pocohantas:


Please, don't jump on my mentions without reading and understanding. No where did I ask her to leave, I am sure you can't show where I typed that.

Biko, read before commenting.

daviesblaze:
you dont have to say it before you are nailed with it. even a 12 year old can see where your subtle message is driving at. typical of the devi1, always dropping hint that will mature in due time and making it seems it was her idea all along.

pocohantas:


Thank God you are in the medical field.
You sure do know the implication of that. And you say such a man LOVES AND VALUES his woman. He loves her enough to bang other women RAW. What a wonderful fiance/husband.

C'mon, how do people cheat on a partner. Look the person in the eye, lie and act cool. Maybe immediately after the act sef!

Prognose:


Lol, I doubt he's thinking of STDs and the like when he's having sex. I doubt he's thinking of the implications of going it raw when he's on a sexual high. Moreso as he deliberately involved himself in a sexless relationship with his fiancée for whatever reason, maybe to impress her.

Guys don't think about those things when having sex. Sex is like an impulse to them. Sure you can use this argument of loving and valuing his fiancee if you want him to desist from it. I'm sure op is going to use it when she finally confronts him. It will make him think twice about safety. But having sex with a condom or not does not mean the man values his fiancee any less.

Tiny26, you can forgive, forget and marry him. Let's hope he changes if, but if he doesn't...please don't come back here to create a thread. Because this same people will ask if you didn't see the signs or say you married a cheat because of money. As a typical Naija woman that you are. It is a tough decision, only you can decide.

pocohantas:


They coped by focusing on things different from their husbands. Something different from HIM, most times the kids, job...etc.

Why don't you also ask those men who have been caught cheating, what happened after they were caught. The ones with a little conscience, not the men are polygamous in nature crew.

Oga, don't deceive yourself. You can't cheat on a woman who loved and trusted you...and expect things to remain the same. But in a country like Nigeria where couples marry and remain married for reasons other than themselves, your reasoning and the result of your survey is very understandable.

Prognose:




Forgiving doesn't mean things remain the same. The man loses the woman's trust. She second guesses his every move. The man has to explain every coincidental meeting or WhatsApp message with any unknown woman. No. Things don't remain the same. But it doesn't mean it ends up miserably either if both parties decide to work it out.

Ever wondered why a woman will stay in a marriage despite the incessant beatings and cheatings. They have larger hearts.

pocohantas:

Babe forgive, forget and marry him. Let's hope he changes if, but if he doesn't...please don't come back here to create a thread. Because this same people will ask if you didn't see the signs or say you married a cheat because of money. As a typical Naija woman that you are. It is a tough decision, only you can decide!

Prognose:


But if she cannot get the idea of him sexing another woman out of her head, if she cannot forgive, then she should dump him immediately regardless of whether he has done introduction or not. You can't spend the rest of your life living with someone you cannot forgive, op. It will breed hatred, misery and discontent.

victorian:
Well Op, just know he will keep cheating on you with whom he's banging raw with. He's not even using condoms, cos he's enjoying the pussyyy so well.
And pray the lady does not get pregnant in the early years of your marriage to him. Cause at times, postinor fails.
You've used your own hand to open the door of extra marital affairs, all by yourself.
So choose, either breakup with him or accept him like that, cos he won't change after marriage.
Your case reminds me of Toke. In this life, u can't eat your cake and have it back.

pocohantas:
...Does he shop in that store regularly?
...The receipt is dated 8/7/2018. That's last 2 Sundays. Either he bought it in advance or after the weekend sex. Did you speak with him regularly within that period?
...Or maybe, he bought it for his friend
...He gave someone a ride and he/she mistakenly dropped it there.

From experience, the probability that someone will MISTAKENLY leave such under your driver seat is low. People leave sand on your foot mats, they leave table water bottles, but rarely receipts.

You can ask him about it. Ignore his words, focus on his reactions. Personally, I won't say "explain this?". That will give him opportunity to lie and do mind games. I will put it to him he cheated within that time frame, without showing him the receipt. E.g " Who was she?" He'll definitely say he doesn't know what you are talking about. "The one you fuckéd recently? And you were even nice enough to buy her Postinor2?" He will start wondering where he disposed it

I believe he bought it, but I can't tell you to leave him, it is your choice[you know yourselves better]. I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the urglary proof and bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

pocohantas:
...Does he shop in that store regularly?
...The receipt is dated 8/7/2018. That's last 2 Sundays. Either he bought it in advance or after the weekend sex. Did you speak with him regularly within that period?
...Or maybe, he bought it for his friend
...He gave someone a ride and he/she mistakenly dropped it there.

From experience, the probability that someone will MISTAKENLY leave such under your driver seat is low. People leave sand on your foot mats, they leave table water bottles, but rarely receipts.

You can ask him about it. Ignore his words, focus on his reactions. Personally, I won't say "explain this?". That will give him opportunity to lie and do mind games. I will put it to him he cheated within that time frame, without showing him the receipt. E.g " Who was she?" He'll definitely say he doesn't know what you are talking about. "The one you fuckéd recently? And you were even nice enough to buy her Postinor2?" He will start wondering where he disposed it

I believe he bought it, but I can't tell you to leave him, it is your choice[you know yourselves better]. I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the burglary proof and bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

pocohantas:
...Does he shop in that store regularly?
...The receipt is dated 8/7/2018. That's last 2 Sundays. Either he bought it in advance or after the weekend sex. Did you speak with him regularly within that period?
...Or maybe, he bought it for his friend
...He gave someone a ride and he/she mistakenly dropped it there.

From experience, the probability that someone will MISTAKENLY leave such under your driver seat is low. People leave sand on your foot mats, they leave table water bottles, but rarely receipts.

You can ask him about it. Ignore his words, focus on his reactions. Personally, I won't say "explain this?". That will give him opportunity to lie and do mind games. I will put it to him he cheated within that time frame, without showing him the receipt. E.g " Who was she?" He'll definitely say he doesn't know what you are talking about. "The one you fuckéd recently? And you were even nice enough to buy her Postinor2?" He will start wondering where he disposed it

I believe he bought it, but I can't tell you to leave him, it is your choice[you know yourselves better]. I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the burglary proof and bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

MrCork:




...are u lightskin?

Pusyiter:
Kisses darl......you nailed it

porchbaby:
he is obviously cheating, confront him, if he has no reasonable explanation, then pls I beg u take d exit door, cos u might get an std or worst.

pocohantas:
I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the burglary proof and bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

ImaIma1:
I don't understand this double standards or confusion in guys.

Guys keep saying how they want to marry a virgin. Yet you still want her to have sex while she is dating or else the guy will get it elsewhere.

WHAT DO GUYS REALLY WANT?

iyatrustee:
Postinor don cost reach like this?

Tina26:
So i travelled this weekend to see my fiance , our wedding is in december. He stays in lagos while am based in abj. He suggested a sex free relationship which i agreed to cos am also a virgin. He picked me from the park and branched to withdraw some money. I was just looking round the car and saw something under his car seat. Looked like a betslip. He used to be addicted to online and offline bets which i begged him to stop. I grabbed the slip and found out it was a pharmacy receipt for postinor 2. Am shatterred and confused. I feel i might be jumping into conclusions. But i know he most likely purchased it . so sad

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GODPUNISHUNA:


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doctuw:
i disagree with you. postinor 2 can't be sold legally without prescription. no pharmacy does that. something is fishy

yeyerolling:
mr man just shut the fuk up. I have bot d drug severally in diff pharmacies. Nothin like prescrip was needed

doctuw:
Pharmacy? or A patent medicine store. They are 2 different things

doctuw:
Pharmacy? or A patent medicine store. They are 2 different things

victorian:







thanks dear..

How are u? How's your day?

Tina26: