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MissRaine69:
Then men need to make wiser choices rather than paint everyone with the same brush.
If you are dating someone who does not think collectively in terms of relationships why are you expecting that person to change?
What I want I get if he gets it out of his own volition fine if he does not fine as well but I won’t chop his balls off though!

You're making mouth sha. I hope you really practice what you're preaching here.

I've dated girls with the above characteristics u mentioned, employed, have thier own money and thier own apartments. Etc. It doesn't matter if they are bank workers or medical doctors, at the end of the day they still turn to leaches. Maybe not as much as the jobless girls ,but they still ask for favours on a daily basis. The last one wanted me to subscribe her dstv for her, something she's been comfortably doing for years I suppose.


Its a mentality the girls should accept and own with pride or look for ways to change. But dont pretend like its not commonplace. Honestly doesn't matter to me either way though.

Prognose:
You're making mouth sha. I hope you really practice what you're preaching here.

I've dated girls with the above characteristics u mentioned, employed, have thier own money and thier own apartments. Etc. It doesn't matter if they are bank workers or medical doctors, at the end of the day they still turn to leaches. Maybe not as much as the jobless girls ,but they still ask for favours on a daily basis. The last one wanted me to subscribe her dstv for her, something she's been comfortably doing for years I suppose.


Its a mentality the girls should accept and own with pride or look for ways to change. But dont pretend like its not commonplace. Honestly doesn't matter to me either way though.

I live what I preach and it’s not that difficult to do.
Having an existence were I wait for a man to pay for my life pleasures goes against the way I was raised.

DreamersVille24:
Now you're arguing the case properly and putting it in perspective for the OP to see reasons with you.

Your earlier attempt tries to say that women who "have money" are independent and wont make demands unlike say undergraduates and unemployed ladies. A blanket statement which is not true.

I for one know you aren't one of them ladies with that leech mentality but trust me in Nigeria, women grow up having that mentality that men have to pay for everything in their life once he's getting some poosie.

Sadly true.

You're a Nigerian living here in Nigeria right?

I drop in and out

zexy2030:
Missraine69 pls call or text me on 08161178603

Please, grow up!
What makes you think she's not married or in a committed relationship?
Don't come online and start embarrassing the male folks up and down.
Thanks

MissRaine69:
I don’t get men like you.
All you do is whinge and moan about how hard done by you are by girls, routinely mouth off about how girls have nothing to offer. Let me ask you this, When ( if ever) have you approached a woman who works, has her own place, pays all her own bills with her own money, has a car and does not call you to tell you about the many tragedies that seem to befall her family every month?
What exactly do you have to offer to a woman who requires nothing from you?

Nice one, men are always scared of them.

Saff:
No they run away from these type of girls because they’re ‘proud’ and too much to handle. So they go for the girls that depend on them to somehow boost their ego. In the end they still complain. Im tired of these guys

in Africa or Nigeria men like girls dey control.dey do dat through providing( dis actually boost their ego n make feel dey r in charge).Alot of our men r scared of working class ladies.Everytin boils down to being in control.ls nt all about shouting on Nairaland forum.

ladiesreject:
Please, grow up!

What makes you think she's not married or in a committed relationship?

Don't come online and start embarrassing the male folks up and down.

Thanks

bro he is not embarrassing any male folks.let him try his luck.d girl Na yr girlfriend?

engrelvis:
bro he is not embarrassing any male folks. let him try his luck.d girl Na yr girlfriend?

Hahaha OK oooo.

But guys de fvck up sha

ladiesreject:
Please, grow up!

What makes you think she's not married or in a committed relationship?

Don't come online and start embarrassing the male folks up and down.

Thanks

Hello ,Dull dude, transgendered, insight from ur comments reveals u r still in secondary school, only privileged to use a phone.
Sorry, u r just a ranting kid. Eyah, u r pained because ladies reject u. Lolzzzz

MissRaine69:
I live what I preach and it’s not that difficult to do.
Having an existence were I wait for a man to pay for my life pleasures goes against the way I was raised.

I believe you swthrt, These guys will never grow up to be responsible. Just laughing and watching what irresponsibility makes of their lives. NFA kids.

MissRaine69:
I drop in and out

Okay then.

I asked cos I've observed you comments and you definitely do not sound like one who grew up here.

You are however very right when you say men have to make better choices and do away with ladies who they feel do not fit their idea of an ideal partner.

Have yourself a fantastic day ahead.

Cheers.