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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by grandstar(m): 9:14am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

I will advise you seek counselling but it is expensive N20,000 per session

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 08, 2018
Swtfruitzrecord:
Easy on him, we don't wanna hear another case of depression cause it kills faster than a venom from a cobra.. the young man needs a help.
One thing I find interesting about his post is how despite wasting 4 years in school gambling, his parents still forgave him (which is a very big deal) but he still doesn't take pity on his parents and still wants to cause them more pain. You think this guy is human?

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ugolinze123(m): 9:15am On Jul 08, 2018
am really planning on writing something about this virtual soccer to the Nigerian Govt cus it has done more harm than good to our youths, it has destroyed em, make em always walk in this illusion of being a millionaire someday which will never happen, am really planning on this watch out.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by HighKing01(m): 9:15am On Jul 08, 2018
Won 32450 yesterday with my correct score 5-1 stake 500 till next week before I play again
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:15am On Jul 08, 2018
zhuche:
Whatsapp me, I wanna try to help +233549108926
i am not even on whatsapp. i sold my last phone to play and i lost. Now i have nothing. My phone now cant do whatsapp. Thanks sir. Please if you can help me in the other thread i would be very grateful. Check my other topic lets talk there. It is less congested than this one. Thank you once again.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by buchai: 9:16am On Jul 08, 2018
someone very special to me thought me a very good lesson about playing a card, you know all this cards people to take around for other people to sign and at the end theg will review the winning numbers or winning signs or symbols raffle card. he said his nephew brought a raffle card for him to sign for him he gradly took it and signed all most all the things in that card and left only one thinking that with that one left nobody will win him, the small boy took the card to his mother and the mother signed the remaining number in that card at the end my friend said he lost that the one he left thinking that nobody will win won from the card he said that day he stop playing cards i think ops you should use the same measure to stop your gambling and focus in your committed tasked at hand there is more to life than gambling away your future time and tide waits for nobody.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:18am On Jul 08, 2018
KINGOFAMEBO thank you for your advice. i have saved the page and copied it. God bless you
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sahaboi(m): 9:18am On Jul 08, 2018
i have played before that i couldn't have time to study wen I started my HND in 2016 which i lost so much..But I learnt so much from people i witnessed that lost so much than me that's not a good way..Thank God i stopped since early of last 2017..because i learnt ma lesson in a hard way.
i have someone here that lost millions of naira and learnt from him..just stay away from the shop, admit that you can't win..if you have girlfriend,let hr be with u always or chill around with her..
Try and play dream league instead of virtual

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 9:19am On Jul 08, 2018
Guy download Dream league soccer, give yourself target (like building all your players to 100) play it any time the urge comes...

I was once an addict and have lost close to millions on virtual..

Delete your bet9ja registered account

Do a kolo (traditional money safe) drop it anytime u have money with you and the urge comes

If u book game and wan play go with less than 200

Make up your mind, stay disciplined, read the bible or Quran, pray...

Its not easy but its achievable.......its a sucker

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Laredojohn(m): 9:19am On Jul 08, 2018
Aja n sáré owó n jóná grin
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Elliot2(m): 9:19am On Jul 08, 2018
had same experiece last yr during nysc as i was introduced to ftball betting. spent almost#130k someone sent to my acct. it was the last #20k that saved ma ass with a 9 odd ticket that entered. #say no to gambling.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Chubhie: 9:20am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
I initially started with nairabet but when they packed. i started using bet9ja. I lost both to nairabet and bet9ja. believe what i am saying. i am frustrated
Akinalabi should come and see his creation. Gambling is never good business.

Get a grip on your emotions. Imagine the odds of a man who can't control even his penis playing gamble?

You've been wired to get the thrills from betting and self-service. Two dangerous habits to plague one simultaneously.

You are lost beyond redemption according to logic.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:20am On Jul 08, 2018
Who be carma90 is he a scammer.. shocked
LexngtonSteele:
Gambling and most other forms of addiction are often self-inflicted.

Don't even start otherwise it's a downward spiral.

I know i have bad self-control so i don't even indulge / taste.

Wish you the best in recovering the pieces of your life
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by wizgrin(m): 9:20am On Jul 08, 2018
Virtual na bastard ooooo if uv never played it u wont know the pain behind it, bro i was once an addict i used all my life savings on it even though i tried to stop and even going to d length of telling newbies not to play it but secreatly i still go and play also but now i thank God have stop even not completely cse sometimes i just stroll into d shop to stake live bet but b4 i know it m already playing but now have stop completely with a margin of upto a month now i can control myself over it now the thing is just for u to control ur mind over it simple just try something upto a week, go into d shop with 5k watch d game smile and observe others playing it try not to play or determine not to play if u can do that for a week or 2 then i think u still have hope of stopping if u can control urself by not playing for 2 weeks and u have money on u then i think u are free good luck bro

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Zenithpeak(m): 9:21am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
i deserve all the insults on earth i know sad but i want to quit. I need help. I need recovery processes. I am tired and frustrated. The deed has already been done. I want to get my life back.

I love your courage despite the fact people are trying to Intimidate you and complicate the already complicated issues of your life. Believe me, if you can keep this mindset and draw (pray) from inexhaustible grace and mercies of CHRIST help will rise for you from heaven.

Demon(s) is always incharge of any addiction that is add to break. That's why you need God in truth and in holiness.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ireneidiva(f): 9:21am On Jul 08, 2018
ZxN657:
Are you a sports bettor? Visit my signature.
Just imagine.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by buchai: 9:21am On Jul 08, 2018
someone very special to me thought me a very good lesson about playing a card, you know all this cards people take around for other people to sign and at the end they will review the winning numbers or winning signs or symbols raffle card. he said his nephew brought a raffle card for him to sign for him he gradly took it and signed all most all the things in that card and left only one thinking that with that one left nobody will win him, the small boy took the card to his mother and the mother signed the remaining number in that card at the end my friend said he lost that the one he left thinking that nobody will win won from the card he said that day he stop playing cards i think ops you should use the same measure to stop your gambling and focus in your committed tasked at hand there is more to life than gambling away your future time and tide waits for nobody.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Kingsley1000(m): 9:22am On Jul 08, 2018
I still remember in the year 2015,during my school days,I was so broke to the extent that I had no money,luckily for me,one of my friends gave me 500 free.I started making budget on the cheapest food to cook


100....kerosene

200....rice

50....oil

50....maggi,onions,pepper,onga

50...crayfish

50....tomato


I was going to the market to purchase these itemz,unfortunately,I saw a friend infront of one bet 9ja chop in my street,after exchanging pleasantries,he said he has correct score(visual soccer)I decided to use 200to try my luck,hoping that if I win,I will use the money to add fish or meat to my jell of rice.......na so I lost everything dia,I nearly died



After begging the shop manager and explaining my prediction,I asked him whether he can give me 50naira outta the 500 I lost,the guy looked pity on me and gave me 100naira,I used it to buy 2egg rolls snacks,I chop am drink water sleep




betting is poisonous cheesy

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by impactmind: 9:22am On Jul 08, 2018
The only person with sensible advice
Vision2045:
Guy download Dream league soccer, give yourself target (like building all your players to 100) play it any time the urge comes...

I was once an addict and have lost close to millions on virtual..

Delete your bet9ja registered account

Do a kolo (traditional money safe) drop it anytime u have money with you and the urge comes

If u book game and wan play go with less than 200

Make up your mind, stay disciplined, read the bible or Quran, pray...

Its not easy but its achievable.......its a sucker

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 9:23am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
@
organism000 i could not quote your whole post. I think what you said is true. Whenever i am playing, i get this feeling of high in my system. When i loose, i increase the amount. The higher the amount, the bigger the feeling of highness i get. How can this be possible. Please help me

You are not in charge of your body, right now it is a shared space. What wakes you up in the morning ? What is that your body you see in the dream while there is you on the bed sleeping ?

Those basic questions may seem so simple, and unrelated, but nothing is unrelated in life and I am not writing this for you alone for all addicts like us. I am addicted to something too, but not drugs or gambling, I am addicted to reading. So mine is a positive addiction people might say, but it does rob me of lot of sleep, so you see, I used that same addiction to find out why I am addicted so let me go back to explaining now that you know you are dealing with a fellow addict.

That body that you see in the dream, is the body that is addicted to the gambling. It is the body that wakes up the physical carcass from sleep. That is the guy you must de-program.

The highness you feel is the 'experience' that 'that you', derives when ever you gamble. But the trouble here, is, that, that is the real you. This physical you remains a slave of that.

So, you must take care of him, so he can take care of you.

Do you need more of my help ?

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Abeycityng(m): 9:24am On Jul 08, 2018
GET yaself BUSY is the only solution bro..your story is very similar to mine
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:24am On Jul 08, 2018
Even football league is even better than that. Virtiual gane that can suck person live between 10 minute..
Sahaboi:
i have played before that i couldn't have time to study wen I started my HND in 2016 which i lost so much..But I learnt so much from people i witnessed that lost so much than me that's not a good way..Thank God i stopped since early of last 2017..because i learnt ma lesson in a hard way.
i have someone here that lost millions of naira and learnt from him..just stay away from the shop, admit that you can't win..if you have girlfriend,let hr be with u always or chill around with her..
Try and play dream league instead of virtual
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by wehgunit: 9:24am On Jul 08, 2018
Bros no body can help you except you help your self. Run away from anything call bet, think about your purpose in life and how you want to achieve it, try to find out if your luck is attacked to gambling, put yourself in the shoe of your parents are they proud of you or not, buy everything you will need once and reduce the amount of money you will be carry. Make betting shop taboo and always look at your self better than those who are in the shop. Before any money get into your hand have a targets, when I was in similar situation I used everything in my account to play cos I play online but when I discovered that am not doing my self any good, all I need to is to gave some one my ATM card to keep without the card I won't be able to fund my account. Lastly think about the height you want to attain in life can you really get that from gambling if yes look at the pain you will need to pass through before getting it,don't for all this thinking is not good for your health
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Aplaudez(m): 9:25am On Jul 08, 2018
was it the reason why you created your moniker

Hardline
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Aplaudez(m): 9:26am On Jul 08, 2018
was it the reason why you created your moniker

Hardlife
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:26am On Jul 08, 2018
Foxykevo:


Good morning bro.. It's not easy have experience a bad habit which took the better parts and years of my life but I was introduced to this site.. NoFab mhen it's really helped change and am happy to say that.. For like month now have not been doing what I was doing almost everyday of my life for 5years..you can reach me on dis for more help 09077796220. Note dis only you can help yourself.. Don't give up hope
thank you so much. I have taken down your number. I will text you. Thanks for your concern.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Zenithpeak(m): 9:26am On Jul 08, 2018
grandstar:


I will advise you seek counselling but it is expensive N20,000 per session




Worse than the problem (gambling) itself!

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by begunatoye(m): 9:27am On Jul 08, 2018
You can google jw.org and search for articles on gambling, i am sure u will get helpful tips.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by chrischukszy01(m): 9:27am On Jul 08, 2018
Your problem for ur head, mean while d first day u started u didn't inform us nairalander that u want u go into virtual betting, so ogbeni carry ur load!
Bet responsibly una no go hear. Greed na e kill bros!
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kechywillz(m): 9:28am On Jul 08, 2018
I was almost becoming an addict last year on gambling,the best way to stay off is to find a job,it will keep u away from iy
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by LexngtonSteele: 9:28am On Jul 08, 2018
IdeyFindWife:


Sharp guy.

People with "Addictive Streak" gene or "Dependency" tendencies who know their limits and are wise it disciplined about it often appear the strongest.

He would be wise to admit to himself that 'if given the chance, gambling go kill am', knowing deep down now that whatever Superman he is supposed to be in life, gambling is his kryptonite will help him dancer away from the edge.

He's lucky. What about us that chicks are our kryptonite nko? Do we walk around beaches blindfolded? Does betshop chase you like chicks do?

He's problems are simple, he just needs to realize himself and get a whole new set of life stimulants, catalysts & dreams to motivate him like godliness, therapy, mentoring & monitoring (accountability), skill acquisition, strong support groups, relationship with 'hard target' kinda high-achieving females etc



Great post. I channelled my own addiction into women. Especially high achievers. This made me rise up to the challenge and stay focused.

I know deep down i can't ever do drugs, because i would never stop.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:28am On Jul 08, 2018
Seriously you are realy high on garri.. why would you say dis..
Admin401:
You should kill yourself because you are hurting the people around you. I'm sure your parents haven't done anything to deserve the kind of pain you are causing them. Think about it this way, by killing yourself - even though your parents will feel pain at your demise - you are actually saving them from years of pain and agony watching their own son wither away from what you call 'virtual' ( I don't even know what that means) I don't want you to think I'm being harsh on you but for once, put your parents needs first and not yours, you ungrateful bastard.

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