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I have a girlfriend we have been dating for past 13months, Please is it advicable for me to ask if she is dating another man apart of me? This is a girl we plan to get married, and i once told her that i can't date her while she dates another person, if she think i will not marry her lets quit, but she insisted that she love me and she want us to get married, i swear i have never cheated on her, yet i dont trust women, should i ask her if she have someone behind my back? Please i need urgent advice i prefer to quit than for me to dates a woman who dates another man and may be having sex with them and having sex with me, i cant take that

How can you be with someone for the past 13 months and can't say if she's dating someone else? Even if she is do you expect her to tell you esp if you offer her freebies......
OP you have to do some findings yourself

Oooooops..who will ask her if not u...man up n be d man...abi u no go pay bride prize?

With out wast of time


ok i dey wast time com beat me

Come on! You can do better. You don't need to ask her, instead you should strive to achieve self-realization, that way you can easily tell if she (or anyone else you're dealing with) is worthy to remain close to you - cheating on you or will cheat on you in the future - or not. If she's hypocritically disingenuous know that she's cheating on you or has the tendency to cheat on you in the future. Hey! Remember that he who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

why ask,when she will still tell you,she ain't bleeping no one.

Sir, even if it’s 6 months you have every right to ask. True, it is hard for 99% of us to close our legs, it’s poverty and wanting to look classy that makes us like that.

Well, ask or not she will still tell you NO. You know why??

A SINGLE MAN CANNOT GIVE US ALL THE MATERIAL THINGS WE WANT OO

Guy up ur game by doing ur findings urself, even if you catch them red handed she go still denying.

Chukwudiajibo:
I have a girlfriend we have been dating for past 13months, Please is it advicable for me to ask if she is dating another man apart of me? This is a girl we plan to get married, and i once told her that i can't date her while she dates another person, if she think i will not marry her lets quit, but she insisted that she love me and she want us to get married, i swear i have never cheated on her, yet i dont trust women, should i ask her if she have someone behind my back? Please i need urgent advice i prefer to quit than for me to dates a woman who dates another man and may be having sex with them and having sex with me, i cant take that

Obviously your kinds are called baby men. Marriage is meant for only the matured it's obvious even if u marry her you would make that marriage a living hell for both u and her. To whom brain is given, sense is required pls grow up.

Wilfredpat22:
Sir, even if it’s 6 months you have every right to ask. True, it is hard for 99% of us to close our legs, it’s poverty and wanting to look classy that makes us like that.

Well, ask or not she will still tell you NO. You know why??

A SINGLE MAN CANNOT GIVE US ALL THE MATERIAL THINGS WE WANT OO

Your sincerity is applaudable.. Where do you reside?

A wise man once said.. it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than you meeting a girl with just one boyfriend. At least 3 guys they get intimate with but they'll surely have one favourite

Waitn even dey worry men self abi boiz?
Bros waitn concern you date ur date jeje and if u dey fear marry her cos the question is irrelevant. So if she has anoda u tink she wud smile at you and sey yes mtcheeeeeeeeew( you sir u fit hit ur chest sey na only she u dey squah I mean bang)?