konkonbilo:
Husband material hundred yards

This one Na twenty five yards o... Lol yuu try sha

chaarly:



his yard is even small.
my own is reading like 1millions yards

Jealousy...

Radiant1020:


This one Na twenty five yards o... Lol yuu try sha

Maami, 25 yard no be small something nau ..thanks

Concoction rice ..

Comman gimme laziness did not allow me make it. I have bought the ingredients for 2weeks now.

jummiefoodie:
Early morning pancakes

It looks like coconut rice

SwtDove:
Concoction rice ..

GoTV:
Good morning everyone. Thanks for the love. I'm so amazed that you all care despite my annoying attitude. God bless you all. My Ex wife's family are denying me access to my twin boys. I'm doing all i can to get them from her but it's all abortive. I married the wrong woman and I'm burnt. The thoughts get me paranoid and suicidal. I'm hanging on to hope but you can't understand cos you ain't in my shoes.

Sheybi I told y'all I knew why he was like that and y'all should try to understand, Studying psychology was not a waste after all

Hey bro, You gotta erase any thoughts of suicide from your head, it is never a solution, You've got kids and an online family as well, no problem lasts forever man. Stay calm bro

breadplanets:

Watido?

Hot puff puff

Puffpuff

Sansa143:
Hot puff puff

Copy copy

Posted first.So na u copy

Yuneehk:

Copy copy

GoTV:
Good morning everyone. Thanks for the love. I'm so amazed that you all care despite my annoying attitude. God bless you all. My Ex wife's family are denying me access to my twin boys. I'm doing all i can to get them from her but it's all abortive. I married the wrong woman and I'm burnt. The thoughts get me paranoid and suicidal. I'm hanging on to hope but you can't understand cos you ain't in my shoes.

oga i understand o! Give your ex some time and she'll allow you access to your kids. She's keeping them from you to spite to.

Fear of the bolded might also be a reason they are not allowing you see them. You and your ex need to work out an arrangement on visitation, don't stop doing your part as their father.

Get yourself together and delete that sniper you posted there cos it can be use against you in a court of law you don't want to loose the custody battle by being termed suicidal and emotionally unstable do you?

Liftedhands:
oga i understand o! Give your ex some time and she'll allow you access to your kids. She's keeping them from you to spite to.

Fear of the bolded might also be a reason they are not allowing you see them. You and your ex need to work out an arrangement on visitation, don't stop doing your part as their father.

Get yourself together and delete that sniper you posted there cos it can be use against you in a court of law you don't want to loose the custody battle by being termed suicidal and emotionally unstable do you?

The useless woman is not on nairaland so deleting pics is of no use. I'm looking for a way to get those kids by force. I'm not going through any court proceedings. I did not make my babies in court and won't let any woman use the court to her advantage. If i was impotent will their be any kids in the first instance? I will organise how to deal with her and her family brutally. At worst everybody dies than me loosing the custody of those boys

GoTV:




The useless woman is not on nairaland so deleting pics is of no use. I'm looking for a way to get those kids by force. I'm not going through any court proceedings. I did not make my babies in court and won't let any woman use the court to her advantage. If i was impotent will their be any kids in the first instance? I will organise how to deal with her and her family brutally. At worst everybody dies than me loosing the custody of those boys

Na so.

Sansa143:
Hot puff puff

Yummy yummy!!!

If my village witches start bringing the type of meals i see in this thread everyday to feed me in dream, there will be peace and absolutely no need to wake up in the middle of the night and be chanting religious incantations but all the lazy witches disturb someone's dream with is "low budget" meals like yam and palm oil, garri without sugar, pap without milk, unripe plantain, coconut, bitterkola, etc. How will we co-exist in peace!!!?? How!!!?........

GoTV:

The useless woman is not on nairaland so deleting pics is of no use. I'm looking for a way to get those kids by force. I'm not going through any court proceedings. I did not make my babies in court and won't let any woman use the court to her advantage. If i was impotent will their be any kids in the first instance? I will organise how to deal with her and her family brutally. At worst everybody dies than me loosing the custody of those boys

Everyone dies and who take the kids? Will they die too? Stop thinking and saying things like this. You may think NL is anonymous but it really isn’t and this can hurt your case.

This mentality here might be why they are denying you access. I know someone who broke up with his wife. He had 4 kids and he wanted to get custody of all of them without sharing with his wife. His plan was to send them to his family to take care of them while he went ahead to marry a new woman. No woman will ever agree to live without her children. So she took them and ran away and he doesn’t know where they are even as of today.

You see when parents fall out, no matter how angry you are with each other (and you will be), try to get along civilly with each other for the sake of the children. Agree on a custody arrangement that is fair (usually shared custody) before it gets to court. Don’t do things by force. Nobody benefits and you hurt your kids more.

Wishing you zen

Sansa143:
Hot puff puff

can I be your sister,I know how to wash plates oo.

U can have d whole plate

soberdrunk:



Yummy yummy!!!

cococandy:


Everyone dies and who take the kids? Will they die too? Stop thinking and saying things like this. You may think NL is anonymous but it really isn’t and this can hurt your case.

This mentality here might be why they are denying you access. I know someone who broke up with his wife. He had 4 kids and he wanted to get custody of all of them without sharing with his wife. His plan was to send them to his family to take care of them while he went ahead to marry a new woman. No woman will ever agree to live without her children. So she took them and ran away and he doesn’t know where they are even as of today.

You see when parents fall out, no matter how angry you are with each other (and you will be), try to get along civilly with each other for the sake of the children. Agree on a custody arrangement that is fair (usually shared custody) before it gets to court. Don’t do things by force. Nobody benefits and you hurt your kids more.

Wishing you zen

Woman i can see you're based in America hence this your mentality cos their law seems to favor women. Why would i be denied access to my children for God's sake? This is Africa where men call almost all the shots in marriage. So I'm expected to continue paying their bills but can't have full access to them. Isn't that enough wickedness? What if she decides to remarry so another man will raise my kids according to his beliefs cos definitely the mother will want them in the same roof with her. I have families that can take care of them if everyone dies. I understand your position, but sometimes desperate times calls for desperate actions.

GoTV:




Woman i can see you're based in America hence this your mentality cos their law seems to favor women. Why would i be denied access to my children for God's sake? This is Africa where men call almost all the shots in marriage. So I'm expected to continue paying their bills but can't have full access to them. Isn't that enough wickedness? What if she decides to remarry so another man will raise my kids according to his beliefs cos definitely the mother will want them in the same roof with her. I have families that can take care of them if everyone dies. I understand your position, but sometimes desperate times calls for desperate actions.

oga me Weh dey Nigeria and won custody of my son nko? Abeg let me come and be going, ogeh megi voom na anya stay here and be blowing hot air.

GoTV:

Woman i can see you're based in America hence this your mentality cos their law seems to favor women. Why would i be denied access to my children for God's sake?

you shouldn’t be denied access to your kids. You’re their father. And the law does not favor women here. It does what’s fair (for the most part). You know as they say “to the oppressor, equality seems like oppression”. GoTV Don’t be that guy.

This is Africa where men call almost all the shots in marriage.

Well that is absolutely wrong and unfair: you should have realized it too. I’m glad times are changing. Get with it

So I'm expected to continue paying their bills but can't have full access to them. Isn't that enough wickedness?

No it’s not wickedness. You pay the kids bills like a regular dad who loves his children would. You get equal access to them as she does. She takes care of them like a regular mom would (which FYI is usually more hard work than sending money). You will both be doing your jobs as their parents, and get to have them in your lives as much as is fair to you both and not disruptive for them.

What if she decides to remarry so another man will raise my kids according to his beliefs cos definitely the mother will want them in the same roof with her.

Have you thought about what if you remarry? Wouldn’t the kids get a new woman in their lives who has different ideas than their mom? Well it’s the same thing here. Unfortunately that’s one of the costs of getting a divorce. On the bright side, blended families can also be beneficial to children once they get over the pain of the divorce. You and your new wife, she and her new husband all get to raise your kids whenever it’s your turn to have them.

I have families that can take care of them if everyone dies. I understand your position, but sometimes desperate times calls for desperate actions.

That’s less beneficial than having new step parents. At least one of the original parents will always be in the family with them if everyone lives.

It’s your pride talking now rather than your sense of what’s best for your kids. Keep your pride at bay and agree to share custody with your ex. You will see how easily that solves your problem.

Other house chores nkor

nnekaike:
can I be your sister,I know how to wash plates oo.

Guys Sorry for the derailment please
We just have to keep our brother here from doing anything drastic.

Here’s a salad to munch on in the meantime. Last night dinner.

Almond crusted seared salmon on a bed of kale, quinoa, chopped avocado, sweetened cranberries and sliced brussel sprouts tossed in vinaigrette (I didn’t like the brussel sprouts) but I liked everything else.

This house bread is why I go to the Cheesecake Factory. So yummy

Naomi14:
Comman gimme laziness did not allow me make it. I have bought the ingredients for 2weeks now.

Lol
You need just 20minutes
Create time for it

Sansa143:
Other house chores nkor

Noo,na to wash plates and pots pay pass.

Sansa143:
Hot puff puff

Hmmmm
You want me to open flour again today.

cococandy:
you shouldn’t be denied access to your kids. You’re their father. And the law does not favor women here. It does what’s fair (for the most part). You know as they say “to the oppressor, equality seems like oppression”. GoTV Don’t be that guy.


Well that is absolutely wrong and unfair: you should have realized it too. I’m glad times are changing. Get with it



No it’s not wickedness. You pay the kids bills like a regular dad who loves his children would. You get equal access to them as she does. She takes care of them like a regular mom would (which FYI is usually more hard work than sending money). You will both be doing your jobs as their parents, and get to have them in your lives as much as is fair to you both and not disruptive for them.


Have you thought about what if you remarry? Wouldn’t the kids get a new woman in their lives who has different ideas than their mom? Well it’s the same thing here. Unfortunately that’s one of the costs of getting a divorce. On the bright side, blended families can also be beneficial to children once they get over the pain of the divorce. You and your new wife, she and her new husband all get to raise your kids whenever it’s your turn to have them.



That’s less beneficial than having new step parents. At least one of the original parents will always be in the family with them if everyone lives.

It’s your pride talking now rather than your sense of what’s best for your kids. Keep your pride at bay and agree to share custody with your ex. You will see how easily that solves your problem.

Just let it go sis...the matter is not only derailing this beautiful thread but also exhausting
I gave up when he mentioned "brutal" and "death", 'cause then I knew it was more than we could handle

Liftedhands:
Na so.

You bother yourself too much.na yew know.
I ve told you before...mind ya bizness.

ahnie:


You bother yourself too much.na yew know.
I ve told you before...mind ya bizness.

I am going forward tenkhu.

This food thread is so interesting. The food is inspiring.

But something observed. It has to be said.

After attacking and abusing him with the intent that he should die for his contrary views/offenses, after plainly telling him that he's useless (no names mentioned here) some people who did so are pretending to care.

Human beings are so two-faced.

Why not always extend the soft words in the first place instead of going aggro, when you know that in the end you'll have to act like you're sorry?
After the reggae play the blues.


People react over nothing in here. So much insulting over food.



This is how everybody hated ewa26 for nothing. Does anybody know where he is? Or did you kill him with your words before you could act like you care?

Back to topic.