henryleecom:
hello everyone, gat to say fantastic job u guys get going here. would really love an intake on this situation:

Today i went to a canteen at my work place to eat though i was low on cash, so i had to order half plate of rice then i sat waiting for my food, the waiter finally brought the food which was a full plate of rice so i called her attention to it to avoid any embarrassment after eating.

To my surprise while she was trying to change d plate a lady in the same canteen then told the waiter to return the food that she'd pay for the food, so i went over to her table and asked why she was paying which she didn't give me a straight answer to so i told her thank you and went to eat.
After eating i tried talking to her, asking what her name was and she was like she didn't pay for my food cause she wanted me to ask for her name then she paid and started rushing out, tried stopping her but she didn't oblige & am not d type to run after a lady so i let her go (all these while she never really gave me a eye contact, just focused on her phone).

thanks for d timely reply

cc harddon

a lot mistakes frm u.
u didnt specify if a scene was created btw u and d waiter which maybe caused d lady to wanna save u. even wen she said she wanted to pay, u shud ve stuck to ur half plate of rice and thank her fr her offer but reject it (it will send a curious signal to her brains as to why such a guy wil reject her offer). she saw it like she's doing u a favor.
ur 1st quesion to her killed n buried d whole setting. what wia u expecting her to reply?

take ur time and skim, scan, peruse thru d drills..

coleB:



a lot mistakes frm u.
u didnt specify if a scene was created btw u and d waiter which maybe caused d lady to wanna save u. even wen she said she wanted to pay, u shud ve stuck to ur half plate of rice and thank her fr her offer but reject it (it will send a curious signal to her brains as to why such a guy wil reject her offer). she saw it like she's doing u a favor.
ur 1st quesion to her killed n buried d whole setting. what wia u expecting her to reply?

take ur time and skim, scan, peruse thru d drills..

no sort of scene was created though.
thanks

henryleecom:


no sort of scene was created though.
thanks

Baba just act like it never happened..

Just continue doing your thing..

Next time you don't accept unnecessary favours and if you are forced to..

Just accept and ignore

No issues

henryleecom:


no sort of scene was created though.
thanks

If only you are in the picture about the great opportunity you just let lost .... If she is your type....

SENSE PILL

The best way to learn, to the wise, isn't from his mistakes but that of others.

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 144 :

It is said: " to make love work, one party must develop a deaf ear( guy) and the other party a blind eye(lady)". I say be so sleek that there would be no need for her blind eyes and while at it, have your ears to the ground. Just be matured enough to know what to respond to and what to ignore

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 145 :

The Natural man was not created to be faithful. This is the way of the crowd. HOWEVER, He who can bring Jrod to subjugation is MAN indeed!

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 145 :

The Natural man was not created to be faithful. This is the way of the crowd. HOWEVER, He who can bring Jrod to subjugation is MAN indeed!

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 146 :

Money and the good things of life are nothing but compliment to THE NATURAL woman. What she REALLY NEEDS is you.
For the first thing Adam met was work. The first thing Eve met was ....... guess what?

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 146 :

Money and the good things of life are nothing but compliment to THE NATURAL woman. What she REALLY NEEDS is you.
For the first thing Adam met was work. The first thing Eve met was ....... guess what?

Adam

DavidTheGeek:

Why are you going to her house? Why not invite her over to your place?

Telling her to expect "your" first kiss is a wrong move. It clearly tells her you've been thinking about kissing her and she's so not going to kiss you, just to make you give up your balls and chase her.

Even if you're dying to kiss her, you shouldn't give her that impression.

You're the boss, you're the prize, she should be the one craving to get a taste of you.

Tell her your lips is too sweet, you can't kiss her cuz too much sugar is bad for her health.

Thanks for that men.

HARDDON:


If only you are in the picture about the great opportunity you just let lost .... If she is your type....

SENSE PILL

The best way to learn, to the wise, isn't from his mistakes but that of others.

Would really like to know what ur advice is..
To learn from my mistakes

temi4fash:


Baba just act like it never happened..

Just continue doing your thing..

Next time you don't accept unnecessary favours and if you are forced to..

Just accept and ignore

No issues

Thanks man

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 146 :

Money and the good things of life are nothing but compliment to THE NATURAL woman. What she REALLY NEEDS is you.
For the first thing Adam met was work. The first thing Eve met was ....... guess what?

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 147 :


If Love can't communicate in Silence, it is not worth itz raves

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN, THE WAY FORWARD IS THE WAY BACKWARDS

For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets

Rather learn to set traps... Sassy/fun traps

To go forward, we must learn the act of going backwards

HARDDON:


...and she can sense that too from a thousand miles! Not only that, she can't trust your descretion too.


Smh for despirate heavy-on-heat lil lads.


Haven't you read: " with ladies, we must learn the act of going backwards in order to go swiftly forward? "

What so you think is the reason ladies deploy the act of playing HARD TO GET?

PLease bro help..wanna lay this bitch.

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 141 :

If it is easier to access her vJay than her b00bs, brotherly, your love seed is sown on a very wrong soil! Runnnnnnn!!!

My realest don, can you explain more on this sense pill.

.
I have to say since I joined nairaland, this is one of the best threads I've bumped into.....
...
I patiently started from page 1 - 192... and though I'm not a novice with women, Hardon and others who have been chipping in have really given me more enlightenment. ...
..
Remember this saying in mortal kombat? ...there's no knowledge that is not power..
..
It took me 1 full month to go through all those pages...
..
Thumbs up guys!!

banjicom:


My realest don, can you explain more on this sense pill.

Sense Pill
The head of the elephant is no play thing for the porcupine...

Zhahovic:

.
I have to say since I joined nairaland, this is one of the best threads I've bumped into.....
...
I patiently started from page 1 - 192... and though I'm not a novice with women, Hardon and others who have been chipping in have really given me more enlightenment. ...
..
Remember this saying in mortal kombat? ...there's no knowledge that is not power..
..
It took me 1 full month to go through all those pages...
..
Thumbs up guys!!

Glass up to those who can pay any price for knowledge.
You got mah mad Respect Gee!

However,
This thread is an appetizer and brushes the surface, our blog leaves no stone unturned. So call in .

Hard "mofucking" Don!!! Had to jump from page 8 all the way here. Shitt! The numb of pages I still gotta cover though. Seeing that these sense pills still runs into more than 140 when am only still at around 15 gives me palpitations but hey man i must confess that I never imagined I'd still be seeing you commenting at page 192....brother, you're doing an outrageously awesome job for nigerian niggaz that you're neither family with or close Friends with and no matter how many thanks I type on here, It'll still be nothing close to proportional . Kai baba , na youbbe the real definition of #brotherskeeper!!! Wtf!!! Look how many lives you done touched man ....and still touching .!!! Now you got me thinking and feeling like my scrotum is bigger cos of this #extra-ball sensation I'm having. #epon...#amu...hahahaaaaa....Hey bro am expressing gratitude now, but when its all said and done and I done had more balls than my trouser can accommodate when am done reading all the cool AF pages, you'd better be ready to go to the Penn....


Kai baba, me I know say your phone number done turn hotcake and you're screening calls and all that, and giving niggars your "other" line and friend zoning them wannabe greats to emails and stuff, baba me I must get your number ooooooooo.........WhatsApp is not a bad idea ooooooooo.....but it don't gotta be today,,,,but surely immawwanna azk....and I'll save it with J Hard' ************* lol!!!! Baba walahi I appreciate your existence ....... And finally you know what, along side you, Larry King, 50cent, Tyler The Creator, Serena Williams would have been just the other people, that meeting in the flesh would have been a dream come true!!!!! Canberra55 .......always remember that name ..... .

HARDDON:


Glass up to those who can pay any price for knowledge.
You got mah mad Respect Gee!

However,
This thread is an appetizer and brushes the surface, our blog leaves no stone unturned. So call in .

..
ok ill surely do that bro!

@ Canberra55


What a rave review!

These kinda poignant praises warm the mind, makes the head wano wear wings and take to the high heavens but then, a lil look at my Peacock legs n my heart remains humble!


"...You've never really lived until you've done something for someone that can't pay you back. "

That is one of my many life taglines.

Glad I could give a lil of me to life( motivation) and this thread would keep sailing on with fresh wine.

Glass up!

henryleecom:


Would really like to know what ur advice is..
To learn from my mistakes

1. Know that piece of paper money don't make a man and never get humble because you are short of cash.

The same aura n gait with which you glide through life when your account is smiling large, is the same gait you should ooze when you are a lil down financially.

2. Money is not piece of paper but ideas meshed with time and action.

Mistakes:

1. Asking her why she's paying. You just confirmed to her that you ordered half plate because you are broke. Instead of asking her this totally out of tune question, you should have let loose your wit and wisdom and take control of the situation while guiding her home ,swiftly, if you fance her.

2. Going over to her table after you've filled your pod to try n strike a convo. Gross. You can't be pocket down n be down in wits too.

Possible responses:

1. Huh? No ooo, I'm watching my height n the size of my bumbum. But if you insist, you have to come and share with me. Come over, dont be shy

2. No ooo, I cant finish the full plate. Chai, I wish I could! Atleast eat a lady's money for the very first time in my life! Hopefully, it wouldn't purge me

3. Huh? No oooo, half plate it is. If you really wano spend on me, not in here. Let's sit out leta in the evening. I've been looking forward to eating a lady's money

Etc.

HARDDON:


1. Know that piece of paper money don't make a man and never get humble because you are short of cash.

The same aura n gait with which you glide through life when your account is smiling large, is the same gait you should ooze when you are a lil down financially.

2. Money is not piece of paper but ideas meshed with time and action.

Mistakes:

1. Asking her why she's paying. You just confirmed to her that you ordered half plate because you are broke. Instead of asking her this totally out of tune question, you should have let loose your wit and wisdom and take control of the situation while guiding her home ,swiftly, if you fance her.

2. Going over to her table after you've filled your pod to try n strike a convo. Gross. You can't be pocket down n be down in wits too.

Possible responses:

1. Huh? No ooo, I'm watching my height n the size of my bumbum. But if you insist, you have to come and share with me. Come over, dont be shy

2. No ooo, I cant finish the full plate. Chai, I wish I could! Atleast eat a lady's money for the very first time in my life! Hopefully, it wouldn't purge me

3. Huh? No oooo, half plate it is. If you really wano spend on me, not in here. Let's sit out leta in the evening. I've been looking forward to eating a lady's money

Etc.

No one does it better than Don. Boss God bless you..!

Oga HARDDON and other Gees in the house. How do I handle this situation:
My girl slept over at my house yesterday after we studied our lecture notes. My room mate codedly left the room for us and we were alone. We were cuddling and talking nasty to turn up the sexual heat. After a while, she said that we are not going to have sex and that she wanted to cuddle only. That turned me off and then I ignored her and slept off. Am really furious now, but I made sure she did'nt notice. I feel de-balled by that statement. What to I do to show her who the boss is when I see her next time?
Thanks.

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

We are now back together... thanks hardon

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

We are now back 2gether. Thanks Hardon

We are now back 2gether. Thanks Hardon

It does not solve underlying issues.

Hope you have figured them out? And the way forward?

HARDDON:


1. Know that piece of paper money don't make a man and never get humble because you are short of cash.

The same aura n gait with which you glide through life when your account is smiling large, is the same gait you should ooze when you are a lil down financially.

2. Money is not piece of paper but ideas meshed with time and action.

Mistakes:

1. Asking her why she's paying. You just confirmed to her that you ordered half plate because you are broke. Instead of asking her this totally out of tune question, you should have let loose your wit and wisdom and take control of the situation while guiding her home ,swiftly, if you fance her.

2. Going over to her table after you've filled your pod to try n strike a convo. Gross. You can't be pocket down n be down in wits too.

Possible responses:

1. Huh? No ooo, I'm watching my height n the size of my bumbum. But if you insist, you have to come and share with me. Come over, dont be shy

2. No ooo, I cant finish the full plate. Chai, I wish I could! Atleast eat a lady's money for the very first time in my life! Hopefully, it wouldn't purge me

3. Huh? No oooo, half plate it is. If you really wano spend on me, not in here. Let's sit out leta in the evening. I've been looking forward to eating a lady's money

Etc.

WOW, thanks man. much appreciated.

really love the time and dedication u give to the thread.
More wit to ur reserve

HARDDON:



HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 147 :


If Love can't communicate in Silence, it is not worth itz raves

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 148 :

Don't flirt with who you can't flaunt

Mood

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 148 :

Don't flirt with who you can't flaunt

HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 149 :


1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

HARDDON:


HANDLING LOVE AND BALLS

SENSE PILL 149 :


1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

leocollins:






hardon good morning boss,please I need ur help there is a girl I met last week Friday and we talked,then she gave me her number,since then when I call her,she will be like she is busy that she will flash me when she is done ,but she will never flash back,another problem is that when we are chatting on whatapp she makes it boring by giving me monasylabbic chat no matter how hard I try to make it interesting. then all of a sudden she stop picking my calls and wont even call back.yesterday I saw I didn't wana talk to her but she came close and said hy,I asked her why she is behaving that way ,and why has she not be picking my class,she said she didn't know what to say to me,she didn't wana disappoint me anymore, then I asked her if am stalking her she should tell me ,then she said no,I told her okay no problem we will talk later then I left..hardon pls help how can I get this girl. help a brother out..thanks

bro stop acting needy else u r gonna kill d fun before it even started...my advice:Do urself some real good by going through this thread from the beginning and note the important points...
Thank me later bruh