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Social media evangelist and entrepreneur, Wale Aladejana decided to shake a relationship table. He took to his instagram page to point out how some men have missed their destiny helpers in Wife as they prefer to select their spouse base on the ability of being able to clean and cook very well, missing out on other virtues which in essence could have helped his destiny.

He said the virtues of cleaning and a good cook is no longer applicable in today's world. He used himself as an example, he said his wife is the General manager of his perfume company, she handles virtually most of the projects and in that way she is helping his destiny.

His full post:

#RelationshipSaturday
I am shaking a cultural table this morning and it has to do with certain criteria we have been taught to look out for in a woman.
For instance, one of the criteria of a good wife should be that she can cook and clean but looking at the world we live in today that's no longer applicable.
My wife is the General Manager for Sapphire Scents and she's brilliant at what she does. All I usually do is hand her the keys of a new project then I just check on what they do and things run better than I could have done it. She is helping my destiny in a way nobody can.
Imagine if all the attributes I saw in her was cooking and cleaning?! I have heard many men say " I can't eat unless it's my wife that cooks it" that is total, arrant nonsense!
If she can do it all good and well but its not a do or die affair, get a cook and a maid for your wife so she can eat when you eat. The truth is that not all women enjoying cooking but they just try their best because culture has said " a good woman must know how to cook"

Many men could have been wealthier today but they made their wife who would have been the chief strategist or accountant of their business a cook and a house help!
When God said He would give you a helper, He didn't mean a cook or a house help, He meant a destiny helper!
Please don't get me wrong if your wife loves to cook and clean that's great but don't make it the criteria for judging and deciding who she is, these are things that others can do better, find out the area of your life that woman has been assigned to help you and place her in that role!
I know many men are on this table but as I shake it may you vibrate with common sense in Jesus name.
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Thegeneralqueen are you a destiny helper or a destiny destroyer?

Help yourself. Nobody owe you any help in this m'dafvqin world.

Everyone should be in control of his/her destiny, not seeking for destiny helper.

Wow! That is interesting to hear this from a man. Biko I am a destiny helper and not a maid or cook.

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classylady:
Wow! That is interesting to hear this from a man. Biko I am a destiny helper and not a maid or cook.

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u dont unsterstand what is "distiny helper"

lemme tell u distiny helper is a kind of woman that moves moutain most of them are feminise you cannot easily impress them if the mistakenly fall for u ur the luckiest man alive

Tell them!
Good this is coming from a man.
Such a relieve to read something entirely different from s*x and kid's relationships everywhere

I found my destiny on my own ,didn't needed anyone's help in finding that, except God and I'm rocking it

cook me good food and sit your ass down

Fake Gucci

So his own destiny helper wears leg chain.... Smh

Headlesschicken:
So his own destiny helper wears leg chain.... Smh

does it matter, it is not about what she wears, it is about what is up stairs

Nothing like help mate o. I pray this my babe will be one o

Yes o, the bible calls her a virtuous woman

Well when most of our men are looking at marrying "Oyinbo" wife they don't consider if she can cook or clean, na destiny helper dem dey look for!

I have one gf who handles every aspect of my cork industry .

Well I disagree

Amen

While I do not believe in destiny, I would interpret what he is trying to say as compatibility with a potential spouse. Destiny is what you make of your opportunities and goals. If your potential spouse is compatible with your goals, go ahead and marry. Cooking could always be learnt.

Just the truth.

It's more like a partnership business.

I don't think that a billionaire Will be looking for a Destiny helper when looking for a wife

A destiny helper is a good cook.

Only??.....me na all in one i dey find ooo...asin all rounder

well, we only go for what we lack

most Nigerian ladies don't give a fucck about your destiny

but they are not Destiny killers though

Too much sense will not kill this man.


So sad that some Nigerian men would not add the word "destiny helper" to their list of wife material.


But I thought everyone's destiny is in their hands?So which one come be helper again?

Poverty mentality

ATT - Anything to trend

Lol, as a man I've already fixed my destiny all I need is someone to enjoy life with. Haba she not applying for a job, she's getting married mbok.

and what will a woman look for?

chairman00100:
I don't think that a billionaire Will be looking for a Destiny helper when looking for a wife

No amount of money can maintain a wicked woman that Wants to ruin you.

Macnnoli4:
Aj

Anthony Joshua?