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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Amberon11: 4:56pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Stop generalizing and saying what you don't know. spiritedtete: |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Acidosis(m): 5:06pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: Nope, poor sex life is not the problem, the problem is ignorance and deceit. Great sex don't make babies, the requirements for making babies are; fertile sper.ms, functional ovaries and a calendar. There are inherent problems you've refused to say. There is no way a guy and a lady will laugh and eat together and still proceed to sleep on the same bed without sex. In my world, IT IS NOT POSSIBLE, even cousins sleep together these days. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by spiritedtete: 5:13pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Amberon11: I know this.. 100% and i am not generalizing. "Loads" don't know what it takes to be married. Bring 10 marriages and ask tell them what I stated ... 9 will go with me. Not just Nigeria but the world 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by KelvinC1(m): 5:18pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
what exactly are you unhappy with.? be specific before I dissect it.. everyone is not happy either.. that is if you are in NIGERIA.. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by rOsy247(f): 5:20pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Ohhh odiegwu. He's not battering you. Not starving you. Just lack of sexual appetite you want divorce. I never knew marriage is now seen as mere boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that you Can easily leave cos of slight reasons. Hanty u never talk true. Somebody somewhere don dey cut u eye 7 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Simbrixton(m): 5:29pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
How many years is the marriage |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Pataricatering(f): 5:38pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:you are not alone ! Marriages in Nigeria are mainly out of desperation and convenience. You have just voiced out - most people just keep quiet and manage ! 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Pataricatering(f): 5:40pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Guitarlife:happiness is obviously not that important to you ! Some people place happiness over what society thinks - to each his own ! 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
No |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by igala1(m): 6:11pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
I wish I had your type as a wife. No nagging, no quarrels, no oppositions, wow! All you need now is to spice up your marriage. 1. Get to watch romantic movies together. 2. Visit the cinema together, or find a cool hangout together. Don't stay indoors too much. 3. Watch "blue film" together. 4. Stop hiding your unclothedness from him, bath naked together. 5. If you can, sometimes get a bottle of 1℅ alcoholic drink I.e star radler. Get high a little. 6. Dress and UnCloth in his presence. 7. Get dirty jokes, come out of your shell. Get dirty sometimes I.e a husband asked d wife y she's fond of wearing his boxers, the wife said ," it because I love u". The next minute the husband went and wore the wife's pant to prove his love too. Lol 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Chubhie: 6:13pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Twoclans:Good observation. Same as men. I think those deep rooted issues became pronounced this buhari economic era. I also feel the spirits are holding out a mirror for us to reconsider our motives towards marriage. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by alexola20(m): 6:14pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by alexola20(m): 6:18pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: Madame, can I just ask you two questions. 1. Are you saying you are not sexually attracted to your Husband? 2.Just be honest, do you mean you do not find him attractive? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
rOsy247: I had this thought too. Somebody somewhere don dey cut her eye But I also another issue is, Ladies just go with who so ever is ready at the moment & then when they now eventually see the kind of Guy they really want, their attitude will change. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: I suspect this was a marriage of convenience. You got blinded by material things. Carry your cross 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by izic911: 7:33pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
ur husband is now in the friend zone 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by chinnyonwu(m): 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
I thought they say we shuu marry our best friend?
Orisirisi 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Olabimz: 7:56pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
unmask:Why would you encourage divorce instead of you to be a solution provider? What goes around comes around. I believe many that said divorce are divorced or at the verge of divorce. Critical case needs a critical problem solving personality. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Neddyogu(m): 8:01pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: And u didn't test the waters before taking a plunge? *If u know, u know* |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: Forget about that bull shlt people always say. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by OkoAnike(m): 8:15pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Daeylar: Op, please read the young woman post instead of reacting... 1. The relationship is not abusive 2. They have fun together 3. They talk well The only excuse here is No Chemistry. Sorry sister this excuse is not tenable in the institution call marriage. Have a wonderful week ahead. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
It's better to work it out, as far your already in the union, the only way you could opt out is if either of you commits adultery, in which I pray either of you don't, because it could be grave consequences to the one who commits such... So rather than, being unhappy, it's a choice by you to know what to do to make it happy, pray, ask God, read the scriptures, ask the Holy Spirit (his your counselor) He'll direct you the path you can follyto have a happy marriage, it's an assurance. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by junique629(f): 8:24pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Seek professional counselling,shikena,dnt give up on ur marriage for a problem that can be fixed 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by josite: 9:48pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
u may not realize how lucky u have to have a brotherly relationship wih ur hubby.b careful.quietly Bleep one or two guys u really want to Bleep that is making u say all these nonsense and resume ur marriage squarely. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by KanwuliaExtra: 10:19pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Is happiness a good reason for marriage? 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by youngfaraday1(m): 10:30pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Amarachi melanin, continue we are watching u |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by qonso(m): 10:48pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
if she divorce her husband will that bring happiness try to grow love |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
I don’t understand how you laugh and crack jokes but yet there’s no happiness. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by handsomeyinka(m): 12:30am On Jul 09, 2018 |
ZombieTAMER:You go pursue tire...lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by newslifeop: 1:02am On Jul 09, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Austin234(m): 4:12am On Jul 09, 2018 |
But oyibo are not or did not institute marriage. God is the originator. Therefore, follow his precepts. dominique: |
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