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Straight to the point.

A lady in my street is turning my head.
I didn't notice her initially until we had a convo a month ago. since then we haven't talked much really, but I noticed that she is a little shy when she sees me or when we talked this days, she keeps mute and she smiles at me a lot
,when we walk pass each other, she takes a peep at me a lot and turns her face away immediately I look up many times.

Last week I met her at a friend's birthday, she was smiling hard.
Later In the night when I was browsing Facebook, she appeared on my (people you might know) list, I added her, I immediately greeted her since she was online , she read the message and ignored it.
She has started acting strange and refusing to talk to me again, I am confused.


I know i sound like a kid but, i need explanations especially from the ladies here cos I can't seem to get her out of head.

I know i sound like a kid but, i need explanations especially from ladies here cos I can't seem to get get her out of head. [/quote]Do you sound like a kid or you are a kid?
Let's start from there.

Why don't you have the balls to say hi to her physically.

Mr man talk to her face to face and stop whining here.

if you cant get her off your head..biko cut your head comot

kingxsamz:
Mr man talk to her face to face and stop whining here.

Though we say hi to each other,she keeps an angry face when she sees me .....how am I supposed to talk to her with all this drama?

DJHANDSOME:
Though we say hi to each other,she keeps an angry face when she sees me .....how am I supposed to talk to her with all this drama?

She's expecting you to make a move.
You guys just say hi and don't get into a conversation.
Try to get close to her.

She have been giving you green light. you should have naild her on that birthday party. . don't chat her again , she expects you to walk up to her and talk. you resorting to chating her via fb gonna give her the impression that you don't have balls to say ur mind. . go and tell her that you have two balls in between . . unless you're shy.

machiti:
She have been giving you green light. you should have naild her on that birthday party. . don't chat her again , she expects you to walk up to her and talk. you resorting to chating her via fb gonna give her the impression that you don't have balls to say ur mind. . go and tell her that you have two balls in between . . unless you're shy.

he's shy.

The title of op's thread is "the dilemma of a shy guy". Shy guys don't get the pvssy. The extrovert guys are getting and slamming the pvssies. Be a bad guy and see the ladies CUMMing for you.

DJHANDSOME:
Though we say hi to each other,she keeps an angry face when she sees me .....how am I supposed to talk to her with all this drama?

I understand this type of ladies.

Guy next time you see her, ignore her in a total bracket... Even if she is talking to someone close to you or you guys are passing along same road ignore her like she's a ghost.

Do this to her for a week. Then seek for opportunity to talk to her.

While talking, speak to her firstly like she's one of those your rude sisters (don't insult her please) then find something funny about her to tease. Laugh and initiate body contact, very close body contact with her.

Take it from there.

If you do all these very well, she will definitely start seeing you from a different light and start opening up to you. You can lead her on from there.

DJHANDSOME:
Straight to the point.

A lady in my street is turning my head.
I didn't notice her initially until we had a convo a month ago. since then we haven't talked much really, but I noticed that she is a little shy when she sees me or when we talked this days, she keeps mute and she smiles at me a lot
,when we walk pass each other, she takes a peep at me a lot and turns her face away immediately I look up many times.

Last week I met her at a friend's birthday, she was smiling hard.
Later In the night when I was browsing Facebook, she appeared on my (people you might know) list, I added her, I immediately greeted her since she was online , she read the message and ignored it.
She has started acting strange and refusing to talk to me again, I am confused.


I know i sound like a kid but, i need explanations especially from the ladies here cos I can't seem to get her out of head.

Dude , its simple .... Na u sabi her pass as we no see am to be able to profile am ....
If u think she worth your time, walk up to her and chyke her ...
If u think she is an attitude type , u self bown am
Since u have sent hi to her and she failed to acknowledge it , That is a red flag ... she should acknowledge it but under but, maybe she forget to or something ...

If she form for u, u self bown am ... waka pass her as if she doesn't exist ... she will behave

xpac01:
I understand this type of ladies.

Guy next time you meet ignore her in a total bracket... Even if she is talking to someone close to you or you guys are passing along same road ignore her like she's a ghost.

Do this to her for a week. Then seek for opportunity to talk to her.

While talking, speak to her firstly like she's one of those your rude sisters (don't insult her please) then find something funny about her to tease. Laugh and make contact, very close contact with her.

Take it from there.

If you do all these very well, she will definitely start seeing you from a different light and start opening up to you. You can lead her on from there.

Did you study psychology?

DJHANDSOME:
She has started acting strange and refusing to talk to me again, I am confused.

Don't be confused, thats a female thing.

Have it in mind that even if u tell her face to face, she may still reject you
One just told me now inside my room that she don't love me

Homeboiy:
Have it in mind that even if u tell her face to face, she may still reject you

One just told me now inside my room that she don't love me

You must feel suicidal now.


I'm laughing hysterically at this...

SirMichael1:
You must feel suicidal now.


I'm laughing hysterically at this...

I was about to delete her number and anything concerning her but I remembered she brings business for me

Homeboiy:
I was about to delete her number and anything concerning her but I remembered she brings business for me

But you broke a code bro.

Don't relate business with relationship. When it ends, your business suffers

SirMichael1:
But you broke a code bro.

Don't relate business with relationship. When it ends, your business suffers

No be lie

But why she de always find me come house when she no say she no wan do

She tried friendzoning me but I told her I am not her brother, if she no wan do make she rest

Homeboiy:
No be lie

But why she de always find me come house when she no say she no wan do

She tried friendzoning me but I told her I am not her brother, if she no wan do make she rest

So she still come dey show for your house even after then until she spilled the beans today?? Na waoh.

Next time ehn, tell her you don't mix business with pleasure and you don't want her coming over as this will arouse you. Shikena.

SirMichael1:
So she still come dey show for your house even after then until she spilled the beans today?? Na waoh.

Next time ehn, tell her you don't mix business with pleasure and you don't want her coming over as this will arouse you. Shikena.

Exactly She no go cross my gate again

we meet outside if she brings business

Homeboiy:
Exactly She no go cross my gate again

we meet outside if she brings business

Don't be a hostile receiver oh. Lol.

Just usher her in and tell her calm but firmly. Ain't no sign of joke in your voice okay?

SirMichael1:
Don't be an hostile receiver oh. Lol.

Just usher her in and tell her calm but firmly. Ain't no sign of joke in your voice okay?

I like being straight forward

Imagine everyone in my compound is now hailing me this evening that I don't smash babe today nah

Even my landlord dey hail me

ThankGod say girls knw go felt form for me ooo cus me i go just pay 2k per night to satisfy myself ooo

a heart that is not afraid to catch a feeling, shouldn't be afraid to express it, walk up to her tell her how you feel about her, man up

Its a two way thing, It is either she says Yes or she says no.


But give it a shot, express your feelings to her, whi knows she might be waiting for you to speak out. That's Girls for you.

mikejj:
if you cant get her off your head..biko cut your head comot

Haba na

Mitchsin:
Haba na

.... bae y are u haba haba.

kingxsamz:
he's shy.

Not at all. I don't know if there's a way i could ask her out with my ego still intact.
It is important that she does not get the upper hand here.