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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by cococandy(f): 2:35pm On Jul 24, 2018
These one will get married some day too

I’m really sorry for whoever ends up with these
3verblazing:
most Girlfriends have banged or are banging more than one man.. Even wives... So this I not even a point... The main issue is if the man is getting the satisfaction he wants... Women do this too.. Not just men... I don't support the act but if u Starve ur partner of emotional needs he/she will defiantly get it elsewhere
ChidiAlaigbo:
E dey pain you? Na my fault say una toto cheap so.......?
mimimile93:
The public toilet there means Runs Girls while the private toilet means house wivies.


I bet u dat most runs girls are cleaner than house wivies.


Nigerian women are dirty set of animals..
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by CAPSLOCKED: 2:42pm On Jul 24, 2018
mimimile93:
The public toilet there means Runs Girls while the private toilet means house wivies.


I bet u dat most runs girls are cleaner than house wivies.


Nigerian women are dirty set of animals..

BRO YOU'RE SLOWLY GOING MENTAL. E NO GO TEY AGAIN BEFORE YOU RUN ENTER STREET.
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jul 24, 2018
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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by hollagokay(m): 4:44pm On Jul 24, 2018
All women not married a virgin was once a public toilet. meanwhile, some still remain one even after marriage. lipsrsealed
Hisduchess:
this is more like leaving ur private toilet to go use a public toilet at ajengunle.tufiakwa ife anaghi aso ufodu Ndi mmadu oyi.Chi m ekwe especially for those married men who are given flimsy excuse for their ungodly behavior.
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Caseless: 6:21pm On Jul 24, 2018
Fyi0:
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Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by 3verblazing(m): 7:44pm On Jul 24, 2018
cococandy:
These one will get married some day too

I’m really sorry for whoever ends up with these
Im not surprised at ur comment atall na babe u be... Ur thoughts r often based on sentiments... E.g Madam Obi... Bu pls try n switch to logic mode.. Then read again...
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by baddosky1: 8:47pm On Jul 24, 2018
Almaiga:
You no get shame aswear. Your Sisters wey dey do Slay Queens, na Aboki Almajiri's dey scatter their Tot^ for North. Borno wey no too get security as a result of Bokoharam's activities, your sisters still full their dey give both the terrorist and the non-terrorist kpekus. The Borno state Government recently sacked all your Sisters from Borno and all their Brothels we're demolished.
It is a verifiable record that, 97% of Ashawos in Nigeria are your Ibo Sisters. grin
I dey really pitty Igbo Men aswear, una Sisters go don f^ck tire. The Tot* go don wide like well, them go come graduate from the slay Queen they used to be to some old hag, with Yam legs and beer beer for face and Chest. Before them go come settle down marry some unlucky Igbo men.
Eyahh, I sympathize with all Igbo men.
And yet your useless shameless dirty smelly Yoruba men still ask Igbo ladies hand in marriage?

Continue deluding yourself.

Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by baddosky1: 6:25am On Jul 25, 2018
sonsomegrigbo:
You are a bloody tribalist!







Shiorrrrrr

Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Almaiga: 7:36am On Jul 26, 2018
baddosky1:
And yet your useless shameless dirty smelly Yoruba men still ask Igbo ladies hand in marriage?

Continue deluding yourself.
Yoruba Men only married the few decent Igbo Girls, who are without any Ashawo experience. grin
But the real Ashawos are left to you and your Brothers as your future Wife's.
One of your few decent Sister just left School dey follow one small Yoruba Boy upandan, the parents had to go online to vent their anger. The news is everywhere. grin Yoruba Boys bad aswear.

In my place, we no dey marry your Sisters. We only use them as our SEX objects, to practice all sought of Fetish Sexual desires. We can't do that to our decent Girls. grin Our Girls are DECENT, Finer, Intelligent, LOYAL, better, better and better.

Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by baddosky1: 12:59pm On Aug 26, 2018
Almaiga:
Yoruba Men only married the few decent Igbo Girls, who are without any Ashawo experience. grin
But the real Ashawos are left to you and your Brothers as your future Wife's.
One of your few decent Sister just left School dey follow one small Yoruba Boy upandan, the parents had to go online to vent their anger. The news is everywhere. grin Yoruba Boys bad aswear.

In my place, we no dey marry your Sisters. We only use them as our SEX objects, to practice all sought of Fetish Sexual desires. We can't do that to our decent Girls. grin Our Girls are DECENT, Finer, Intelligent, LOYAL, better, better and better.
Show me links or forever shut up! LIAR
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by Nobody:
RICHC2:
If the reasons given by the ladies are true, please do permit me to say my mind! A marriage without constant communication between the two people involved, is heading towards collapse! I wonder and still wondering why a greater number of men complain to outsiders that their wives are not attending to their needs be it emotionally or physically. What holds him back from discussing with his wife, making known his feelings or observations to her? I am sure the woman on the other hand is holding the same thoughts in her heart! It is not so easy caring for children, especially the mental part. A married man visiting a brothel on flimsy reasons is just selfish, inconsiderate, immature and only justifying his insatiable nature (which is typical of men) with those silly reasons.
This is how these men will be passing sexually related diseases to their innocent wives. I have told quite a few people that before a man dies, he will definitely cheat! Only extreme discipline n extreme fear of God will keep a married man away from illicit relationships.
These are my thoughts please.
I quite agree with your thoughts, I have a friend too with 2 kids. He was a fine young man growing up and even thought he would be a pastor until he starting mixing up wirh bad friends and cousins who taught him how to patronize call girls. He has a dedicated and loving wife with 3 kids but cannot even share his needs with her but constantly complining about her. I asked him what exactly the woman did to him that he has to neglect her for whores, till today he cannot tell me.l adviced her to ignore him and move on and leave him to God

Anyman who loves,respect the wife,kids and institution of marriage will never cheat nonetheless making it a habit with call girls.

Only men who don't love their wives and family a and disrespect their marriages will find any reason to cheat and justify it..
Re: Why Married Men Prefer Us To Their Wives - Commercial Sex Workers by essentialone(m): 12:11am On Jun 19
This is basically married men + sex workers giving their own reasons why that market exists. I’ll break down what both sides claimed, no judgment added:

What the sex workers said married men told them:
1. Emotional attention gap: Jenifer’s client said after 3 kids, wife focused 100% on children, zero care for husband. They want someone who “chats them up generally” before sex.
2. Time + patience: Grace said married men stick because workers spend time listening. Wives at home = “compound financial/family pressures” per Emman. Workers = “temporary forget them” zone.
3. Reliability with money: Grace + Jenifer said married clients pay more consistently than single men with “fake stories”. Marriage = perceived income stability.
4. Perceived understanding: Jenifer, a graduate, said “she knew what those men needed”. The pitch is: we give you what home isn’t giving right now.

What the male patrons said:
1. Escape valve: Emman: “forget all financial and family pressures”. Hotel = pause button from home stress.
2. Not about love for wife: Emman stressed “it’s not that I did not love my wife”. The framing is “needs not met” vs “love gone”.
3. Peter’s baseline: “No man will ordinarily like to go to hotels if wife was rightly taking care of his emotional need at home”. So they link the behavior directly to unmet needs.

*What is also flagged as downsides:*
1. Not all married men are “good clients”: Chizoba said some dump marital woes + make “terrible demands” but don’t have money to match.
2. Risk of time-wasters: Anita noted some waste time then underpay.
3. Secrecy: Most patrons refused comment because “private lives should be far away from their wives”.

3 patterns that this shows:
1. “Needs” framing: Both sides keep coming back to “emotional needs”, “attention”, “time”. Sex is listed, but conversation/listening comes up first in the quotes.
2. Economic logic: Workers prefer married men for steady pay. Men prefer workers because they pay for guaranteed attention without domestic friction.
3. Mutual justification: Men say “wife doesn’t do X”. Workers say “we do X, so they stick”. It’s a marketplace where both sides feel they’re solving a problem.

Context to keep in mind:
This is self-reported interviews from Lagos brothels/hotels. It’s one slice of reality, not all married men or all sex workers. You’ll also find where wives, counselors, or the men themselves give totally different reasons.
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