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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1stola: 11:34am On Jul 08, 2018
nosiebaba:
My guy your life self na virtual. Get close to God since you have realized the damage done. Study your Bible more than regularly so your mindset will reset and you will form new habits.
Mtcheeeeewu
Why are you advertising your own "God" to him?
How about Islam God
Hindu God
Buddha God
Etc?

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:36am On Jul 08, 2018
Thank God you open this thread for those people that have issue like this.. I caan see somepople here. Also withe the same issue. More than Yours. May God help us. cry

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1stola: 11:37am On Jul 08, 2018
Tolax17:
It's alarming how many young men are wasting their dear life, resources and time on gambling. You want to earn what you didn't work for. You're a fraud.
Thousands of young men play bets, how many have become millionaires- red flag
I can never pity someone like you. What you planted, you're ripping!

You need rehab
Best comment.
Don't mind the idiotic chronic gambler.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nosiebaba(m): 11:38am On Jul 08, 2018
1stola:

Mtcheeeeewu
Why are you advertising your own "God" to him?
How about Islam God
Hindu God
Buddha God
Etc?
I have advertised the ONLY ONE. THE one that loves me, the one I know, tested, tasted, and trust. You can't give what you don't have. Such as I have I give. If it pains you too much then.. I'M NOT SORRY.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sweetmom: 11:41am On Jul 08, 2018
I was addicted to gambling between the age of 13 to 16 I gambled away my tuition, lesson fees, school sandals, stole, e.t.c playing snooker and video games , I thank God for that early experience because it is not happening now when I am an adult with a family to provide for, also I learned to take calculated risks and also to stay away from any form of addiction, my point here is that like womanizing or drugs gambling like any form of addiction takes time to overcome and most people that face them later than earlier in life get more affected because the stakes are higher,my advice is to not try to stop abruptly, but keep a budget for it that keeps decreasing gradually until you are spending next to nothing on it.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by McBrooklyn(m): 11:42am On Jul 08, 2018
lostluggage:
angry Mans life ehn, dealing with addictions. If no be kush Na alcohol Or refnol, Or codeine, Nicotine sef Some na just Gambling! Soapy nko? Everyone isssa Saint Some na pussy... Nd dick na Dis one kill pass.. Some na just ashi... Dem don forget how to toast woman. Some na crack.... ** DAT one na killer*** Some are even addicted to being good ... Dey get bleeped up everyday.
Some even have all.. In their hands...
Welcome to Life and Struggles
Lol... I swear... grin grin
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Chriz(m): 11:42am On Jul 08, 2018
You never see something. Continue!
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Jethrolite(m): 11:43am On Jul 08, 2018
oyb:


i just realised you are one of the many slow thinkers here so i took the time to spell it all out for you. i usually do not bother, but gambling is a growing epidemic that governments are ignoring because of tax returns. others will read and understand




small wonder. you're another of those selfish Nigerian Christians who drives past accidents crowing 'not my portion. my miracle working god guided from the calamity that hit my human beings' . i am always blessed and everyone else can go to hell

https://www.nairaland.com/4605279/finished-bet9ja-virtual-ruined-educationmy/11#69185421

or going from your other posts on the subject - you're desperate to join the train of exploiting poor nigerians so you can cash in BEFORE the inevitable regulation and end of the gravy train. you actually want more people like hardlife who you can impoverish then turn round and insult.

https://www.nairaland.com/4473040/nairaland-auto-dealers-brokers-stop

thats says all that needs to be said about you. dodgy hustler
I was going to ignore you but I like that you're a brilliant person. Bro believe me, you're not half as benevolent as me. I do not want to start mentioning numbers, it just isn't right. I am definitely a hustler but definitely not dodgy.

I'm a Christian but I do not attend church, I worship in my heart. Religion is too much load for me to carry.

To the contrary, I have almost lost my life by falling into a very deep pit on Lagos road when trying to rescue market women who lost a tyre and overload dragged the bus into a pot from the road. You do not know me so stop assuming.

You can call it exploiting but I call it business. If there is a market, it is my duty as a capitalist to serve that market. It is your duty as a self proclaimed crusader to advise people to stop gambling and see if they listen. Do your job well and I will be out of business.

Despite the fact that I like your brilliance, I am not enjoying this conversation as I do not see the gain for me and I hate wasting my time.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by OdiaI(f): 11:45am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
@ odiaI. my phone is a small phone. it cant open mails. I am sorry. If you want to help me with recovery processes, and you feel i am lying you can click the other topic i created yesterday. It is less congested. Thank you. God bless. I have no reason to lie. Like i said when @ addictdoctor called. He restricted his number. I can give you my fb username. If you go through it, you will see i am telling you the truth.
Oh Okay...I understand now. How can you be contacted then?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by OdiaI(f): 11:45am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
@ odiaI. my phone is a small phone. it cant open mails. I am sorry. If you want to help me with recovery processes, and you feel i am lying you can click the other topic i created yesterday. It is less congested. Thank you. God bless. I have no reason to lie. Like i said when @ addictdoctor called. He restricted his number. I can give you my fb username. If you go through it, you will see i am telling you the truth.
Oh Okay...I understand now. How can you be contacted then? What is your Facebook I.D?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by McBrooklyn(m): 11:45am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
have been on low.. key with this harsh economy.. cool

Lol... Ah no believe say this harsh economy go reach your own side too ooo... cheesy
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by GoodGovernance: 11:47am On Jul 08, 2018
So how romantic is this story na?

Moderator,are you still there?

undecided
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1stola: 11:49am On Jul 08, 2018
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nosiebaba:

I have advertised the ONLY ONE. THE one that loves me, the one I know, tested, tasted, and trust. You can't give what you don't have. Such as I have I give. If it pains you too much then.. I'M NOT SORRY.
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How many have you tasted?
Keep deceiving yourself.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Awareness23: 11:52am On Jul 08, 2018
I was once a victim, but it all depend on your mind set, u can stop if your really want to, i even played with my school fee, but I have stop it and not going back, inside the bet9ja shop somebody even stole my 50euro send to me to buy something, just pray and let God lead

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 11:56am On Jul 08, 2018
Jethrolite:
I was going to ignore you but I like that you're a brilliant person. Bro believe me, you're not half as benevolent as me. I do not want to start mentioning numbers, it just isn't right. I am definitely a hustler but definitely not dodgy.

I'm a Christian but I do not attend church, I worship in my heart. Religion is too much load for me to carry.

To the contrary, I have almost lost my life by falling into a very deep pit on Lagos road when trying to rescue market women who lost a tyre and overload dragged the bus into a pot from the road. You do not know me so stop assuming.

So? you tried to help a single person somehow means you are not a bad person? or it s only things you see in front of you that you are bothered about?

think about this - people are using their school fees , their money for the month, the company money, the money for feeding, their children's school fees , money client gave them to buy car [that one is up your alley, not so?] to fund their gambling habit. these choices will cascade and cause them no end of misery.

there is no such thing as pure black and white. even the most evil men in history have people who will say they did good for them. that is a flawed analogy. you think yahoo boys don't also help people? do you think your helping one single person will somehow undo all the other lives you have destroyed?



You can call it exploiting but I call it business. If there is a market, it is my duty as a capitalist to serve that market. It is your duty as a self proclaimed crusader to advise people to stop gambling and see if they listen. Do your job well and I will be out of business.

and that is precisely why there is a need for government regulation. most 'capitalists'' left to their own devices will destroy their customers for profits. this is not a benign business. it is a business that is actively destroying people. the OP is just one of thousands of people who are destroying their jobs, families etc because of gambling addiction.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Lorechino(m): 11:56am On Jul 08, 2018
please he. won't win even 5million in visual. visual is. not. sports bet
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Chikicaka(f): 11:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Drabeey:





You need to follow some steps, very crucial you stand by it. i was once in your shoes, if not more worse. You need to get back to me, i will help you get through this, it requires some doggedness.


Dont, make up your mind that you want to quit. you need to trick your brain to get over it.
First of, you need to let your brain believes you need to make money and you can't only get it through gambling.
Set a limit for yourself, how? The total money you can lose par day is #5000(get your digits right)
go back to that betting store, get your predictions right and play on...... immediately you lose to your limits, DON'T QUIT!
Get some pieces of paper, just try and predict the outcomes of the virtual games, play with the virtual money and see if you lost or won!

do this for a whole month and get yourself the results, are you on the losing side or the winning side.

if you are on the losing side, let this pop into your mind, "you can never win the house"
moreso, if you are winning too, try and get your score sheet and see why you are losing, may be it is 'anxiety' of money or stupidity.
some people get afraid when they have the money and wants to 'play safe' when they have the money to stake' . my friend there is nothing like sure games when it comes to gambling, that's why sometimes... big odds beats smaller odds( topic for another day).
All you need now is your soul! how do we safe it? Lets do it together. use this little tricks and let me know the outcome, so that we can know what to do next. Thanks



drabeey was here

Nice Psychological theory on paper, but in the Op's case he is far gone in the addiction and going back to test run should be a no no, there is no need checking his loss or gains if he has been on it for 4yrs now it shouldn't take an extra month to cross check, he has to QUIT now, easier said than done but possible.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sarang(f): 11:59am On Jul 08, 2018
lostluggage:
angry
Mans life ehn, dealing with addictions.
If no be kush
Na alcohol
Or refnol,
Or codeine,
Nicotine sef
Some na just Gambling!
Soapy nko? Everyone isssa Saint
Some na pussy... Nd dick na Dis one kill pass..
Some na just ashi... Dem don forget how to toast woman.
Some na crack.... ** DAT one na killer***
Some are even addicted to being good ... Dey get bleeped up everyday.

Some even have all.. In their hands...

Welcome to Life and Struggles


That is eeh grin
Sorry op
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jul 08, 2018
Organism000:


I totally understand. I have my own addictions too. But I also know how to break them.

Being on nairaland is an addiction for me.
Reading is an addiction too.
Creative think is also a real addiction.

I have tried many ways to break addictions, sometimes I replace one addiction with another. Which means, I actually substitute the action, and put another action on the motor neurons that control my addictive programming.

I am able to do this, because I understand the underlying mechanics of the programming which is not physical. It is on a non-physical wiring of the light body. So each time you carry out the act of addiction, serotonim is released to the brain when you play and melatonin is released when you loose. The astral body enjoys the sensations that comes from those 'Aha' moments. You are feeding the demon, which actually is your astral aspect of the memory.

How do you break the cycle ?

At this stage, if you are serious about breaking this totally, without going through abuse. You must follow this rule and undergo total body change.

I want to give you a simple exercise that will break the entire cycle cos it is a total life-style change. The entire program has nothing to do with breaking addictions, but it will change the configuration of the programming of your Astral body. And when that change, the neuro-transmission in your brain will fire differently.

Take a pen and write these down;

1. Wake up daily at 7:AM by setting an alarm, I mean Set an alarm, do not say you will wake up by yourself. Use your Phone set alarm, Sharp 7AM it wakes you up, no matter how you feel, get the fucck out of bed.

2. Get a 1 litre bottle or plastic bottle, it has to be 1litre or more. Go to a shop and find 1litre fruit juice bottle, and buy, pour away the damn fruit, do not drink that chemical, pour it out and take the container home. When the alarm wakes you up. Fill the damn 1 litre with clean, I mean purified clean water. If you have pure water, boil and transfer it, I mean distill water. Drink 1 litre of distilled water every hour as follows;

Set the alarm to ring at 7:AM, 8AM, 9AM,10AM- those are 4 hrs, and you must empty each litre to your stomach every hour. Through out the day, you will piss out the entire karma from your body. The water will purify you into your light body. water is a multidimensional cleaner. It was not created by the Anunaki Gods, it is from the Divine Creator. So drink for 21 days.

I mean 21 continuous days without a break, 4 litres a day, DO NOT fail. At 21 days, the water has melted away all the neuro-programs of addictions.

These 21 days, you must not gamble.

3. During these 21 days of 4 Litres each at 6PM, meditate. Meditation here, I did not say Pray. Do not call on any God or angel. You will be in charge of your body. No one being or God should interfere with you. Meditation I want here should be 20 minutes or more. Just close your eyes and look at your eye lids, you will perceive floods of thoughts and each time you remember of thinking, draw your attention back to your eye lids and keep your eyes shut and observe the blankness. Try not to think, and each time your thoughts come, you will notice they are negative thoughts, do not judge yourself. Those are the memory programs of your subconscious mind. That is showing up and deleted.

Do this and 21 days after you are a new you.

You will continue this after discreation at your own and your life will be great. If this my username stays one till then, contact me, then I will tell you how to connect to your Divine aspects and turn your life around. Cos you need to make some money, but not without de-programming the addiction.
Great. Please shed some light on the highlighted part. Thanks.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Stephenjosh007: 12:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
You have insect eyes(ojukokoro)
If you determine you want to stop bro you will...
I am once in your shoes
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Mujtahida: 12:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
CaptJeffry:
You must be a stupid gambler. I gamble in Vegas whenever I spend a weekend there but I stick to my limits.

Anyway why am I wasting my time when you might just be a random scammer. undecided


Whenever a human being is in trouble and cries out, resist the urge to openly blame the person. Tell him the truth but with compassion. If e go kill himself now na same we go dey shout 'why didn't you ask for help'.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Lorechino(m): 12:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
I can help you man, if you will adhere to my instruction 08136756744 chat me on fb
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sarang(f): 12:02pm On Jul 08, 2018
jksxxxx:
Dear I was like you virtual is worse than MMM when I tell people they would feel it's a lie ..see the only way you can get rid of the habit is this
1. Learn not to hold cash at hand .
2.Get your self occupied ..because you tend to visit the betshop when you have thing doing
3. tell yourself that you are a changed man and by being change you need to know that the winnings are not for you .so ignore those that are winning because the gambling system on a long wrong you loss 80 percent of what you won
4. It take 31 days for something to become and habit .so take your alarm and calender and write a reminder every 7am and 7pm reminding you on your promise to stop betting .
5. It is not too late to tell your parents because with Thier prayers you can over come ..me I lost over 900k to virtual from 2017 to 2018 now for 4 months I can say I have not visited or login Thier system .
6. Make sure you destroy your ATM card and never leave money more than 1k in your hand ..with the above include prayers and God would see u through

21 actually
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by gidjah(m): 12:05pm On Jul 08, 2018
CaptJeffry:
You must be a stupid gambler. I gamble in Vegas whenever I spend a weekend there but I stick to my limits.

Anyway why am I wasting my time when you might just be a random scammer. undecided


haba my able captain,u aff allowed this una "over suspicious character of the west "take d better part of you.you still be naija man proper so get that right ,we still have love and compassion for our neighbours o.wush him well andpray for him always,if u gat any good advice for a bros,u should let him have it.By d way u dey reach vegas for games sef,!!! ,haahaha u be big boy o

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by tega10: 12:06pm On Jul 08, 2018
Brother..... Just go on YouTube and listen to Abel damina. He points you to Jesus. Jesus loves and will turn your life for good. Jesus never condemns.. Never!!!!!
If you can, drop your number so we talk better Thanks
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nosiebaba(m): 12:07pm On Jul 08, 2018
1stola:


How many have you tasted?
Keep deceiving yourself.
If i am deceiving myself how is it your problem. Someone else is drinking something but you are the the one feeling the effect. Na wa!
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by tega10: 12:08pm On Jul 08, 2018
Or better send me a Facebook friend request @ambrose osuagwu
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nosiebaba(m): 12:09pm On Jul 08, 2018
1stola:


How many have you tasted?
Keep deceiving yourself.
I'm deceiving myself yet you are the one feeling cheated! undecided
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jul 08, 2018
Pharovo:
For a greater part of 3 years i thought i was the only one going through this kind of problem. Bet9ja virtual ruined my life that i had rent some parts of my apartment to strangers to be able to keep up. Stole from my girl and even my younger sister to go and gamble on virtual sport. I have grown thin and ugly, looking tattered most of the times all because of this addiction. I promised myself to never visit the betting shop again but was only able to achieve this feet for about a 4-5 weeks before i went back with money saved up by me and my girl to rent a shop, lost the whole 180k within the space of 4 days. Now i have lost her too, lost my confidence and hope. Total money I have lost this year alone to virtual sport is more than 1.2million which includes my rent and other peoples money. The thought of suicide had crossed my mind countless times as i am now in huge debt. Please i need your help to help me curtail this addiction. Please help a brother.
bro just tell your self you can overcome this OK. many of us has lost countless amount of money to bet9ja. this year alone I have sincerely lost up to 600k ,there are times I fill so down but I pick my self back up and soldier on. hopefully by God grace I would stop finally or limit the way I stake on games. God help us

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Emmy9ite02(m): 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2018
adegeye38:

Firstly, realise that Virtual is simply computer programming, you can never ever really win, it was programmed, dat way, pple just play to lose money, i was involved in Virtual once, but virtual nd normal bettings, lost close to 700,000

How did i get out?

God, he simply got me out, i had a purpose, am a producer, and i needed quick money to fund a project and live large too, but God now made me realise my folly of not trusting him enough to give me what i want, and chasing shadows, gambling is devilish, its a spirit and it torments

But thank God, am free now, God singlehandedly Got me out of it and i was delivered

But i also made a self conscious decision to stop and give my life and everything i am to God and its been wonderful since den

Give your life to christ, pray to find a purpose and slef consciously decide to stop, i was also addicted to masturbation and porn too, its seems dey all worked together, anytime i masturbate, the urge to gamble, comes and anytime i gamble i lose, i masturbate to porn the whole 3 was all working hand in hand not only to ruin my life, but to put my soul on d path of hell!!

It took a big intervention from God, to set me free, God loves me so much and he also loves you too, I am a living testimony of his existence, if not for God it would have been practically impossible to break an addiction that have plagued me for 6 years just like that

God has indeed been faithfull, my brother God is ,100% real, repent from your life of sin and sincerely give your life to him and ask for his help, he will definitely help you

You urself must make this decision, it a mutual decison of God working hand in hand with you to help you out, also find a bible believing church to regularly attend, i would suggest winners chapel, its a wonderful place to be.

God bless you

Story of my life sir. You just took the comment straight from heart. I had to make a death covenant with God during my WOFBI Bible school never to bet again. Salvation + a conscious effort to change is what Op needs.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 12:15pm On Jul 08, 2018
OdiaI:
Oh Okay...I understand now. How can you be contacted then? What is your Facebook I.D?
thank you. I have just accessed my mail. Never knew it is enabled on my small phone. I sent you a mail back. Sorry for the inconveniences. I did not know it would open on my phone. Did you get the mail?

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ayoyonet(m): 12:18pm On Jul 08, 2018
Sorry for u. Betting is not good

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