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Mcpadosky:
we're do u reside?

Mcpadosky:
we're do u reside?

Lalas247:
Lol guys always big themselves up...just look at first two lines biko..

Who cares who ask u smy

Bloody Actor ....


Bet he doesn’t even have a full beard nonsense ......


Manage her

People drinking Garri will just wake up to hype themselves up and create thread .., ....


If you quote me op ! It would be bad for u ... don’t try it

Mcpadosky:
you right bro, not too good with writing but is no cooked up

Misscaring:
Abule egba in Lagos State

Mcpadosky:
Good .

Michelle55:
Op are you sure this your story isn't made up?

Misscaring:
Abule egba in Lagos State

KadunaMafia:
Everything is wrong with that story. The Op is delusional

Iambees:
If true help me with A job pls pls pls, help your fellow man i'm somewhere in south east and for the girl she placed You on a friend zone, see what You will Do, let how know that If she can't meet up with the company works in 2 weeks that you will be forced to replace her with someone capable and, note, bro you can't force someone to love you

KadunaMafia:
Everything is wrong with that story. The Op is delusional

Nyerhovwo101:
boss abeg in case ona go recruit Abeg remember me... I dey delta... Seriously need a job.

Mcpadosky:
Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.

I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria.

So I deal mostly with women, beautiful ones because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour.

4 years ago I met a girl in one of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel.

When my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her.

After Six months, my office had Issues, because of that she broke up with me, although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investments which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4 months, we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she heard that we are back she wanted to come back which after pleading, even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors.

Something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. She wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still works for me in a double project, one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. The second work she works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always covers her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl.

Last month, one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that they said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok, he now asked me if the girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

Michelle55:
thought as much

BiggyB242:
Keep employing all her family members, soon they will take over the job.

This what you get when you date a girl because she's beautiful.

LuckyAgbaze:
Bros, Please help me with work o.

I am a graduate and have served
A Metallurgical and Materials Engineer, certified also in Health Safety and Environment (HSE)

Luckyagbaze@gmail.com

Thanks

Ioannes:
If this is true then you allowed your head to do your thinking for you... I mean the small head, the one between your legs. Yes, that one.

You put your job in jeopardy by employing someone not qualified and then now you want to sack her.

If I was that girl, I will report you to your bosses and make sure they fire you too for hiring me without a certificate and covering up my bad jobs for the firm.

This is how people get themselves blackmailed.

Ioannes:
Be careful who you ask for a job online. We don't want to hear any stories that touch about a pretty that was abducted o.

Be watchful.

Mcpadosky:
your right. but check my profile I have been on Nairaland for a very long time and this is my first post on this romanceland and check if I have commented on any post on romanceland.
thanks

Mcpadosky:
The best advice so far. thanks bro.

Mcpadosky:
the thought is right. but is true and how it happened. Am a full time member of EXMAN experiential marketers association of Nigeria. I don't want to mention the name of my company because of security purposes

Nightmareo07:
Wait is this story actually true?
How old are u?. Hope u are still a teenager
Are u igbo? .. I hope u are not becoz we can't be diz slow..

babyfaceafrica:
lies

Goddyss:
OP, you made a terrible mistake and trust nairalandere to bash the hell out of you. I understand what this feeling called love can lead one into.

I want to advise you as a friend and brother. Don't sack her arbitrarily but ensure she follows every workplace rules and anytime she defaults on the basic rules of your organisation, serve her a sack letter.

She has deceived you and you are inexperienced to the games some of these girls play these days. As for her people, you placed at work, overlook them but ensure work policies are strictly adhered by them and any default from them should be handled without sentiments.

You don't own the company, so don't victimize them unnecessarily but monitor them and sack them when they default. You can't have all of them working for you daily without feeling pains of what the girl has done.

As for those seeking your help here for job, don't try and offer any job since they already know your story and will not hold you in high esteem even while working for you.

I'm sorry for your loss and heart brokenness caused by your inexperience. Now all you need is wisdom. 98% of people here will mock you and not give you a befitting advice.

Goodnight

Mcpadosky:
Am not a teenager my man, although I count my self as one of the luckiest person in the world. am a full time igbo. my MD is my dads best friend. although am the youngest in my position but I still have a lot to offer to my office. my issue is this girl, although I have learnt my lessons. but I have decided not to sack her. the project she is doing now will end by September.

Mcpadosky:
After the guys call I confronted her and she told me that the got her number from one of her sisters friend and she doesn't know how he looks like. After two weeks he called me that he is in Town that I should meet him up which I told him that is past 9:30pm that I can't make it again and besides my neighbours have blocked me which he understands with me. When I dropped the call, I called the girl and ask were she was at that but she told me that she went out with a male friend I immediately hanged up. The next day I went to her outlet to do my normal monitoring, after an hour I left her outlet the guy called me that he wants to see me, I told him were I will be in the next 30mins.After 30mins I drove to agreed meeting point as I was parking my car, to my greatest surprise I saw my guy and the girl coming down from a cab, we exchanged greetings and sat down together. I ordered for bod wiser and the guy requested Heineken while the girl too snap. The guy started telling me how the girl has been telling her how I used to help her and the family while the girl placed her head on the guys shoulder after that the guy started telling me all sorts of lies that he now deals with crude oil and he have more than 100,000 litres of diesel and kerosene that he now works with an oil company and this the guy that always give work anytime I have project in his city because he lost work he was doing before. I kept on listening to the lies and the same lies the girl tells him. After all the lies he requested that I should give the girl 3days off to come and visit him in his base. I told him that is not possible and he keeps on insisting because he knows I can make it happen, I now asked him do u people want to plan ur weeding, he said no that is just for them to know each other well, I told him that I will think about it and during the time of the discussion I found out that this 2peole have known each other since November last year.
I later left the place after some hours and paid for the drinks. Immediately I got home I sent her a sack latter and subsequently sack her from one of the project she doesn't have much attention on and also remove her from all the group chats and after that she called me to enquire why she was sacked I hanged up on her. In the afternoon the next day the guy called to plead to me to bring her back, I warned him to interfer in my work that the girl can only do one work at a time. And since then I have made the work a living hell for her because now I made sure she does all her work and any time she comes to work 5mins late I subcharge a huge amount from her salary. I want to sack her this month because her performance is bad. Please my dear romance landers advice me. Insult is allowed