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emydnoble:
Obviously, you guys misunderstood Joro article. Simply have a good man who has marriageable quality around you, while being a spinster with your dream man. Never, be emotionally attached to him (Backup man), rather discuss issues and rob mind together without romance.

If your relationship fails he can easily embrace you into his life for serious settlement.

Amberon11:
Excuses. The op said backup bf, wether or not feelings are involved is unimportant.
Stop saying what you don't know. Who told you men don't have feelings for their side chicks? I've seen cases where men left their wives for the other woman but I've never a woman leaving her husband for her sideman.

BRMN:
Foolish uncle u said, maybe their destinies don't match. Maybe they were not compatible. Is it not better to have a broken relationship than to have a broken marriage??

crafteck:
Maybe jobless guys, do you know how hard it is to love one person talkless of 2

Amberon11:
Actually you can't even love more than one person genuinely in your entire life time.I believe that once you miss that special person, that's it. But it's my opinion tho.

crafteck:
I was able to fall in love twice then love died, most girls can fall in love monthly ooo

Limitednow:
Source: https://www.headlineng.com/10-reasons-backup-boyfriend-dangerous-women/


By Tayo Demola

Human Rights Activist & Relationship Coach

Amberon11:
But if and when you cheat you don't bring bad luck to her?

kpolli:
I dunno why someone wrote this long list, Naija women have always had backup boyfriends (note the plural)

Amberon11:
Actually you can't even love more than one person genuinely in your entire life time.I believe that once you miss that special person, that's it. But it's my opinion tho.

Reelmii:
everybody is a relationship counsellor, I guess they all read G&C in school, whats my own self

Amberon11:
Let you now speak of the scenario I know of.

My uncle had this gf. Very nice , loving,
caring, beautiful, respectful etc. My entire loved her and damn she was a very good cook too. Guess what my foolish uncle dumped her when the rest of the family didn't approve of their union. Less than 6 months later , she came to our house inviting us for her wedding. She married a nice guy and had lovely kids.

My uncle had a hard time moving on to the point everyone kept disturbing him to settle down. Well he finally settled down several years later in his late forties.

Limitednow:
Source: https://www.headlineng.com/10-reasons-backup-boyfriend-dangerous-women/


By Tayo Demola

Human Rights Activist & Relationship Coach

milemimi93:
Should men have backup gf?

BRMN:
Some, not all

akbahbah:
That is why most you women end up being a single mother that different men easily access and turn you to sex machine anytime they want. single mothers are the easiest to Bleep these days. they are so cheap.

Women won't learn. STOP AGITATING FOR GENDER EQUALITY. You can't say because your husband has side chicks you are also entitled to have side bobo. you will eventually join the association of single mother last last ni and thousands of men can finally have access to you to Bleep your stinking pussy out of your fat thighs. shior. STOP COPYING OYINBO CULTURE. Even oyinbo sef know say dem culture get some fault but its too late to change it. some of them are actually embracing African culture now. . see, our culture is our values leave sentiment apart, Men and women can never be the same. the more you agitate for gender equality, the more you make world a tough place to live.

kpolli:
Ma binu, some (aka majority)

emydnoble:
Obviously, you guys misunderstood Joro article. Simply have a good man who has marriageable quality around you, while being a spinster with your dream man. Never, be emotionally attached to him (Backup man), rather discuss issues and rob mind together without romance.

If your relationship fails he can easily embrace you into his life for serious settlement.

akbahbah:
That is why most you women end up being a single mother that different men easily access and turn you to sex machine anytime they want. single mothers are the easiest to Bleep these days. they are so cheap.

Women won't learn. STOP AGITATING FOR GENDER EQUALITY. You can't say because your husband has side chicks you are also entitled to have side bobo. you will eventually join the association of single mother last last ni and thousands of men can finally have access to you to Bleep your stinking pussy out of your fat thighs. shior. STOP COPYING OYINBO CULTURE. Even oyinbo sef know say dem culture get some fault but its too late to change it. some of them are actually embracing African culture now. . see, our culture is our values leave sentiment apart, Men and women can never be the same. the more you agitate for gender equality, the more you make world a tough place to live.

BRMN:
No, few, not majority

Amberon11:
Why is this topic paining you people like this? What concerns you if women sleep around? Is it not you men that still patronize prostitutes? Stop crying please.

akbahbah:
This one na confirm ashawo! waste of sperm.

kpolli:
Let's come to a compromise, half

akbahbah:
This one na confirm ashawo! waste of sperm.

BRMN:
No, I disagree

Amberon11:
Your mother and all your generation are ashawos. That's why you talk like a bastard. Pls go find your real father.

akbahbah:
e pain am..lol..awon omo sepeteri. when they talk on nairaland you no them.. awon omo were.

kpolli:
Then we have to agree to disagree