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4FACEADELEKE:
That's your mind playing tricks on you, she deserved what she got served,and you paid for it by going to prison.The spiritual equation is balanced.She can never harm you because you paid her back in her own coin.If she was innocent then she can harm you,but since she was not,nothing she will do that can harm you.KARMA DID ITS DUTY AND THATS THE END.Anytime her image flash,don't feel the slightest inconvenience. You did the right thing,anybody would have done same if they were in your shoes.

mimimile93:
thanks bro. I was over with them.

Whenever I heard guys say the are in love the wanna marry i get sick. These ho.es are writtenoff. Any girl born from the 80s is useless.

I stopped attending weddings.
Marriage benefits these women.


I need people to help me tell young men to doaway with marriage.

Again never let a woman knows how much u are earning. That was another mistake I made.

ladygudhead:
@milemimi93 Since last night i'm still trying to figure out whom btw your ur 2 ex's did more harm 2 u. gosh you av really passed through alot. Only God can change your mindset towards women now. know that people die in water everyday does not others from drinking water...satan used those women as his agent 4 your destruction. YOUR ENEMY IS SATAN THE DEVIL NOT WOMEN!

bukatyne:
The other thread on delivering men from pussy brought me here.

I understand that you are very hurt howevee, first stage of healing is acknowledging your faults.

If you date more than two three girls who are cheats, my brother there is something seriously wrong somewhere.

It is either your selection criteria attracts cheats or you give off the vibes of unseriousness and unwillingness to commit. Afterall, if we go by your time line, you dated/slept with several girls in the same space.

You also didn't tell us if you were faithful in all these relationships.

The same way you have met wicked women, there are wicked men too that have dealt cruelly with their women.

Thankfully, you have figured our that you are not in the right frame for a romantic relationship/marriage and have refused to succumb to societal pressure to do so.

Looking at it from another angle, thank God this happened while you are young enough to hustle.

What if you were an old man looking forward to rest when this happened? Where would you really start from?

You need to let go of the bitterness because while there might be causalities, it destroys you. So in addition to the psychologists, please turn to God and He will heal you.

You need healing that no human can give except God. He will restore your mind, body and soul to how they ought to be and give you a fresh start in life.

He is a potter and specializes in moulding clay into beautiful vases.

It is well with you.

els0nm0rali:
Very soon you'll come on up here and start insulting corrupt politicians abi? You are not well. I swear.

Lemme ask you, where do you see yourself in 5years? Because with this your mentality where I see you in 5 years is in jail.

y3mi:
My friend, I had to calm down and read your reply repeatedly to detect what could have given rise to your invective response and I was so glad I figured it out instead of resorting to insulting you back like so many people do on this forum.

You obviously made the mistake of assuming I am totally in support of the aformentioned malpractices common in our educational system otherwise I don't see any reason why you would wish someone you don't personally know to be in jail in 5years time if you hadn't erroneously concluded that person is into those malpractices, further referring to my mentality thinking I am an advocate of exam malpractices and cheating to pass.

Without exercizing patience you read and processed what I wrote out of context, otherwise you ought to have unserstood that I was only merely highlighting what is already very rampart in the Nigeria education system and how it becomes hypocritical for someone who has lived here for so long to know this (not accept it) and still choses to pretend by presenting himself online as though he is unaware of how conmon it is, hence he could drop pretentious comment to judge someone (in this case, the OP) who didn't sought out such short-cut means but was suggested and probably compelled into by a supposed loving girlfriend.

As for insulting corrupt politicians, well...here is what I think, first of all no human can be perfect, and those who are in the government to serve their people don't deserve to be insulted if accused or even found guilty of corruption like the Bill Clinton - Monica Lewinski affair scandal wherein the American majority care less about provided his presidential regime was fine and working, but any politician or government office holder who are not only known to be notoriously corrupt but have lost their humanity along with their feeling of shamefulness deserves all the insults and aspersions hauled at them. I am not specifically referring to a political party but to all political parties in Nigeria. They have no real ideology and philosophy nor the visionary for nation building. The political parties and its regulatory body are all set up by looters for any upcoming and aspiring looters who can afford the loot to obtain the exorbitant form to join and continue in the collective looting of the over-looted and ever lootable financial, mineral and economic resources of the already looted people they pretend to lead.

els0nm0rali:
This term paper for lil old me?

You are justifying malpractices in schools and in public service and you are still wondering why I think why I think about you?

I'm wondering, are you trying to justify cheating in school probably because you did same while in school?

Fella said he hired someone to impersonate him in school, and you are here defending his actions because "this is Nigeria and that's what we do here".

Even going all the way to justify corruption because politicians are " human".

I know that your kind are the majority in Nigeria and that's unfortunate because with this attitude Nigeria ain't going anywhere.


Maybe you've not heard the saying that evil thrives when good men do nothing.


Because majority of people cheat, therefore we should sit back and watch and not condemn the acts or worse still join them in such evil acts because we don't want to appear hypocritical?

I've never met anyone who actually had someone else impersonate him and obtain a university degree fraudulently for him because I don't move in such circles.

Obviously you do.

y3mi:
Precisely where in all my posts have I exactly encouraged or promote it? Quote it out where my writings implies I am in support that people should cheat in exams or fake it to make it as the youths usually rants gleefully these days? [/b]Only you seem to be thinking I'm trying to justify it when all I did was pointing out the hypocrisy that ooze out from readers whose comments only focused on the school malpractice part of the OP's story, to judge him and therefore most deserving of what happened to him; [b]loss of his landed property, his father and so on.

You know what, let us look at the matter this way, let say a lady came to Nairaland and narrated all the ordeals she had being through with different men in all her relationship life before finally deciding to be forever single, advising other ladies not to ever trust any guys and instead look for a dream to chase after, and within the story wrote, she made mention of how she had to do abortion 22 times for some of the guys she had being in love with. Different readers were commenting based on how they feel, what they know, some were in support of her choice while chose to bash her while some readers including you decided to define and judge her only for committing multiple abortions and I being also a reader of her story tries to point out that why are some folks just focusing on the abortion part of the story as if doing abortions is a hidden and uncommon thing in Nigeria, knowing for a fact at the back of our minds that many do it a lot but nobody dare come out to say it online and offline. Then you begin to attack me saying...I am one of those who encourages abortion, and that you are so sure that I have talked many to do abortion after i must have gotten them mpregnated, as if you know me personally.

Because no lady here on Nairaland will ever come out to create a thread to share what lead her to do abortion doesn't mean they aren't females here on Nairaland who haven't done it before.

Juxtapose this analogy with what I wrote but have misconstrued so you can stop getting it twisted and in case you still don't well do not put in your response that what I am saying at the bolded ^ is a way of me trying to defend the OP's justification to murder his girlfriend because I am going to reply you no more after this

Please guys drop that silly crap of feigning ignorance and wipe that false indignance off your faces. Like what the F...aren't you both living in this hell hole called Nigeria, because if you do, then why the f***ng hell will the both of you come on here and be forming moralists as if everybody don't know malpractices such as the one referred to as machinery where certain people specialize in the impersonation of who can afford to pay them for sitting on their behalf to write and pasd tests and exams, which is as common as plagiarism in the Nigeria broken educational system. People like the two of you just sickens me and CaptJeffry is right to call you hypocrites and that extends to all of you who have reprimanded the OP for indulging in something many of you have also done one way or the other in the past.

y3mi:
@zinizta @WORDWAR
I hope the both of you understand that the spectrum of the human emotion is broad and consists of various feelings such as anger, joy/happiness, sadness, contempt, envy, hate, fear, love, surprise etc so if even a toddler (not even a 7 year old) can feel any of these despite not being able to express it the way every physiologically matured human does, how much then shouldn't a human as young as seven years old or less would, otherwise you both should then argue it out that a seven year old should also be incapable of expressing other emotional feelings like fear, dread, anger, bitterness, envy, resentment whch every toddlers do, my point is you can't single out 'love' while including others. It's absurd. Humans feel love from a very tender age. Fondness is what makes you as a kid want to ALWAYS be with, give and share your things with those you have affection for, on the playground, in class, at home etc. Now, how would you feel if that nursery/primary school mate of yours never for once reciprocated that feeling or gesture, only for one day to see him or her with someone else sharing and giving as you did? Shock and heartbroken is what you will feel. Don't get me wrong as I am not trying to imply that should justify whatever monster that person may later come to be in life, no that isn't the point here. I am saying you both and others who continue to judge and admonish the OP for feeling heartbroken at such an age should stop being judgemental, unless any of you want to lie that you've never exhibited neither of the human emotions at a tender age. You've never felt love and fear, dread and friggt, joy and happiness, fulfilled and heartbroken when you were kiddies

In anticipation, before you think along that line where some people like to respond with the argument that because someone doesn't respond back to one's affections just to reciprocrate that love...please calm down, relax and think it through. You know you don't love him or her but yet you can accept his/her gifts, you are quick to oblige whenever he offers to assist, you involved her in several life threatening risks which she indulged herself in out of love just so you can make it, you forfeit many of your personal aspiration just to raise and elevate her out of love, and so on and forth, please guys what is love if not seeking of mutual success, what is truw love if not self sacrifice, when people do these things out love, let's not be snappy to judge them for being a fool while ignoring the other who pretended to love and simulated it so perfectly. Such people exploits and they are unfortunately the majority in todays materialistic world. Real people would let you know from the getgo if they are interested in your helping hands or not, decline your expensive gifts with or without reasons. At this juncture, I dare say Nigerian ladies are guilty of the act of not even trying to reach inward and check if she could later discover it within her to love this fellow who's is getting to know her after three weeks but readily willing to accept that new 2017 Toyota Camry from him, which he bought and offered her not because he has lots of cash or because out of some blind love, but simply because he has always being unable to repress his empathy to provide assistance in a situation involving someone his loved ones. After all he wouldn't if he is incapable of affording it, which still doesn't diminishes his natural predisposition to love. Many Nigerian ladies/girls would never reject any but accept every expensive phones given to her by the different guys who met her at different period in a given time, and neither of these guys know better and even if they do meet, "Babe, who is that guy we met at the Cinema asking about the phone he bought you months back and why you never called'' - "oh! That one, he's just a friend who came to do I.T. at my former place of work but now working in DSTV in faraway Enugu, don't think we have anything together, you know I love you." These I believe are the sort of exploitation that has made the OP hell bent on hating Nigerian ladies. And it is not any less different from what many Nigerian so-called big men and big boys do to exploit young girls and ladies thinking they are in love.

@Ziggylady @pafo and others expressing their disdain for a professed murderer. I have this to say...before judging the OP, which one of you is ready to swear by Ogun or Amadioha that never in your life have you ever felt like killing someone who wronged you or someone dear and close to you, so much that even if you don't see yourself doing the killing, you still couldn't help but to constantly wish death upon that someone. As humans, we all have different boiling points, and for some people once theirs begins to evaporates, they can do the unthinkable once the can't hold back but to be triggered while others but few have learn never to let that hate consume them, instead convert that hatred (powerful emotianal energy) and channel it into something purposeful. I am not condoning what he did, but I hate the self-righteous hypocrisy you are displaying here.

I wonder how @Ishilove and @pafo would engage this matter if the OP had left out the part where he admitted to have killed his ex-girlfriend as he narrate the horrendous ordeals he went through at the hands of the ladies he's been with. On the other hand, I guess he can't since he said he had always talked about it on other threads on the Romance section of this forum. But, nevertheless you guys j seem to be reacting only to the girlfriend killing side as if he is a career murdering criminal. A career murderer would take off and constantly try to evade an arrest being the prime suspect. Yet, he was arraigned, prosecuted and served his time. Finally, and for your information, there are two forms of death/dying according to Yoruba understanding, one is the clinical death where the dead is dead and gone, while the other is `ki won pa eniyan saye' (walking dead) which is almost close to what which his the ex-girlfriend lady did to him. Again, consider my analysis not as a provision to justify the murder he committed, but as the eventual outcome when viewed from another perspective, a grievous criminal offense that would still be probably adjudged as a `Crime of Passion' in the western world.

mimimile93:
Find a great woman ki..
Bro am not marrying o.
Fvck ho.es.
I will adopt a child when I need one.

y3mi:
@zinizta @WORDWAR
I hope the both of you understand that the spectrum of the human emotion is broad and consists of various feelings such as anger, joy/happiness, sadness, contempt, envy, hate, fear, love, surprise etc so if even a toddler (not even a 7 year old) can feel any of these despite not being able to express it the way every physiologically matured human does, how much then shouldn't a human as young as seven years old or less would, otherwise you both should then argue it out that a seven year old should also be incapable of expressing other emotional feelings like fear, dread, anger, bitterness, envy, resentment whch every toddlers do, my point is you can't single out 'love' while including others. It's absurd. Humans feel love from a very tender age. Fondness is what makes you as a kid want to ALWAYS be with, give and share your things with those you have affection for, on the playground, in class, at home etc. Now, how would you feel if that nursery/primary school mate of yours never for once reciprocated that feeling or gesture, only for one day to see him or her with someone else sharing and giving as you did? Shock and heartbroken is what you will feel. Don't get me wrong as I am not trying to imply that should justify whatever monster that person may later come to be in life, no that isn't the point here. I am saying you both and others who continue to judge and admonish the OP for feeling heartbroken at such an age should stop being judgemental, unless any of you want to lie that you've never exhibited neither of the human emotions at a tender age. You've never felt love and fear, dread and friggt, joy and happiness, fulfilled and heartbroken when you were kiddies

In anticipation, before you think along that line where some people like to respond with the argument that because someone doesn't respond back to one's affections just to reciprocrate that love...please calm down, relax and think it through. You know you don't love him or her but yet you can accept his/her gifts, you are quick to oblige whenever he offers to assist, you involved her in several life threatening risks which she indulged herself in out of love just so you can make it, you forfeit many of your personal aspiration just to raise and elevate her out of love, and so on and forth, please guys what is love if not seeking of mutual success, what is truw love if not self sacrifice, when people do these things out love, let's not be snappy to judge them for being a fool while ignoring the other who pretended to love and simulated it so perfectly. Such people exploits and they are unfortunately the majority in todays materialistic world. Real people would let you know from the getgo if they are interested in your helping hands or not, decline your expensive gifts with or without reasons. At this juncture, I dare say Nigerian ladies are guilty of the act of not even trying to reach inward and check if she could later discover it within her to love this fellow who's is getting to know her after three weeks but readily willing to accept that new 2017 Toyota Camry from him, which he bought and offered her not because he has lots of cash or because out of some blind love, but simply because he has always being unable to repress his empathy to provide assistance in a situation involving someone his loved ones. After all he wouldn't if he is incapable of affording it, which still doesn't diminishes his natural predisposition to love. Many Nigerian ladies/girls would never reject any but accept every expensive phones given to her by the different guys who met her at different period in a given time, and neither of these guys know better and even if they do meet, "Babe, who is that guy we met at the Cinema asking about the phone he bought you months back and why you never called'' - "oh! That one, he's just a friend who came to do I.T. at my former place of work but now working in DSTV in faraway Enugu, don't think we have anything together, you know I love you." These I believe are the sort of exploitation that has made the OP hell bent on hating Nigerian ladies. And it is not any less different from what many Nigerian so-called big men and big boys do to exploit young girls and ladies thinking they are in love.

@Ziggylady @pafo and others expressing their disdain for a professed murderer. I have this to say...before judging the OP, which one of you is ready to swear by Ogun or Amadioha that never in your life have you ever felt like killing someone who wronged you or someone dear and close to you, so much that even if you don't see yourself doing the killing, you still couldn't help but to constantly wish death upon that someone. As humans, we all have different boiling points, and for some people once theirs begins to evaporates, they can do the unthinkable once the can't hold back but to be triggered while others but few have learn never to let that hate consume them, instead convert that hatred (powerful emotianal energy) and channel it into something purposeful. I am not condoning what he did, but I hate the self-righteous hypocrisy you are displaying here.

I wonder how @Ishilove and @pafo would engage this matter if the OP had left out the part where he admitted to have killed his ex-girlfriend as he narrate the horrendous ordeals he went through at the hands of the ladies he's been with. On the other hand, I guess he can't since he said he had always talked about it on other threads on the Romance section of this forum. But, nevertheless you guys j seem to be reacting only to the girlfriend killing side as if he is a career murdering criminal. A career murderer would take off and constantly try to evade an arrest being the prime suspect. Yet, he was arraigned, prosecuted and served his time. Finally, and for your information, there are two forms of death/dying according to Yoruba understanding, one is the clinical death where the dead is dead and gone, while the other is `ki won pa eniyan saye' (walking dead) which is almost close to what which his the ex-girlfriend lady did to him. Again, consider my analysis not as a provision to justify the murder he committed, but as the eventual outcome when viewed from another perspective, a grievous criminal offense that would still be probably adjudged as a `Crime of Passion' in the western world.

@Ziggylady @pafo and others expressing their disdain for a professed murderer. I have this to say...before judging the OP, which one of you is ready to swear by Ogun or Amadioha that never in your life have you ever felt like killing someone who wronged you or someone dear and close to you, so much that even if you don't see yourself doing the killing, you still couldn't help but to constantly wish death upon that someone.

I hope the both of you understand that the spectrum of the human emotion is broad and consists of various feelings such as anger, joy/happiness, sadness, contempt, envy, hate, fear, love, surprise etc so if even a toddler (not even a 7 year old) can feel any of these despite not being able to express it the way every physiologically matured human does, how much then shouldn't a human as young as seven years old or less would, otherwise you both should then argue it out that a seven year old should also be incapable of expressing other emotional feelings like fear, dread, anger, bitterness, envy, resentment whch every toddlers do, my point is you can't single out 'love' while including others.

rOsy247:
Being traumatized or not is not reason enough to exonerate somebody who takes someone else's life. Besides, this doesn't look like one that's traumatized at all. Or are u saying he's still traumatized after how many Years of serving jail term? Look at his words, it shows he's proud to kill somebody for whatever reason. Shows he's not even remorseful upon the jail term and that makes it really look like a conscious act. It also shows if he has the chance he will do it again and again.

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

K9blunt:
to say I am sorry you went through all these is an understatement but please be going for therapy... You've been dealt with and left in darkness. You need mental healing. Please try going for therapy.

milemimi93:
Thank u so so much.

I've been advised to enroll for AM classes.

That, I will do from next month..

BestDude:
my mood has changed since yesterday after reading what you went through. I won't lie, destroying an ex life once crossed my mind.

I hated women for many years cos of her and your thread just revived those memories.

And after reading your tread, a girl I was being called with for misbehaving might be in for rude shock. Your story changed my entire mood since yesterday and I just gonna be on a side until she makes and another demeaning remarks towards me and she will see another side of me.

milemimi93:
Thank u so so much.

I've been advised to enroll for AM classes.

That, I will do from next month..

K9blunt:
Good, endeavor to go for it religiously.... You have to have a happy ending. Good luck!

K9blunt:
Good, endeavor to go for it religiously.... You have to have a happy ending. Good luck!

niphemey:
ode you didn't read the part where the said lady killed his dad ? Shut the hell up if you don't have anything meaningful to say. An eye for an eye.

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

CAPSLOCKED:
IF YOU'VE NOT KILLED THE FIRST GIRL THAT HID YOUR DOCUMENTS GO AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

milemimi93:
take it easy oo.

Am regrettin my actions..

Am feeling suicidal..

milemimi93:
those of my friends that went to Malaysia to work have all built their houses, got other businesses running for them. Two of them have gotten married.


Sh!t happens and since I am the sh!t am who it happend to..

CAPSLOCKED:
IF YOU'VE NOT KILLED THE FIRST GIRL THAT HID YOUR DOCUMENTS GO AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

slaywife:
So apart from the chat you saw what other evidence do you have that your dad was murdered?
Did you conduct an autopsy?
How did he die? Stabbed, shot, strangled,poisoned?
What was on the death certificate?
Did you investgate to find out if she really killed your dad?
A judge told you he would have done worse? Really?
You suspect someone killed your dad. Just hearsay. Next thing u murdered her.
And you were not even bold enough to do it yourself.
Women get defrauded of their life earnings by men who Dump them to marry someone else. Has the world crumbled? Did anyone die?
No be your fellow men dey scam people of their retirement benefits in the name of yahoo. Armed robbery nko? What of rituaists.
Oya you don kill am. Make we hear word na.
Ranting all over the net about how much you hate women won't stop th next babe from chopping the small money you have.
You hate nigerian women. Oya ignore them and dare only oyibo na. No o! You are here whining like a lil baby lookin for booby milk.
You can fool every one but you can't fool urself.
There are over 5 million Nigerian men to choose from. So you see, you really would not be misse[color=#550000][/color]d.