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This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:19pm On Aug 14, 2018
Hey ladies & gentlemen in the house, please don't mind my vocabulary ooo, please i need your help here on how to deal with this matter, there is this chick i meet on facebook, though i don't base in nigeria for 15 years now but the girl based in lagos & we have been chating on whatsapp video call, we also call each other on phone, last two months ago i told her that i'm planing to come & establish a business in nigeria that i now want to settle down & she told me that nigeria people are running away that i'm talking to come and establish something on, she told me that she is running away ooo, though she is a nurse, because i have propose to her immediately and she said let the will of God be done, even im planing to come back to nigeria to meet her face to face, but i recently left nigeria this year before i meet her on facebook, i so much love the girl and to marry her depise we never meet face to face, i was even send her an errand to go & see my family in east [ALA IGBO] because i'm onye igbo, now my fear now is that i spoke to her tonight and she told me that she have an interview in AMERICAN EMBASSY this month of AUG, though i support her to achieve her goal but my fear now is that if she travel to this AMERICA now she may change her mind becoz she may now expose based on western life, becoz im talking based on experience like me i don't stay in nigeria, even if she want to travel i will like us to been there together becoz i'm staying in italy and she is a nurse by profession and you know nurse pays a lot in AMERICA, so ppl in the house please tell me on how to deal with this matter becoz i love this girl die and i don't want to lose her, I need advice & pls no insult. THANK YOU.
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 14, 2018
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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:31pm On Aug 14, 2018
cruchenutii:
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why u dey laugh nah, abeg i come here for help nah nwanne m
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
why u dey laugh nah, abeg i come here for help nah nwanne m

Sorry brotherly, since she has an Interview this month. Let her collect Visa first then you can be worried.

Anyway, You can go & continue your hustle in America if possible.

As for her changing her mind, It will depend on her, also You will have to keep working in Italy, while she stays in America for some time before one person decides to move over.

Honestly bros, All these long stories depends if she loves you. If she doesn't, It's OYO.

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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by jonathan111: 9:35pm On Aug 14, 2018
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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:40pm On Aug 14, 2018
cruchenutii:


Sorry brotherly, She has an Interview this month. Let her collect Visa first then you can be worried.

Anyway, You can go & continue your hustle in America if possible

that is what i wanted to do, to travel from italy to stay with her in AMERICA but bro u know 9ja women are not trust worthy, may be she may have one bobo she planed to marry after she enter AMERICA becoz we only met on facebook and we so much on communicating to each other, but the problem is that im not the type that will like a woman to be the one that is inviting me, even im planing to come down on december to meet her before she told me this this night and i was so cold
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:43pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
that is what i wanted to do, to travel from italy to stay with her in AMERICA but bro u know 9ja women are not trust worthy, may be she may have one bobo she planed to marry after she enter AMERICA becoz we only met on facebook and we so much on communicating to each other, but the problem is that im not the type that will like a woman to be the one that is inviting me, even im planing to come down on december to meet her before she told me this this night and i was so cold
even here in italy i got my green card already, ok sometimes just to know her mind, i will tell her to gv me her dad number and she said that is not yet the right time
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:46pm On Aug 14, 2018
cruchenutii:


Sorry brotherly, since she has an Interview this month. Let her collect Visa first then you can be worried.

Anyway, You can go & continue your hustle in America if possible.

As for her changing her mind, It will depend on her, also You will have to keep working in Italy, while she stays in America for some time before one person decides to move over.

Honestly bros, All these long stories depends if she loves you. If she doesn't, It's OYO. you are right bro but u see my fear is that she may change as u kno how western life use to be becoz when our women come over here they use to change automatically and she may end up following one nigga over there
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Diamond23(f): 9:54pm On Aug 14, 2018
Hmmm, u v not met her face to face nd u r dz madly in luv with her, hope she feels d same way abt u?. My dear Facebook Nd phone luv z just a scam, u need to met her face to face for both of u to confirm ur feelings towards each oda if it’s real nd for d aspect of coming bk to 9ja to invest abeg check Vry well in order not to make a mistake. Wot she said abt pple leaving 9ja z real..

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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:55pm On Aug 14, 2018
if is here in west when oyibo tell u she love u she really mean it but with our 9ja ladies bro u have to thnk twice, but im thinking as we never met face to face it may result of her changing her mind so quick [quote author=amicable247 post=70282109][/quote]
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Nobody: 9:57pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
even here in italy i got my green card already, ok sometimes just to know her mind, i will tell her to gv me her dad number and she said that is not yet the right time

What does she mean by not yet right time & what is she hiding?

Why don't you just come back home If possible September & marry her, at the Registry, No paparazzi. End of story.

Then if she travels, You can join her. Also I don't know how you want to Start Afresh in US.
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 9:59pm On Aug 14, 2018
Diamond23:
Hmmm, u v not met her face to face nd u r dz madly in luv with her, hope she feels d same way abt u?. My dear Facebook Nd phone luv z just a scam, u need to met her face to face for both of u to confirm ur feelings towards each oda if it’s real nd for d aspect of coming bk to 9ja to invest abeg check Vry well in order not to make a mistake. Wot she said abt pple leaving 9ja z real..
bro i came back to 9ja for my building project and i stay until it finish and i rent it out, i recently come bk to italy this year and for my all stay in nigeria i see hell and what ppl are passing tru but bro for how long will u leave in abroad, i hv bben there for 15 yrs and i told her that i wnt to establish a business then i will be running in and out and she say nooo that she is running out of 9ja that she want to go and demosterate her nurse profession in AMERICA
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:03pm On Aug 14, 2018
cruchenutii:


What does she mean by not yet right time & what is she hiding?

Why don't you just come back home If possible September & marry her, at the Registry, No paparazzi. End of story.

Then if she travels, You can join her. Also I don't know how you want to Start Afresh in US.
bro i was in 9ja since 2017 for my building project and i finish it, i recently came bk to italy this year before i meet her on fb, i wanted to come bk on december to see her face to face but u kno i stayed 2 yrs in 9ja so i never arrange myself well for coming bk on december
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
bro i was in 9ja since 2017 for my building project and i finish it, i recently came bk to italy this year before i meet her on fb, i wanted to come bk on december to see her face to face but u kno i stayed 2 yrs in 9ja so i never arrange myself well for coming bk on december

I see, story has finished then. No p.

US Visa is now hard o, so let her collect it first. Then you can now start worrying. besides they just shut Abuja Consular Office.

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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Diamond23(f): 10:06pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
bro i came back to 9ja for my building project and i stay until it finish and i rent it out, i recently come bk to italy this year and for my all stay in nigeria i see hell and what ppl are passing tru but bro for how long will u leave in abroad, i hv bben there for 15 yrs and i told her that i wnt to establish a business then i will be running in and out and she say nooo that she is running out of 9ja that she want to go and demosterate her nurse profession in AMERICA
Broz mi I be sista ooo grin, tnk God u saw it with ur eye xo wot she z saying z d truth nd as for d housing project z Vry gud idea u can still run it frm der. Instead of coming bk to 9ja Maybe u locate to where ur fiancée wnts to work.....buh if u r will to put on ur endurance coat 9ja will be happy to welcome u
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by wordbank(m): 10:08pm On Aug 14, 2018
Bia Bia Bia hia
Are you even an Igbo man?
How can an Igbo man be this du**
cynthie140 come and marry ur husband oo
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Offpoint: 10:10pm On Aug 14, 2018
Dude I have my own problems and women is not one of them. I got a bigger problem.
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:14pm On Aug 14, 2018
cruchenutii:


I see, story has finished then. No p.

US Visa is now hard o, so let her collect it first. Then you can now start worrying. besides they just shut Abuja Consular Office.
really bro I'm speechless now may God help Nigeria my country, in abroad its not easy ooo but at least no classy or level over here unlike Nigeria, though is not like that she have gotten the visa but im saying in case becoz had it been that I can come bk on December then we will carry it from there also I want to tell her to be careful on the agent that is processing the visa for her becoz of scam
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:20pm On Aug 14, 2018
Diamond23:
Broz mi I be sista ooo grin, tnk God u saw it with ur eye xo wot she z saying z d truth nd as for d housing project z Vry gud idea u can still run it frm der. Instead of coming bk to 9ja Maybe u locate to where ur fiancée wnts to work.....buh if u r will to put on ur endurance coat 9ja will be happy to welcome u
accomodation is not a problem becoz i finish the storey building and i rented the apartment i left 2 flat vacant, but the problem now is that i just met this girl this year just 1 month of coming back to italy and i propose to her instantly without any wasting time but i don't know how sure about our future if it happen that she travel to america but im willingly to travel to stay with her in america if she really mean that no man in her life for real becoz i ask her and she told me that none in her life, u kno i fear 9ja women too much ooo becoz they can lie ooo
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:23pm On Aug 14, 2018
wordbank:
Bia Bia Bia hia
Are you even an Igbo man?
How can an Igbo man be this du**
cynthie140 come and marry ur husband oo
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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:24pm On Aug 14, 2018
Offpoint:
Dude I have my own problems and women is not one of them. I got a bigger problem.
you are right but in my own case is that i want to settle down now
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by wordbank(m): 10:29pm On Aug 14, 2018
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by wordbank(m): 10:30pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
you are right but in my own case is that i want to settle down now
Find a chair and sit down naaa
What is all these u want to settle down, u want to settle down
Are you high?
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Offpoint: 10:32pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
you are right but in my own case is that i want to settle down now
if you really wanna settle down, then you don't have a problem. there more women out there than men. don't give me the "I want the right woman" line, there's no such thing as "right woman" or "right man". get whoever you want and settle your differences together.

About your post, simply tell her your intentions and if she's not cool with it... women population exceed that of men.
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:34pm On Aug 14, 2018
wordbank:

Find a chair and sit down naaa
What is all these u want to settle down, u want to settle down
Are you high?
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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Diamond23(f): 10:35pm On Aug 14, 2018
amicable247:
accomodation is not a problem becoz i finish the storey building and i rented the apartment i left 2 flat vacant, but the problem now is that i just met this girl this year just 1 month of coming back to italy and i propose to her instantly without any wasting time but i don't know how sure about our future if it happen that she travel to america but im willingly to travel to stay with her in america if she really mean that no man in her life for real becoz i ask her and she told me that none in her life, u kno i fear 9ja women too much ooo becoz they can lie ooo
with dz ur write up self, it shows she z not into u, dat u r d one rushing her.....Nwanne concentrate on ur business till U both met
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 10:37pm On Aug 14, 2018
Offpoint:

if you really wanna settle down, then you don't have a problem. there more women out there than men. don't give me the "I want the right woman" line, there's no such thing as "right woman" or "right man". get whoever you want and settle your differences together.

About your post, simply tell her your intentions and if she's not cool with it... women population exceed that of men.
bro none is right ooo both men and women ooooo its only God that make imperfect to be perfect oooo

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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by Twagrill(m): 10:57pm On Aug 14, 2018
Am i the only one feeling this girl isn't really into the guy.
Guy just be very careful in taking decisions. Don't ruin your life on top girl ooo... Abeg
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by ednut1(m): 11:08pm On Aug 14, 2018
Some pple are destined to be unfortunate in life sha. Gal wey u never see smh. Wise gal mk she go her USA abeg
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by neyobills: 12:00am On Aug 15, 2018
Pls can u help me get her jazzman number,the thing pick well well lol

But on a more serious note I see nothing to worry about.

Wish her the best of luck in her interview and ambitions, if she eventually get the visa(your worst case scenario) get her a tourist UAE visa and one for yourself and I'm sure it would be a wonderful getaway for u both to meet,bond and know each other better and she can fly to the Us from there and u back to base,i don't know your budget but as they say all is fair in love and war as I see d tin done hook u well lol.

If she gets to the US(your worst case scenario)then flips then it was never meant be but will have memories of getting bouncy bouncy in bed to catch up with at least if u get lucky.

If she doesn't agree to the all expenses paid Dubai trip then it's crystal clear there is more to it and the lady isn't into u as much as u are into her.

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Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 1:24am On Aug 15, 2018
Twagrill:
Am i the only one feeling this girl isn't really into the guy.
Guy just be very careful in taking decisions. Don't ruin your life on top girl ooo... Abeg
bro pls can u go straigth to your point
Re: This Girl I Love So Much Want To Travel Out Of Nigeria by amicable247: 1:26am On Aug 15, 2018
ednut1:
Some pple are destined to be unfortunate in life sha. Gal wey u never see smh. Wise gal mk she go her USA abeg
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