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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by egojeny1(f): 1:29pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
kmcutez:Nonsense and ingredient. Hahahahahaha!!!! This got me soo baaaaaddd!! Don't mind the fool that calls himself a man. He thought he's wise he doesn't know that his wife is 'wiser' and 'wisest'. Damn!! 6 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Blackbelly(m): 1:29pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Well, in my opinion, they both had some wrong doings, but pride won't allow them concede to each other. They are both contending for who will have the last laugh. Solution: Husband, love your wife. Wife, submit to your husband. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Zirah: 1:31pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
spongeisback: God bless your wisdom. I noticed how his wife tried to cover him up and how he disgraced himself eventually. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
You have a good woman here. Why didn't you ask her to be MR and MRS rather than your name. No sane person will do this.. male or female. Go back and apologise to that woman. Yes, the arguments and fights will be there. You would want respect but remember she is human. If she wouldn't lock you out of her house or tell you to leave, why should you do same. Go back and tell her sorry. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Zirah: 1:33pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
kmcutez: Hahahahaha. Dope, doper, dopest. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Incomparable(f): 1:34pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Zirah: You nailed it. Women dey suffer. 4 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Zirah: 1:37pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
ExtraExtra: Op, bring your ass here, you have important questions to answer. I intend to call you out on your hypocrisy. In whose name did you build the house your father lives in? ExtraExtra. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Kingxway: 1:37pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Acidosis:I prefer reading posts on Nairaland than commenting here and there. But I can't resist the deep wisdom in your post. Marriages these days are viewed more like business partnership, not as it actual purpose - an unbreakable union and oneness between a man and a woman - which the Creator of the Universe Himself initiated. In a true marriage, nothing like ''yours or mine'', but ours. Thus all properties acquired in marriage should bear Mr and Mrs, no matter who owns it. In a true marriage, no third party - their parents, extended family members, friends, relatives and religious parties etc - should all maintain their lanes. But unfortunately, the two people involved in this issue have same view on marriage. The wife was somehow wrong by using only her name, without the husband's consent. She talked to him rudely, which he said was unusual, because she thought he was cheating on her. As if insulting him was not enough, she went far to insult his family, which made him angry. Who would stand having his parents being verbally abused by his own wife? He admitted it never happened before Op, both of you should forgive each other and continue as one. Try and find a way to reconcile with your wife. It's your marriage, not Nairalanders marriage. All is well 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:38pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
sassysure: Yet she married him See how stupid she is She should leave na and see how easy it is to marry man without pride
The man has opened it while she was seeking sentiment A man that has no regard for his parents is a ritual killer in waiting Who bought her car Whose name is it in
The woman making careless accusations and conniving behind her husband back is not a role model abi
Doctrines that have stood for millenni Ordinary Half century of feminism and the world in disarray 42% divorce rate is not evolution It is catastrophe Did the Bible say you our marry these men Why not get sperm donor and see how you will end up
No Child can be proud of a man that apologise to woman that insult his parents Also apologise to us kids. Yes, no matter how small u think they are, they know what is going on.Which wan hasn't he done Yet she treats him like he's dog Thunder fire her Then she will also be disciplinedWe have options You do not why So they can abandon us like you want him to abandon his parents 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Ziggylady(f): 1:38pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55: You really need to get a life..like seriously you have quoted practically every single female,bemoaning what only you can explain.. I chose to ignore you initially when you quoted me with your crap..but your endless wailing here is funny if it wasnt so pathetic. 5 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:38pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
freshvine: I think you're suffering from cognitive dissonance, because the person who actually abandoned his marriage and kids and moved to a different state is that person you're defending. the rest of your post is complete garbage. 'Get out of my house is a commonly used phrase in Nigeria mainly because the husband's viewpoints are actually widely shared by Nigerian men. it's almost as if you don't know that the phrase 'get of my house' is very often followed by the wife or woman actually being bundled out. Nobody is that naive to believe that a Nigerian man ordered his wife out of the house in jest, in a country where wives generally have very few rights anyway. I can see you're female. I hope you never find yourself in a similar situation before the stupidity of your current argument finally dawns on you.... 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:39pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Vicyace:if it were her parents that fell sick nko |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:42pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
transformed:angel is angel devil is devil stop saying wrong thing 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:44pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:46pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Daisythof:your mates have husband. You have money and unhappy life 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by eyinjuege: 1:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55: Obviously, the people that own you are living in great regrets right now. They have done the world a great disservice 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Incomparable(f): 1:49pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
What I deduced from the couple's writeups, the husband is full of greed and ego. If he can adjust, the woman seems to be a good hearted woman, then she will dance to her husband's tune. Everything that's happening now is been dictated by the husband. It's not good to be greedy, selfish and proud at the same time. CioAngels: 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 1:50pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
eyinjuege:I'm a role model to u. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by eyinjuege: 1:53pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Some people are hammering on the agreement between them. What kind of agreement is that? For them to have split the money, it's obvious the wife wanted her own share for her own use, and rightly so. Otherwise she wouldn't have even been concerned about any of the money at all. For him to slyly make her agree to use her own share of the money (which we all agree was her own share) for their family, and not spend it on her own parents, go on a luxurious vacation, or buy a new car shows that he wants to eat his cake and have it. For her not to have been in support of that possibly coerced "agreement" is obvious in the next step she took, by not including his name in the property. She never felt it was right, and obviously didn't agree to it. Why should it be a problem for him to live in his wife's house, when she hasn't ever told him to leave it or ridiculed him for that? He was the one who tried to ridicule her instead. I'm really not getting why it should be a problem for her to spend her own share of the money on a property with her name on it. It's her hard work for goodness sake. Why bother to claim we shared the money, and still expect your name on what she decides to do with it? That was an unfair position to put anyone in, by making such an agreement. Where is the place of honor and integrity in all these? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Evathyst(f): 1:59pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
I have a feeling that dude named 'MIKOLOWISKA' is the same UP. Else, he won't be up in arms attacking everyone whose opinion negates his. Thank you Zirah for adding another twist to this plot. So, the house the mofo built for his parents is in whose name? Theirs or his? The answer to that question alone will mail his coffin. To be honest, even I too can't build a house in my father's name when I have none yet. God forbid, if he dies, my siblings who happen to be mostly boys will just easily put me out with the 'You're a woman tag'. Like the yorubas often say; 'Oko o kin je ti Baba t'omo ko ma la'la'. Meaning a farm yard doesn't belong to both the father and child without a boundary. That guy is simply a thief, crook, rogue and an egotistic fraudster. If he's not, let him settle with his wife and move into the apartment without demanding for a name change. If not for what he has up his sleeve, what has the name on a document (ordinary paper) got to do with marriage? Is the woman collecting tent from him? Is she bringing in other man to the house? Abegi! Most Naija Men are narcist! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 2:00pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: Seriously, i never knew google translates igbo becos i neva use am b4. Lemme tel u wat u dnt knw,.... I ws born in Enugu, ogbete to be precise. I also lived in amawbia, Eke mkt sq rd...Anambra state I stayed in obinze near Futo in owerri...Imo state I stayed in Obingwa....Abia State I stayed in obele....Rivers state I stayed in bonny....Rivers state. One tin abt al dese places i mentioned is; dey speak igbo language. So, wen u said i used Google, i smiled becos i dnt reason lyk a local igbo man lyk u. U knw quite sure dat; no mata hw educated n exposed a typical Igbo may become. 2 things dnt let go of dem 1. Their accent (e.g. Lice, Galli, rove, lepent, blother) 2. Der local way of doing tins. .......I am frm d south south my blother & very ploud n happy am nt a FLATINOROSKI developer. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Incomparable(f): 2:00pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
God bless you. Why would husbands be treating wives as if women are not human being who don't have feelings (emotions) Caris77: 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by addictiv(m): 2:06pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:Well sluggards would rather prefer to live in denial and adhere to stupid rantings of insecure, misogynist, men with over bloated egos. A real man would obtain valid proof of his wives adulterous affairs and not acting on childish impulses. I have seen women who have the worst tongues on the planet, who literally spit fire but you would not believe how gentle and submissive they are when their husbands who are real men are around, because real men treat their women right. Its only an insecure fool that would drag properties with his wife and sees her as a competition because he comes from a poor background and she's well off. And after slaving for the family all she gets in return is to be thrown out empty handed while the alofrate runs around town with scores of women, Unfortunately for him the plan backfired.This is what happens when women get married to little boys who think they can now keep a family after sighting the first strand of pubic hair. But you wouldn't know that would you? 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by GrammarCheck: 2:11pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: The OPs wife apologized and has compromised. She accepted to make it joint but he wants it to himself only! If he can't accept her deal, he shd go and fk himself. May God bless him with a slay queen so that he will appreciate the gem his wife truly is 5 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by DMerciful(m): 2:21pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
He doesnt want the house anymore...deal with that GrammarCheck: 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by freshvine(f): 2:22pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: i wanted to have a healthy conversation but with the insult you've been hauling its likehood your emotional dysfunctional status have override common sense.i'll excuse your ignorance and juvenile deliquence until a later date its appropriate to interface on a logical periscope. good day! 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
EgunMogaji: +1000 God forbid, if the man kicks the bucket pematurely, next thing you see some family members laying claim to the house. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Anextin(f): 2:35pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
You asked her to leave and of course your didn't mean it really!!!?? And u want us to believe u. Nah guy, she tried to paint u a saint and that's her undoing, cos u didn't waste time in painting her as the devil. And of course some bigoted people won't see the underlying in your words. I believe her not cos am female but cos she tried to respect you in her post. Now you think u can take the kids and leave, and she can tag along if she wants to. Next you will tell us how bad a mother she is!!!! Op you better go home and settle issues with your with your wife. Enough of these blames. You guys have kids, she should transfer the property to their names, yes all the kids names should appear on it. Go and build your home, your woman wanted to find ways to mend your home, even in her response that's what she asked for. Yours is for separation and blame game. Living alone doesn't pay when u have a spouse you could have sort things out with. Go home to your family and stop that transfer. Work things out 4 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Tlyon(m): 2:42pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
ExtraExtra: Op pls if she begs you do forgive as i wouldnt want your kids go through what i'hv been through from my kid days till now. my parent finally own their separate house but my life am trying hard to make better cus i see no one to talk to, lost my front tooth in primary school days both parent didnt know untill 6months, i gat things am good at which only my friends can say am good, No one to tell wat i have in mind, my academics shortcome, health and so on, my dad was the closest to me but lost him 2012 then the rest nah story. if she wants to change the name stating both names(yours and hers) pls do cus the house to me belongs to your children and children children, you both can always build a separate house if ego dey ona body. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by pacesetting: 2:47pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Exactly. But I'm not the one assuming here. You are. You should read comments properly before quoting someone. PrecisionFx: |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Anextin(f): 2:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:What is wrong with you, are you an emperroor that one can't have a divergent view from yours. You keep attacking everyone who doesn't applaud the man. The business was even the woman's idea, and am sure most of the 65% money came from her irrespective of what the op said. She started the house, and he just added what he had left from the travel which means 75% funds did come from her, yet she's willingly to compromise, and all she's asking for is how to make her proud man understand and accept joint ownership. Yet you see her as the villain. Please enough of your tantrums, go and get busy!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:hr should have given her proof and put her heart to rest |
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