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Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by correctbae: 10:51am On Jun 09, 2018
Social media evangelist and entrepreneur, Wale Aladejana decided to shake a relationship table. He took to his instagram page to point out how some men have missed their destiny helpers in Wife as they prefer to select their spouse base on the ability of being able to clean and cook very well, missing out on other virtues which in essence could have helped his destiny.

He said the virtues of cleaning and a good cook is no longer applicable in today's world. He used himself as an example, he said his wife is the General manager of his perfume company, she handles virtually most of the projects and in that way she is helping his destiny.

His full post:

#RelationshipSaturday
I am shaking a cultural table this morning and it has to do with certain criteria we have been taught to look out for in a woman.
For instance, one of the criteria of a good wife should be that she can cook and clean but looking at the world we live in today that's no longer applicable.
My wife is the General Manager for Sapphire Scents and she's brilliant at what she does. All I usually do is hand her the keys of a new project then I just check on what they do and things run better than I could have done it. She is helping my destiny in a way nobody can.
Imagine if all the attributes I saw in her was cooking and cleaning?! I have heard many men say " I can't eat unless it's my wife that cooks it" that is total, arrant nonsense!
If she can do it all good and well but its not a do or die affair, get a cook and a maid for your wife so she can eat when you eat. The truth is that not all women enjoying cooking but they just try their best because culture has said " a good woman must know how to cook"

Many men could have been wealthier today but they made their wife who would have been the chief strategist or accountant of their business a cook and a house help!
When God said He would give you a helper, He didn't mean a cook or a house help, He meant a destiny helper!
Please don't get me wrong if your wife loves to cook and clean that's great but don't make it the criteria for judging and deciding who she is, these are things that others can do better, find out the area of your life that woman has been assigned to help you and place her in that role!
I know many men are on this table but as I shake it may you vibrate with common sense in Jesus name.
You too can be a social media evangelist. Please share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed.

#YearofTheNew #BillionNairaMark #JesusDidIt #ThankYouJesus

Source: https://correct.com.ng/dont-select-wife-base-on-she-cleans-and-cook-well-look-out-for-other-criteria-that-will-help-your-destiny-many-men-have-missed-their-destiny-helper-social-media-evangelist-walejana-says/

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Cutehector(m): 10:54am On Jun 09, 2018
Thegeneralqueen are you a destiny helper or a destiny destroyer? cheesy

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by IamD18: 10:55am On Jun 09, 2018
Help yourself. Nobody owe you any help in this m'dafvqin world.

Everyone should be in control of his/her destiny, not seeking for destiny helper.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by classylady(f): 11:16am On Jun 09, 2018
Wow! That is interesting to hear this from a man. Biko I am a destiny helper and not a maid or cook.

Get rid of the body odour that is threatening your marriage. Click on the link for more info. http://facebook.com/annasbeautyville

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by DOUBLEWAHALA: 11:33am On Jun 09, 2018
classylady:
Wow! That is interesting to hear this from a man. Biko I am a destiny helper and not a maid or cook.

Get rid of the body odour that is threatening your marriage. Click on the link for more info. http://facebook.com/annasbeautyville
u dont unsterstand what is "distiny helper"

lemme tell u distiny helper is a kind of woman that moves moutain most of them are feminise you cannot easily impress them if the mistakenly fall for u ur the luckiest man alive

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Mcy56(f): 1:36pm On Jun 09, 2018
Tell them!
Good this is coming from a man.
Such a relieve to read something entirely different from s*x and kid's relationships everywhere sad

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by lilmax(m): 1:55pm On Jun 09, 2018
I found my destiny on my own ,didn't needed anyone's help in finding that, except God and I'm rocking it

cook me good food and sit your ass down

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by dederocs(m): 5:08pm On Jun 09, 2018
Fake Gucci

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Headlesschicken(m): 5:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
undecided So his own destiny helper wears leg chain.... Smh

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Famousqueen(f): 6:35pm On Jun 09, 2018
Headlesschicken:
undecided So his own destiny helper wears leg chain.... Smh
does it matter, it is not about what she wears, it is about what is up stairs undecided

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 09, 2018
Nothing like help mate o. I pray this my babe will be one o

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Macnnoli4(m): 7:23pm On Jun 09, 2018
Yes o, the bible calls her a virtuous woman

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Pavore9: 7:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
Well when most of our men are looking at marrying "Oyinbo" wife they don't consider if she can cook or clean, na destiny helper dem dey look for! cheesy cheesy

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by davillian(m): 7:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
I have one gf who handles every aspect of my cork industry grin.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by zombieHUNTER: 7:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
Well I disagree

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by wickyyolo: 7:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
Amen
Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by boolet: 7:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
While I do not believe in destiny, I would interpret what he is trying to say as compatibility with a potential spouse. Destiny is what you make of your opportunities and goals. If your potential spouse is compatible with your goals, go ahead and marry. Cooking could always be learnt.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by lawrence35(m): 7:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
Just the truth.

It's more like a partnership business.
Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by chairman00100: 7:28pm On Jun 09, 2018
I don't think that a billionaire Will be looking for a Destiny helper when looking for a wife

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Idrismusty97(m): 7:28pm On Jun 09, 2018
A destiny helper is a good cook.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Bossontop(m): 7:28pm On Jun 09, 2018
grin cheesy
Only??.....me na all in one i dey find ooo...asin all rounder

Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by omoadeleye(m): 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
well, we only go for what we lack
Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by slawomir: 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
most Nigerian ladies don't give a fucck about your destiny

but they are not Destiny killers though

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
Too much sense will not kill this man.


So sad that some Nigerian men would not add the word "destiny helper" to their list of wife material.


But I thought everyone's destiny is in their hands?So which one come be helper again?

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by deebsman1(m): 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
Poverty mentality

ATT - Anything to trend

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Appliedmaths(m): 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lol, as a man I've already fixed my destiny all I need is someone to enjoy life with. Haba she not applying for a job, she's getting married mbok.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by chairman00100: 7:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
and what will a woman look for?

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Wiseandtrue(f): 7:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
As long as your wife enjoys what she is doing carry go!

As long as you both have an understanding

Whatever works for both of you is good

What I detest is men forcing their wives to be what they are not or do what they detest

It's a NO NO

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by Maket: 7:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
chairman00100:
I don't think that a billionaire Will be looking for a Destiny helper when looking for a wife
No amount of money can maintain a wicked woman that Wants to ruin you.

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Re: Look Out For Destiny Helper When Selecting Wife, Not Good Cook - Wale Aladejana by omoadeleye(m): 7:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
Macnnoli4:
Aj

Anthony Joshua?

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