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Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Readonee35L(m): 11:16pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by marc55: 11:16pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by cgniyi(m): 11:18pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757:Lol! We need help |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by mmsen: 11:18pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Nobody should feel compelled to have children or get married. OP is far more responsible than the majority of Nigerians who feel the need to do the above because everyone else is doing so. 43 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by TEYA: 11:20pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757:You are young now and strong. You are surrounded by friends. You have the strength to carry out every task you like. But one day, you will be old and feeble and alone. You will watch your married friends play with their grand kids and travel from time to time to visit their children and grand children while you will be stuck to your dogs. You will wish to change things but it will be too late. It is no too late to make the right choice now. There is a love that dogs cannot offer. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Respect55(m): 11:22pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
U are not alone 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
marvelli:exactly 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by oluwasegun007(m): 11:23pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
It's not normal oooo.... It's this buhari economy... 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Windflower(f): 11:23pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
All you need is a good woman and financial security 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by baby124: 11:23pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
It seems like it’s finances that is your problem. Our needs are constantly evolving so give it another 5yrs and company of dogs will no longer be enough, you will probably also be financially stable enough to afford to raise a family. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by HardMirror(m): 11:24pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757:you are not alone, but i can still maintain a girlfriend. That is the most i can do |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by ohigus(m): 11:24pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
May b ur thinking faculty is have problem, if not y can't u think deep, ok imagine now u get old who will take care of you and your bills every thing My guy stop that kind of thinking � and look for another thing to do 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
After being broken by someone I held in high esteem, I really don't wanna love again 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by greatman247(m): 11:25pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Yes very normal, especially in proper clime, but over here our society see it as abnormal. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by milemimi93(m): 11:26pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757: It is very normal not to marry or have kids. A lot of men are in this boat. I am in the same boat too. Marriage is an institution programed to favor women. Kids too are just a bunch of unecessary responsibilities. I see people have more than two kids and am like wtf is this? 80% of the kids won't even know u when the grow up to become something in life. That's when their ediotic wivies and girlfriends will tell them their dad is a wizard flee from him.. I came to the world to make a name and not to make kids 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Profusamah: 11:26pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Na Your type i de find since. Where have you been. Send me a mail ASAP 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Aadeyinka(m): 11:26pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757:good to follow ur mind, suit urself, but advice to get married and get ur own kids is better I just think for you free of charge, nice me. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Lexusgs430: 11:27pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757: You are simply going through a phase....... That phase would pass..... When it does, post an update..... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Amazonboss(f): 11:27pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
aaronson: While I may agree with you sir about his state of mind towards marriage, Marriage is God's business not a social construct per say. I also think same,but will have a kid and train my kid. I so love peace and happiness. Except of course I find a weird type like me I may reconsider. But until then........ plans are underway to prepare financially for myself and kid. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Switup: 11:29pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
goodnight nairaland... sleep calls |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by blackaxe78: 11:29pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Very sure you are a kid. Just privileged to be an adult. Your old age will answer you. Wait till then! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Oweku: 11:30pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Is it normal for a baby to be born without a private part, if its normal then its normal not to reproduce... Unreasonable questions everywhere.. |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by HardMirror(m): 11:31pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
mhd5757:i am an atheist, anti establishment, dont give a fvck abt marriage, dont see the big deal in death or even dying young. Not on facebook, instagram or what else is out there (on twitter because of my biz). I just dont give a fvck where and when people expect me to. Life shld not be defined if you are willing to live with the consequences of your choices. Sincere people dare not to blend in. Blending in is an art of deceit. Be happy, be responsible for yourself 21 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by blackaxe78: 11:31pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
lostluggage: Bro, when you 60years old, come back here and give a testimony 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by chronique(m): 11:32pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
soberdrunk: different strokes for different folks. i on the contrary,can't wait to have kids and raise them. i'm not sure how old you are but i feel with time,your maturity would set in and you'd start thinking differently. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Sleyanya1(m): 11:32pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
It's a matter Of choice Sir. Just ask yourself, meditate and examine the Question: "Can the Dogs & Once-in-a-week woman give you a sense of joy, satisfaction, fulfilment and company when you get really old 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Yes it is normal. But your idiotic and ignorant culture tells you otherwise. That is why they make a big and stupid deal about marriage online, as though it is an achievement. Go inside Nigerian marriages and you'll laugh your ass out. The truth is that not every human being is fit for marriage. Some people are better off being by themselves. Marriage becomes misery for some people who'd be better off and happy being by themselves. More so, not everyone should or will children. Disease, health issues, mental incapability of raising children, emotional stability or its lack therefore, economic/financial issues and a host of other reasons make some not fit for marriage or for having children. Sadly, our culture refuses to recognize and accept these realities. So, access yourself and your own unique life situation. If you conclude that you'll be better off by yourself and without children, there is nothing wrong with that. Just be aware that you may lack companionship or children to support you when you're old, in which case you should plan accordingly for old age. I will use this medium to also appeal to the National Assembly to pass a law that enables "Euthanasia." This is important because life can sometimes take an unexpected turn due to accidents, sickness, and other unforeseen events that render one incapacitated and without ability to help themselves or to make decisions. Euthanasia then becomes the only way of ending a worthless life of pain and suffering. Goodluck in life! 13 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by CSTR1005: 11:34pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
The ideal situation is to get a wife material that you can make your baby mama or the mother of your kids. But then it is very rare. Most baby mamas are not wife materials. And wife materials don't get to be baby mamas. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by lilyheaven: 11:34pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Is normal now, but you won't like it when you grow old 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by blackaxe78: 11:34pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
ohigus: Dude is a kid Am 100% certain. Still earning allowance and in bad company Or a miserable life he can't get out of. Earn money has a man and you imagine a young one. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by greggng: 11:35pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Inasmuch as you are not bleeping your dog....your life is your life....after all Nigerian marriage doesn't last 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by tragergeorge(m): 11:35pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Not at all bro,,,,having same thoughts too,the only reason people keep bringing up is kids,,,or who gonna care for you wen u aging, that's bullshit ,even right now bringing kids into this sinful world full of struggles and hardship is kinda like wickedness to me,there loads of kids out there who need to be taken care of,both kids of family friends neighbours, orphans a lot, 14 Likes 1 Share |
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