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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by sanpipita(m): 11:17pm On Jul 03, 2018

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

Have you been working too much or something is bothering you, you try have more leisure time for yourself maybe your mood can change

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by shaibu123: 11:18pm On Jul 03, 2018

Go on weekend holiday with your wife to a different city in a very romantic setting and make her to wear sexy stuff around the house.That way, the old memories will come back to life.

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Baobab4loan(m): 11:21pm On Jul 03, 2018

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Hedonisst: 11:25pm On Jul 03, 2018

Young man you're a 'jew' man. Which one is that you've not "cheated" on your wife?

Every normal man gets tired of a woman you've been living with and fucking for even only 2 months, let alone one year and beyond. It's normal. You need to start fucking new meat outside to rediscover desire. That may even help you regain some modicum of occasional interest in madam. That's the best that can happen.

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by mimimile93: 11:25pm On Jul 03, 2018

IgboBasthard:
Wow! But the pussy is not yours and can never be yours so wtf?

Paying bride price what does it mean?

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by IgboBasthard: 11:28pm On Jul 03, 2018

mimimile93:
Paying bride price what does it mean?

Its a gimmick. ......the pussy belongs to the owner for life........and mind you there is no metre on the pussy.

And if you die...she promptly gives it to the next person around, so WTF

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Zhahovic(m): 11:31pm On Jul 03, 2018

kai...... be careful bro....
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from loosing interest in having sex with your wife, it could escalate quickly......
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Am not married... let the married ones give you experienced advice

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by mimimile93: 11:35pm On Jul 03, 2018

IgboBasthard:
Its a gimmick. ......the pussy belongs to the owner for life........and mind you there is no metre on the pussy.

And if you die...she promptly gives it to the next person around, so WTF

That is why I keep telling dudes the ones that care to listen to stay away from women. Especially naija girls (the ones born from the 80s)

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Memyselfu2009(m): 11:35pm On Jul 03, 2018

Spend more time with your wife. Tell her to go for gym class

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by demiawise(m): 11:37pm On Jul 03, 2018

Same thing happened to me bro, for months she keeps complaining about it, got to a time I was scared, all I did was bring my mind back, I started imagining her on my mind every night, then I started feeling myself getting attracted to her through my imagination. Before I knew it, that was the end of Solomon grandding lol just bring your mind back bro

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Robincruseo: 11:39pm On Jul 03, 2018

In my opinion.... (am not married though)

Before a solution to a problem can be found one must first ascertain what the cause of the problem really is.
Your seeking help is understandable but u've really got to work more on identifing why there is a reduction in the urge to perform; some major causes have been highlighted here by some people but those are some of the general causes.
When finding the cause on your own becomes difficult i strongly suggest therapy

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by idonhammer: 11:46pm On Jul 03, 2018

pacino26:
Gbam Gbamer Gbamest...You have said it all bro,You be man wey sabi!

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jul 03, 2018

Imustreturn:
read my post again

I read ur post chief. Don't throw rocks and hide hands

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by enemyofprogress: 11:55pm On Jul 03, 2018

Why did you losted interest in sex? What did you did with your prick?

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by IgboBasthard: 12:00am On Jul 04, 2018

mimimile93:
That is why I keep telling dudes the ones that care to listen to stay away from women. Especially naija girls (the ones born from the 80s)

No, they don't have to stay away from women na. ....Just accept them as they are

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 12:07am On Jul 04, 2018

pacino26:
What you're passing through is a phase for most men after their wife put to bed.

It can be as a result of an indescribable feeling of disgust, empathy over what your wife passed through. In some cases also if you're having some financial tsunami. Whatever be the reason don't take it out on her. Talk things over and try to be lively again.

Get her out of limbo too cuz you might have successfully shut her down. Try going out with her and the kid, do a lot of talking and probably she needs to get out of the "I am a mom" act. I don't know but you need to get her dressed up as a hot girl not as a wife. Wish you luck.

Good advice, marriage bad00 spotted

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Platony(m): 12:09am On Jul 04, 2018

dingbang:
Ah ah.. a man to lose interest in having sex?,

Yes, it happens...especially wen u're financially down.

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by onatisi(m): 12:09am On Jul 04, 2018

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

What you are going through is normal. I think it is just as a result of the pressure surrounding you . In Nigeria majorly financial pressure. You need to relax and let go. Take a vacation with ur wife and kids and you will see that there is nothing wrong with you . Sometimes it may be as a result of ur spouse attitudes or behaviour,maybe she needs to put on the attractiveness again

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by kamsiyo9: 12:15am On Jul 04, 2018

take moringa seeds on a daily basis like 10 or more but dont take 10 once please cos it's boost immune system

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Rashman578(m): 12:24am On Jul 04, 2018

post=69033318:
My sincere opinion....

Talk about it with your wife and don't pass blame around. While it is important to share your worries, do so within the context of the relationship rather than asserting how "you" are causing "me" to worry. That is where worry turns to blame.

If your partner is able to pinpoint a problem (such as stress at work or feeling tired all the time), work together to find a solution. You can also seek medical help if needed. Therapy is another good option also.

It is important to remember that solving any relationship problem—whether it be sexual, financial, or emotional—is a process and not an event. Take your time, be patient.
Wishing you all the best as you start taking Madam to cloud 9 once again, lol.

Most matured advice I've seen in a while

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by goat22: 12:25am On Jul 04, 2018

eat goat

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 04, 2018

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

I'll advice you as an elder .
You're a mad man for losing interest in sex. Such a disgrace.
The reason you lost interest in sex is because you have wasted your life, you were having sex anyhow when you were unmarried.
When I advice young people these days they won't listen. That's the disadvantage of having sex worker with boyfriends and girlfriends before marriage. What you're supposed to enjoy during the course of marriage you enjoyed it before marriage and you lose interest in it when you're married.

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by MANNABBQGRILLS: 12:58am On Jul 04, 2018

Rashman578:
Most matured advice I've seen in a while

THANK you my brother.
Stay blessed bro.

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Imustreturn(m): 1:20am On Jul 04, 2018

Techsupport:
I read ur post chief. Don't throw rocks and hide hands

lol.. I wrote somewhere there asking him to speak to the wife and tell her what the matter is.

I've seen situations like bro. I know wat am saying man. After now if he doesn't handle this issue well the next thing is the wife will say his cheating, wch is obvious, am saying so because u don't expect her to just believe all is well man.

And once that begins devil done win be that. Shey u get

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Jimmy231: 1:23am On Jul 04, 2018

srclark:
STOP TAKING CODEINE

They just told you they need only sensible people to comment

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Dollabiz: 1:34am On Jul 04, 2018

hmm

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by pacino26(m): 1:48am On Jul 04, 2018

SantaDomino:
If you were a female and single.. I would have proposed tonight. Nice one man!

My grams is single though. Can I give you her digits huh

Cheers bro

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by opribo(m): 1:48am On Jul 04, 2018

Thats it, when women keep abusing their spouses and disrespecting them. They dony know little by little they kill yheir libidovand interest in getting close to them.
I mean i cant imagine lying next to a woman who's mouth is toxic.

The only way out gor yhe man is to find a way to make himself happy again.

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Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by moneypalav: 1:49am On Jul 04, 2018

It is very possible that your Testosterone level has gone very low. What you are going through is one of the side effects of low Testosterone.... You may want to talk to a doctor to do a test for you to check that out. There are medications that will boost your Testosterone level and reverse your lack of interest if that is the issue....Wish you well.

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by GrammarCheck: 1:55am On Jul 04, 2018

guru03:
I have a good job, and good pay, I just need to make my wife happy so she doesn't go wired about my attitudes towards sex.

Watch porn

Drink Ogidiga

Then thank me later

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by zeembab(m): 2:32am On Jul 04, 2018

guru03:
Am happily married with a kid, but of recent I have lost interest in having sex and I know its affecting my wife, and have not cheated on my wife, please I need advice from married couples, no insults please, sincere opinion.

My brother...please seek an urgent medical advise.

I once add the problem, it almost ruin my marriage.

Also try and eat bitter kola, it enhances libido. But most importanly...seek medical help.

Re: I Have Lost Interest In Having Sex & It's Affecting My Wife by Teacher1776(m): 2:56am On Jul 04, 2018

I don't know if you'd have the patience to read thru all the comments to get to this.
I guess you biggest challenge now is how to break the ice after that long period of abstinence. You may start once again by getting her some gifts. Buy panties and sexy lingerie for her. If you currently watch porns or masturbate, you must desist. If you aren't sleeping on d same bed with your wife, learn to do so.
By the way, how old is your baby?

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