MrBrownJay1:


as a proper stingy man, let me get you a glass of tap water instead, its more refreshing (and suited) for such discussion, lol!

Hahahahahaha

oluwashedy:
Its so pathetic that the moment you don't give them gifts or money, they tag you broke and stingy

its the blackmail associated with giving..... they use the words "broke/stingy" because many men hear these words and their ego is damaged, thus they would do whatever to repair their bruised ego (even giving when they are not ready/willing to do so).

next time a babe call you broke, reply to her that:"yes i am proudly broke/stingy, and if you were not just as broke as i am, then you buy this BS yourself?!"

lefulefu2:
the last point u just hit on...even if u buy her affection with money all she will give u is fake love. The money d money reduce or a richer nigga comes along d babe babe will dump u.dats just the basic fact. Its important u have a woman who will always give u her geniune support anytime anyday. U need a gennuine woman to give u her support in case anything goes wrong. There have been cases of some wives conniving with their lovers to murder their rich husbands or to kidnap dem for ransome. Thats what happens when u marry a woman who is only interested in ur money.

Bro the hustling is real for the hustlers. They are everywhere. Guess what? The guys ain't making matters any better. Some *man foul" will still tag us broke for saying the obvious...

MrBrownJay1:


its the blackmail associated with giving..... they use the words "broke/stingy" because many men hear these words and their ego is damaged, thus they would do whatever to repair their bruised ego (even giving when they are not ready/willing to do so).

next time a babe call you broke, reply to her that:"yes i am proudly broke/stingy, and if you were not just as broke as i am, then you buy this BS yourself?!"

Word bro.
Calling a guy broke and stingy for same stuffs you couldn't get for yourself. One wonders who is more broke and or stingy.
The blackmail part is one area some women have PhD.

ogmask:


Bro the hustling is real for the hustlers. They are everywhere. Guess what? The guys ain't making matters any better. Some *man foul" will still tag us broke for saying the obvious...

ehn but then the same dudes that will tag other guys as broke wen u try to reason with them.but wen d girl don use dem to her satisfaction they will then come to social media to cry that they spent 200k, 500k on a girl but she still dumped them to marry another man. Everything for this life na sense dem dey take do am.

ogmask:


One hustler sighted.

Hustle kee you there

Oyindidi:
Hustle kee you there

1 Olosho spotted. Welcome miss feminist

lefulefu2:
ehn but then the same dudes that will tag other guys as broke wen u try to reason with them.but wen d girl don use dem to her satisfaction they will then come to social media to cry that they spent 200k, 500k on a girl but she still dumped them to marry another man. Everything for this life na sense dem dey take do am.

Yes ooo serious sense. Pray you do not meet those girls with master's degree in blackmail. They will curse you till you spend your last kobo and then become truly broke.

ogmask:

In reply to @shugavee (broke guys shouldn't toast babes), I have this to say.
It takes more than words of mouth to approach a lady as a broke nigga. That a guy is broke doesn't mean he has no ambition. Infact, being broke and still have the guts to toast a woman means the guy knows what he wants.
Whoever said ambition has to do with money and material things alone. A girl's ambition could be to raise a broke guy from the floor. Likewise a guys ambition could be to find happiness and love before anything else. So many ways leads to success and happiness.
You just can't draw a line and call it a standard.
I have a friend who today is a big boy. He met his wife when he couldn't even afford a stick of cigarette for himself. She was already working with Chevron then. She practically packaged him and today they have 3 kids with my guy on the driver's seat. She has since left chevron traveling around the world with her husband's wealth.
Whoever said being broke is equal to being sad and reclusive. One way you know a man that has ambition is when he sees beyond his present state. Toasting a woman, especially the financially strong ones, is no mean feat. That's one way you know a man who knows what he wants in life.
If you can't toast a woman when you are broke how then do you think you can defend your territory (her interest) when the money comes.

she did all dat without complaining of him been a broken Ass, but if is d oda way round, u will see dem guys tagging ladies name . Luv is all about sacrifices, but sum pple no go agree bcus dey re selfish.

ogmask:

In reply to @shugavee (broke guys shouldn't toast babes), I have this to say.
It takes more than words of mouth to approach a lady as a broke nigga. That a guy is broke doesn't mean he has no ambition. Infact, being broke and still have the guts to toast a woman means the guy knows what he wants.
Whoever said ambition has to do with money and material things alone. A girl's ambition could be to raise a broke guy from the floor. Likewise a guys ambition could be to find happiness and love before anything else. So many ways leads to success and happiness.
You just can't draw a line and call it a standard.
I have a friend who today is a big boy. He met his wife when he couldn't even afford a stick of cigarette for himself. She was already working with Chevron then. She practically packaged him and today they have 3 kids with my guy on the driver's seat. She has since left chevron traveling around the world with her husband's wealth.
Whoever said being broke is equal to being sad and reclusive. One way you know a man that has ambition is when he sees beyond his present state. Toasting a woman, especially the financially strong ones, is no mean feat. That's one way you know a man who knows what he wants in life.
If you can't toast a woman when you are broke how then do you think you can defend your territory (her interest) when the money comes.

she did all dat without complaining of him been a broken Ass, but if is d oda way round, u will see dem guys tagging ladies name . Luv is all about sacrifices, but sum pple no go agree bcus dey re selfish.

Selfish ATI take over

Or perhaps misplaced priorities

fancy4eve:
she did all dat without complaining of him been a broken Ass, but if is d oda way round, u will see dem guys tagging ladies name . Luv is all about sacrifices, but sum pple no go agree bcus dey re selfish.

Selfish ATI take over

Sacrifice is reciprocal..

a true lady wud support her man thru thick and thin even if he is broke as long as he ain't lazy and a real man will work his ass out to make it. I will say it a again. money doesn't make a relationship or marriage work cos if it does no rich couple will divorce worldwide.

wit d rate ladies are after rich guys, d funny thing take Nigeria for example 90percent of men even the ones dat are made still believe they are hustling. so if the men now decide dat it is wen they have enuf money they will marry, most of our ladies no go see husband becos even someone earning 6figures will tell his friend he is still hustling

MrBrownJay1:


its the blackmail associated with giving..... they use the words "broke/stingy" because many men hear these words and their ego is damaged, thus they would do whatever to repair their bruised ego (even giving when they are not ready/willing to do so).

next time a babe call you broke, reply to her that:"yes i am proudly broke/stingy, and if you were not just as broke as i am, then you buy this BS yourself?!"

I've had terrible experience with these set of girls especially where inschool.... A girl that can't even afford to sub her fone would call you broke. These days when I sense you're broke, I run

ogmask:


Sadly, it has eaten deep into their skin.

They won't go far with such attitude

oluwashedy:
They won't go far with such attitude

Some of them seem to SUCCEED in their craft.

ekanempatrick28:
a true lady wud support her man thru thick and thin even if he is broke as long as he ain't lazy and a real man will work his ass out to make it. I will say it a again. money doesn't make a relationship or marriage work cos if it does no rich couple will divorce worldwide.

Bro , you can say it again and again.

ogmask:

Some of them seem to SUCCEED in their craft.

Its ephemeral

oluwashedy:
I've had terrible experience with these set of girls especially where inschool.... A girl that can't even afford to sub her fone would call you broke. These days when I sense you're broke, what i do run

Broke babes calling guys broke. Feminism as defined by a vocal minority..

oluwashedy:
Its ephemeral

That's hoping all parties involved deemphasize money play.

ogmask:


Broke babes calling guys broke. Feminism as defined by a vocal minority..

Laughing out loud

Guy you are so so on point. Keep it up