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The most dangerous issue to have in a relationship is one you don't really know as a problem. There are couples resorting to habits they think are serving their relationship in a good ways but they are unaware they are actually doing more damage than they know.

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The habit that is very common in every relationship today is giving each other the silent treatment. It’s a method of psychological punishment and manipulation we’ve all probably used or experienced at some point, whether we were aware of it or not. This applies to any relationship—romantic, friendships, familial, coworker relationships, and even interactions with strangers.

When your partners upsets you by doing something wrong, it's easy to resort ignoring them for however long it takes to get past how you feel about them. But what often isn't seen is the negative impact it would have on your relationship over time. You might actually think you are indirectly messaging your partner saying " what ever happened isn't okay and that it matters to you". That's understandable, but whats's essentially happening is that your partner doesn't even have a chance to work through the issue with you because you are building a habit to disconnect in times of conflicts when those are the most important moments to connect and work out the issues together as a team.

You might be very pissed off, but withholding your love towards your partner for hours, days, weeks and months because of an argument isn't conducive to the goal you have of seeking understanding and finding common grounds. What this kind of treatment doe is that it creates distance and resentment within your partner for being punished every time something doesn't go well.

In this post, I will be giving some few ways by which you can handle the situation instead.

1. If You Need Space, Just Say So

I don't think there's actually anything wrong about being in your feelings an wanting some space and time away from the situation to process and work through them but there's a huge difference between giving your partner the silent treatment and just needing some quite time all to yourself to for you to process your feeling privately.

The silent treatment is.......

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Unmute

well the silent treatment is better than the beating treatment.. lolz

The silence treatment is better than beating or maltreating your partner. If you remove the silence treatment, your partner might start abusing that love you have for him or her. They will always say after all you will still come back.

Ugogabriel:
The silence treatment is better than beating or maltreating your partner. If you remove the silence treatment, your partner might start abusing that love you have for him or her. They will always say after all you will still come back.

That's so not true instead u even create barrier between u two