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| When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 10:41am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Being in a relationship can
come with its share of ups
and downs. Add in finances
and money issues and you
could have the perfect
recipe for a disaster. Should a woman give her man
money? And if she does,
how could that impact the
relationship?. |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 10:41am On Jun 28, 2018 |
ANSWERS : 1).It is 'very' ok for a woman to give her man money, if he needs it and if she has it, just as it is always ok in the eyes of the women, for their men to give them money for all their needs and wants, even if it involves him stealing or borrowing. 2).The impact it has on the relationship is that it doesn't guarantee that the relationship will last forever,just as giving a girl money will not stop her from leaving or cheating on her man when she meets a richer guy. 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by thorpido(m): 10:43am On Jun 28, 2018 |
You want to give your boyfriend money? The questions are how much?What does he need it for? What is the status of the relationship?How deep? 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 10:46am On Jun 28, 2018 |
is it even good to give him
because of stories that touch ? |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 10:49am On Jun 28, 2018 |
thorpido: I wish girls could answer these questions too while demanding for money or you just created these questions because a man is asking? 2 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 10:50am On Jun 28, 2018 |
mxpinky:Don't guys give their girlfriends money even though there would always be stories that touch  3 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 10:52am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eezeribe:are you the type that depend on your girlfriend ? 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 10:53am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eezeribe: They believe God designed them to be on the receiving end  |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mikejj(m): 10:54am On Jun 28, 2018 |
there nothing bad there...let leave the relationship thing self..on a Normal day can't you give someone money if you have... stop complicating your self.. 2 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:54am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Only if there's a crisis, since lending money to a man, kinda makes him look like less of a man. For me there's pride attached to money issues. I don't borrow money from people as a rule, because I feel ashamed. It makes me feel like a loser & I don't like that. So I guess since I have negative feelings about it when I'm at the receiving end, I tend to project the same feelings to everyone out there with a begging bowl 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 10:56am On Jun 28, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:you're on my point 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 10:56am On Jun 28, 2018 |
mxpinky:Far from that.I was only making an analogy, or are you naturally very stingy? 2 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 10:57am On Jun 28, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Well said... Same here 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 10:59am On Jun 28, 2018 |
mxpinky: No, she is not. Read your points again |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 10:59am On Jun 28, 2018 |
xynerise:Don't mind them and their double standards... |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 11:00am On Jun 28, 2018 |
xynerise:Exactly |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 11:00am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eezeribe:good then |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 11:01am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eezeribe:Relationship is scratch my back and I scratch yours. Centiris paribus |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by eezeribe(m): 11:04am On Jun 28, 2018 |
xynerise:No mind them, na stinginess dey worry them.. |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by mxpinky: 11:04am On Jun 28, 2018 |
xynerise:i know what i mean |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 11:08am On Jun 28, 2018 |
eezeribe: Slay queen just too much these days... |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by xynerise: 11:09am On Jun 28, 2018 |
mxpinky: I know you know what you mean. 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by MissRaine69(f): 11:19am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Most guys would rather not ask for money , as some women would ensure they never hear the end of it. It would be the theme of the relationship even if it is small money!That said from a personal perspective yes I would help him out as he has never asked even if he did there are many things he does for me that are not monetary based this is what most women fail to appreciate and realise. 2 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 11:51am On Jun 28, 2018 |
Stupid question.Thats why i only spend on prostitutes. 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by thorpido(m): 12:31pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
xynerise:It goes for both sexes. I only addressed the issue from a lady's point because the Op is a 'she'. |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
When it's obvious to you he's in the dumps financially. And don't bother asking him, just do it cos most guys I know will never ask anyway. It's the ego encoded in their genes. 4 Likes |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
NO- Is not totally normal, especially when the man is not doing the same or when he sees you as his ONLY hope for money. YES- All for love, love is CARE, care is money in the other way round. MAYBE- it may not or may straighten the relationship, in the man's side it may not straighten it because most men derived joy, ego, etc just to be the spender, giver of a union. In the woman's side she feels pity giving out to her man. When actually she wishes her man is doing well financially. CONCLUSION- Women lending to men makes some men lazy. Men collection money from women gives women leverage over men |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by Headlesschicken(m): 1:30pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
 For dix our Nigerian society n wiv d type of women we have here, probably when d man is dead, n dey r raising funds for his burial... |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
mxpinky:What's wrong in giving your Bf money Huh.. |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Much ado about nothing. It all depends on the level of intimacy between the two parties. My ex and I (she is now with another) have always have no qualms about rendering financial aid to each other whenever the circumstances demand even till date. I even took a soft loan from her to be repaid next week this morning sef. Stop indulging in fuckships and start building relationships with the opposite sex 1 Like |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by 9japarrot: 2:56pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Nonsense!! what's wrong in rendering your man financial assistance when called for? |
| Re: When Is It Ok To Give Your Man Money? by CAPSLOCKED: 4:02pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
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