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"Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Maj196(m): 9:37am On Jul 14, 2018
Wtf did I just read undecided
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody: 9:46am On Jul 14, 2018
Wow I just knew arranging my house would back fire one day
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by HoodBillionaire: 9:49am On Jul 14, 2018
i need 3m shaps
im badly broke bro
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody: 9:54am On Jul 14, 2018
Speaks volumes about hercheesy.she must be a dirty girl.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by delugajackson: 9:55am On Jul 14, 2018
OboOlora:
U r one of the most intelligent people on this forum, ur comments r always reasonable and I look out for them!
Thanks for the compliment. I'm glad you find my comments interesting for your perusal.

Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by els0nm0rali(m): 10:07am On Jul 14, 2018
Just as infidelity shows manliness abi, after all boys will always be boys right? Wrong!

If you've ever been through military training you'll understand that neatness and precision are military-like qualities.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Idrismusty97(m): 10:14am On Jul 14, 2018
Don't understand where this is coming from cause girls are even more messier than boys from what i have observed.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by dangoteinlaw: 10:17am On Jul 14, 2018
The theory now old na. Too much neat ppl are very broke and so womanly and above all childish.i even avoid them as a man. I walk into your home and everything is just in its place, even down to your razor blade my guy we are done. It's pure indication you have no job.

Back on campus, as an Engineering student in one of the most rugged schools, u hardly enter my coursemates room and not find a thing or two to complain about. But still he's all about he's assignment or tests and gives 0 fxck about what u tink
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Smartademu(m): 10:50am On Jul 14, 2018
delugajackson:
Very nice observation. But it all boils down to one's up-bringing. I think our mothers saw the future already.

With the way these ladies lazy about these days, would it not be a thing of happiness to actually do your cooking, cleaning and tidying without waiting for a lady to do that for you? A typical Nigerian lady will cross her legs while you're sweeping. She will tell you she's not used to "hard life." Worst case, you both get married and she comes up with a nasty attitude. Refusing to cook because of some misunderstanding. You need to show her you're not disadvantaged in that regard.

Far from that, being clean should not considered as being girly. Rather, it is a responsibile attitude that stems from a childhood of discipline and orderliness. Privileged kids who have everything done for them end up becoming irresponsible adults afterwards.

I see nothing masculine about not being able to wash your own clothes, fix your own meal and do your own cleaning.
Exactly, my mom will divide the house chores equally with us the boys and when you complain she would let you know that it is for your own good, you might fall in love with a girl who is not good at cooking and other house chores then you will appreciate what she was doing. She was right, my children will finish their food and even ask for seconds anytime I cook but are always coerced and cajoled to eat anytime their mother cooks. Thanks to you mummy.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 14, 2018
OboOlora:
U r one of the most intelligent people on this forum, ur comments r always reasonable and I look out for them!
Even with lazy about? ... Laze about..
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by OboOlora(f): 11:02am On Jul 14, 2018
Elfmannisback:
Even with lazy about? ... Laze about..

Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody:
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Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody: 11:23am On Jul 14, 2018
Well this is my story, I'm real and I don't play side play. I'm a very neat guy, but currently in paramilitary sch. When i was a worker before my redundancy, I've always been a neat guy till date. I've seen real money and despite i became bankrupt, i was also very neat. I don't like dirty environment. I can do the entire clean up of my compound without the rely of anyone. So from the above information, it certainly not true and being neat doesn't mean you're broke. I follow the adage that says, cleanliness is nearer to God's holiness.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Nobody: 11:25am On Jul 14, 2018
[quote author=OboOlora post=69366820][/quote]Negative? Edit!
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by homesteady(m): 11:46am On Jul 14, 2018
dangoteinlaw:
The theory now old na. Too much neat ppl are very broke and so womanly and above all childish.i even avoid them as a man. I walk into your home and everything is just in its place, even down to your razor blade my guy we are done. It's pure indication you have no job.

Back on campus, as an Engineering student in one of the most rugged schools, u hardly enter my coursemates room and not find a thing or two to complain about. But still he's all about he's assignment or tests and gives 0 fxck about what u tink
I'm a medical student, you obviously know you ain't as busy as I am, yet my room is always neat and well arranged. I know engineering students neater than I am, so I don't understand what you are saying.
You shouldn't generalize you and your friends clumsiness.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Teespice(f): 12:05pm On Jul 14, 2018
delugajackson:
Very nice observation. But it all boils down to one's up-bringing. I think our mothers saw the future already.

With the way ladies lazy about these days, would it not be a thing of happiness to actually do your cooking, cleaning and tidying without waiting for a lady to do that for you? A typical Nigerian lady will cross her legs while you're sweeping. She will tell you she's not used to "hard life." Worst case, you both get married and she comes up with a nasty attitude. Refusing to cook because of some misunderstanding. You need to show her you're not disadvantaged in that regard.

Far from that, being clean should not considered as being girly. Rather, it is a responsibile attitude that stems from a childhood of discipline and orderliness. Privileged kids who have everything done for them end up becoming irresponsible adults afterwards.

I see nothing masculine about not being able to wash your own clothes, fix your own meal and do your own cleaning.
a round of applause for this fella.

you have managed to make this topic about women and laziness from your post.

jisi ike nna.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by dangoteinlaw: 12:21pm On Jul 14, 2018
homesteady:
I'm a medical student, you obviously know you ain't as busy as I am, yet my room is always neat and well arranged. I know engineering students neater than I am, so I don't understand what you are saying.
You shouldn't generalize you and your friends clumsiness.
lol, what type of medical doc will u become?? Just like a doc with a gud handwriting, is that one even qualified?? grin this topic isn't really referencing as in 100% smelly guys or stuff, what it meant is like someone actually ruff lukin, how many Engineering guys even have time today rub cream... maybe u are right, those one with prolly like 4 co hovering their neck..they later come out with 3rd class lol...jk tho but get the jerk, this isn't about being 100% dirty but we just saying as in not that u dedicate all Ur life sweeping like an Anambra alosho, grin
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by ngwababe(f): 1:03pm On Jul 14, 2018
Very true observation.. BTW umu Nwoke di dirty!
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by lekkan(m): 1:36pm On Jul 14, 2018
grin grin grin thus is summary of all
homesteady:
I'm a student, you obviously know you ain't as busy as I am, yet my room is always neat and well arranged. I know engineering students neater than I am, so I don't understand what you are saying.
You shouldn't generalize you and your friends clumsiness.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by whyteteeth: 1:44pm On Jul 14, 2018
dangoteinlaw:
lol, what type of medical doc will u become?? Just like a doc with a gud handwriting, is that one even qualified?? grin this topic isn't really referencing as in 100% smelly guys or stuff, what it meant is like someone actually ruff lukin, how many Engineering guys even have time today rub cream... maybe u are right, those one with prolly like 4 co hovering their neck..they later come out with 3rd class lol...jk tho but get the jerk, this isn't about being 100% dirty but we just saying as in not that u dedicate all Ur life sweeping like an Anambra alosho, grin
What is this one saying sef? mehn u aren't making any sense.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by dangoteinlaw: 2:04pm On Jul 14, 2018
whyteteeth:
What is this one saying sef? mehn u aren't making any sense.
ok grin cheesy
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by MissRaine69(f): 2:07pm On Jul 14, 2018
Sometimes I wish I could unread things!!
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Damfostopper(m): 2:15pm On Jul 14, 2018
I was brought up to be clean and neat and cook my own food too.... fvck ur dead brain cells..... shove whatever you think deep down ur asshole

Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Skmoda360(m): 2:15pm On Jul 14, 2018
Nackzy:
Capital Lie, I completely disagree with this deductions
Girly boys will forever remain girly whether clean or not while masculine boys will forever remain masculine whether they are clean or not
Bros some girly boys don dey wise up now ooo....cuz girls don teach them better lesson not to dey do mumu for them.
But on a contrary its cool to be clean and look neat all the time...don't come near me thinking I'm a girly girl cuz I'm always neat but I'm clincher when it comes to girls ooo.... grin grin grin
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by shaybebaby(f): 2:24pm On Jul 14, 2018
I don't when personal hygiene and taking care of one's own environment became an indicator of sexuality, masculinity or femininity undecided

No wonder this place is littered with irresponsible people.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Altern8(m): 2:36pm On Jul 14, 2018
When you think you’re a philosopher just because you can speak English.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by Innograce: 2:54pm On Jul 14, 2018
It can't be better said than this
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by myself13: 3:59pm On Jul 14, 2018
Idrismusty97:
Don't understand where this is coming from cause girls are even more messier than boys from what i have observed.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by thaprofit88: 6:07pm On Jul 14, 2018
Priscy01:
According to this lady, toxic masculinity is teaching boys to be messy so that they can appear more masculine..

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/clean-boys-are-seen-as-girly-while-messy-boys-are-more-masculine-lady.html

L
See these girls again. After dragging our fathers day with us and other what not , they now want to define masculinity for us. Please leave our masculinity for us, whether it's clean or dirty let it be our problem not urs.
Re: "Clean Boys Are Seen As Girly While Messy Boys Are More Masculine" - Lady by theDEVILisHERE: 12:35am On Jul 15, 2018
dangoteinlaw:
The theory now old na. Too much neat ppl are very broke and so womanly and above all childish.i even avoid them as a man. I walk into your home and everything is just in its place, even down to your razor blade my guy we are done. It's pure indication you have no job.

Back on campus, as an Engineering student in one of the most rugged schools, u hardly enter my coursemates room and not find a thing or two to complain about. But still he's all about he's assignment or tests and gives 0 fxck about what u tink
This is twisted logic for twisted minds
Neatness and orderliness shows discipline and composure
To be a proper man you need both
if anyone lack this in his life it means his upbringing was faulty
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