Before they left, I corrected the impression and told them it wasn't my b'day though that I just needed some cray cray moments.

After that day, the most understanding one called me, spoke up and suggested I have three different b'day dates because she couldn't stand drama on my b'day.

Since then, I celebrate my b'day trice a year and now, I don't even know what day is my true b'day. But I'm sure it's not any of the 3 dates.


SHE: How old are you?

ME: Are you hitting on me?
Or:

Ive lived through different times and travails. I don't even know how many thousands of years I've lived. By the way, it was here; earth, I learnt about time.

Oh sorry, didn't tell you I'm an Angel?



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Guys, calls or chats. Which is better?

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minexpo:
Hardon....I need your help on this...it's a bit long but just read
I have a gf or should I say a girl that doesn't get wet no matter the pre-intimacy or how long it takes even though we talk dirty....I have asked her severally if she's sexually attracted to me, if she loves me as she claimed..but she could not give a good response...so I started asking her about her sexual history and she gave some confessions..
She noticed this after her ex dumped her nd before the break up...she enjoys sex...in her words (love making)
2) after the break up...she had a fling with a guy b4 me...and she enjoyed it also....so it got me wondering...is she into or I'm not doing my role well enough to get her wet...though she said she gets wet wen we talk on fone...and it's a distance relationship...40mins drive


Note....I'm not a newbie when it comes to sex...and since I have stated dating I haven't encountered such...she is not circumcised ....house please help

minexpo:
Hardon....I need your help on this...it's a bit long but just read
I have a gf or should I say a girl that doesn't get wet no matter the pre-intimacy or how long it takes even though we talk dirty....I have asked her severally if she's sexually attracted to me, if she loves me as she claimed..but she could not give a good response...so I started asking her about her sexual history and she gave some confessions..
She noticed this after her ex dumped her nd before the break up...she enjoys sex...in her words (love making)
2) after the break up...she had a fling with a guy b4 me...and she enjoyed it also....so it got me wondering...is she into or I'm not doing my role well enough to get her wet....she is not circumcised ....house please help

adamsbadoo:
personally am experiencing this shii...8mnths without sex.

adamsbadoo:
personally am experiencing this shii...8mnths without sex.

minexpo:
did she give you a reason

minexpo:
Hardon....I need your help on this...it's a bit long but just read
I have a gf or should I say a girl that doesn't get wet no matter the pre-intimacy or how long it takes even though we talk dirty....I have asked her severally if she's sexually attracted to me, if she loves me as she claimed..but she could not give a good response ...so I started asking her about her sexual history and she gave some confessions..
She noticed this after her ex dumped her nd before the break up...she enjoys sex...in her words (love making)
2) after the break up...she had a fling with a guy b4 me...and she enjoyed it also....so it got me wondering...is she into or I'm not doing my role well enough to get her wet...though she said she gets wet wen we talk on fone...and it's a distance relationship...40mins drive


Note....I'm not a newbie when it comes to sex...and since I have stated dating I haven't encountered such...she is not circumcised ....house please help

adamsbadoo:
I think u are right...
BUT when i broke up with her she came bck begging even though she does'nt gain frm me financially...even my friends told me she loves me ANd she claims she loves me.. .i jst wanna taste her honey pot

bojbest:
Guys, calls or chats. Which is better?

Adasun:
elucidate please

HARDDON:
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SENSE PILL 141 :

If it is easier to access her vJay than her b00bs, brotherly, your love seed is sown on a very wrong soil! Runnnnnnn!!!

HARDDON:
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SENSE PILL 142:
In exploring, I stumbled upon a hidden treasure: To bond,
One party must love for two at one point in time or the other.
And nature would rather men ballz up and "pursue" his sexy desire to the world's end until she succums. So it is then that men must Lust/Love first. While she, like the Hen on heat, takes to flight forming hard to crack.

After the first cracking, to the Guys that understand, there is a Swift role shifting. Then she takes the reins and must Love for two. Until such a time when he is impressed( with her skills, ways and wisdom), reciprocates.

The thing is, weak wimps don't know how to switch off when they should and let her do the loving. So they are eternally entangled in a stoned state.

If ever she naturally tries to help out, he still, with his body language, cries out, LET ME I PRAY THEE, LOVE YOU THE MORE! For thus was I born!
...A mugu is Born

HARDDON:
@ emphasized, yea, given, love does make their limbs weak, eyes drooling and vClef wet WHEN they hear your voice, see you, when you kiss or touch.
You really don't need to touch a lady that loves you before she comes dripping. AND for her not to answer your rather brute and direct question , tells a lot about her state of mind.

Possible Situations with her

1. You are not really her kind of man( physical attributes)

2. She's got a lot of reservations about the state you are from( she's been burned a by guy from your state). There are statements you made in time past that keeps hunting her( you are just here for the ride, when push comes to shove, you'd, without recourse to her emotions, take a swirling hike

3. She does not enjoy getting down with you and the thought of it drives the streams off .

4. After the break-up, in her hate state, she met a lez that reconfigured her brain. Now she enjoys female touch more

5. You have very poor hygiene state

Summary:

She isn't feeling you deeply and there are a lot of things she is hiding from you.

Solution?

You figure it out

minexpo:
thanks.....I'm looking for her replacement already.
.

minexpo:
thanks.....I'm looking for her replacement already.
.

HARDDON:
Dont just close the door entirely. If you are like me that believes in research and Kaizen, you should know better....

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 141 :

If it is easier to access her vJay than her b00bs, brotherly, your love seed is sown on a very wrong soil! Runnnnnnn!!!

HARDDON:
HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 143 :

No matter how much money you milk, know that fast-food is for the first phase.
Don't get stuck on a lady who is stuck on them.

Ofcos, we can afford a chef, but she should know how to spin some spice

henryleecom:
hello everyone, gat to say fantastic job u guys get going here. would really love an intake on this situation:

Today i went to a canteen at my work place to eat though i was low on cash, so i had to order half plate of rice then i sat waiting for my food, the waiter finally brought the food which was a full plate of rice so i called her attention to it to avoid any embarrassment after eating.

To my surprise while she was trying to change d plate a lady in the same canteen then told the waiter to return the food that she'd pay for the food, so i went over to her table and asked why she was paying which she didn't give me a straight answer to so i told her thank you and went to eat.

After eating i tried talking to her, asking what her name was and she was like she didn't pay for my food cause she wanted me to ask for her name then she paid and started rushing out, tried stopping her but she didn't oblige & am not d type to run after a lady so i let her go (all these while she never really gave me a eye contact, just focused on her phone).

thanks for d timely reply

cc harddon

Tolax17:
For me I don't think it's necessary asking why she paid for your meal. To me, it looks rhetorical though, many don't see any ish asking such especially in this part of the country.

If she wants you she will still come for you. Besides, she might still come to thE canteen another day and conversation may ensue from there. As you said, she was glued to her phone, that doesn’t mean she's interested or not interested. She may have other concern or worries or tasks to achieve that day. She may even like you but using sendless attitude ( been busy with phone) to send shiver on your body.
Next time you see her, you may greet her and thank her for the other day. Go back to your table and give a sendless attitude. She mayb the first to initiate a conversation with you

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