addictiv:
Well sluggards would rather prefer to live in denial and adhere to stupid rantings of insecure, misogynist, men with over bloated egos. A real man would obtain valid proof of his wives adulterous affairs and not acting on childish impulses. I have seen women who have the worst tongues on the planet, who literally spit fire but you would not believe how gentle and submissive they are when their husbands who are real men are around, because real men treat their women right. Its only an insecure fool that would drag properties with his wife and sees her as a competition because he comes from a poor background and she's well off. And after slaving for the family all she gets in return is to be thrown out empty handed, while the alofrate runs around town with scores of women, Unfortunately for him the plan backfired. This is what happens when women get married to little boys who think they can now keep a family, after sighting the first strand of pubic hair. But you wouldn't know that would you?

Platony:


Seriously, i never knew google translates igbo becos i neva use am b4.

Lemme tel u wat u dnt knw,....

I ws born in Enugu, ogbete to be precise.

I also lived in amawbia, Eke mkt sq rd...Anambra state

I stayed in obinze near Futo in owerri...Imo state

I stayed in Obingwa....Abia State

I stayed in obele....Rivers state

I stayed in bonny....Rivers state.

One tin abt al dese places i mentioned is; dey speak igbo language.

So, wen u said i used Google, i smiled becos i dnt reason lyk a local igbo man lyk u. U knw quite sure dat; no mata hw educated n exposed a typical Igbo may become. 2 things dnt let go of dem

1. Their accent (e.g. Lice, Galli, rove, lepent, blother)

2. Der local way of doing tins.

.......I am frm d south south my blother & very ploud n happy am nt a FLATINOROSKI developer.

MIKOLOWISKA:
yeah
Real men just sit there and endure suspicion and venom till they snap and commit murder. Dumbasss

TonyeBarcanista:
Sister, NOTHING will ever justify the irresponsible act of the wife. SIMPLE!

Meanwhile, he never meant to chase her out, it's like someone saying "get out, I don't want to see you again"...

utenwuson:
u didn't get the gist,

the woman literally was abusing his poor parents cos she s from a well to do background, the genesis of this problem is just cos the guy spends his own share on his sick parent, which the girl wasn't happy about openly.
and that was why the girl didn't say anything in her submit about what lead to the altercations between them cos everyone was gonna blame her... she just stated that it was a heated argument" and concentrated in the park out of my house stuff...

I so love the guy decision and that's the best to fix back his sanity..... he s not enjoying it but it's a hard decision he have to take.
let her eat the house.

utenwuson:
it takes by the grace of God for a man to stay in a house with a woman for a while year without hitting her cos she will definitely get at u...... just God grace

oloyede252:

madame, please are you seeing well at all. which men are advising him to leave his marriage.

are you not tired of this blame game? cos am sure you have nothing much to say.

MarieSucre:



Okay let's say she was abusing his parents which is wrong. What gives him the right to say GET OUT OF MY HOUSE?

TheKingIsHere:


If the man was cheating, why is she so desperate to reconcile with a cheating husband?

Respect55:

Just watch ur utterances because if u continue like this, u may not last up to 2 months in a man's house. U may spend the rest of ur life alone and bitter

Respect55:

Look at her, they go about insulting their husbands and his entire family and still want to stay under same roof with him. Hypocrites

MIKOLOWISKA:
I feel you are a fool. No evidence no proof I just feel, so I have right to insult your parents

MIKOLOWISKA:
why didn't she marry a wimp. Shebi you're looking for ego less man

PrecisionFx:



The husband n wife have already told u that they shared the money 50/50

mfm04622:
She caused the quarrel with her insecurity, lack of trust, insulting your parents. That last one is a NO NO. You have the right to be angry.

However, when it comes to that property, it is hers. You used your own share of the money to take care of your father which is very good. You also used part to complete your parent's house. Then contributed the rest to finish the house. What you used your own share of the money for are commendable. Very commendable. I will advise you to forget that property. You are wrong in demanding that she give up that property.
If she has apologized and you still love her, take her back but don't live in that house. As a man, you need to live in a house where you have control. Wish you the best

MIKOLOWISKA:
her unbridled tongue without proof is the cause

MIKOLOWISKA:
yeah he should stay and continue to be insulted and abused till he loses it and kills the woman and end up in jail.

MIKOLOWISKA:
he should stop talking to women at work at church from his school abi. Stupidity

PrecisionFx:




"" I ws born in Enugu, ogbete to be precise." - .


Afonja cone, U can't be born in Ogbete n u couldn't have lived in Ogbete...It's It's never. If u know 042 @ all, Den u will know that u can't be born there .

Onye era. Ndi mmaa tigie gu eka

Amumaigwe:


You came from a broken or at best a loveless and dysfunctional home. Your first statement gave you away. Just make sure the baggages your mother's attitude has successfully hung around your neck do not pull your own marriage down.

Reading comments from some folks here, I now appreciate the extent of healing the family system needs. Where is love, submission, sacrifice, tolerance etc that used to be the hallmark of marriages. Why wouldn't the type of families we have these days be the breeding place of criminals that are now everywhere defrauding people and doing all kinds of money rituals.

PrecisionFx:




"" I ws born in Enugu, ogbete to be precise." - .


Afonja cone, U can't be born in Ogbete n u couldn't have lived in Ogbete...It's It's never. If u know 042 @ all, Den u will know that u can't be born there .

Onye era. Ndi mmaa tigie gu eka

Respect55:

Financially and otherwise.

MarieSucre:


Because one of them has sense enough to know that family is higher than ego. It's clear that ONE is not the man.

paulynpen:

You are either lying or ignorant.

LaudableXX:


Go back and read her story again. She was the first to mention that her husband used his share of the money to treat his sick father, flew him abroad for treatment, and completed his parent's house. Everything the husband narrated here, is what the wife said before in her story. The only thing she omitted was the part, where she suspected him of cheating and abused him, his family & his background. That was what made him tell her to leave the house. Her response to him, was that the documents of the house are in her own name, so she cannot leave her own house.

Rajosh:
https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 this is the link to the story I read. I still can't find where she made mention of those things. she only said he used his money for his parents and gave no details as you said

HEseesall:
I had to open this account for anonymity
I'm in a dilemma, let me start like this, when i and my husband first got married we did a joint business that fetched us a huge amount of money, the aim was to build a house, when we got the money, he decided to use his' for his parents (i had no problem with that) then mine for what we wanted to use it for

Two weeks ago we had a major misunderstanding, it was soo intense to the extent that he told me to park out of the house, in the heat of things i told him that cannot be possible that the house is in my name, he was shocked, saying it is impossible we built it together that it's in his name, i had to remind him what happened then, he was furious saying it was wrong of me to use my name, that he cant believe he has been staying in a house that does not belong to him, he told his family what i did claming victim, then he packed out saying he wont come home till i change the name to his full name, i begged him to no avail, i dont even know how to tell my people, imagine if it was in his name, i and the kids would have been out of the house by now, he has requested for transfer from his office to another state cos of this, who does that?? He cant expect me to change it to his name.

Pls i need other advise to go about this, he is a good man but he feels his ego has been bruised, i need other options.

MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1),

HEseesall:
When he told me he wants to use his share for his parents, we agreed my share would be used for get a property then we start to build from there and that's what i did, i expected he knows i would use my name cos i keep the documents, now he is saying he wants his own name only not jointly, who says that pls, at least i compromised for jointly,

HEseesall:
The property only is in my name but we built it together

HEseesall:
Yes it is not a small money, his dad had an ailment he had to be flown out, he used the remaining to complete their house, he's the first born, now they think i'm evil cos of all he did for them, it's really saddening