I hardly seen or hear that ladies gives their man money to pay their bride price


Why can't such happen?

No girl will boldly come out plain to tell you they will, but they'll actually do. Especially the ENPs

Puss360 he dey possible?

talented321:
Puss360 he dey possible?

hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

Puss360:
hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

Hahahahaha i cant stop laughing

A Single Lady of 40yrs would Not mind doing this.

This husband and wife no go let me read my comments without laughing.. I love u guys jare

But if karen204 and goodlady agree I fit consider any one on them

I don't think that's necessary

I heard Tonto dike did such

Se ori man naa o buru? Hope the man isn't an unfortunate one?
Why ll you fail in your first responsibility?
The wedding ll hold when the man's financially buoyant and it must not be long.
Borrowing a man to pay for my bride price is the beginning of SAPA in the marriage.
Men, there are some things you must not fail with in life. Handling your wedding well is part of it.

PerfectStranger:
No girl will boldly come out plain to tell you they will, but they'll actually do. Especially the ENPs

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

You mean I should marry myself?

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

Rants of a broke and wretched Nairaland ENP!

skj1377:
I heard Tonto dike did such

It’s just clout man. Prince Kpokpogri na my neighbor for Asaba. The man is rich man. I know am well. I have seen a lot of Nollywood actors acting on set at his house severally. Forget all those things Tonto said. That man is rich. You no see him house for Abj way government demolish ?

As a guy i'd never accept such frm any lady no matter the temptation.

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

See frustration

Goodlady:
Se ori man naa o buru? Hope the man isn't an unfortunate one?
Why ll you fail in your first responsibility?
The wedding ll hold when the man's financially buoyant and it must not be long.
Borrowing a man to pay for my bride price is the beginning of SAPA in the marriage.
Men, there are some things you must not fail with in life. Handling your wedding well is part of it.

No one should pay any attention to some online rants from Evening News Papers..


In actual fact, they are looking for who will agree to be given money to pay their bride price

CgRay:
You mean I should marry myself?

there are some girls that can do such thing

Puss360:
hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

na only bride price be wetin make person man.. What about the bills and finance of the home.... Ur mumu no too much... If ur man no buoyant when him Wan marry u, I see nothing wrong in supporting him with some money for bride price...

Ashawoman82:
na only bride price be wetin make person man.. What about the bills and finance of the home.... Ur mumu no too much... If ur man no buoyant when him Wan marry u, I see nothing wrong in supporting him with some money for bride price...

If him no buoyant for brideprice, then the whole traditional rites na wash.....
If no money for the most important payment, then we will wait till he can afford that...
You no get money for brideprice, Nd you wan marry? Day one na talk
Even if I want to support financially, it will be in other items BUT NOT DOWRY....

Puss360:

If him no buoyant for brideprice, then the whole traditional rites na wash.....
If no money for the most important payment, then we will wait till he can afford that...
You no get money for brideprice, Nd you wan marry? Day one na talk
Even if I want to support financially, it will be in other items BUT NOT DOWRY....

some places for Imo state like mbaise, their bride price de enter 2 mil... Even if u earn 350k monthly as a struggling guy u cant afford to pay that money just like that... Are u saying a guy earning 350k can't start a family?...

haslaw:



No one should pay any attention to some online rants from Evening News Papers..


In actual fact, they are looking for who will agree to be given money to pay their bride price

I weep for your condemned destiny. Born throway pikin. See how tattered your life is!

Zonefree:

Rants of a broke and wretched Nairaland ENP!

You know I m very hot and you wished you had me. But it's a pity your tattered life can't fit to my perfect world. So, blow away like smoke.

Ashawoman82:
some places for Imo state like mbaise, their bride price de enter 2 mil... Even if u earn 350k monthly as a struggling guy u cant afford to pay that money just like that... Are u saying a guy earning 350k can't start a family?...

See, the fact is, nobody is forcing the guy to Marry from that side...
They say "Look before you leap"...
Look their tradition well before you go Nd Marry from there... If brideprice na 1m... Gather am before going over.. if you no get, either you go and borrow loan, or you forget everything...
Even your family no suppose give you money to add for brideprice itself... It is a personal burden for the man ....
Make tomorrow, issues come up, to avoid talk like "This your wife wey you marry, my money dey inside"... because it's true.. lol

Now we are dating and u take in (pregnant)' i wanted to wed u before delivery time, but in the process thing went sour for me'' but u have the ability to give me the cash to pay your dowry so that i will give u later''
Now u need this dowry to be paid too, so that you will be called a legally married woman' to gain that respect of a married woman.
Will u let it slide and born out of wedlock?
Ordinary dowry head no dey again' and u think without neck the head will stand.
na only god know why he give men power over women'' if not the oppression and shege we for enter.

Puss360:
hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

talented321:
I dey smoke'' so i dey come make i finish first.

Oya quick...but don't get high ooo

Yes ma'''

Puss360:
Oya quick...but don't get high ooo

No lady should ever do that under any circumstance.
That's how irresponsibility starts.

Even if she sponsors the whole wedding, not her own bride price.

P.S.
If as a man, you (or your father) can't afford her bride price, then you don't deserve her. In many traditions though, the man's father pays that particular fee, because he's the one marrying a wife for his son. Whichever is the case, the lady shouldn't be instrumental to its payment.

Abolish bride price. It has been the reason for mistreatment against women

Puss360:

If him no buoyant for brideprice, then the whole traditional rites na wash.....
If no money for the most important payment, then we will wait till he can afford that...
You no get money for brideprice, Nd you wan marry? Day one na talk
Even if I want to support financially, it will be in other items BUT NOT DOWRY....

I hope you know, that thing they call bride price is the reason some men are gingered to maltreat and treat women like property?

It should be done away with.

My sister paid half of her bride price... No one knew about it until one day her drunk husband told everyone everything.. .. She was so embarrassed.