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Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 1:17pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Oluwaferanmi90: True most men spend on ladies to get something, but many guys don't spend much (or at all) and get something too. The issue is the trust factor. Ladies get money from several sources and would likely not be open about all of them. Don't ask me why. However, the idea that every guy spends to get something is fallacious. Maybe he is bidding his time or maybe he doesn't care about your girl's vj because he regularly gets more than he can handle (yh, there r some of us like that). Now the next line is not gender-specific. A person who'd cheat on you would cheat on you; they wouldn't have to be paid to do so. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by Chukwudiajibo(m): 1:18pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Woman's brain is very confusing, woman's body is so precious and integrity, but 90% of ladies today dont know, some ladis if u're dating them and giving them gifts and spending heavily on them and u didnt requested for sex in return, they will not take u as a real man, some even beg u to sex them, just to have avenue of requesting more thing from u |
Re: Error thread by pocohantas(f): 1:36pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: I still maintain there are men who don't act that way. Why do you guys even think men are always the predators? Do you know there are men who just go about doing good and the girl would be the one trying to compensate/trap them with sex? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Error thread by pocohantas(f): 1:41pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
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Re: Error thread by Next2Bezee(m): 1:46pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
pocohantas: Help? Spending hundreds of thousands on the regular allowance, phones, and whatever a girl wants is now being called " helping a woman"? Lol. That's not even a story for the Gods; it's poor damage control. What you have described up there - guys taking girls out and expecting the girl's cupcake on the same night - is quite different from the OP's tale. When you refer others to your posts, my replies, and your counter-replies, they'll see that you unexpectedly support girls who live off lavish financial pampering from other men, while lying to their boyfriends... for 2 years! Do not speak up for the wrong. If your partner lived off another woman for 2 years while gracing your inquiries with lies, I bet you'd have taken a leaf from the OP's book and dumped that partner. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 1:46pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
pocohantas:why is it na always a young beautiful girl dem always wan help? Why not dat needy old woman or dat child who just lost im parents. Ppl plenty wey need help na. And talking of help of course once u can just help that person who really needs help..nothing to dat. But for man to just start spending for one girl..buying her phones,buying her a car,renting for her and giving her monthly allowance... Haba dat man get intention. I am not saying having an intention is bad ooo. Cos a guy might just genuienly fall for a girl and start using money to make her like him. But when a guy just dey insist im no get anything in mind but jus dey splash money on d girl then such a girl should be wary of such a man. If i had a younger sister and one strange man is just using money to try to entice her i had tell her to be careful of such a man. |
Re: Error thread by pocohantas(f): 1:49pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: They help needy old women too. I don't know where you are from, but in my village, I see young guys that have carried the problems of widows and abandoned old people. This argument is giving me headache already, I am very lazy for this in recent times . My post isn't about OP's case, just speaking generally. Let's stick to our individual opinions. |
Re: Error thread by pocohantas(f): 1:50pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Next2Bezee: OK. |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
pocohantas:those ones are philantropist.they are kind hearted and they want to help ppl in need.yea there those who even sponsor a group of orphans to school. Ok u not talking about op's case?. Op's girlfriend dat is seceretly recieving cash gift from a man. The man is certainly not a philantropist but the sugar in op's girlfriend's tea. 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Next2Bezee:there are even some men sef..dem go dey secretly dey send money and gift to a married woman. And if the woman is an irresponsible woman she will be secretly be recieiving d gift behind d husband's back. Most times when d husband find out ddat will be enuf to break up the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by duduade: 2:54pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Your girlfriend is not contented with what she has... Stop wasting your time |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 7:03pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
duduade: That's what he should be more concerned about; because if it's not this man, it would be another. Even the last minute pleas don't mean squat. A cheater still wants to be in a relationship with the partner they're cheating on. That's why they stay and cheat. Which is why most times one is caught, they start apologizing and stuff. Even if they were to get back together, will he be able to fill in the "sizable" financial shoes left by her benefactor? Ladies hardly ever downgrade... Finance is the leading cause of relationship squabbles the world over. -Lord 2 Likes |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 7:16pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: Irresponsible ke? You have no idea how loose the average person's morals can be if they think they need that cash and can get away with taking it. Your statement only makes sense for newly weds and financially stable marriages. In older marriages and marriages with rocky financials, it's a whole different ball game. You have no idea how terrible it is for lots of "married" women out there. Dem neva collect because dem neva c who go give them. It's easy to be critical when things r okay at ur end. -Lord |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 7:20pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
LordAdam16:so what stops the wife after taking the money from the man and telling her husband that so so and so man gave her money for both of them. I am talking about wives who secretly collect money and gifts from men. If such men demand sex frm them u tink dey will be able to refuse such men?. |
Re: Error thread by kenex4ever(m): 7:29pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Oluwaferanmi90:I don't trust that girl Forget the issue of swearing, girls don't fear again, my ex used to swear with her life, and her entire family's life that she wasn't cheating but I later realised she's been cheating all along. 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 7:35pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: Both of them?! You're very funny. Do you have an idea of the percentage of married women in Nigeria who have a private stash of money that their husbands are not aware of? Seriously, leave this echo chamber you're in. It's not easy out there for many married women. I'm talking about seeing enough money to feed, pay bills, give the kids an education, support subs and other family members; and you're talking about demanding sex... Most people do not like to be dependent on someone else. As some say, na condition make crayfish bend? -Lord |
Re: Error thread by Moukandjo: 7:36pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
victorian:So your friend left her guy just like that because she feel say she don see person wey go "secure" her future? Nawa o! I just hope she's happy within her sha & not just the outward happiness you see! |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 7:41pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
pocohantas: Na only that one your eye see quo? /s I'm not a monk. I think a 'Happy New Year' is in order... -Lord |
Re: Error thread by victorian(f): 7:47pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Moukandjo: Sighs such is life. And she's truly happy.. She's my bestie. She has heart of gold to all her female friends. When am short of cash, and I need a project to execute? she doles out to me Trust me she's happy. She had better not loose her husband. He's God sent! The man dey try and he's also humble. Do you know what it means to be financially and emotionally secured at such young age? I bet you don't. Mehn, when I was her age, 20naira sef I no get.. I was jobless, dating one ungrateful broke asszed guy, who didn't appreciate all my efforts of loving and standing by him. If not for my mum! God bless her soul, I wouldnt be the Boss I am right now. 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 11:04pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
LordAdam16:look, i know there are husbands who love-vendor out their wives for other men to sleep with. There are some men who sponsor their wives to italy and dubai to prostutute. That one no be new thing guy. Things dey happen for naija. There are even wives who work in brothels when they travel out to other cities..some dey do coded olosho work when husband dey work. I am not arguing over dat one.and about saying na condition make crayfish bend... Hope u know there are girls from rich homes who engage in high class runz and dhier are female bank staffs who are well paid who sleep with rich customers. So forget about dat general believe dat na condition dey make crayfish bend. Let me ask u a question. If you found your fiancee or wife was busy collecting secret gifts from different men or a particular would just ignore such a behaviour or will u siddon and discuss d issue with her? 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 11:16pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
victorian:dont be so confident oo.it could be d lady is secretly meeting the guy she broke up with behind her husband's back.she no go tell u. One of my guy told me one of the ladies he had a hot fling with while in school of recent was about getting married to another man. My guy said the girl travelled over to his place and was begging him for one last sex b4 she married her man. Though my guy said he refused her request i dont believe him. I know for sure he smash d girl cos d guy like snail like anything. There are some girls they will break up with their long term boyfriend to marry another man cos of his financial stability but when dem don marry dem go still dey secretly meet their ex boyfriend for hot sex.it happens all d time. I feel pity for such husbands sha. |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 11:20pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Moukandjo:have u not heard the saying among young ladies that its better to cry inside jeep than to be happy with a broke man?. If the babe no dey feel her husband she can still secretly arrange to meet her ex. Some young ladies do it.that is why hotel business dey boom. |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 11:40pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: My reaction is irrelevant because I am not representative of what is ideal. For the same reason that many guys wouldn't be down with cuckolding. When it comes to relationships; it's per head. That's why I took an issue with your sweeping generalization. -Lord |
Re: Error thread by insperyadyou: 11:47pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
victorian:i was thinking the guy you later went on to date was the nice and caring type |
Re: Error thread by LordAdam16: 11:48pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
lefulefu: Do you know if the husband is doing plumbing somewhere else? Could be karma or unplanned open relationship. It all jives with the idea that whoever will cheat will cheat. Jay cheated on Bey, Nicki cheated on Safaree with Meek. Money, looks, s*x (the trinity of often used cheating excuses) certainly weren't to blame. -Lord |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 12:40am On Aug 13, 2018 |
LordAdam16:yea there are very funny marriage relationship like that. Husband will be busy sleeping around with other women while his wife will be busy sleeping around with other men at d same time.everyone plans his or her relationship d way he or she wants it to be. Just like op has the freedom to break up with his girlfriend since he has trust issues with her. Sweet freedom. |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 12:48am On Aug 13, 2018 |
LordAdam16:what sweeping generalisation? If a man is into cuckholding or pimping his wife out dats his business.i am not judging him. I am just airing an opinion. Everyone is free to run his relationship the way he wants. |
Re: Error thread by victorian(f): 1:16am On Aug 13, 2018 |
insperyadyou: Am talking about my best friend, FEMALE.. not male.. Am not a lesbian. Or don't ladies have female friends anymore? |
Re: Error thread by victorian(f): 1:20am On Aug 13, 2018 |
lefulefu: Lefulefu, you and your mindset about women I taya for you Well I trust her and so far she hasn't displayed any form of Infidelity. Not every lady still goes back to their school boyfriend after marriage. Some are faithful, even if u don't believe it She knows I will be highly dissapointed in her if she dares cheat on her husband with any man, be it school bf or ex. Infact, that will be the end of our relationship. I don't condone cheating and unfaithful ways. Nah I don't. And so far, I believe she's faithful and focused on her husband. She had better be, anyways.. It's for her own good. |
Re: Error thread by Nobody: 1:30am On Aug 13, 2018 |
victorian:check out many of these cheating wives the men they hang out with.its mostly their ex nau. Maybe d guy dat was dating her in 200 level ..b4 she now met her her husband when she was in her finals. Cheating wives mostly prefer having affairs with their ex..they feel its safer..unlike a cheating husband that can just nack any random girl he comes across with. I dont know abt ur friend sha but there are ladies that can marry a man they dont like as long as the man is financially stable. They get their emotional and sexual fulfillment from their ex. The Ex factor. 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by victorian(f): 1:38am On Aug 13, 2018 |
lefulefu: Well that's some ladies. Not my beloved friend Biko nu! 1 Like |
Re: Error thread by insperyadyou: 1:49am On Aug 13, 2018 |
victorian:please read that your post again. You said you were dating an ungrateful broke ass guy. Can a guy be she. I can see that you are two-faced. I am very particular about details. Just so you know some people are following you and I am on that long list |
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