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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by chris31(m): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.
U got it wrong u need to change that mentality
Been bold & open minded doesn't make u a slot or cheap
Some guys will love a lady but may be shy or afraid to summon courage to approach the lady in this case when u notice the sign u have to take the bold step by helping him out
Remember some guys are good while some are bad u pray to fall into the goods ones

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2018
erico2k2:

Not really, I think it depends on the crowd you are into, back in my Uni days, I was asked out, and I also know few guys who where as well, ladies would ask if the guy oozes and appeal that swing their way. If you are not in that school of thought then you have not met a guy that you will really want especially if you have a full proof way of knowing they are single entirely.
OK fair enough...
so I'm guessing you are happily married with kids to that lady who asked you out first ... right?
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:42am On Jun 14, 2018
FemiEddy:

grin whats wif u nd beards na grin
femi my baby cheesy bawo ni
just think its sexy AF grin don't worry I know u ain't got non.. you are safe..

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:43am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

OK fair enough...
so I'm guessing you ate happily married with kids to that lady who asked you out first ... right?
cheesygrin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by valdes00(m): 9:43am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



Bros, no vex oo... Any babe do u strong thing before...
Cos this ur para no be ordinary oo
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:44am On Jun 14, 2018
sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!
Issorites! Just know that some guys love being asked out sha. One man's meat is another man's poison
Sinaj my everyday crush.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:45am On Jun 14, 2018
chris31:

U got it wrong u need to change that mentality
Been bold & open minded doesn't make u a slot or cheap
Some guys will love a lady but may be shy or afraid to summon courage to approach the lady in this case when u notice the sign u have to take the bold step by helping him out
Remember some guys are good while some are bad u pray to fall into the goods ones

its not her mentality that needs to change it the country mentality as a whole ... don't blame ladies who won't approach its the way some guys act after the being told ...
if this was like the west ... yes by all means go for it...
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:45am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard.... not worth the risk grin
You and this Beard of a thing lmao.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Fraiser(m): 9:46am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I love beard gang too but not the goat looking type, they're scary
lamo!!
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Fraiser(m): 9:46am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I love beard gang too but not the goat looking type, they're scary
lmao!!
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:47am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

cheesygrin
morning beautiful cheesy

waiting for that guy to come and lie for us...
I bet my left yansh he didn't marry that girl ..with all the boldness oozing out of her cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:49am On Jun 14, 2018
Most nigerian ladies have overbloated egos.
The world doesn't revolve around you!
Man up. You can handle rejection.
Him asking you out doesn't mean the relationship might last.
You asking him out doesn't mean you are cheap.
Most of you just want to be chased. And you even have the temerity to play hard to get and the audacity to expect him to handle rejection.
Yet you can't handle rejection because you feel that just because you have a vagina, men should run after you.

Ps:only a foolish boy will look down on you.

Go, get what/who you want.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:50am On Jun 14, 2018
Holamscoh:


You and this Beard of a thing lmao.
even in the biblical days it was a trend ... didn't u see how Eve lost her mind and gave Adam Apple ..

my dear its the beard ... making ladies sin since 18bc grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by AntiPonzihater: 9:50am On Jun 14, 2018
imitateMe:
No matter how classy the girl is, she'd look cheap and worthless to him.
The more you try to seduce a man, the more worthless and disgusting you'll seem to him.
However, playing hard to get doesn't raise your standards - it only postpones your 'heartbreak day'.
If you know you know!
Sense will not kill you cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:51am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard....
not worth the risk grin


of all attributes ..... if naa to plasta wig for jaws no wahala,


so pained ...... cry cry cry
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:51am On Jun 14, 2018
weyreypey:

So you cannot share preek with fellow women?

sad see your life..
sad
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by dxpecial(m): 9:52am On Jun 14, 2018
GrammarNazi1:

...some guys love...
boss I don dey see you for this forum u dey correct any single error in a statement make I cum learn English for una side
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:52am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

morning beautiful cheesy

waiting for that guy to come and lie for us...
I bet my left yansh he didn't marry that girl ..with all the boldness oozing out of her cheesy
hahaha,don't mind them.cheesy

all them saying theyr were wooed by a lady, didn't end up with them.
I can bet my left nyash on that.grin
morning sis.smiley
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:52am On Jun 14, 2018
ericsmith:



of all attributes ..... if naa to plasta wig for jaws no wahala,


so pained ...... cry cry cry
Eric not bad ...not bad at all
u have a goatie ...... if u need full one I can refer u

but it will cost grin
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

even in the biblical days it was a trend ... didn't u see how Eve lost her mind and gave Adam Apple ..

my dear its the beard ... making ladies sin since 18bc grin

Wow that's awesome dearie. Do have a blissful wonderful day.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 9:54am On Jun 14, 2018
sinaj:
Yaaaaawns!

Issorites!
Just know that some guys love being asked out sha.
One man's meat is another man's poison
Correct mama you tiri much.Actually I like being asked out by women,it turns me on.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by CAPSLOCKED: 9:55am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls


IF YOU'RE WITH I AND THE BOYS THERE'S NOTHING YOU WON'T HEAR. YOU'LL CONCLUDE WE'RE THE BIGGEST HOOLIGANS.. BUT THAT'S JUST WHAT BOYS DO WHEN THEY'RE TOGETHER AND NOT HAVING IMPORTANT THINGS TO DISCUSS.
AFTER ALL THE RAZZ TALK IN THE GROUP, EACH ONE OF US ARE LOVELY AND COMMITED IN OUR OWN DIFFERENT WAYS.
JUDGE A BOY BASED ON WHAT YOU HEARD IN THEIR GROUP AT YOUR OWN PERIL. IT'S MOSTLY JUST MADE UP NEWS, NOTHING SERIOUS.
WHO TOLD YOU THEY THOUGHT YOU WEREN'T LISTENING? HAHA. YOU DON'T KNOW US.



i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

THE MAIN REASON YOU BROUGHT THIS HERE.

WE DEAL WITH BACK AND FORTH REJECTIONS ALL OUR LIVES AS MALES. MANY GIRLS CELEBRATE AND APPLAUD THEIR FRIENDS FOR TURNING DOWN AND EMBARRASSING A BOY.. REJECTING MALES IS LIKE A SPORT FOR YOU. YOU'LL RATHER REJECT A BOY YOU LIKE COUNTLESSLY JUST BECAUSE YOU ENJOY HIM CRAWLING FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
SUDDENLY, ALL THE GIRLS IN THAT CATEGORY AGREE THAT IT IS UNJUST AND EVIL FOR A BOY TO TURN DOWN A GIRL.

WEIRD THING IS, YOU'RE UNHAPPY THAT HE TURNED HER DOWN BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LIKE HER, BUT YOU'LL BE THE SAME PERSON TO DRUM "BOYS ARE SCUM" ALL DAY IF HE HAD JUST PRETENDED TO ACCEPT HER (IN ORDER TO NOT HURT HER FEELINGS) AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION.

YOU PEOPLE ARE CONFUSED.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by AntiPonzihater: 9:56am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
Okirika girl, see what I'm saying?
What he means to say in plain text English is that, "the 'likeness' has for him should not be same for all." Exclusivity.
I mean, who the hell likes a keziah?
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Chomzy19(f): 9:56am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



I hope you find peace.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 9:56am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

hahaha,don't mind them.cheesy

all them saying theyr were wooed by a lady, didn't end up with them.
I can bet my left nyash on that.grin
morning sis.smiley
and the ladies chatting shit

ask them how many guys they have asked out ....

ask them o
people confuse reality and dreams .....

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 9:57am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



baba you just scatter my low cut hair hia.We need progressive thinking men like in this country.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by bembem93(m): 9:57am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise.
She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them.

>A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor.
>A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on.

If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship.
If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship.

You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant.

You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected.

M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.
Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship.
Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them.


Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact the men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell?

Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you.

You all should have some sense!!
If possible, borrow sense on credit!!



nice one.. but e no go change some ideology
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 10:00am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

and the ladies chatting shit

ask them how many guys they have asked out ....

ask them o
people confuse reality and dreams .....
You deh mind NL ladies,all for the pretense.cheesy

sis, I careless.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 10:03am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

You deh mind NL ladies,all for the pretense.cheesy

sis, I careless.
I couldn't even careless grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 10:03am On Jun 14, 2018
to ask a guy out is cool just be sure uve seen d green signs that he feels ur vibes too.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 10:04am On Jun 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
If I like a guy enough to make the first move, I would.Damn the consequences.
if to say I for marry in this lifetime, I for marry you.Babe wet head dey dia
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:05am On Jun 14, 2018
adesina746:


My sister honestly the most important thing is prayer wether a lady ask a man out or a man ask a lady out if they will be inlove they sure will and if they will fall out of luv they sure will too. The only thing i see is that most ladies in general fail to understand men and how to relate with me.

First and foremost never see yourself as equal to men no matter how successful u may b always see d man as your head

Second is submissiveness learn to be submissive as a lady

Thirdly do not date a man for only good looks compatiblity matters a lot be sure you both are compatible and on the same page in at least 80% of your idea
My zodiac sign is aquarius and such women expect men that can treat them as equals.I am not a religious person so I expect an egalitarian relationship from my spouse not a master slave one.
I am equal to him.

As for the second submissiveness must be mutual you submit I submit it is part of the egalitarian relationship.

As for your third advice I agree.

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