adewumiopeyemi:
Even football league is even better than that. Virtiual gane that can suck person live between 10 minute..

I fear virtual cos i can't play it again...am still playing football league once in a while..it's interesting than virtual...how will baby go dey collect my money when m nt insane

Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

no u don't deserve any insult, at first you were the cause of your own mistake. If only you had reason the virtual is a programmed game to enable the bookies gain more, even the people that programmed it can win with it. How to stop it, it's very easy, a gambler can't stop being a gambler but can limit is behavior. What to do?
1. Engage in anything that will make ur mind far from virtual both online and offline

2. Engage in sport bet, and not the virtual.

3. Only stake on sport bet no matter how sure the virtual looks.

4. Stake 100 naira, cause that's the amount u can afford to lose without getting hurt.

5. Always go out without cash or cash higher than 100,cause virtual is 150

You are addicted to gambling. let me give you the secret of gambling. you play it with sense not stupidity. I started virtual last year from last year to this year 8th July I have won almost 3millon naira cash.but I did not won the money once I collect it step by step.the money I have even lost to bet naija is not even up to 150k so I am the winner not the looser. even if you remove 150k from 3millon the remaining 2millon plus is my profit.I don't play more than 1k a day in bet naija if I see am loosing after playing like 800 to 1k I move away instantly from the bet naija shop.Each game 150 naira.sometimes before I play once with 150 naira I win 5k,10k,20k and so on then I move instantly.There was a day immediately I enter the bet naija shop I just forecast a game with 500 naira I won 270k cash down instantly they have do transfer for me. so man up that is the secret but he no easy.virtual no be do or die affair.he who fight and run away live to fight another day.one love.

Gambling is just for fun, I don't know about virtual but I do gamble online ranging from 2 - 4odd with highe stake in a single bet, once in a while. However, it can be quite heartbreaking when your favorite team lose a match, I will advise you to refrain from betting, stop going to the shop, avoid friends that will always lure you there, lastly, avoid those I can predict match, they are the worst set of peeps they know nothing.


I pray for God intervention in your life.

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

truth be told virtual is so addictive. I had a similar experience tho not up to using my school fees. The maximum I have ever lost was 3k and I do go back home with anger,frustration,paid etc. I know how gambling is. my advice for you is to stop entering bet shop. I vow to stop gambling and told God that if I ever play virtual again let him strike me down there with death. the curse I placed that day remains a blessing. I do enter bet shop to charge my phone due to light situation in this country. even tho I do enter with big money,I don't ever play it. Carry that mentality that virtual will never play you. it is like robbing you 1 million today and play u 200k tomorrow. you are still losing 800k if I am not mistaken. Also put it in prayers and try as hard as possible not to go back to. One love bro

those condemning him are fools ,they never know the havoc visual soccer have created in the society


I still play bet9ja,but I vow never to play more than 100 naira,and I have been winning ....I predict unimaginable things eg when Germany korea was playing at this world cup,I played it handicap 1 for korea=4odds,I played japan to win Columbia(6odds and senegal to win poland(4odds


with that 100bucks I won 9k

Hardlife:
seriously bro. You think i am joking. Did i beg you for money. All i need are the recovery processes to get my life back. I am frustrated. Thank you for your understanding

Op i hv a question for u. Do u love urself at all? If u do u wud stop this self destructive attitude. Or did they jazz u with bet naija shop? My advice is make continuous effort, be determined to stop all these bad habits and destructive behavior. Learn how to stop being impulsive bt rather take u time and use ur sense for once. U are under d illusion dat bet naija can give u money cos im sure u don't just play for the fun of it. Disillusion ur mind for that nonesense and virtual world and deal with the real life and real issues. From today never step into any of those stores. Keep doing dat until u break d cycle. U have formed a strong bad habit and u need to break it with strong mind and force and get get ur life back into the right thinking process. Then u can be happy. Goodluck

GidiWoodsMan:


Don't mind the føøl. He's trying out a new local format he has just been taught.

Which local format? U get sense? The boy ask u for money?

Go to a reputable hospital and book an appointment with a psychologist or check yourself into a rehab

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

You need to go to a rehab. Locked up for like 2 months u will forget about it.

arruh:
bet9ja did not finish you.you finished yourself because you did not gamble wisely plus your greed.betting is not for everybody.I have made some good money from bet9ja.though I don't play visual. and I don't play more than 4 odds. young man stop betting because your head no carry luck for bet9ja

You play safe. I don't put money beyond 2 odds.

I dont understand this virtual..

Well, I play bets tho. Small odds daily.

BeingFrank:
I understand you very well, you need to pray personally for yourself. Ask your God to help you out that you are weak and falling. Then work on your mindset, start believing that getting N1000 everyday from a sure and more noble way is better than hoping for 50million from a source that has almost ended up ruining your life. Find a skill around you and acquire, be it barbing, IT skills, etc. Put yourself together and realize that what ever choice you make today, will reflect on you tomorrow, and you will be person to bear the consequences most. Pray, work on your mentality, find a skill, discipline yourself. Stop Pitying Yourself, Take Charge.

beautiful one.. and still tell your parents again so that they will continue praying for you.

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

am in your shoe before, but God has delivered me from playing bet9ja, nairabet, lionsbet, merrybet, bonanzawin and 1xbet, after I loss 170000 thousand, it turned me to real beggar, I made up my minds that I won't play it again....but what I did I bought 32g memory card, loaded it with seasonal films, action film, and Indian film I keep on watching films. any time I feel like playing bet9ja I will think twice that this money i will going to loss it, I have no motivation to play bet again. you have to find what will keep you busy....as for me now I just keep visit Facebook and nairaland, if Facebook and nairaland tired me, I will take out newspaper or historical textbook and read till I will tired and slept off....

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

BRO run to Omega Power Ministry (OPM) in Portharcourt on a sunday Morning (7:00am) and make sure you collect water spirit assignment, Doctor JESUS will handle the rest. Your case is too small to compare with cases i saw Doc. JESUS handle

fuckwell2080:
You are addicted to gambling. let me give you the secret of gambling. you play it with sense not stupidity. I started virtual last year from last year to this year 8th July I have won almost 3millon naira cash.but I did not won the money once I collect it step by step.the money I have even lost to bet naija is not even up to 150k so I am the winner not the looser. even if you remove 150k from 3millon the remaining 2millon plus is my profit.I don't play more than 1k a day in bet naija if I see am loosing after playing like 800 to 1k I move away instantly from the bet naija shop.Each game 150 naira.sometimes before I play once with 150 naira I win 5k,10k,20k and so on then I move instantly.There was a day immediately I enter the bet naija shop I just forecast a game with 500 naira I won 270k cash down instantly they have do transfer for me. so man up that is the secret but he no easy.virtual no be do or die affair.he who fight and run away live to fight another day.one love.

Very true lol. I went there yesterday, won 12k n left instantly. I used to be addicted to it, but now I play it for fun,maybe once or twice a month

LivingFree:
Cool story

Sister! A young man is dying of a terrible addictiont and seriously needs help,and all u can say is that the story is cool. Now Tell me, what is cool about this story?

adewumiopeyemi:
Seriously you are realy high on garri.. why would you say dis..

Another gambler spotted.

ozoebuka1:
i was disappointed when i saw you wasted your years in school, stole and everything yet your family especially your mum forgave you and cried and after seeing her tears, you still went back to play it again...

Bro, i can categorically tell you that you are just a selfish person!!!

You are not addicted to gambling, rather you are selfish and heartless for making your mum cry and still tryna do it again

bro i deserve all the insults. I like what i am getting. Because somehow the condemnation i am getting here has made me reflect on my past and my mother's feeling the day i told her. The condemnations are making me feel sober.

Right now, i feel so much clearer in my head. I feel like something has been lifted off. I hate myself now after reflecting all i have done. No jokes Seriously i thank you for this.

EmpresFIDEL:
beautiful one.. and still tell your parents again so that they will continue praying for you.

You are right. Thank you.

zlantanfan:
firstly you have taken a good step to acknowledge you have a problem, next that same conviction needs to always remind you subconsiosly that virtual is bad for you.

If you can find a way to go back to sch( a new sch and environment) even if its college of edu, try to get busy as much as you can with a new hobby becos gambling has become your passion and hubby.

In the build up don't allow so much money pass through you and try to go to church more and meet people who are making efforts to progress.

Forget your old friends, just build a new environment and ideology.

If you need more I can continue

yes please. Thank you so much. I need all the help i can get. Thank you so much.

Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

Hello brother, the lord is your strenght!
In 2010 world cup, I remembered vividly how I lost 50k bet. The worst of it all was that the money wasn't mine, i did pay back though but today looking back at how I wasted that money, I wish I knew better!
For you to get start the healing process, the first thing for you to do is FORGIVE yourself, then forgive Nairabet for all they have collected from you.
Get closer to God, look at the great future that lies ahead of you, start all over again.
It's never wrong to be wrong, but it is wrong to remain wrong!
God help you!!!

Admin401:
You should kill yourself because you are hurting the people around you. I'm sure your parents haven't done anything to deserve the kind of pain you are causing them. Think about it this way, by killing yourself - even though your parents will feel pain at your demise - you are actually saving them from years of pain and agony watching their own son wither away from what you call 'virtual' ( I don't even know what that means) I don't want you to think I'm being harsh on you but for once, put your parents needs first and not yours, you ungrateful bastard.

seriously bro no jokes when i say thank you for this your post. After reading all the condemnations. I feel like something has been lifted off me. I feel clearer about my past now. Right now i so much hate myself. I just thought of everything i have done. I have never been this sober in my life before. From the bottom of my heart, Thanks a million for this post.

bastien:
no u don't deserve any insult, at first you were the cause of your own mistake. If only you had reason the virtual is a programmed game to enable the bookies gain more, even the people that programmed it can win with it. How to stop it, it's very easy, a gambler can't stop being a gambler but can limit is behavior. What to do?
1. Engage in anything that will make ur mind far from virtual both online and offline

2. Engage in sport bet, and not the virtual.

3. Only stake on sport bet no matter how sure the virtual looks.

4. Stake 100 naira, cause that's the amount u can afford to lose without getting hurt.

5. Always go out without cash or cash higher than 100,cause virtual is 150

He needs to be isolated and properly treated of his mental disease and thereafter restricted to two kilometers distance to any gambling location.

Repeat after me!!!
Ntooor

Some people think this is a Joke. I swear visual game is demonic and satanic. It almost took my own life I swear . If I tell you my own story my brother . You’ll be amazed !!! But trust me . I ended the disaster myself. Coming to nairaland will only increase ur misery . There are lots of idiots on here. Add me in WhatsApp and I’ll tell you how I stopped . You can come back here and post the idea I gave to you . 08032960222

i think if start calculating how much have lost in virtual soccer its cclose to a million plus. The problem is not just you going back to the shop but you have to just accept defeat if you really waana stop, remove that mindset of recovering back your money, you see the worst part of it is that there are times you walk in and its just as if you know the game you come out with good cash before you say jack you are back the next day thinking its gonna be as yesterday and you are back to square one...my case was so bad that i play at shoprite where they use POS, long story short, my friend just accept defeat and see those money as something that was stolen from you and say i will not play again, i cant believe i still enter the shop and come out with out playing with money on me. You are the only solution to your self.

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

Call me. 07038148140. ). Nairaland can't help you at this point, I'm a counselor and I'll help you for free (over the phone)

Brother, your case is beyond what man can handle. You need jesus ASAP. he is the only one who can deliver you from this bondage. I gamble sometimes but am not addicted to it. There are times i enter a shop with as much as 10k but decide not to play and i woudn't. Its all about discipline. You need counselling from a real man of GOD. Remain blessed.

Like some had said, u are a stupid gambler. How can u be gambling on a particular thing for over 3 years and yet u couldn't decode the pattern u need to follow for to win.I play that virtual on my phone and I also study how to win it. I would have given u a pattern u need to win but the game has ruined ur life so the best thing is for u stop.
How to stop
1. Right now u a prodigal son, you have go to ur parents and confess to them. If that is difficult for u go through ur relatives but u must confess.

2. U should also live that school try and get a school in the middlebelt or north.
3. Pack ur things go home and leave that area that is if u have anything left.

Jethrolite:
What exactly are you saying, you are expecting government to shut down the business or what? Do not be ridiculous. I am indeed superior to this OP when it comes to having control over my life even though that was not my intention when I wrote. I started betting online when nairabet only offered 1X2 markets. I lost $200 in a single bet 2013. This world Cup I put up N5k, the moment I lost it I backed out.

you may feel that you re safe, however, you will soon have children [if you don't already] who will be far more susceptible. bet9ja is conciously targeting subsets of people who they can make lifetime gamblers.

People should learn to have direction and control over their lives. It is not for government to ban when people are not disciplined.

why do you think western governments have banned cigarette ads? because they recognized that these were snaring people into habits that would destroy their lives. note - i am not calling for a ban, but regulation

These things happen in all spheres of life, people abuse life saving medication, their finances and others, you should not expect government to intervene by banning.

businesses of all kinds are there to make profit. some will do it ethically, others do not care. emzor directly profited from codeine sales to addicts. ie they were actively involved in aiding and abetting drug dealers. thats the road you find yourself when businesses are not regulated

Since online betting came to Nigeria, it has spurred a new industry and created direct and indirect employment for thousands of Nigerians. You can not destroy all that because some punters have lost control of their lives.

yahoo boys make the same argument.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NScg98gYumI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=14anj-8OM0c


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZKzItDZ9fU

bastien:
no u don't deserve any insult, at first you were the cause of your own mistake. If only you had reason the virtual is a programmed game to enable the bookies gain more, even the people that programmed it can win with it. How to stop it, it's very easy, a gambler can't stop being a gambler but can limit is behavior. What to do?
1. Engage in anything that will make ur mind far from virtual both online and offline

2. Engage in sport bet, and not the virtual.

3. Only stake on sport bet no matter how sure the virtual looks.

4. Stake 100 naira, cause that's the amount u can afford to lose without getting hurt.

5. Always go out without cash or cash higher than 100,cause virtual is 150

Advice from the pit of hell!

Your boyfriend /girlfriend is suffering from HIV and your are advised to always close your eyes whenever you want to have cex with him/her.......

Someone is trying to be free killing habit you are still encouraging him to continue with the same.