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Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Troubledmind: 2:17pm On Jun 04, 2018
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by donstan18: 2:20pm On Jun 04, 2018
Drop her number bruv.

I can set Whatsapp and Facebook for older women very well, I can even help them rub cream and take a selfie with their wet nipples.

Just permit me to be her midnight charger, so that you'll focus on your girlfriend.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jun 04, 2018
Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me
is she still beautiful nd classy? if yes,den av u already gotten d sure signs dat she wants sex from u

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by flyca: 2:23pm On Jun 04, 2018
If you love yourself and your future - RUN!

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by mhisbliss(f): 2:25pm On Jun 04, 2018
You can't sit on the fence on this one, you must pick a side grin

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by mikaelangelov: 2:28pm On Jun 04, 2018
my Bros... I once was in your shoes...I ditched the lady in favor of my girl


the Bae later leave me wen she saw a rich guy...I've always regretted

what I'm saying is... hook up with the lady...and keep chyking ur Bae...you'll thank me later

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Saff(f): 2:29pm On Jun 04, 2018
These older women and small boys . Kai, living their best cougar life grin

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by SoapQueen(f): 2:32pm On Jun 04, 2018
mikaelangelov:
my Bros... I once was in your shoes...I ditched the lady in favor of my girl


the Bae later leave me wen she saw a rich guy...I've always regretted

what I'm saying is... hook up with the lady...and keep chyking ur Bae...you'll thank me later

Awww. Sorry.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Gloryboy(m): 2:40pm On Jun 04, 2018
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by donstan18: 2:45pm On Jun 04, 2018
Gloryboy:
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg grin Go to religion section.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Gloryboy(m): 2:49pm On Jun 04, 2018
donstan18:


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg grin Go to religion section.
Lol... He no talk say e dey do shaku shaku with his girlfriend nau.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Tayor23(m): 2:55pm On Jun 04, 2018
[/quote]i dey envy you from a distance [quote author=Troubledmind post=68170950]I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me
Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by samyfreshsmooth(m): 3:13pm On Jun 04, 2018
mhisbliss:
You can't sit on the fence on this one, you must pick a side grin

angry
Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by okolet(m): 3:15pm On Jun 04, 2018
Follow your heart desire bro wink
Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Obinnau(m): 3:17pm On Jun 04, 2018
Gloryboy:

Lol... He no talk say e dey do shaku shaku with his girlfriend nau.
what do boyfriends and girlfriends do?

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Gloryboy(m): 3:23pm On Jun 04, 2018
Obinnau:
what do boyfriends and girlfriends do?
It doesn't mean it has to do about sex there are other things than sex in a relationship, it is just that the eyes of most guys are blocked to them.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by vincentjk(m): 3:24pm On Jun 04, 2018
experienced same when i was staying with my aunt in 2015 but the woman is still young, classy and rich so no regrets at all

I even met her at a burial 3weeks ago and she dashed me 20k which i used part of it to get my gf a present . so this is a chance for you..

Opportunity comes but once

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Flamezzz: 3:47pm On Jun 04, 2018
Gloryboy:

It doesn't mean it has to do about sex there are other things than sex in a relationship, it is just that the eyes of most guys are blocked to them.
Oga carry your realm of glory abi na underworld realm comot from here. Everything na to carry am enter church...over religious people, holier than pope.
Bia OP even your dad will be disappointed in you if you no shuku that woman. For crying out loud she ain't married. Your next thread should be on how you show am say no be by age grin

Or you can substitute your low performing self for G.O.A.T donstan18 , that 18 wey dey for back of his jersey na year wey he started slaying old mamas grin grin

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by donstan18: 3:53pm On Jun 04, 2018
Flamezzz:

Oga carry your realm of glory abi na underworld realm comot from here. Everything na to carry am enter church...over religious people, holier than pope.
Bia OP even your dad will be disappointed in you if you no shuku that woman. For crying out loud she ain't married. Your next thread should be on how you show am say no be by age grin

Or you can substitute your low performing self for G.O.A.T donstan18 , that 18 wey dey for back of his jersey na year wey he started slaying old mamas grin grin

Boss, why you dey whyn your boy nh! grin

At 18, I haven't started doing shaku-shaku with women, I was only doing Shuku-sheka grin grin

Your boy still dey loyal, after you na you grin

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Hector09(m): 4:00pm On Jun 04, 2018
U dont need help cus if u need help u could ve help urself, maybe u are enjoying the attention cus if not, any time she invite u, just dont honour her invitation, its as simple as that, when i was in jss2 to ss1 i was ones in ur shoes thankGod for my elder sister who was aware of it and she gave me guildlines, i we never advice u to sleep with an older woman thats the same age with ur mum

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Flamezzz: 4:05pm On Jun 04, 2018
donstan18:


Boss, why you dey whyn your boy nh! grin

At 18, I haven't started doing shaku-shaku with women, I was only doing Shuku-sheka grin grin

Your boy still dey loyal, after you na you grin

grin Lol. Which one be Shuku-Sheka I go like involve for that one too. grin

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Factfinder1(m): 4:12pm On Jun 04, 2018
God dey open door for this one he dey here dey shout please help are you mad

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Speakdatruth: 4:13pm On Jun 04, 2018
Persin no know wetin you women want sef

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by tenmariner: 4:13pm On Jun 04, 2018
See opportunity Mr Emma has bn looking for...this life...

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Based(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
You can do whatever with her, but i bet you, you aint gonna have a peaceful marriage with another lady around where she resides. This is danger son!

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by chuks34(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
damn cougars.
for me if she's rich, hot and sexy I wont mind at least its better than G+

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by samuelchimmy(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
yes we know you love your gf,but,this is a simple service you have to render to humanity,my GOD,cant you sense shes starved , dont let this woman hate you , i swear your conscience will never feel fine if you dont,i didnt say you dump your gf o,just render the service .

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by obowunmi(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
Collect her money, let her buy you a car, and give her some good loving.

She is lonely.

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by Benekruku(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me


Am really sorry o!

Very very sorry...

But truth be told, You are a dunce!

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by VanBommel(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
Oloshi ni bobo yi o. You see puna wey you go dey chop steady you come dey ask for advice. Nna no let thunder fire you o

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Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by PearlStreet(m): 4:15pm On Jun 04, 2018
Gloryboy:
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

Which glory she wan suck dry?

That's a woman in need. If he doesn't help her, God can punish him for refusing to help his neighbour in distress.

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