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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by DanielsParker(m): 1:34pm On Jul 12, 2018

Wilfredpat22:
Sir, thé girl simply went to have fun and get hookups and attention from the opposite sex

Most of we ladies don’t care if we are dating or in a relationship, the time we are truly serious is when pressure to marry mounts

Personally if I am in a relationship, I will take it as a non challant thing. After all the best respect a lady can get is when she is making her own money

people that make real money rarely talk about it. grow up.

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Holymann(m): 1:53pm On Jul 12, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

IMAGINE YOUR GIRL ASKED YOU NOT TO GO OUT WITH YOUR GUYS.. BUT YOU GO AHEAD AND GET SHOT BY SÂRS, OR YOU LOSE A LIMB BECAUSE OF YOUR GUY'S RECKLESS DRIVING. ARE WE SUPPOSED TO SAY YOU GOT SERVED?

SHE FOLLOWED A STRANGE GUY FROM THE CLUB TO ANOTHER PARTY NOT HER FRIENDS.
Would she have told him about the ONE NIGHT STAND if she wasn't raped??
Maybe you missed the part wey he told her the relationship or the part she made it clear that she didn't need babysitting.
If she didn't need babysitting when she was fine, why would she need it after she was raped on a failed cheating attempt huh

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by SirToothBrush: 1:57pm On Jul 12, 2018

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

so the young man is at fault because he let her go clubbing ??

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by SirToothBrush: 2:10pm On Jul 12, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

IMAGINE YOUR GIRL ASKED YOU NOT TO GO OUT WITH YOUR GUYS.. BUT YOU GO AHEAD AND GET SHOT BY SÂRS, OR YOU LOSE A LIMB BECAUSE OF YOUR GUY'S RECKLESS DRIVING. ARE WE SUPPOSED TO SAY YOU GOT SERVED?

This hypothetical situation emboldened isn't fit for an example. Replace the emboldened with sex. For instance, " imagine your girl asked you not to go out with your guys but you go ahead, get drunk and raped by lesbians" how would your girl feel ??

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by somehow: 2:10pm On Jul 12, 2018

Looking at this logically, it's fair to say a one night out gone wrong happened.

She wanted to have a quickly at the party unknown to her, the guy went down with had other motives, his goons joined in and they took turns.

Her conscience started eating her up and she wants her ex to save her from guilty conscience.

That you went to the party in the first place after the BF told you not to go or forget the relationship means the guy is not useful to her or valued to her in the first place so why go back to him for some emotional backup rubbish?

You can't eat your cake and have it.

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Holymann(m): 2:34pm On Jul 12, 2018

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

Rape is a crime and should be reported to law enforcement agents, out an ex(the relationship ended the moment she went to the party).
would she have told him if the one night stand didn't in go wrong??

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by gcof(m): 2:38pm On Jul 12, 2018

KELVINXY:
Actually,
I did not read the complete post but I think girl has no right to beat up her boyfriend in public.
Maybe they should report the matter to the elders in the village
but if the neighbor refuse to pay his rent,
they should just kill the landlord and forget about the missing car.

if the car belong to him? He may actually decide to cook soup or let the girl go to school. Even at that the government may decide to give the village a piece of land so that the girl can cook with the money he gave them

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jul 12, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

IMAGINE YOUR GIRL ASKED YOU NOT TO GO OUT WITH YOUR GUYS.. BUT YOU GO AHEAD AND GET SHOT BY SÂRS, OR YOU LOSE A LIMB BECAUSE OF YOUR GUY'S RECKLESS DRIVING. ARE WE SUPPOSED TO SAY YOU GOT SERVED?

You have a point

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by KELVINXY: 3:33pm On Jul 12, 2018

gcof:
if the car belong to him? He may actually decide to cook soup or let the girl go to school. Even at that the government may decide to give the village a piece of land so that the girl can cook with the money he gave them

Exactly my point. undecided

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:48pm On Jul 12, 2018

As stubborn as I was, I didn't dare go where my boyfriend didn't approve of. I'd argue and argue until he gives in, but if he doesnt, I'll act defiant, but somehow I'd end up not going.
The very first time I called his bluff and went to a place he asked me not to go to, he called while I was there to know my wherabouts. I told him and he came there to get me! grin

Honestly, so many things went wrong that night shortly after he took me away. Only God knows what would have been my fate if I had refused him taking me home.

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by MissRaine69(f): 3:50pm On Jul 12, 2018

Not his problem....next!!

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jul 12, 2018

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

you're talking bullshit

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by gcof(m): 4:46pm On Jul 12, 2018

PrimadonnaO:
As stubborn as I was, I didn't dare go where my boyfriend didn't approve of. I'd argue and argue until he gives in, but if he doesnt, I'll act defiant, but somehow I'd end up not going.
The very first time I called his bluff and went to a place he asked me not to go to, he called while I was there to know my wherabouts. I told him and he came there to get me!

Honestly, so many things went wrong that night shortly after he took me away. Only God knows what would have been my fate if I had refused him taking me home.

give details of the things that went wrong

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by AlPeter: 5:55pm On Jul 12, 2018

gcof:
give details of the things that went wrong

seconded.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by HarunaWest(m): 7:12pm On Jul 12, 2018

KELVINXY:
Actually,
I did not read the complete post but I think girl has no right to beat up her boyfriend in public.
Maybe they should report the matter to the elders in the village
but if the neighbor refuse to pay his rent,
they should just kill the landlord and forget about the missing car.

you raised a good point, Buhari shouldnt have contested with MKO,now Tinubu is president of Togo. My friend has been swimming inside the well since tomorrow,GTBank asked me for loan,but I didnt Borrow.... grin

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:13pm On Jul 12, 2018

gcof:
give details of the things that went wrong

First of all, the show started rather late. Important dignitaries and celebrities were to be in attendance, so most people were waiting...I would have waited, too, because I was supposed to go with my friend to her house. My own gate gets locked by 9pm. So, most people were waiting. Afterall, they had bought expensive tickets. It was somewhere close to school, though. Show started at about 10pm. Cabs weren't working...one of their members had died. A fight broke out, too...I think some persons even got injured. My friend who had stayed behind got injured, too while she was trying to get away. But somehow, she managed to follow some other friend home.

So, you see, if I had stayed, I'd have suffered like that.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Nobody: 1:14am On Jul 13, 2018

SirToothBrush:
This hypothetical situation emboldened isn't fit for an example. Replace the emboldened with sex. For instance, " imagine your girl asked you not to go out with your guys but you go ahead, get drunk and raped by lesbians" how would your girl feel ??

raped by lesbians? who is even going to tell her me?

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Nobody: 1:16am On Jul 13, 2018

Weselion:
You have a point

oga is like ur brain is paining you angry

Weselion:
You have a point

oga is like ur brain is paining you

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by BarleyBarn: 2:07am On Jul 13, 2018

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

I perceive you are speaking from a much deeper perspective than most people can understand? Its either Ive percieved right, or ur reasoning just sucks! Lol. Now for those who dont get this: a crime has been committed against a fellow human, put all differences aside and address that first! Later u may settle your personals.

There's a 1997 movie called " The Edge" where a rich man discovered that his right hand man has been bonning his beloved wife all along. When he confronts the guy, the guy pulled a gun on him, insulted him and was ABOUT to shoot him not knowing that the rich man had wisely led him next to a bear trap (pit with spikes). He tripped, fell in, and broke his legs. Now, the rich guy SHOULD rejoice, then end that mothafucka, right?

No. He rescued him and tried hard to SAVE HIS LIFE!

Get the picture now?

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Nobody: 3:26am On Jul 13, 2018

Seun:
She's lucky to be rid of you. No she didn't "get raped", she was raped and that's a crime.

Nope he's lucky.She left alone with a guy & his friend.. probably would have cheated on the boyfriend. She lied, broke the trust they shared, wasn't committed to the relationship & didn't respect him enough.. She was raped okay but still doesn't mean she has any right to a relationship she never respected... She should call the police & get psychological/ emotional support from her friends,family & professionals.. Aftterall "he doesn't own her & she can do whatever she wants" Any girl that says this knows exactly what she's up to. She just got unlucky that night.... My 5 naira tho

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Unlimited22: 5:30am On Jul 13, 2018

AnonyNymous:
Thoughts on this?

P.S, this didn't happen to me, I just saw it somewhere but imagine if you were in the guys shoes. Or for the females, what do you think about the guy's actions?

There's a saying that the fox must be chased away first, after which the hen be warned about straying into the bush. The lady misbehaved, but the guy was way too cold.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by gcof(m): 5:50am On Jul 13, 2018

PrimadonnaO:
First of all, the show started rather late. Important dignitaries and celebrities were to be in attendance, so most people were waiting...I would have waited, too, because I was supposed to go with my friend to her house. My own gate gets locked by 9pm. So, most people were waiting. Afterall, they had bought expensive tickets. It was somewhere close to school, though. Show started at about 10pm. Cabs weren't working...one of their members had died. A fight broke out, too...I think some persons even got injured. My friend who had stayed behind got injured, too while she was trying to get away. But somehow, she managed to follow some other friend home.

So, you see, if I had stayed, I'd have suffered like that.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by davillian(m): 6:40am On Jul 13, 2018

When people disobey me I don't feel sorry over the consequences of their actions.
I hate lies and disobedience she did both but I feel the guy over reacted .
We all are not the same and our reaction to things differs.

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Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by wirinet(m): 7:08am On Jul 13, 2018

Unlimited22:
There's a saying that the fox must be chased away first, after which the hen be warned about straying into the bush. The lady misbehaved, but the guy was way too cold.

The lady misbehaved? Are you saying going to a party with another guy without the knowledge or permission is termed misbehaving? In other climes, it is called cheating.
Even if she was not raped, the relationship should be over the moment the guy discovered she went to the party with another guy. After establishing the facts of the relationship, the guy can assist in helping the lady get justice.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Unlimited22: 7:22am On Jul 13, 2018

wirinet:
The lady misbehaved? Are you saying going to a party with another guy without the knowledge or permission is termed misbehaving? In other climes, it is called cheating.
Even if she was not raped, the relationship should be over the moment the guy discovered she went to the party with another guy. After establishing the facts of the relationship, the guy can assist in helping the lady get justice.

Is cheating not misbehaviour? Have people not been forgiven and gone on to forge stronger bonds after having been caught cheating?

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by wirinet(m): 7:42am On Jul 13, 2018

Unlimited22:
Is cheating not misbehaviour? Have people not been forgiven and gone on to forge stronger bonds after having been caught cheating?

Different strokes for different folks. Cheating is a no no for me. I have never forgiven a girlfriend that cheated on me. I have never cheated and I don't condone cheating.

So what do you want the guy to do? Bear the cost and consequences of his girlfriends cheating? Pay for her medical and legal expenses?
You know the girl would need to be taken to hospital to test for HIV and other STDs. What happens if she becomes pregnant, who will bear the consequences?

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by Unlimited22: 7:43am On Jul 13, 2018

wirinet:
Different strokes for different folks. Cheating is a no no for me. I have never forgiven a girlfriend that cheated on me. I have never cheated and I don't condone cheating.

So what do you want the guy to do? Bear the cost and consequences of his girlfriends cheating? Pay for her medical and legal expenses?
You know the girl would need to be taken to hospital to test for HIV and other STDs. What happens if she becomes pregnant, who will bear the consequences?

The thing is lots of complications can arise form the guy going there. He can even be accused of the tape himself. It doesn't change the fact that he was cold though.

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by tunize(m): 7:47am On Jul 13, 2018

Wilfredpat22:
Sir, thé girl simply went to have fun and get hookups and attention from the opposite sex

Most of we ladies don’t care if we are dating or in a relationship, the time we are truly serious is when pressure to marry mounts

Personally if I am in a relationship, I will take it as a non challant thing. After all the best respect a lady can get is when she is making her own money

Hmmmmm really.?

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by tunize(m): 7:49am On Jul 13, 2018

I will do worse if am in his shoes cos the set of girls i so much dis-like na this set wen be like if devil one use e dey use dem to the fullest.....

Re: I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped by wirinet(m): 7:52am On Jul 13, 2018

Unlimited22:
The thing is lots of complications can arise form the guy going there. He can even be accused of the tape himself. It doesn't change the fact that he was cold though.

Contrary, the guy was not cold and very considerate, else he would not be pouring his heart out here on nairaland.

He told the girl that if she went to the party, the relationship is over, and she chose to go. What does that tell you.

Nigerians have to learn to start taking responsibility for their actions, instead of pushing it to someone else or look someone else to blame, ie witches, neighbours, family, demons, etc.

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