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Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Amberon: 2:33am On Sep 01, 2018
@your second paragraph, actually you guys can truly never be satisfied. Someone like me I have had a very low appetite since I was a kid. When I'm eating out I'm never able to finish my food. If I'm home I just simply take the right quantity. Lots of people usually think I'm forming but as the friendship progresses they find out I'm just like that.

I remember taking a male friend out a couple of times and paying for the food. He still complained severally that I was wasteful on top my own money again and always asking me to finish. If I have eaten my fill should I tear my stomach and put the remaining one inside? If you're living abroad abroad then that means you will have a problem with every girl you meet because they always serve too much food which only gluttons can finish.
pansophist:
I would tell her that she should consider taking the leftovers home and eat it later, and if she refuses, I will make it clear that her actions did not go well with me. If you knew you won't eat that much, why order it in the first place?

More of reasons why women should pay for their date because if they do, a scenario like this won't be a thing
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Badb0y4lyf(m): 2:33am On Sep 01, 2018
Lol this use to happen back then but not in this buhari era took a girl out last Sunday u need to see the way she was dragging hot fish with me..
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Mizk(f): 2:35am On Sep 01, 2018
otherway:
I'm not abusing you, I mean the dp you put up.
Ok undecided
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Amberon: 2:38am On Sep 01, 2018
Gosh, what if she was full? You people just jump into conclusions. It's just food,
not like she killed somebody.
Mizk:
Whatever her reason is, she's very unreasonable and wasteful, why order something you won't eat?
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Amberon: 2:42am On Sep 01, 2018
Honestly they just amaze me. Expecting her to dissect her stomach and out the food inside grin
GboyegaD:
Ok ooo. At least, you can judge her and be happy with your decision.
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Amberon: 2:45am On Sep 01, 2018
As for me I never ever finish my food on dates as they always serve too much and I don't even eat much. I always go with my own money too in order to avoid stories that touch because Nigerian guys complain too much.
yettymuse:
I am a picky and an indecisive eater so be sure to see some leftovers on my plate. If a date decides to judge my yards of wife materialism on this note, the joke is on him!...
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Amberon: 2:46am On Sep 01, 2018
That means you can't live abroad they always serve food you can't finish. What then will you do?
Adakintroy:
Stop.supporting rubbish.

If you are hungry, order what you can eat. It's no crime. If it light stuff or mineral do it. Why flush the guy money aways like that. If it's her money will she do it?
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by paulpery: 2:49am On Sep 01, 2018
Next time take her to mama put. No forming
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by pansophist(m):
Amberon:
@your second paragraph, actually you guys can truly never be satisfied. Someone like me I have had a very low appetite since I was a kid. When I'm eating out I'm never able to finish my food. If I'm home I just simply take the right quantity. Lots of people usually think I'm forming but as the friendship progresses they find out I'm just like that.

I remember taking a male friend out a couple of times and paying for the food. He still complained severally that I was wasteful on top my own money again and always asking me to finish. If I have eaten my fill should I tear my stomach and put the remaining one inside? If you're living abroad then that means you will have a problem with every girl you meet because they always serve too much food which only gluttons can finish.
I live abroad and do not have this problem simply because the women respect themselves much to pay even on the first date. And that is one of the negative mentality deeply ingrained in Nigerian women, to feel entitled to a man's wallet, see him as a cash machine, extort him through ''date'' then complain that he worries about you not finishing the food he bought for you.

I will not worry much if she chooses to waste food that she bought with her own money. A lot of time I bought food thinking I could finish it but didn't, I took it home and ate it later or gave it to someone else. Frugality is a virtue I hold dearly, regardless of my socio-economical status.

Furthermore, why can't she take the leftovers home? For me, it is about the attitude, not the amount. Even if the cost of the date in fifty naira, it is of a bad behaviour for a potential partner to display an attitude of wastage. I won't be with such a woman.
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by nijanigga: 3:06am On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
She should've ordered a smaller quantity of that if she wasn't that hungry. Why waste money in this kind of economy. I will tell her I didn't like what she did at home
naija girls are greedy
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by zicoraads: 3:08am On Sep 01, 2018
Did anyone stop him from asking them to wrap it for him? Take the chicken and chips home and do justice to it later. Simple!
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by chiommy123(f): 3:09am On Sep 01, 2018
nijanigga:
naija girls are greedy
generalizing bro
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by nijanigga: 3:14am On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
generalizing bro
you no dey sleep?
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by RexTramadol1: 3:21am On Sep 01, 2018
I swear I go chop am






Did it a couple of times on OAU campus back then





People dre even know me, be it a guy or a lady, u leave meat or dodo for plate?




I don't tolerate wastage! grin
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by chiommy123(f): 3:23am On Sep 01, 2018
nijanigga:
you no dey sleep?
you nko?
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Nobody: 3:38am On Sep 01, 2018
Waste of food.na this girls follow spoil our nigerian economy. grin
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by IkemChris(m): 3:38am On Sep 01, 2018
I saw something not too far from this yesterday. The guy actually came with this girl to a restaurant and bought all that a table will get(foods and drinks) only for the lady to be eating and pressing her phone. And the was talking to her but she was just pressing her dirty phone. I really felt for the guy shaa. He just wasted his hard earned money
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Babatundebaabs(m): 4:01am On Sep 01, 2018
Smh for u all. I dont tink majority of u all commenting on dis particular topic really respect woman at all. Just imagine everybody blaming d girl.

It shows u guys dont really go for date.
My little way... u dont expect a lady to finish her food on a first date, no matter ow hungry she is and dat is d the truth. Who knows on wat agreement they got to d eatery, am very sure d guy forced her to d eatery not d girl idea.

Secondly, I believe we have mothers, sisters and wives.
My dear nls. Woman body system is one of d terrible tins in dis world if am to say. They feel many tins inside time after time. For example our mother, sis or wife will be telling u one minute they are hungry. U go to market and get all d neccesary for dem to cook. After done... they might not taste d food. stil us wey no even hungry will enjoy d best.
And let understand women hide alot of pains under thr smile.

She might feel sumtin funny inside her. Dat change her body system and her best she cud tort of was not to eat anytin further.

So u all expect her to take it away on a very first date?
The truth is, she might also want to ....but guys are funny . Na stil same guy will come here to run mouth dat he was in eatery saw a girl rap chicken inside nylon.

To me... any girl dat finish her food on first date. Am sorry no be my type. Cos first date is not abt eat and die.

My people... in every situation, let's always respect ladies and appreciate dem.

If is d girl dat is also paying, for d fact dat it was d first date...even d so called guy wont finish ur his food. And he also will let d remain goes dan for him to pack it home.


Dont look at my construction ...na d sense in it u sud look into. Cos I kno una go come here dey shout poor english .
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by chukxie(m): 4:03am On Sep 01, 2018
Some blacks are wasteful especially the poor ones who feign they are well-off. A white or Asian would order the portion of a dish she can eat while some blacks would order for heaven and earth without eating a quarter of what they ordered for.
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Nobody: 4:08am On Sep 01, 2018
persin don belefool, na by force?
He bought it for her, and so shouldn't be so interested in how she uses it. Have you never planned a date with someone, and after much anticipation for days, end up not feeling the groove anymore? BTW op shouldn't judge from afar as he doesn't know what they've been through together.
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Teeboi56: 4:12am On Sep 01, 2018
I would not count it as anything
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Tolubory(m): 4:14am On Sep 01, 2018
NickMarveyGroup:
Seriously some girls can really be mean. I was in a fast food restaurant and a guy came in with a girl on a date.

They sat down and ordered food (half chicken with chips and salad 2 plates which cost N3,500 each.

The boy ate his meal wells and finished his chicken real good, but guess what the girl did not even eat up to half of the chicken and she said she was okay.

When they were about leaving I was thinking the girl would at least ask for a take away pack so you goes with the chicken because it was big ooo. But she just called the waiter and asked them to clear the table.

I could feel the pain in the guys face but obviously he had to hold himself so he paid and they just left.

Guys if it was you what will you do?
I go pack Am.
The girl dey Form rich chick ....
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Nobodys(f): 4:31am On Sep 01, 2018
lawrsmith:
baby you can lie oooo
what's there to lie about?..

did u live the life for me?
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by ariesbull: 4:33am On Sep 01, 2018
NickMarveyGroup:
Seriously some girls can really be mean. I was in a fast food restaurant and a guy came in with a girl on a date.

They sat down and ordered food (half chicken with chips and salad 2 plates which cost N3,500 each.

The boy ate his meal wells and finished his chicken real good, but guess what the girl did not even eat up to half of the chicken and she said she was okay.

When they were about leaving I was thinking the girl would at least ask for a take away pack so you goes with the chicken because it was big ooo. But she just called the waiter and asked them to clear the table.

I could feel the pain in the guys face but obviously he had to hold himself so he paid and they just left.

Guys if it was you what will you do?
Is she not a feminist...let her foot the bill!
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by ariesbull: 4:34am On Sep 01, 2018
QuitNotice:
persin don belefool, na by force?
He bought it for her, and so shouldn't be so interested in how she uses it. Have you never planned a date with someone, and after much anticipation for days, end up not feeling the groove anymore? BTW op shouldn't judge from afar as he doesn't know what they've been through together.
Taggs why you are black....very wasteful
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by 2buffagain(m): 5:02am On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
She should've ordered a smaller quantity of that if she wasn't that hungry. Why waste money in this kind of economy. I will tell her I didn't like what she did at home
They are both forming for themselves.
The girl by wasting food, and the guy by not being true to himself by asking that she packs it up for takeout.
I don't dull with such things. No be my money you go dey use take do flegbe angry
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Flaame(m): 5:04am On Sep 01, 2018
NickMarveyGroup:
Seriously some girls can really be mean. I was in a fast food restaurant and a guy came in with a girl on a date.

They sat down and ordered food (half chicken with chips and salad 2 plates which cost N3,500 each.

The boy ate his meal wells and finished his chicken real good, but guess what the girl did not even eat up to half of the chicken and she said she was okay.

When they were about leaving I was thinking the girl would at least ask for a take away pack so you goes with the chicken because it was big ooo. But she just called the waiter and asked them to clear the table.

I could feel the pain in the guys face but obviously he had to hold himself so he paid and they just left.

Guys if it was you what will you do?
Sneak out and let her do the bill
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by 2buffagain(m): 5:04am On Sep 01, 2018
QuitNotice:
persin don belefool, na by force?
He bought it for her, and so shouldn't be so interested in how she uses it. Have you never planned a date with someone, and after much anticipation for days, end up not feeling the groove anymore? BTW op shouldn't judge from afar as he doesn't know what they've been through together.
Sounds like the same logic behind the idiotic female that decided to throw away that guys eggs.
Only that THAT guy was actually true to himself and didn't dull.

I encourage you fellas to stop being cowards to these little girls.
Let them know when they do ish you don't like!

I'm not saying be violent. Just be assertive and address fuckups from females that you don't like instead of just carrying on and making it lead to resentment. It's really not that hard.
Re: When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens by Flaame(m): 5:11am On Sep 01, 2018
zicoraads:
Did anyone stop him from asking them to wrap it for him? Take the chicken and chips home and do justice to it later. Simple!
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