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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by PENIEL2018(m): 10:01am On Jul 21, 2018
@savvy12,thats your own assumption. Don't conclude that all Nigerian guys date ladies because of sex. Some are principled and cautious while others may be termed the other way round. undecided
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by imam07: 10:02am On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
its a matter of choice most oftentimes she never asked for anything
I guessed Lai Muhammed is your father.
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by fr3do(m): 10:45am On Jul 21, 2018
I applaud the principle of no sex before marriage for decent men and women
What I detest is a loose girl that has slept or is sleeping around, using this 'no sex before marriage' to deceive a gullible brother.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by HardMirror(m): 11:29am On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
its a matter of choice most oftentimes she never asked for anything
be sincere. How long wld you date a guy that does not give you the d? Only exception is if you are a virgin. Ladies love sex and they are always getting it from someone except in very rare cases. Are you one of those rare cases that can go months without sex?
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by coolscott(m): 11:48am On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex



or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing

My partner and I are both not engaging until we get married (very soon) and we are happy with it. It is God's prescription.
I am a guy.

I know one of my friends in school who surely did the same
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by youcanmakeit: 11:56am On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex



or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing




His true color came out. He wanted sex right from the beginning.
Most guys are fond of this rubbish, they'll PRETEND they are not interested in sex, just like what the the mumu dude said. " SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART". He never actually meant it. He wanted sex from the start. Every guy wants sex. Any guy that says he does not want sex is telling lies or impotent.
That's why I love myself and my approach with women and dating, I'm always straightforward about my interest in a girl, and I don't back down from it. If she's not interested, she can get lost. Most times the girl always come back to me on her own when she's done with her 'forming'..
ilegend let me know you thought on this.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Joafjoe2018(m): 12:06pm On Jul 21, 2018
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by CAPSLOCKED: 12:14pm On Jul 21, 2018
Admin401:
Nigerian girls are very boring and unromantic. Sometimes I wonder whats the point of even dating in Nigeria. If you take away sex, what else can she give?

Look at what you've written; you went to a guy's house and all you could talk about is what he did for you, how lady-like he treated you while you just sat there


SHE ACTUALLY SHOT HERSELF.
SO HE DID ALL THAT FOR HER WHILE SHE JUST SAT AND ENJOYED EVERYTHING. NOT A SINGLE THING DID SHE SAY SHE HAS CONTRIBUTED TO THEIR RELATIONSHIP. WHAT'S IN IT FOR THE GUY THEN WHEN HE'S NOT EVEN GETTING CALLS OR TEXT MESSAGES? NOTHING.

SHE ADMITTED TO HAVE ALWAYS LIKED HIM FROM THE START BUT CONTINUED TO PUSH HIM AWAY SO THAT SHE CAN BE SURE HE TRULY LIKES HER. LOL. THESE PEOPLE NEVER LEARN. WHO STILL DOES TRASH LIKE THAT? SO IF HE HAD STOPPED TALKING TO HER AND FOLLOWED HER FRIEND OR SOMEONE SHE KNOWS THIS THREAD WOULD HAVE BEEN A COMPREHENSIVE DOCUMENTARY ABOUT ALL MEN BEING DOGS AND THIS MAN JUST WANTED HER BODY.
NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU TREAT A MAN HE'LL ENDURE UNTIL HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS.. PRAY IT'S YOU HE TRULY WANTS AT THE END OF YOUR SHAKARA OTHERWISE YOU'LL BE DOG FOOD.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by AgentGoat: 12:27pm On Jul 21, 2018
Admin401:
Nigerian girls are very boring and unromantic. Sometimes I wonder whats the point of even dating in Nigeria. If you take away sex, what else can she give?

Look at what you've written; you went to a guy's house and all you could talk about is what he did for you, how lady-like he treated you while you just sat there with your warm hole gesticulating below. Smh

Make I no talk to much



grin grin



I no fit laff abeg

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Nasri100(m): 12:31pm On Jul 21, 2018
Admin401:
Nigerian girls are very boring and unromantic. Sometimes I wonder whats the point of even dating in Nigeria. If you take away sex, what else can she give?

Look at what you've written; you went to a guy's house and all you could talk about is what he did for you, how lady-like he treated you while you just sat there with your warm hole gesticulating below. Smh

Make I no talk to much

Lol bro

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by delkuf(m): 12:43pm On Jul 21, 2018
Akposb:
Firstly, one Nigerian guy does not translate to all Nigerian.
Also why would want you to spend the night with a guy when you are not ready for sex.
Lastly, you know who he is now and hopefully he might change if you still like him or possibly let's hope the next guy you meet is a real good one.
that was what I wanted to ask her. you don't want sex don't what will trigger it. why will sleep in a guy house, and you don't want sex. you have problem ooooo
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by cvibe2: 2:01pm On Jul 21, 2018
Ok
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Ridbaay: 2:12pm On Jul 21, 2018
jeezy255:
You should also take him out treat him well spend on him and make him feel special so that the relationship will be equal then you can remove sex out of the relationship
God go bless u. Atleast for once mk we copy white men
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by jumiasalesguy3: 2:14pm On Jul 21, 2018
When next you meet another assumed perfect guy. Tell him I don't want your money and I am not ready for sex. I just want to form a bond and be a friend. Please mean this words when you say them. Sex and relationship go hand in hand. Will be happy if your man isn't moved by your presence no erection nothing even when you are naked. Nigeria girls should understand that RELATIONSHIP is almost impossible without sex or sexual advances. Nigerian guys please learn to come out blunt and stop giving all of us bad names.
When I invite a girl over I make it clear sex will be involve, if she says she doesn't want then we end it or meet in open places. Don't go testing your 'control meter' just to impress the lady. Even if she enjoys the sex after you persuaded her into it , she will still place the blame on you and label you all sort of names. With my bluntness I get enough sex with no bad labels.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by maestromicky(m): 2:19pm On Jul 21, 2018
If u think 9ja guys likes s*x more than the gurls... U re joking...
A gurl nearly broke up with me for denieing her s*x.... I had to lash her wella to be forgiven...
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jul 21, 2018
Maychang:
My Opinion.

IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX, DONT DATE.

IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX, DONT SLEEP OVER

The soup you will not eat, dont taste it

That is just it, if you are not ready for sex don't entangle yourself in a relationship because it won't work
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 21, 2018
YOU WANT A NO SEX RELATIONSHIP...
CAN YOU DATE A MAN WITH NO PENIS?
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 21, 2018
YOU WANT A NO SEX RELATIONSHIP...
CAN YOU DATE A MAN WITH NO PENIS?
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex




or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing

my dear that is just the usual Nigerian mentality. If you really claim you love him, try as much as possible to reject his gift and buy him gift instead to prove to him you see him as a future companion and not as an ATM. The nigga is trying to play safe, you no go chop my money and go free without me chopping you.lol
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by ritylove(f): 3:01pm On Jul 21, 2018
Admin401:
Nigerian girls are very boring and unromantic. Sometimes I wonder whats the point of even dating in Nigeria. If you take away sex, what else can she give?

Look at what you've written; you went to a guy's house and all you could talk about is what he did for you, how lady-like he treated you while you just sat there with your warm hole gesticulating below. Smh

Make I no talk to much
so you would encourage your sister to sleep with each and every guy she dates, same guys will still go around calling her names like shes a hoe, shes cheap after fufilling his desires
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by watuma(m): 3:06pm On Jul 21, 2018
see what zee world is causing now Quit watching zee world and give ur life to christ tongue grin

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by ekanempatrick28(m): 3:36pm On Jul 21, 2018
jumiasalesguy3:
When next you meet another assumed perfect guy. Tell him I don't want your money and I am not ready for sex. I just want to form a bond and be a friend. Please mean this words when you say them. Sex and relationship go hand in hand. Will be happy if your man isn't moved by your presence no erection nothing even when you are naked. Nigeria girls should understand that RELATIONSHIP is almost impossible without sex or sexual advances. Nigerian guys please learn to come out blunt and stop giving all of us bad names.
When I invite a girl over I make it clear sex will be involve, if she says she doesn't want then we end it or meet in open places. Don't go testing your 'control meter' just to impress the lady. Even if she enjoys the sex after you persuaded her into it , she will still place the blame on you and label you all sort of names. With my bluntness I get enough sex with no bad labels.
bros ur wisdom is 10/10 u b lord. Dis summarises everything.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by ritylove(f): 3:52pm On Jul 21, 2018
sirrespect14:
The Law of love stated that,Love is directly propotional to the relationship, provided sex is constant.
lol this is really serious God help you
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Moveonmax: 4:21pm On Jul 21, 2018
I don't know if anybody here will agree with me that the author of this thread is not in any way pursuing a honest romantic relationship. Instead, she is a scientist on an experimental feat trying to study human male courtship/sexual behaviors. It beats me how someone would just wake up one day and decide she is going on a sexless romantic relationship with a male adult. Like yeah, if it were to be that she be on a pure religious level where intimacy were uptight and borderline forbidden, would have gotten it. But talking about this white man 21st century style, I don't just get what she's on.
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by ojoj(m): 4:32pm On Jul 21, 2018
Sex means different things to different guys. To me sex makes me to have more bond to the lady. If I don't like a lady, I don't sex her or if I know I can't marry you, I don't sex you. Infact, if it's the type I can't marry, if she comes to my house 100 times, I won't touch her. She will be forced to ask me if I am not impotent. So sex allows for more commitment to the lady.
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Jadoskii(m): 4:49pm On Jul 21, 2018
I dnt knw why girls feel diaz something special in dia vagina....sex is a mutual thing ;yo giving me da pussay nd in turn m giving u d dik' 50-50 mutual benefit.....

Xo wen a girls says 'he left me after giving him my pussay,I'm keeping it locked'
sounds stupid az a guy who says ' she left me after giving her my dikk,I'm keeping it locked up.

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by demobaba1(m): 4:54pm On Jul 21, 2018
Nonese talk, what morale do u have to sleep in a man's house who is not your husband ? But I guess you get someone u are dating who dey service u well well. opurö oshi !!!!!!!
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Erums(m): 5:13pm On Jul 21, 2018
coolscott:

My partner and I are both not engaging until we get married (very soon) and we are happy with it. It is God's prescription.
I am a guy.

I know one of my friends in school who surely did the same


You tink you've made sense... Speak for yourself alone... Shes getting the D... Gullible man

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Tiimy(m): 5:47pm On Jul 21, 2018
Op this is not zee world what rubbish!! So u will advice ur brother to b dating a girl spending on her but no fucking her so he should be masturbating when he gets Hot then
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by donbachi(m): 5:51pm On Jul 21, 2018
Because EVE lured ADAM into it.
Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Cr8ivethinker(m): 6:30pm On Jul 21, 2018
savvy12:
No Nigerian guy can date without sex.
That's the reason why I keeping breaking up with most of my boyfriends.
Even if they don't spend penny on you,they will still demand sex from you.
The worst thing that can happen to you is going to a guy's house without having sex in mind.Most of them lack self control and behave like dogs.
Just meet in an open place and not in his house because he might end up raping you one day.

A guy that is not serious with you will leave immediately you tell him you don't want sex.But the serious ones will be okay with it,as far they like you.
And please don't demand anything from them.once you accept 1 kobo from men,they will think you owe them sex and may even force it on you.
That's how one forced me to accept a plate of pepper soup and malt from him and after that he requested that we visit a hotel and sleep together.
I told him that there are many sluts in the hotel,that he should go and hire one.

Please, don't generalise. Personally, i've dated couple of girls, and i had no sex with any. Each of them said they weren't ready. I respected their decision because i'm that type of guy. However, i still gave in monetary terms and other things. There are things i value more than sex in a relationship. At the end of the day nko, they were the ones who broke my heart!

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Re: Why Cant A Nigeria Guy Date A Girl Without Sex by Cr8ivethinker(m): 6:35pm On Jul 21, 2018
ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex



or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing


Personally, i've dated couple of girls, and i had no sex with any. Each of them said they weren't ready. I respected their decision because i'm that type of guy. However, i still gave in monetary terms and other things. There are things i value more than sex in a relationship. At the end of the day nko, they were the ones who broke my heart!

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