dingbang:
you tell me..seems you now know the statistics of men that calls women olosho

Abeg. Let me waka pass.

Pataricatering:
all that one is story abeg ! Men have made women’s sexuality a prize - she loves sea while he gains - so she might as well monetize it ! She does free - prostitute , she doesn’t do free - prostitute ! Same , same !

men this, men that..why live your life on the perceptions of men

Pataricatering:
no I haven’t had sex with you - it’s pretty obvious that I was generalizing and not talking about you in particular !

don't generalize until you have had sex with every male being in the world

Pataricatering:
all that one is story abeg ! Men have made women’s sexuality a prize - she loves sea while he gains - so she might as well monetize it ! She does free - prostitute , she doesn’t do free - prostitute ! Same , same!

Thank you. To a staggering lot of men, the bolded is true.

dingbang:
no Naah..I meant a stable girl

Ohkay.

dingbang:
what's the meaning if ashawo? Is it not a woman who collects money for sex? Its her job so its not something she hides from and she shouldn't be offended when called such.

If something is used as an insult, by its nature an insult is meant to cause offence. Do asking someone to not get offended at an insult is preposterous. Why not ask your fellows guys if they're calling women ashewo/olosho as an insult or as a compliment? I Let the onus be on them to change the narrative not women.

MissJoy29:

I see. No insult for the men who patronise them huh?

well you should know, as a woman, dont you?! what do you insult men who fukc prostitutes?!

in my world they are called John/customers.... what are they called in yours?

I'm just here to read her fellow ashawos' comments.
They never disappoint

But why is it so hard for an ashawo to accept that she is an ashawo?
most guys that pay for sex don't hide it, in fact they feel on top of the world if they can useless pussies because they are in possession of good cash.

not all men patronize ashawos ...
not all girls are ashawos...


if you are a female in support of the lady, you are most probably an ashawo..

if you're not okay with the name ashawo then you're certainly not proud of your job and if you are not proud of your job it means you don't like it or there's something wrong with it that is affecting you one way or the other and if your job is not good for you, look for another job and stop fighting your customers(males).

modified.
one MarieSucre is advocating for a different title ...let's use a more official or legal title "prostitute", so please do me the favour of replacing ashawo with "prostitute".
in the end, you will find that the problem isn't with the title but the job..any title given to it will end up sounding like an insult.
thanks...

fuckerstard:
Is it demand? Jejely i dey waka go my own with my money sleeping in my pocket on the the streets of ikeja.. Na him i hear one fine yellow babe telling me, bros carry me go your house now. i go do all kinds of play for you.. Just gimme 10K..

That's demand right there..

With all these cosmetics abi na filter sef, it's hard to conclude

That's marketing and it's allow in the law of demand and supply

VampireeM:


double standard on your part with this comment. Maybe you should tell your fellow male folks that

E pain amm

engrelvis:
nobody bleep ladies for free these days.is d degree of spending dat differ

Lol..Who told you some guys are not fucking ladies for free. Bro, that shows how inexperienced you are with women
Changed your mentality and mindset.
When a woman especially an experience slay queen notice you are the kind of guy who feel he has to spend lot of money on a lady in order to sleep with her, she'll quickly play along with that and make sure you spend the cash on her...
..I don't spend money on women in order to Bleep them, never. Instead I spend my money on myself and look more attractive as a man. I invest my money. I used my money to get more money.

I sweat to make my money so I spend it wisely..
Be wise bro.

JossyOloye:

E pain amm

no mind the cow oo.. She think say she worth my mention

amazon14:


And so says the unrepentant OLOSHO patronizer

The same insue at hand and you are already label olosh for saying the truth. Nawa for una

.. If you don't want to be called an ashawo,then stop collecting money for sex. Its not every girl that is called ashawo.

MarieSucre:


Who will she blame? During the codeine crisis, do you blame the codeine or the customers who buy it? Do you blame the manufacturers of codeine for manufacturing such an addictive drug or the customers who carry their two leg to buy it thereby fueling demand?

It's hilarious how you call women olosho but forget that without men buying sex there will be no women selling it. I have lived among religious men who do not even shake women, you cannot see or hear that there are ashewos in their neighbourhood. Mosquitoes do not come if there is no stagnant water or open door. Go and advice your fellow men.

.. She can as well tag those men with a befitting name and stop blaming others for her irresponsible way of life

Yes because we love prostitutes. Take it or take it.

MarieSucre:


You made sense but ended up insulting women. She is right. She is not trying to justify prostitution. She is trying to tell men that insult women as prostitute that they should think. You call a toilet dirty but it's your bum-bum that dirties it. Who is really dirty? Hope you understand the point now.

Yeah....I understood her point from the very begining...


What I am tryna imply is,, prostitution is so bad that it shouldn't be justified with anything,, from her reasoning,, the people in it will continue in it and the people patronizing the people in it will see a reason to continue.....


Also,,I never generalized the "Dumb ladies",, it is just like saying "Muderers everywhere",, whilst knowing you ain't one.

pocohantas:


Free ke? The ones that give free, you guys still call them cheap.
So much talk of how they can be gotten with few words, indomie, egg and zobo.

Not everyone will give you things for free
Some girls are capitalist.

sex is never free even in marriage is not free.. the day a husband fails to discharge his responsibility as a husband/father that's the end of good sex..

EgunMogaji:


Please, what’s the name of the street?

Uhmm bros..

MyOpinion1:

That's marketing and it's allow in the law of demand and supply

Indeed it is, LOL �

Deltayankeeboi:
Can't you make a comment without having to put up insult. Why do you have to be aggressive. Be happy for a moment.

cant you reply a comment without sounding like an overly sensitive wimp with self esteem issues

fuckerstard:


Uhmm bros..

It's not for my personal gain but for professional research.

MrBrownJay1:


well you should know, as a woman, dont you?! what do you insult men who fukc prostitutes?!

in my world they are called John/customers.... what are they called in yours?

In my eyes, they are called: classless, cheap, loose, etc.
In fact, they should be called same as the people they patronise: ashawo.

Especially the ones that do in secret & bash in the open.

iLegendd:
TRUTH

Nice guys will not like this.
No game, no ball.
Here I am and a woman just messaged me for sex and I humbly declined. Sadly, there are men paying for it out there. #SMH.

excuse me, you a lesbian or what?

MissJoy29:

True talk. The two parties are to be blamed. It's definitely not ok for a woman to sell her body for money. But it's the height of hypocrisy and double standards for the men who patronise these prostitutes to still call them names and slut-shame them.

Inasmuch as both parties are to be blamed, I think it's up to the men to put a stop to it. If they all agree to stop patronising them (which will NEVER happen), they will go out of business.

This doesn't make sense to anyone even without an inkling of logicality. How can the Barton of responsibility to abort prostitution rest solely on men, the patrons/customers ?

It didn't occur to you that the sole reason girls glide into it in the first place is for their own selfish desires and avaricious lust to amass coins for survival due to laziness and hence can't engage in a more honourable labouring endeavor? Don't even give me such atrocious lie that they do it because men demand it, surely I don't wanna believe our women are that daft and have fallen off the rationality ladder.

We all know naturally women lack altruism, women are more selfish, they don't care. Men care more ,so women couldn't be doing men a favour selling themselves cheaply to men. When favor is discussed it is men the patrons doing women a favor by patronising them. What i see here is same ol needless gender squabbles women portray and failing to take responsibility for their own faulty actions.

Weigh the cons, men only seek pleasure($ex) after which they part with their own money.... One phased-pleasure(although wrong too)

Women seek money and s.ex ,.. dual pleasure lol.

If you ask me in ascribing blame. I think it's a 80℅ for women and 20% for men. Just like a drug peddler peddling cocaine, the crime fighting authorities gets him arrested first to wade off customers. In like manner, if prostitution were to be a crime,then I don't think the authorities would arrest men,the patrons of prostitution. Some of you women have really degenerated to the lowest scums of the earth with single digit IQs ,forcing reasonable handles to remain guest members on Nairaland. Look at this disgraceful thread with all female monikers taking turns supporting this dumbness in glee.

Shivers!!

MarieSucre:


Who will she blame? During the codeine crisis, do you blame the codeine or the customers who buy it? Do you blame the manufacturers of codeine for manufacturing such an addictive drug or the customers who carry their two leg to buy it thereby fueling demand?

It's hilarious how you call women olosho but forget that without men buying sex there will be no women selling it. I have lived among religious men who do not even shake women, you cannot see or hear that there are ashewos in their neighbourhood. Mosquitoes do not come if there is no stagnant water or open door. Go and advice your fellow men.

to be frank with you, you sound so dumb and childish.

are you trying to say that as a woman, you have no say when men come for you?

so if a man tells you to jump down from a three storey building and he will pay you, you're telling me you will jump instantly?

damn!!!

just accept the money, pull off and lay on your back, and let's get this thing over with... like a _whore is supposed to, okay...?

don't come and be justifying your _whoring tendencies.

a _whore will always be a _whore.

and like dr. dre said, you can never make a _ho' a housewife.

MarieSucre:


Who will she blame? During the codeine crisis, do you blame the codeine or the customers who buy it? Do you blame the manufacturers of codeine for manufacturing such an addictive drug or the customers who carry their two leg to buy it thereby fueling demand?

It's hilarious how you call women olosho but forget that without men buying sex there will be no women selling it. I have lived among religious men who do not even shake women, you cannot see or hear that there are ashewos in their neighbourhood. Mosquitoes do not come if there is no stagnant water or open door. Go and advice your fellow men.

very nice point, but sadly you forgot the main point here..... and that IS: if there was NO ashewos out there, who would these men pay to have sex (if not their own wives)? again, you certainly cant blame just one party when talking about prostitution NOR cheating. as i could well say that if women were not gladly sleeping with married men, then there would be NO cheating in this world (but we all know that there are 2 culprits here)

the reality is that, many women sell their bodies because they are LAZY/CHEAP and opening their legs is (to them) a quick way to get paid....whether there are men willing to pay for it (or not)

MissJoy29:

In my eyes, they are called: classless, cheap, loose, etc.
In fact, they should be called same as the people they patronise: ashawo.

Especially the ones that do in secret & bash in the open.

fair enough...

PreciousBro:


This doesn't make sense to anyone even without an inkling of logicality. How can the Barton of responsibility to abort prostitution rest solely on men, the patrons/customer ?

It didn't occur to you that the sole reason girls glide into it in the first place is for their own selfish desires and avaricious lust to amass coins for survival due to laziness and hence can't engage in a more honourable labouring endeavor? Don't even give me such atrocious lie that they do it because men demand it, surely I don't wanna believe our women are that daft and have fallen off the rationality ladder.

We all know naturally women lack altruism, women are more selfish, they don't care. Men care more ,so women couldn't be doing men a favour selling themselves cheaply to men. When favor is discussed it is men the patrons doing women a favor by patronising them. What i see here is same ol needless gender squabbles women portray and failing to take responsibility for their own faulty actions.

Weigh the cons, men only seek pleasure($ex) after which they part with their own money.... One phased-pleasure(although wrong too)

Women seek money and s.ex ,.. dual pleasure lol.

If you ask me in ascribing blame. I think it's a 80℅ for women and 20% for men. Just like a drug peddler peddling cocaine, the crime fighting authorities gets him arrested first to wade off customers. In like manner, if prostitution were to be a crime,then I don't think the authorities would arrest men,the patrons of prostitution. Some of you women have really degenerated to the lowest scums of the earth with single digits IQs ,forcing reasonable handles to remain guests members on Nairaland. Look at this disgraceful thread with all female monikers taking turns supporting this dumbness in glee.

Shivers!!

Chai! Na wah o. If I were the kind that insults anyhow, the kind of profanities that will be coming out of my mouth directly at you (and not as subtly as you tried to insult me) will be unbelievable.

Now, if you go back to that post you quoted, aside seeing where I clearly wrote the two parties ie men and women are to be blamed , if you read it carefully, you would understand I wasn't saying the men are at fault. Very far from it. I was only trying to proffer solutions. The men can help put a stop to this by not patronising them. That is, in the absence of demand, supply will cease. Now, how on earth does this translate to the men are to be blamed ?

MissJoy29:

Chai! Na wah o. If I were the kind that insults anyhow, the kind of profanities that will be coming out of my mouth directly at you (and not as subtly as you tried to insult me) will be unbelievable.

Now, if you go back to that post you quoted, aside seeing where I clearly wrote the two parties ie men and women are to be blamed , if you read it carefully, you would understand I wasn't saying the men are at fault. Very far from it. I was only trying to proffer solutions. The men can help put a stop to this by not patronising them. That is, in the absence of demand, supply will cease. Now, how on earth does this translate to the men are to be blamed ?

Words shouldn't be deceptive to you at best. There was no where in my post I implied you blamed men. I didn't mince words at all, I kept it succinct. In your bid to profer solution you left out the exact problem which is prostitution and you know men aren't the ones selling themselves out there.

Simply put,if the girls aren't there,will the men demand. Your solution should have started with the sellers not buyers. $ex will always be a tool in nature humans(men) will crave. If you want the goat not to eat the yam,remove the yam first instead of instructing the goat not to eat it whilst the yam lays bare in its eyes.

MrBrownJay1:


very nice point, but sadly you forgot the main point here..... and that IS: if there was NO ashewos out there, who would these men pay to have sex (if not their own wives)? again, you certainly cant blame just one party when talking about prostitution NOR cheating. as i could well say that if women were not gladly sleeping with married men, then there would be NO cheating in this world (but we all know that there are 2 culprits here)



fair enough...

Thanks. You sure do give a balanced argument. It's refreshing.

To buttress my point further,let me ask you this: have you ever been to the market and you were forced by the sellers to buy what you don't want to buy?
I know they will try their best to convince you but you know what you want.
Now, when a particular product seems not to receive patronage from people, what happens to that product? I will answer with this story.

I love Viju Milk products. Especially their chocolate, wheat and soy variants. And I like testing new variants of the products I like. So imagine my happiness when a friend( who knows my crase for trying out new things) told me about Viju Soy which I'm sure a lot don't know about. I doubted him and had to follow him to see for myself. It was true. I bought & tested it & it blew my mind!!! I was then going there regularly.
One day, after going there several times without seeing the product again, I asked the woman what happened. She answered me, " people are not buying it so they took it off the market..

You get my drift right?

Lol. This is really a dumb narrative scenario. You can't use the analogy of supply and demand here because if you do,you'd be giving an unwarranted precedence to faulting demand by protecting suppliers/prostitutes under the phrase of "Supply", as we all know supply only happens when there's a demand. Invariably implying the prostitutes are absolved of fault because they're only supplying by demand lol indeed.

It's shady!! You're still hiding your bias. @ MissJoy29. The appropriate term to refer to prostitution as in this case is "Market" ....

If you keep using analogical terms like codaine, which we all know when abused and not prescribed the the pharmacist/doc is harmful solely to the buyer and user. Then where does the health demerits or disadvantages of the prostitutes come in ?

Best scenario is a "market/seller n buyer" and when you remove the market there won't be a supply chain.

Thank you.

the primary reason bhind prostitution is not "demand or supply" as purpoted by d writer... prostitutes c it as a way of makin money...if it was 2 satisfy men den it will always b 4 free...