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Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 8:17am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:

what about you? Are you a bit reserved? Do you sleep around on the first date? What does that make you?

A man is d Hunter n woman d hunted, not d same
Though I don't do such especially if I have good intentions about d woman in question.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 8:20am On Jun 21, 2018
Respect55:

Doesn't matter if u take me serious or not. That bn said, I'm not going to reply ur mentions anymore
Abegiii you already did. I will take note if your username. If I see that you're being a hypocrite and not cautioning your guys when they call women olosho and instead attacking girls, you will hear from me. Dismissed.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 8:23am On Jun 21, 2018
divinelove:


A man is d Hunter n woman d hunted, not d same
Though I don't do such especially if I have good intentions about d woman in question.


And this, ladies and gentlemen is why relationships don't last. Comparing human relationships to wild animals. Then when you have chop her meat finish, you get bored and cheat. silly logic. I'm out.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by brightfumnaya(m): 8:26am On Jun 21, 2018
MariaLavina:
This is why I advise ladies against sex on first dates. undecided
exactly bro....
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Speakdatruth: 8:36am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


But it's okay for HIM to fvck me on the first date but not for ME to fvck him. clarify.
He can fvck you on a first date, no biggy! As long as it's mutual. Nothing lost! Values intact. That's for me. But you making the plans to be fvcked on a first date and going as far as making all the reservations? Your brain is fvcked up already girl.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 8:43am On Jun 21, 2018
Speakdatruth:
He can fvck you on a first date, no biggy! As long as it's mutual. Nothing lost! Values intact. That's for me. But you making the plans to be fvcked on a first date and going as far as making all the reservations? Your brain is fvcked up already girl.

Hmmnn but if HE is making the plans to fvck on the first date and going as far as making all reservations, that would be ok?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Speakdatruth: 8:47am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


Hmmnn but if HE is making the plans to fvck on the first date and going as far as making all reservations, that would be ok?
Oh sure! If the lady wants the same, they fvcked their brains out. Lobatan!
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 8:52am On Jun 21, 2018
Speakdatruth:
Oh sure! If the lady wants the same, they fvcked their brains out. Lobatan!

So I'm confused, what is the problem exactly? Why call her a ho* because she paid for your transportation and lodging and f**ked you? I rephrased the question over and over again, you said no problem. So I'm confused on your initial stance.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Speakdatruth: 9:01am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


So I'm confused, what is the problem exactly? Why call her a ho* because she paid for your transportation and lodging and f**ked you? I rephrased the question over and over again, you said no problem. So I'm confused on your initial stance.
I guess you quoted the wrong comment. Read all over again, I meant from the very first. I made it clear it was a frictional story and if that was true, the guy would be right to think twice about her. Adding that it's NOT in her place to make the reservations for a dude to come over and fvck her. Hence, if the dude made such plans, and she wants to be fvcked on a first date, nothing wrong! Abi your eyes don dey see double?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 9:04am On Jun 21, 2018
Speakdatruth:

I guess you quoted the wrong comment. Read all over again, I meant from the very first. I made it clear it was a frictional story and if that was true, the guy would be right to think twice about her. Adding that it's NOT in her place to make the reservations for a dude to come over and fvck her. Hence, if the dude made such plans, and she wants to be fvcked on a first date, nothing wrong! Abi your eyes don dey see double?

Why is it not her place to do so?
Should she or should she not act on her sexual urges if she is physically and financially able to do so?
If the guy thinks twice about her after going the deed, is he or is he not a hypocrite?
Is hypocrisy a good quality is a husband/husband material?

clarify
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Jadoskii(m): 9:11am On Jun 21, 2018
dammy13:
I met a young lady on Twitter about seven months ago. An issue was trending on twitter back then and we had opposing opinions, we kept attacking each other to the point that she insulted me and called me a novice.

I finally entered her DM with the aim of advising her…but she was waiting with an apology which I accepted and we became pals.

After thirty days of chatting non stop we decided to meet! She lives in Port Harcourt while I’m based in Lagos, she arranged my flight, booked my hotel, without asking for money. She told me to give her when we see. I was touched.

So I met Dara, 29, she is not drop dead gorgeous, not beautiful by the standard of many but the most unusually beautiful girl I have seen. Chatty, funny and charming.

She took me to the hotel and long story short, we had sex. She didn’t spend the night with me but returned the next day to see me.

I returned to Lagos with nothing in my heart but the accomplishment of ‘catching’ another girl. I told my friends everything about her, and they laughed at how easily I laid her.

I stopped chatting with her, avoided her calls for two weeks until I realized I was hooked, not infatuation, not the sex, I was in love. I talked to my friends and they thought I was a fool. They called her ‘cheap’ ‘slut’ and all that, they said she’d sleep with everyone like that.

The thing is I don’t think Dara is like that, I think I seduced her and gave her no room to really resist. I called her and apologized for being MIA. We’ve been good since then, but my greatest regret is talking to my friends about her.

They don’t treat her well, they are convinced she is bad. “No one marries the girl they slept with on the first date” they keep telling me.

I love her, I want to marry her, she has given me no cause to worry… I want to believe my friends are wrong on this! Is there a guy here who married a lady he slept with on the first date? Am I safe? I haven’t proposed but I know I want to marry her…

https://goldmyne.tv/featured/matters-heart-sex-first-time-make-bad/
you are cheap urself...a lady u went on a first date with slept with you.....
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Speakdatruth: 9:15am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


Why is it not her place to do so?
Should she or should she not act on her sexual urges if she is physically and financially able to do so?
If the guy thinks twice about her after going the deed, is he or is he not a hypocrite?
Is hypocrisy a good quality is a husband/husband material?

clarify
It's hypothetical to conclude such isn't a husband material. Same way it is for the guy to doubt if she's a good girl or a wife material because he got her laid on a first date. The problem is she going that far even if she's financially stable, in fact she should be a hypocrite to think such man would consider her wife-worthy. I'd advise she gives me the money to fed my pets.

Except she wants a fvck mate and nothing more than the fvcks.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 9:18am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


And this, ladies and gentlemen is why relationships don't last. Comparing human relationships to wild animals. Then when you have chop her meat finish, you get bored and cheat. silly logic. I'm out.

If not that u attended a village community secondary school without English teachers at least u would have learnt about figure of speech n save yourself this gross display of ignorance
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by ipobarecriminals: 9:26am On Jun 21, 2018
sad sad
oluwasegun007:
I smell juju at work....
Note

After the fuvkery you went your way

After the encounter she called baba that she has been used and dumped.

Weeks later you started falling in love..


Abeg go see your pastor.
undecided
oluwasegun007:
I smell juju at work....
Note

After the fuvkery you went your way

After the encounter she called baba that she has been used and dumped.

Weeks later you started falling in love..


Abeg go see your pastor.
kid mentality. Nah d same juju make his friends confused/ behave like imbe-cile abi?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Psoul(m): 9:26am On Jun 21, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
The thing just tire me. Two fnckers meet and whit themselves and one comes out to call the other cheat. The Sam way guys think they are the only one that use and dump girls. I think they just say that to beast their ego.

For the bolded statement;
I don't totally beliv men say that to boost their ego.
I will rather blame it on the women folk. The way they behave wen a man hit them and move make men feel on top of the game.
See, wen u were hitting me, I was hitting u too. U did not take anything away from me. So why should one person start feeling bad after the whole thing.

Women should learn to keep moving wen a guy moved. It's a 50:50 thing.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 9:29am On Jun 21, 2018
divinelove:


If not that u attended a village community secondary school without English teachers at least u would have learnt about figure of speech n save yourself this gross display of ignorance

My point stands. You compared relationship to a hunt, and that is why relationships fail. What happens when you're tired of eating the prey?Do you cheat?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by oyoni(m): 9:31am On Jun 21, 2018
Is it safe to marry a Man that fvcks a woman on their first date?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by oluwasegun007(m): 9:33am On Jun 21, 2018
ipobarecriminals:
sad sad undecidedkid mentality. Nah d same juju make his friends confused/ behave like imbe-cile abi?


Na wah you oooo...


Na my talk you take serioz like dis...
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by ipobarecriminals: 9:46am On Jun 21, 2018
oluwasegun007:



Na wah you oooo...


Na my talk you take serioz like dis...
nothing serious. Just telling u d home truth.Nor be everything be juju.Somebody pay ur flight ticket fro and to,u eat free fud ,she open her legs wide for,only for the swine one to insulted d caring heart at her back.Supposed she put pot on his hopeless/worthless head nkoh? He'll open his filthy mouth to spew trash?Such a boy nid help.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 10:06am On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:


Simple question why should a non-virgin like you, who has been promiscous be deserving of a virgin wife?
Ask the same question to short women who only want to marry tall guys! Ask the same question to dark guys who only want to marry fair ladies!
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by SexyDenzel: 10:38am On Jun 21, 2018
IamD18:
TWO QUICK THOUGHTS.

First; Your friends are jealous of you because you met a rich lady who was plain and straightforward enough to fvck you on the first date without forming and pretending. FACT!

>If she's cheap, you are cheaper: A lady financially transported you from Lagos state to Rivers state just to count census on your preeeq, you node shame?


She paid for your flight, lodged you in a hotel, took care of you on her bills, she didn't even sleep there with you but had to come the next day to visit you probably because she couldn't stoop so low and your friends had the guts to tag her cheap.

Bruv,be sincere, between you and the lady, who's cheap?
The guy is a very useless fool, some guys are kids in old body. Such lady is so admirable and confident not all these bitchy ones with rules because they're insecure, found such lady with no insecurity and this is his reasons. That dude is a bitttch in male form.
Personally if I meet a girl that doesn't let the relationship flow naturally I'm off, no time to play games of let me keep my pussi to see if he will be with me.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 11:34am On Jun 21, 2018
famosh:

Ask the same question to short women who only want to marry tall guys! Ask the same question to dark guys who only want to marry fair ladies!

I have asked them the question. Now I am asking you.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:39am On Jun 21, 2018
Psoul:


For the bolded statement;
I don't totally beliv men say that to boost their ego.
I will rather blame it on the women folk. The way they behave wen a man hit them and move make men feel on top of the game.
See, wen u were hitting me, I was hitting u too. U did not take anything away from me. So why should one person start feeling bad after the whole thing.

Women should learn to keep moving wen a guy moved. It's a 50:50 thing.
I agree with you. People should stop feeling like victims after a mutual sexual relationship.
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 12:13pm On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:

I have asked them the question. Now I am asking you.
Since you've asked them, then the answer they gave you is my answer!
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 12:16pm On Jun 21, 2018
famosh:


Since you've asked them, then the answer they gave you is my answer!
That is why I ask you what makes you think you're deserving of a virgin when you yourself are promiscuous?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 12:20pm On Jun 21, 2018
famosh:


Since you've asked them, then the answer they gave you is my answer!

That is why I ask you what makes you think you're deserving of a virgin when you yourself are promiscuous?
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 12:24pm On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:

That is why I ask you what makes you think you're deserving of a virgin when you yourself are promiscuous?

That's why I told you to ask short girls why they deserve to marry the tall guys they seek & not their fellow short men! And since you claim you've asked them, then take whatever answer they give you as the answer to mine too!
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Psoul(m): 1:22pm On Jun 21, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I agree with you. People should stop feeling like victims after a mutual sexual relationship

Gbam...daz the spirit my dear
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 1:52pm On Jun 21, 2018
famosh:


That's why I told you to ask short girls why they deserve to marry the tall guys they seek & not their fellow short men! And since you claim you've asked them, then take whatever answer they give you as the answer to mine too!
They were looking confused, they said they it is true they did not deserve to be in a position to marry upwards, and that they apologise for their foolish ways and will repent of such thinking. Is that your reply too?

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Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Jgovt(m): 2:04pm On Jun 21, 2018
MariaLavina:
This is why I advise ladies against sex on first dates. undecided


So many of my married friends banged their wives on their first date...me I haven’t had any date shall but gonna follow suit
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 4:07pm On Jun 21, 2018
MarieSucre:

They were looking confused, they said they it is true they did not deserve to be in a position to marry upwards, and that they apologise for their foolish ways and will repent of such thinking. Is that your reply too?

That's my response too! But you know a lot of the short girls IN YOUR FAMILY have also wanted, married & will still continue to marry the tall guys they don't deserve! When the short girls in your family cease to want & marry tall men, & the ones who have done so apologize for such foolish thinking prior to their marriage (I'll need evidence of that), then I won't marry the virgin I don't deserve anymore! grin grin

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