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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2018
This thing that is doing you is from the village.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jul 08, 2018
This thing that is doing you is from the village grin.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1bunne4lif(m): 12:22pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER
07035683200
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 12:27pm On Jul 08, 2018
tega10:
Or better send me a Facebook friend request @ambrose osuagwu
i will sir. Thanks for your concern. I will text you soon

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Papvz: 12:29pm On Jul 08, 2018
I think most people here don't understand what addiction to gambling really means. I have been there and can tell you there is not one particular way to avoid it, all you have to do is pray and find something that preoccupies and take away your time. This thing most also be something you enjoy and gradually you will find a way out but it is a gradual process and try staying away from bet shops. Try mobile virtual it not as interesting as actual bet and you probably won't enjoy it.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Amberon11: 12:31pm On Jul 08, 2018
I am in OPM right now and doctor Jesus is really in action.
dingbang:
Go to opm, doctor Jesus in action will heal you



By the way, first bank customers should click the link on my signature for exciting new information. Thanks
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Alaboh: 12:34pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
My friends, i became useless. No
good clothes, no property, no
certificate to hold in the end. While my mates left for class, i go to
the virtual store to watch others play. From 2014 till now i stayed in school,
3 years of it was allocated to virtual
gambling. 1 year was to hang around
chasing girls. I became unpurposeful. I lied to everybody that i was in
school while i was not. If i should continue writing, nairaland
would not be enough to write what
virtual has done to me. My life is useless now, my mates are
graduating. All my friends have left
the school. So last year, i could not hold on to the
lies much longer because final year
was fast approaching.
What will i say then. So i took the
courage and broke the sad news. I am from a very responsible home. I
was accepted back in the family. My
mother cried so much. She could not
believe 4 years of my life wasted. My
friend, i almost developed high blood
pressure. I started masturbating to relieve my
stress but never helped.

Why wouldn't you lose virtual sports when you trade in shop and you tradr without a profit tool

Yes at first I lost too until i noticed something... If u place a bet on an obvious team that'll win, since its virtual, you wouldn't win because the game will be manipulated.

Virtual football is my secondary source of income... Sport betting cannot make someone a millionaire over night..

With the right tool and knowledge on statistics, what i do is trade 1 hour a day, make 500 or 1000 naira per and quit for the rest of the day...

If you want the tool people use visit Virtualcalculator..com

If you want to learn how to crack a strategy or loop to use, visit vflhacks.com
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by dingbang(m): 12:34pm On Jul 08, 2018
Amberon11:
I am in OPM right now and doctor Jesus is really in action.
confirm cool
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jul 08, 2018
Gambling is destructive and addictive.it was what almost destroyed Wayne Rooney's career if not for Sir Alex Ferguson.The believe dat u can hammer frm gambling is all a fraud.op fight against dat urge to gamble.when u are an addictive gambler u find it hard to save money.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by AxceX(m): 12:36pm On Jul 08, 2018
mayortm001:
Perhaps that virtual shop you played your first game was initiated that anybody who plays bet there must die with betnaija cheesy
there's no such thing as that,but surprisingly every first timer somehow manage to get a win,then that feeling of ama destroy them comes to mind n before the end of the day you'd probably be in debt grin

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by handsome86(m): 12:36pm On Jul 08, 2018
Xtine22:

bro, don't give up! continue playing as you may chop 50m one day to recover ur losses.... always play sure game
alubam ino there
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Sahaboi(m): 12:37pm On Jul 08, 2018
sammi21:
Guy u don Bleep up...U r fucking gambler,U need to treat betting as a biz,not virtual oh...lemme give u my lil story...after graduating from skul,no job na normal tin for naija.so i got a casual job with just 30k pay monthly....i was able to save up to 60k after some months of working,that 60k i decided to deposit it into my bet9ja acc..Now here is wat i did,i play single games of 2.00 odds only,if i loose i double the amount for anoda game that same day until i win for that day(martingale strategy)only few people know this...Last season i built that money to 300k in just few months..Right now i bet with 4-5k on a daily basis,no loosing day for me as far as am concerned,i only loose only if am drunk from one grooving ground and unable to stake again after my previous loss...Am currently still maintaining my 30k job oh even tho i make 3times of that a month..i can stay home for 365days without working and i go live fine with no money problem,but i still decide to maintain my 30k bcus i no want people to start perceiving me as a yahoo guy..Nxt season go hot for this bookmakers them..finally, as the saying goes"what you dont know is bigger than u"

what works for u may nt work for other people..,don't be too excited mr man....nothing is sure in life...that's how it started before things will change..wish u well bro in ur endeavour
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Amberon11: 12:38pm On Jul 08, 2018
I have done worse than you though not with betting but trust me whatever you have lost, I have lost and made my parents lose x100 of it. The mistake you made was not telling your parents on time. Family will always accept you when others reject you. That is something I've learnt.

Do not give up. Do not look at where your friends are. Life is not a race. Just pick up whatever pieces left and move on without looking back. That your friends are ahead of you now doesn't mean they will finish ahead of you.

Please locate OPM Omega Power Ministries. Just take up the assignment and I guarantee you, you will be delivered of that betting spirit. Anyone telling you it's not a spiritual issue is deceiving you.
Do not listen to them. I also had an addiction that I couldn't stop on my own but God delivered me from it.

I wish you good luck. But pls locate OPM, this is not a joke.
Hardlife:
seriously bro. You think i am joking. Did i beg you for money. All i need are the recovery processes to get my life back. I am frustrated. Thank you for your understanding
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jul 08, 2018
ItzChinnex:


Lmao. .

I remember one boy like that, he used both his school fee and Hostel rent in playing 9ja bet and boom!!! 120k is gone. He started walking around my area, begging random people to stay with at least for a day. He told his parents that he was robbed and of course, he parent knowing him to well never believed him.

He started squatting with a friend of mine and later, he was asked to come home by his parent because they couldn't afford to send another money. That was how he lose his admission he spent 3 year in finding .


I remember walking my friend to a Bet9ja shop, and I was tempted to play. After they ate my 300naira, and i remembered what happened to that boy, bros, I used the speed of light to evacuate that shop.
the guy wey u dey yarn about na village ppl tinzs dey worry am.dem remote control am frm village.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 2kurupt(m): 12:39pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
seriously bro. You think i am joking. Did i beg you for money. All i need are the recovery processes to get my life back. I am frustrated. Thank you for your understanding

You need to see a counselor so that you can undergo a rehabilitation programme. Just like every other addiction, gambling problems can be solved too.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Amberon11: 12:41pm On Jul 08, 2018
If you are in Lagos locate Synagogue church of all Nations. If you're in Port Harcourt locate OPM.

If in Lagos go to SCOAN on any day, try to soak with one of their workers, tell them your problem.
If you're lucky they will arrange you on prayer line and you will see the man of God prophet TB Joshua and he will administer prayer which will bring Deliverance to your life. Thanks and stay blessed.
Hardlife:
please were you addicted to virtual before. How did you overcome it. I cant stay a minute without thinking about my life and money i have lost. Right now, my heartbeat is above normal. I am so frustrated. Please help me.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kernel508: 12:45pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER


I will help you, only if you turn to Christ. I'm not a Born again Christian, but I've been there, it helps.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by McBrooklyn(m): 12:46pm On Jul 08, 2018
Zoharariel:


I am going to help you even though I am not a gambler. Around 2013, I was at Cele Bus Stop on Akowonjo Road in Egbeda drinking beer & eating pepper soup with a friend.

There was a Baba Ijebu kiosk just by the beer parlour. It was on a Saturday evening and I noticed people in their tens trooping towards the Baba Ijebu kiosk.

And then suddenly, I saw a policeman alighted from a Sienna van with his wife and walked towards that Baba Ijebu kiosk.

Then Iblis (Satan) entered into my friend and he told me we should go to the Baba Ijebu kiosk to observe what was going on. grin

I plugged the bottle of my Heineken beer into my mouth & downed the content in a gulp. We got up and matched in the direction of the Baba Ijebu kiosk like soldiers going for illegal oil bunkering in Port Harcourt. grin

I noticed people were yelling at the Baba Ijebu agent to input & play some numbers for them. grin

An Igbo guy pulled over by the kiosk & alighted from his Infinity FX something (I can no longer remember the model). He stretched forth his hand to pass a slip of paper on which some numbers were written to the Agent.

Guess what? Right in front of my eyes, the Igbo guy staked 50,000Naira on just 3 numbers. shocked

As the agent was punching the numbers into his red machine, I positioned my neck like a Peruvian giraffe just to catch a glimpse of those numbers - and I saw "single 5, 12, 48". I quickly brought out my Blackberry phone and typed the numbers in my notepad so that I do not forget them.

I equally copied more numbers from other "professional gamblers" who were at the kiosk to play the lotto.

Eventually, I staked about 4,500Naira on 11 different numbers altogether. My friend did the same. We were handed a ticket confirming the transaction & we went back to the beer parlour & ordered more drinks while awaiting the results. grin

An hour later, a guy who was at the kiosk when I played came shouting "Bros, you don win, result don commot". I left my beer & jumped to the kiosk like a cheetah chasing an impala. grin

I quickly gave my ticket to the agent, he looked at the numbers told me I had won 37,000Naira including my friend. We started jubilating& gyrating. We collected our winnings & ordered 2 cartons of guilder for our well wishers & the people who congratulated us on account of our glorious success. grin cheesy grin

And that was how my 3-month internship with Baba Ijebu and my journey into gambling was commissioned & activated by Iblis (Satan) and his entire hosts from Hell Fire. grin cheesy grin

My Advice To You:

I want you to write the following quote boldly on a thick piece of paper, laminate it, keep it in your wallet and be reading it out loudly morning & night for the rest of your life. grin

"Gambling is the child of avarice, the brother of iniquity, and the father of mischief.” – George Washington

Hahahaha... grin grin

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nuele(m): 12:46pm On Jul 08, 2018
Note this statement of yours : "But I keep on chasing my losses".

Let go of that and you will be fine ( i.e remove the fire/driving force, and you will experience calm).
Its glaring you a very intelligent person, don't waste your life.

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME sad SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES sad

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by wiseone28: 12:47pm On Jul 08, 2018
I'm waiting for most leagues to start make i start wining...But am not addicted
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Teeyin(m): 12:47pm On Jul 08, 2018
ha virtul what....bro no bi only you.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by olanrewaju99(m): 12:48pm On Jul 08, 2018
All I see is village people at work you really need a big deliverance.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kernel508: 12:50pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
please were you addicted to virtual before. How did you overcome it. I cant stay a minute without thinking about my life and money i have lost. Right now, my heartbeat is above normal. I am so frustrated. Please help me.


To be honest with you, I was a great gambler, I don't want to tell you how much I started with, but one day I had a dream to desist from it, doing those period I was financially unstable, I just had to withdraw the remaining money, tried it two times again, and it didn't work, I stopped.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jul 08, 2018
My Story Is Lyk Urs But A Little Different,I Started Gambling 2015 When I Followed A Friend To Merrybet,Me Dat Use To Have Enough Money Wit Me Became Sum1 Dat Cnt Save #50,The Worst Year I Ever Had In My Lyf Was In 2016 When I Gambled With My Skul Fees I Became A Laughing Stock Dat I Almost Ran Mad If Nt 4 D Grace Of God I Wud Have Bin A Skul Drop Out,Dose Dat Cnt Luk At Me To Talk,Will Use Dat Event Den To Abuse Me But When God Took Control,I Became A Man Of Myself Dat If Any1 Remind Me Of Dat Event D Person Will See Hell I Was Able To Stop Playing Virtual Through Prayers Nd Determination Nt To Enter Gambing House Nd Make Sure Ur Parent Shud Never Giv U Important Cash To Hold Lyk Dat Of Ur Post Ume But Dey Can Giv U Ur Food Money because If U Use Dat1 Wen Hunger Finish U,U Will Learn Lesson Nd Dey Shud Put U In A Fellowship In Ur Skul So Dat Dey Can Monitor U Gudluck

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Johnsown1(m): 12:56pm On Jul 08, 2018
My brother ur the one that can help ur self and ur life, the thing is, when you did not control things;it will definitely ruin u. Ur own is 3 years Only, there are some people that their life has been ruined. No need to cry over spilt milk, i advice u to dust Yourself, Change environment and pursue ur goals.
once there is life there is hope.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Chikicaka(f): 12:56pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
please were you addicted to virtual before. How did you overcome it. I cant stay a minute without thinking about my life and money i have lost. Right now, my heartbeat is above normal. I am so frustrated. Please help me.

I would create a new topic for you OP, i pray it motivates and helps you. stay strong
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
Stop holding money

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
jksxxxx:
With the numbers of people reading this post u would know many people need help with this problem but too shy to come out so they are reading secretly to get solution ..lol
grin
jksxxxx:
With the numbers of people reading this post u would know many people need help with this problem but too shy to come out so they are reading secretly to get solution ..lol

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by maasoap(m): 1:02pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
i cant even tell anybody my situation. I cant stand The look of disappointment on their faces but i want to quit.

That's why you will never quit. You need to get help from the people that you're close to, not here. Yeah, they will be disappointed at first. You will be ashamed but it is all part of the recovery process. If you can't stand all these, it means you're in it forever. Just watch it, gradually, you will become frustrated with life. Hard drugs and/or alcohol may come into the focus. And that might be the start of a journey without a returning date.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Chikicaka(f): 1:05pm On Jul 08, 2018
https://www.nairaland.com/4605678/addiction-anonymous-it-only-get#69189092

Stay strong OP, everyone makes mistakes but to realize and try to do better is all that matters
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by gift01: 1:06pm On Jul 08, 2018
You need something that will keep you very very busy with close monitoring from someone you respect. I'd suggest you learn handwork from a strict disciplinarian and he must monitor your every movement

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