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Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

Ah ah.. a man to lose interest in having sex?,

What you're passing through is a phase for most men after their wife put to bed.

It can be as a result of an indescribable feeling of disgust, empathy over what your wife passed through. In some cases also if you're having some financial tsunami. Whatever be the reason don't take it out on her. Talk things over and try to be lively again.

Get her out of limbo too cuz you might have successfully shut her down. Try going out with her and the kid, do a lot of talking and probably she needs to get out of the "I am a mom" act. I don't know but you need to get her dressed up as a hot girl not as a wife. Wish you luck.

MAN u are trying to bring problems into your home...

Small boys and girls should leave this thread

Partnerbiz3:
Small boys and girls should leave this thread

I hope they listen o.... dem Aproko too much!

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

keep waiting for married couple naaaa! single couple's advice not needed.

It is well

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

STOP TAKING CODEINE

This one weak me oooo... Let's wait for the council of elders

Whats OPONION bro?

post=69033318:
My sincere oponion....


Talk about it with your wife and don't pass blame around. While it is important to share your worries, do so within the context of the relationship rather than asserting how "you" are causing "me" to worry. That is where worry turns to blame.

If your partner is able to pinpoint a problem (such as stress at work or feeling tired all the time), work together to find a solution. You can also seek medical help if needed. Therapy is another good option also.

It is important to remember that solving any relationship problem—whether it be sexual, financial, or emotional—is a process and not an event. Take your time, be patient.
Wishing you all the best as you start taking Madam to cloud 9 once again, lol, don't mind me o!

N0favors:
Whats OPONION bro?

He is the elder brother of ONION!

Guy take Kunu aya(aki hausa juice) with dates regularly or burantashi or whatever it's called and your wife will call you Daddy

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

Honestly you've not lost interest something is bothering you and it's normal you need therapy that's all

Happily married...fine. Not cheatinv...fine. Is there something stressful going on?...like financial?...not earning enough?....not getting a promotion?.... in debt? ...such can push the urge for sex to the background. If no such drama..... then it is not normal for a man.... a healthy man....a man who is not impotent.... to lose interest in sex period. It may very well be your sexuality is at the crossroads.

pacino26:
What you're passing through is a phase for most men after their wife put to bed.

It can be as a result of an indescribable feeling of disgust, empathy over what your wife passed through. In some cases also if you're having some financial tsunami. Whatever be the reason don't take it out on her. Talk things over and try to be lively again.

Get her out of limbo too cuz you might have successfully shut her down. Try going out with her and the kid, do a lot of talking and probably she needs to get out of the "I am a mom" act. I don't know but you need to get her dressed up as a hot girl not as a wife. Wish you luck.

Thanks for the opinion, I feel bad when she complaine about that.

Could b stress. try exercising.

srclark:
STOP TAKING CODEINE

I don't smoke and take hard drugs, watch your language

Originalsly:
Happily married...fine. Not cheatinv...fine. Is there something stressful going on?...like financial?...not earning enough?....not getting a promotion?.... in debt? ...such can push the urge for sex to the background. If no such drama..... then it is not normal for a man.... a healthy man....a man who is not impotent.... to lose interest in sex period. It may very well be your sexuality is at the crossroads.

I have a good job, and good pay, I just need to make my wife happy so she doesn't go wired about my attitudes towards sex.

post=69033318:
My sincere opinion....


Talk about it with your wife and don't pass blame around. While it is important to share your worries, do so within the context of the relationship rather than asserting how "you" are causing "me" to worry. That is where worry turns to blame.

If your partner is able to pinpoint a problem (such as stress at work or feeling tired all the time), work together to find a solution. You can also seek medical help if needed. Therapy is another good option also.

It is important to remember that solving any relationship problem—whether it be sexual, financial, or emotional—is a process and not an event. Take your time, be patient.
Wishing you all the best as you start taking Madam to cloud 9 once again, lol, don't mind me o!

Thanks for the advice.

guru03:
Thanks for the advice.

You are always welcome my brother.

How sexually appealing is your wife? I will suggest you two love birds make out time , go to the gym and work out together make sure u start seeing results on both of u and if u smoke,stop...more importantly exercise will help

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

send me her number asap!

Is your wife out of shape that you don't find her attractive no more

I would suggest she hits the gym

IamAirforce1:
Is your wife out of shape that you don't find her attractive no more

I would suggest she hits the gym

No really that.

guru03:
I have a good job, and good pay, I just need to make my wife happy so she doesn't go wired about my attitudes towards sex.

Hmmm.....so you are fine with your no interest in sex attitude.... the problem is how to relate it to your wife and have her accept it....as I see it...how to come out of the closet.

Partnerbiz3:
Small boys and girls should leave this thread

We're here to learn

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

You better force yourself to do it before days turn to months and months to years. Not all women can stay without sex