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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:03am On Jul 08, 2018
Have seen someone that fainted on bet9ja before just because he use salary of worker in a company.. to play virtual league... may God help us..
Sahaboi:

I fear virtual cos i can't play it again...am still playing football league once in a while..it's interesting than virtual...how will baby go dey collect my money when m nt insane

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by smat101(m): 10:04am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
thank you sir. God bless you for the encouragement. My level of determination to stop now is very strong and with God i am hopeful. thanks for your concern
call me now...
08103377129
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:04am On Jul 08, 2018
Someone need your advise you are raining couse on him..
Admin401:
Another gambler spotted.

Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:04am On Jul 08, 2018
johnydon22:
Are you in Asaba?
yes sir.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kuffy05(m): 10:06am On Jul 08, 2018
I understand you perfectly bro
It would've been worst for me if I did not realise that I was heading for doom!
It was in my yr3 I discovered that I was trying to frustrate myself...to cut the long story short, i knew very well that no one points a gun @ me n order me to go play virtual, then I took the bold step and stop playing virtual permanently and I picked-up my broken pieces although I was and still playing fixture games but on my phone in my private bet9ja account.

Good thing is that you know there's a need to stop playing virtual or gambling @ large completely...
Truth is that " no body will stop it for you, you have to do it yourself"...
Remember nobody forces you to go play virtual...
The earlier u help yourself the better for you...
You have to be strong and break that habit before it breaks you completely .

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by johnydon22(m): 10:07am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
yes sir.
I'm coming to Asaba next week Thursday probably. I'll like to meet you

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Immatex(m): 10:07am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME sad SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES sad

Fellow, your underlying problem, is greed and inordinate love of money. Did the Bible not say at 1 Timothy 6:10: For the love of money is a root of all sorts of injurious things, and by reaching out for this love some have been led astray from the faith and have stabbed themselves all over with many pains.?
Little wonder you are in pains. Read verse 9 of that chapter, it says: But those who are determined to be rich fall into temptation and a snare and many senseless and harmful desires that plunge men into destruction and ruin.

Your solution lines is heeding the Inspired advice from 1 Timothy 6 vs 6-8: To be sure, there is great gain in godly devotion along with contentment. 7 For we have brought nothing into the world, and neither can we carry anything out. 8 So, having food and clothing, we will be content with these things.

Visit JW.org and search with the key gambling. You find many spiritual edifing Bible based publications that will help you successful conquer this immoral habit and liberarte from sin and death.

No one will live your life for you. Help useful before it's too late.

Best wishes

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by smat101(m): 10:07am On Jul 08, 2018
Call or flash me NOW!!!
08103377129
@Hardlife
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:08am On Jul 08, 2018
smat101:

call me now...
08103377129
thank you sir. I have written down your number now. I will do that. Thanks for your concern.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by vikakuzzdrumzy(m): 10:09am On Jul 08, 2018
bro I have been in almost the same situation ..i sold all i had , i sold my laptop, iphone ,properties lost alot of money ...i was so frustrated..see i understand perfectly what you are going through .I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY..and i can only tell and advice you on how to stop just the way i did ...its gonna be ok ...send me a message on instagram. (SWIT_OFFICIAL) OR ON FACEBOOK (SWIT VICTOR) . JUST KNOW THAT ITS ALL ABOUT GREEF AND YOU LL NEVET RECOVER ALL YOU VE LOST ..TIME,HONOUR,INTEGRITY,TRUST IF YOU CONTINUE.. SEND ME A MESSAGE AND LETS TALK.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Ibrahim505(m): 10:09am On Jul 08, 2018
The moment you discovered that you are doing wrong you are in the process of adjusting your life.
My advise are:
Relocate and change environment
Change friends
Work hard to earn a living
Be excellent with your job or skills

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by sammi21(m): 10:09am On Jul 08, 2018
Guy u don Bleep up...U r fucking gambler,U need to treat betting as a biz,not virtual oh...lemme give u my lil story...after graduating from skul,no job na normal tin for naija.so i got a casual job with just 30k pay monthly....i was able to save up to 60k after some months of working,that 60k i decided to deposit it into my bet9ja acc..Now here is wat i did,i play single games of 2.00 odds only,if i loose i double the amount for anoda game that same day until i win for that day(martingale strategy)only few people know this...Last season i built that money to 300k in just few months..Right now i bet with 4-5k on a daily basis,no loosing day for me as far as am concerned,i only loose only if am drunk from one grooving ground and unable to stake again after my previous loss...Am currently still maintaining my 30k job oh even tho i make 3times of that a month..i can stay home for 365days without working and i go live fine with no money problem,but i still decide to maintain my 30k bcus i no want people to start perceiving me as a yahoo guy..Nxt season go hot for this bookmakers them..finally, as the saying goes"what you dont know is bigger than u"

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:12am On Jul 08, 2018
johnydon22:
I'm coming to Asaba next week Thursday probably. I'll like to meet you
thank you sir. But i will be travelling to boji boji within the week just in case. Close to asaba. Before this happened again yesterday. I had post utme to prepare for. If you are willing, i can drop my number. I need all the help available. Thank you sir.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by spanzed(m): 10:12am On Jul 08, 2018
BeingFrank:
I understand you very well, you need to pray personally for yourself. Ask your God to help you out that you are weak and falling. Then work on your mindset, start believing that getting N1000 everyday from a sure and more noble way is better than hoping for 50million from a source that has almost ended up ruining your life. Find a skill around you and acquire, be it barbing, IT skills, etc. Put yourself together and realize that what ever choice you make today, will reflect on you tomorrow, and you will be person to bear the consequences most. Pray, work on your mentality, find a skill, discipline yourself. Stop Pitying Yourself, Take Charge.
You said it all..Early this year i had a big financial issue,i used a friends car and was involved in an accident i ask pops for money he said he doesn"t have i gaher all i had repair both cars and was helped by friends after i went broke i thought of way i could go back on my feet i found virtual i played the first day i won at least 5k but after that day bro i never win shit i kept owing the shop owners i had to caution myself and stopped playing for a while ,i played yesterday though and lost afterwards i no try am again after first game...I learnt that gambling isn't bad but failing to control yourself when you should stop would lead to your doom.OP please Man UP and stop wasting your life.Be determined and resolute.God help us all.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Albinoflash(m): 10:13am On Jul 08, 2018
Bro if i say i can help u it will be very funny cos' i need help myself.everything u passed through i have been there myself,infact u dey learn bros,i lost interest in school,can't do anything to help myself,infact am just believing in miracle right nw.my parents are ready to take me back to school,but the shame and disgrace alone is killing me cos people see me as mr. Intelligent and discipline,don't even knw wat to tell them happened.but surprisingly i have stopped playing virtual for nw,atleast for the past 4 months and counting and i no longer feel the urge.nw am trying to quit gambling in totality cos i neva see any responsible guy gambling.bros can't even explain my ordeal to anyone cos its beyond meself

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 10:14am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
What I will advise is for you to stop totally.. I was onece like you 4 years ago.. what realy tempt me is the big point.. that normally fall.. what I do then is to stake high one the big point then I later loose...I was bannish from work due to this but now.. God haave realy make sometin Good in my life.. I don't even near there talkless of smilling the place.. just get it in your mind that you can stop it.. I believe that you can overcome dis problem bro...... God is your strength.. You can do it.. I no is realy hard..

Are you saying he is stating the truth ?

I havent totally believed the tale.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
Someone need your advise you are raining couse on him..
Couse? What's that?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:15am On Jul 08, 2018
vikakuzzdrumzy:
bro I have been in almost the same situation ..i sold all i had , i sold my laptop, iphone ,properties lost alot of money ...i was so frustrated..see i understand perfectly what you are going through .I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY..and i can only tell and advice you on how to stop just the way i did ...its gonna be ok ...send me a message on instagram. (SWIT_OFFICIAL) OR ON FACEBOOK (SWIT VICTOR) . JUST KNOW THAT ITS ALL ABOUT GREEF AND YOU LL NEVET RECOVER ALL YOU VE LOST ..TIME,HONOUR,INTEGRITY,TRUST IF YOU CONTINUE.. SEND ME A MESSAGE AND LETS TALK.
thank you bro. i will text you. Should i text you on facebook or i should drop my number?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ozoebuka1(m): 10:15am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
Bro he need your advice. He has realise. His mistake why insulting him more rather than advising him... na wa for you oooo
Abeg go one side... I'm sure he said all those things the first time he cried to his mum and the woman forgave him and now he's back again with the same story line "i want to stop" angry angry angry

I told him the truth; he's not addicted to gambling, he's just a selfish and heartless person that doesn't care about the feeling of others especially his mum. If he loves his mom, he would always remember her pain and cries and that alone would be enough to stop him from going to a betting shop... I guess he doesn't love his mum and family enough that's why he always chooses his addiction over them. Hardlife

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Jethrolite(m): 10:16am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
Bro in Saudi arbia.. betting is not allowed and some other country. It can realy happen in Nigeria.. but I don't think so because those head of bet9ja have realy bribe. Some top people in Nigeria lottery commision.. I don't think they play dis. In kano. Kaduna and other northern state..
Lol, those hypocrites. Please mention a democracy that practises free trade where gambling is not allowed. USA has Las Vegas, even China self has Macau. This guy self never start, I know people that have gambled away real fortunes. He just needs to get a hold of his life, a career can not be built on gambling.

I also want to chop Bet9ja money but I have come to the conclusion the best way is to own my mega shop. Na N1m to start I de find like this so and I intend to add a lending service to my shop, who no want get sense go get sense by force when e use N2m Camry borrow N500k or use that N550k iPhone X borrow N50k with 30% interest monthly.

This world is survival of the fittest, survive or die. I may sound harsh but that is the reality.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by meetvic: 10:16am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Please try and read to the end.
I am a young guy early twenties. I
have been playing virtual since 2014.
I was never this useless and
unpurposeful.
My life changed when i entered university.
It all started in 2014 when i walked
into a nairabet close to my school and
saw people playing virtual. I decided
to play, as i remember i won that
period. I never knew the day i started was the
day i gave the devil the key to my life. In 2014, i spent my school fees on
virtual, lost everything. Sold my
phones, my feeding money and
everything. All went to virtual. So i was not able to continue my
education, though i remained in
school not letting my parents know till
this year. Dear reader, from 2014 to date have
been the worst years of my life. I stole
to play virtual, sold my properties, my
clothes, shoes. I became an addict. Even not being a
formal student, i still collected money from my parents, school fees
and allowance. Everything ends up in
virtual house. I could not even buy good clothes.

This link can be of help. https://www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=E&docid=102002523&srcid=share
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Jesus5656(m): 10:16am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER
U need Jesus.. Tell your Pastor
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by otokx(m): 10:16am On Jul 08, 2018
Gambling is destroying Nigerians faster than you can imagine and few people are speaking up against it.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by vikakuzzdrumzy(m): 10:16am On Jul 08, 2018
your whatsapp number is ok
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by spanzed(m): 10:17am On Jul 08, 2018
sammi21:
Guy u don Bleep up...U r fucking gambler,U need to treat betting as a biz,not virtual oh...lemme give u my lil story...after graduating from skul,no job na normal tin for naija.so i got a casual job with just 30k pay monthly....i was able to save up to 60k after some months of working,that 60k i decided to deposit it into my bet9ja acc..Now here is wat i did,i play single games of 2.00 odds only,if i loose i double the amount for anoda game that same day until i win for that day(martingale strategy)only few people know this...Last season i built that money to 300k in just few months..Right now i bet with 4-5k on a daily basis,no loosing day for me as far as am concerned,i only loose only if am drunk from one grooving ground and unable to stake again after my previous loss...Am currently still maintaining my 30k job oh even tho i make 3times of that a month..i can stay home for 365days without working and i go live fine with no money problem,but i still decide to maintain my 30k bcus i no want people to start perceiving me as a yahoo guy..Nxt season go hot for this bookmakers them..finally, as the saying goes"what you dont know is bigger than u"
Make we link up on whatsap bro.Text me on the number on 08166270978.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by vikakuzzdrumzy(m): 10:17am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
thank you bro. i will text you. Should i text you on facebook or i should drop my number?
your whatsapp number is ok
(Mo
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:19am On Jul 08, 2018
If you go to some bet9ja shope you will see people using there property to borrow money.. even laptop.. phone. Televison and so on just because of bet9ja.. may God help us.... quote author=Jethrolite post=69185130]Lol, those hypocrites. Please mention a democracy that practises free trade where gambling is not allowed. USA has Las Vegas, even China self has Macau. This guy self never start, I know people that have gambled away real fortunes. He just needs to get a hold of his life, a career can not be built on gambling.

I also want to chop Bet9ja money but I have come to the conclusion the best way is to own my mega shop. Na N1m to start I de find like this so and I intend to add a lending service to my shop, who no want get sense go get sense by force when e use N2m Camry borrow N500k or use that N550k iPhone X borrow N50k with 30% interest monthly.

This world is survival of the fittest, survive or die. I may sound harsh but that is the reality. [/quote]
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by jaxxy(m): 10:20am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
THANK YOU SIR FOR YOUR CONCERN. GOD BLESS YOU. I feel so much hopeful and determined now

Yes BE DETERMINED! U are the only one who can change ur life for good by the things u do and choices u make. It is a process, WORK HARD to become a BETTER PERSON u want to be. U must take Responsibility! Zuckerberg and dangote all have one head like u, its ur choices and actions that will make u, they won't break u. IJN.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:20am On Jul 08, 2018
Bro.. he is addicted to it.. is not ordinary all we just need to tell hime to go to a church for deliverance.. and tell her mom about the. Way forward he is ready to change. He has learnt his mistake...
ozoebuka1:
Abeg go one side... I'm sure he said all those things the first time he cried to his mum and the woman forgave him and now he's back again with the same story line "i want to stop" angry angry angry

I told him the truth; he's not addicted to gambling, he's just a selfish and heartless person that doesn't care about the feeling of others especially his mum. If he loves his mom, he would always remember her pain and cries and that alone would be enough to stop him from going to a betting shop... I guess he doesn't love his mum and family enough that's why he always chooses his addiction over them. Hardlife
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by McBrooklyn(m): 10:21am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
Bro it has been a wile was Good. cheesy

Lol.. Yeah Bruv, just been trying to keep my head above waters... cool


How you dey na??
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by johnydon22(m): 10:22am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
thank you sir. But i will be travelling to boji boji within the week just in case. Close to asaba. Before this happened again yesterday. I had post utme to prepare for. If you are willing, i can drop my number. I need all the help available. Thank you sir.
email your number to me.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:22am On Jul 08, 2018
OdiaI:
I have sent you an e-mail, try as much as possible to reply. Your life is not over. Four years is okay to learn whatever lesson you want to learn in life. You can still get it right. okay?
thank you ma'am. i cant even access my mails now. my phone is bad. All thanks to virtual again. But if you are willing, i can drop my number. You can call me or text me. Please if you feel i am a scam, hide your number when you call or text me. thanks for your concern

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