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donstan18:

But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg Go to religion section.

oboy.. you b confirm savage. ROFL

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

Why the fūck have you brought this kind of juvenile shīt here, what do you expect us to do, give you a pat on the back for resisting the devil?

That woman is not married for goodness sake, man up and pound the shīt out of that pūssy! when you were chopping her money you did not remember you have girlfriend abi?

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

Op you no be guy man at all. U don fall my hand. That ur girl way u no wan hurt is probably bleeping someone else right now.
Be smart. Life's for the smartest

donstan18:
Drop her number bruv.

I can set Whatsapp and Facebook for older women very well, I can even help them rub cream and take a selfie with their wet nipples.

Just permit me to be her midnight charger, so that you'll focus on your girlfriend.

LOL BRO, YOU GOT THAT RIGHT.

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

BRO YOU SHOULD RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU BUT THEN AGAIN I CAN HELP YOU IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO CHEAT OR LOOSE THE BENEFITS YOU GET FROM HER. SEND ME A PRIVATE MESSAGE SO I CAN GET HER DIGITS, SERVICE HER AND THEN WHATEVER SHE GIVES WELL SHARE ON A CONTRACT BASIS WITH A BUY OUT CLAUSE .

thank God something in you telling you the truth. I will eat and clean my mouth what of if the thing now hold you for neck. anyway their one road that look good but the end is destruction.

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

Be a man in this case, tell her to her face that your relationship with her is just a cordial one and you respect it that way.
Stop receiving gift from her because the more you receive the more she feels both of you are heading somewhere.
If you don't take time she will charm you and that's it, don't underestimate the power of a woman when it comes to love and emotions

frank41:
Opportunity kee oga
It that what you called
Opportunity that can kill ones destiny?

It helped me and didn't kill my destiny

May not work for another person i dunno

shineeye1:
Imagine a PIG talking of sense and brain!

its so obvious ur condition's deterioratin n it'l stil get worse cos ur brain damage is ireversible..sorry!

vincentjk:
You won't understand sha, what I've gained financially from her is just too much to say

That's cool. As long as you and the woman are both comfortable with the arrangement after all you are all adults, no one is forcing a my body, it's mutual. But I guess your girl friend will be bringing in more money than you since she will be with more richer older men. Do you sometimes feel intimidated or you guys are real understanding to each other?

Speakdatruth:
You're weird if you see nothing wrong in a woman of over 40 years hitting on a boy of 23 years esp in this part of Africa. Which kian urge be dat? She just wan use d boy as sex machine.

Talking about legit, women hit on guys for various reasons; money, fame and whatnot, but if the intention is sincere, that's cool.

do you do all these plenty analysis if it's a 40 year old man and a 23 year old girl? Which one again is "sincere" again in fvck?

MarieSucre:
do you do all these plenty analysis if it's a 40 year old man and a 23 year old girl? Which one again is "sincere" again in fvck?

That's why Beyonce was deceiving you girls by saying you run the world, 40 man to 23 girl issa goal and girls hitting on guys is not only for fu ck sake, it could be for closure or something stronger

MarieSucre:
That's cool. As long as you and the woman are both comfortable with the arrangement after all you are all adults, no one is forcing a my body, it's mutual. But I guess your girl friend will be bringing in more money than you since she will be with more richer older men. Do you sometimes feel intimidated or you guys are real understanding to each other?

She doesn't chase men around neither do i chase ladies, all i mean to say is i had an opportunity and i used it wisely

There was a time i told her i needed a phone, she gave me her Motorola droid turbo Which i dashed my gf because she had no phone though she doesn't know where i got the phone from( thinking i bought it)

I don't know why this simple logic seems hard to understand, abeg no put me in trouble o b4 i go talk wetin i no wan talk and if she mistakenly sees what I'm writing here then I'm in hot soup.

Troubledmind,

I'm trying so hard not to make this a tirade.

Think ahead 20 years in the future when you have kids and all, what kind of advice would you give your kids?

That same advice should be what you should follow.

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And if you're a Christian, very simple, What Would Jesus Do?

Take care man.

mimimile93:
Op you no be guy man at all. U don fall my hand. That ur girl way u no wan hurt is probably bleeping someone else right now.
Be smart. Life's for the smartest

He is still reasoning like a 15yr old boy

I've been going through the comments, and one thing I've noticed is that its mostly the females that are against the OP having a sexual relationship with this lady.

It got me wondering...doesn't it reek of double standards?

I mean, its acceptable and a norm for ladies to date men as old as their grandpas, fathers and even going as far as being second and third wives, yet: whenever the tables are turned, these same ladies play the moral card.

If this isn't hypocrisy, I don't know what is...

donstan18:

But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg Go to religion section.

I just tire... Not that the lady is even married sef People dey nack other men wives which i don't encourage but single lady.. The only difference is age no big deal. One question tho, assuming his so called girl was in same situation with an older rich man... She would prolly turn him to her uncle

Kingsley1000:
He is still reasoning like a 15yr old boy

Op might be 15yo oo..
A 23yo naija guy no fit behave this way.. Hear as e d talk about being faithful to one yeye girl wer d bleep even d op friends..

donstan18:

But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg Go to religion section.

The devil is using you mightily

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

pls direct her to me ASAP

Kingsteve:
I've been going through the comments, and one thing I've noticed is that its mostly the females that are against the OP having a sexual relationship with this lady.

It got me wondering...doesn't it reek of double standards?

I mean, its acceptable and a norm for ladies to date men as old as their grandpas, fathers and even going as far as being second and third wives, yet: whenever the tables are turned, these same ladies play the moral card.

If this isn't hypocrisy, I don't know what is...

We have many female hypocrites on nairaland,most of them are guilty of the woman's act

Troubledmind... I don't know if your story is true.
But lemme assume it is true sha.
So your girlfriend is cheating Ehh and you've met her guy "David".
Now you have the opportunity to cheat back, and you don't want to?
well, like I said, I don't believe this your story.
I'll be watching to see the next well thought story you would post here.
Guys, check the link below to know how he caught his cheating girlfriend.
https://www.nairaland.com/4529439/how-met-cheating-girlfriends-other

Troubledmind... I don't know if your story is true.
But lemme assume it is true sha.
So your girlfriend is cheating Ehh and you've met her guy "David".
Now you have the opportunity to cheat back, and you don't want to?
well, like I said, I don't believe this your story.
I'll be watching to see the next well thought story you would post here.
Guys, check the link below to know how he caught his cheating girlfriend.
https://www.nairaland.com/4529439/how-met-cheating-girlfriends-other

Gloryboy:
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

nigerian youths still get tomorrow?? All dese old politifiances don still our tomAo finish

Abeg tell her you have someone that is more handsome than you and with a huge long cock, that will like to sub you.
I promise to Bleep her every weekend for the rest of her life.
4 better round Saturday and Sunday.

Factfinder1:
God dey open door for this one he dey here dey shout please help are you mad

Don't mind him
He should Bleep that woman till she pass out.
Like say if na oyimbo woman from Facebook he for come here they talk this rubbish

donstan18:

But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg Go to religion section.

hahahahaha this guy is savage lol

story story it's always rubbing cream when will it be brushing teeth or pounding yam

Abeg check my signature for my number u fit text her number to me I can do the all of the above

Sex starved guys are so many here.

Fictitious threads driving them nuts.

Hector09:
U dont need help cus if u need help u could ve help urself, maybe u are enjoying the attention cus if not, any time she invite u, just dont honour her invitation, its as simple as that, when i was in jss2 to ss1 i was ones in ur shoes thankGod for my elder sister who was aware of it and she gave me guildlines, i we never advice u to sleep with an older woman thats the same age with ur mum

But if na white woman U go advise him to do in the name of yahoo yahoo?